Cynthia D'Amour (http://www.CynthiaOfLove.com) is a love strategist. Unlike most dating experts, she encourages her clients (and us) to get off-line and actually go out and meet people, the old fashioned way, in person. She talks to women about abandoning antiquated notions of dating and taking charge of their dating life. The days of waiting for him to notice you are over. In fact, dating is a lot like shopping. Jean and Karyn had so much fun and learned so much speaking with Cynthia, that the long discussion was broken down into two episodes. This is the first part!