056: A Man's Perspective on Betrayal and the Gift in It w/ Vince Kramer
From Betrayal To Breakthrough
English - May 09, 2019 08:00 - 29 minutes - 27.4 MB - ★★★★★ - 110 ratingsHealth & Fitness Science Social Sciences betrayal emotionalissues forgiveness healthyliving narcissists pbt personaldevelopment relationships selfhelp Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
It wasn’t until the third ‘major crisis wake up call’ in Vince Kramer’s life that he decided to make a change and take back control of his life. After his wife blindsided him with a years-long affair and subsequent divorce, Vince had a hard time shaking off the shame and embarrassment he felt from this betrayal. It wasn’t until he met his new wife, and began asking himself questions of spirituality and enlightenment, that he found his true calling in life.
Now Vince is here to help share his stories and knowledge to help others avoid his blindspots. Often men are told that they need to turn their emotions off and be successful at all costs, and this just isn't true. Vince is a real-life example of the importance of understanding your feelings, why sometimes it is much more important to listen to a problem than try to solve it, and what you can do to help you forgive yourself and others.
Vince was able to challenge his soul and learned how to tap into your higher self and the divine knowledge of the universe. Today he is ready to help you realize the gift of your life and find your own individual answers from the inside so you can express who you truly are on the inside.
How does your story of betrayal relate to Vince? Let us know in the comments on the episode page!
In This Episode
Encouraging men to speak their truth and embrace emotions What it is like to break the news of your divorce to your friends as a couple Using spirituality to add to your array of tools to bring divinity to the world Taking responsibility for your role in the creation of your situation Different ways to look at forgiveness and accept it for yourself and others
Quotes
“I never thought of taking my life in any way, but there were times where it was like, ‘if something happened today, it just wouldn't be that bad” (6:10)
“When people were looking at us, it looked perfect to them. But there was an always an ache every once and a while you know, there's got to be more to life than this.” (11:03)
“It was very therapeutic for us, but more importantly it was a divine destiny” (14:57)
“I am important. I have something to bring to the world that the world needs. And it is my responsibility to realize that I co-create every situation.” (21:06)
“I am going to try everything. If it works for me that's cool; if it doesn't work for me, alright, I'm not going to do it. But I am going to try everything” (23:56)
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