Do you struggle with weight?

Why weight matters in a spouse.

I gained 50 pounds with my ex she didn't say a damn thing. Luckily lost it all. I think she wanted me to be unattractive to other women.

Why are people more cruel to family than strangers?

YOU WILL BE JUDGED BY YOUR SPOUSE!

Brains are more important than beauty once you get to middle age. Your hot but dumb gf won’t cut it when you grow up into a success and she doesn’t develop her mind to compensate for the looks going.

My ex wife was pretty and clever when she was young (graduate, lawyer), but she stagnated intellectually because she didn’t need to use her brain much in life. Meanwhile I have had 30 years of professional life to hone my brain. The gap between us intellectually is too big nowadays for us to have much conversation.

Excerpt from my novel 'The Future'

Philosophy question for today or future date... Archetypal philosophers would be Plato and Socrates, but what about modern personalities like Karl Marx. He might be dead wrong on everything, but was he a (bad) philosopher, or do we need to carve out a space for him as a (bad) economist or (bad) theologian?

I've done a lot of therapy, go to dance classes, ask women out at the coffee shop but am still finding it hard to find a girlfriend.
I'm all for taking 150% responsibility for that, I do think I have more work to do therapy-wise, but I'm wondering if I'd find more dating success in another city?
I live in a place with a lot of transplants and wonder if that means there's even more "I don't want to settle down until my 30s" women than usual for millennials.

THE SIX STEPS OF TALKING TO ATTRACTIVE WOMEN

July 4 2023