Focus on Marriage Podcast
570 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 days ago - ★★★★ - 823 ratingsIf you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
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Episodes
Putting God First in Your Marriage
July 09, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MBWe all long for intimacy in our marriage, but how do we find it? John, Greg and Erin talk about why praying together leads to deeper intimacy with your spouse. Featuring Pastor Craig Groeschel. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Making Time for a Date Night
July 07, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.1 MBMarriage is a lot of work, but it doesn't always have to be serious. Having fun together is one of the best ways to liven up your relationship. John, Greg and Erin discuss why dating your spouse can benefit your marriage. Featuring Pastor Craig Groeschel. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
The Goal for Every Married Couple
July 02, 2020 10:00 - 5 minutes - 4.71 MBLearning how to bless your spouse is a wonderful thing. But what if you served him or her without expecting anything in return? John and the Smalleys discuss how to maintain a servant's heart through the changing seasons of marriage. Featuring Gary Thomas. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Making Simple Investments in Your Marriage
June 30, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.2 MBWhat if your marriage is only a step or two away from going to the next level? Erin, Greg and John talk about simple things you can do to keep the passion strong in your relationship. Receive the book A Lifelong Love with your gift of any amount!
The Difference Jesus Makes in Your Marriage
June 25, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.3 MBHow can you and your spouse make it through the stormy seasons of life? As you'll learn from Greg, Erin and John, God's love can sustain your marriage no matter what you face. Receive the book Fierce Marriage with your gift of any amount!
Building Your Marriage on God's Love
June 23, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.6 MBGod's love for you is a covenant that cannot be broken. When you and your spouse submit your relationship to the Lord, His strength can carry you through any challenge. John, Erin and Greg discuss the difference that a covenant perspective makes in marriage, and things they won't say to each other. Receive the book Fierce Marriage with your gift of any amount!
Sharing Responsibilities at Home
June 18, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12 MBIn marriage, recognizing your role in maintaining the home is critical for a healthy relationship. Everything from chores, cooking meals, to keeping the house clean all contribute to creating a happy environment. John, Erin and Greg discuss how you and your spouse can be on the same page with house chores. Receive the book Men Are Clams, Women Are Crowbars with your gift of any amount!
Forgiving Your Spouse's Past
June 16, 2020 10:00 - 15 minutes - 14.4 MBBetrayal in your marriage can shatter your heart. But, through the power of forgiveness, you and your spouse can walk the road toward healing. Erin and Greg share with John about a couple they know who experienced God's healing grace after choosing forgiveness. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount!
Forgiving Your Spouse's Past
June 16, 2020 06:00Betrayal in your marriage can shatter your heart. But, through the power of forgiveness, you and your spouse can walk the road toward healing. Erin and Greg share with John about a couple they know who experienced God's healing grace after choosing forgiveness. Featuring Al & Lisa Robertson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Healthy Boundaries for Couples
June 11, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MBGood boundaries are essential for a healthy marriage. Knowing where you are vulnerable to temptation is where you need to put boundaries in place. Erin, Greg and John share how to talk with your spouse about your vulnerabilities. Receive the book From This Day Forward with your gift of any amount!
Breaking out of Selfish Patterns
June 09, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 12 MBA selfish attitude is toxic for your marriage. We all struggle with it, but through Christ's love, we can learn to let it go. John, Erin and Greg will discuss how to get rid of selfishness in your marriage, and how a bad choice doesn't have to end of your relationship. Receive the book From This Day Forward with your gift of any amount!
Questions to Ask Your Spouse During Tough Times
June 04, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MBThe tough seasons of marriage can be windows of opportunity to touch your spouse's heart. The key is using those times as a chance for growth. John, Erin and Greg give some questions you can ask your spouse to help strengthen your relationship. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Giving Encouragement to Your Spouse
June 02, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MBWhen your spouse lets you down, how do you respond? We all make mistakes, and need a healing dose of God's grace from time to time. John and the Smalleys talk about how to encourage your spouse, even when he or she disappoints you. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Dealing with a Crisis in Your Marriage
May 28, 2020 06:00No couple wants to face a health challenge or a financial scare. But, a crisis can bring you and your spouse closer together. John, Greg and Erin provide some helpful ideas for couples who are struggling with a chronic illness or a long-term challenge. Featuring Ryan & Selena Frederick. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Overcoming Early Conflict in Marriage
May 26, 2020 10:00 - 15 minutes - 14.5 MBMarriage is an amazing journey, but it also reveals some of our most selfish attitudes. John, Greg and Erin give helpful tips for overcoming conflict between you and your spouse. Receive the book Fierce Marriage with your gift of any amount!
Choosing Forgiveness in an Angry Culture
May 21, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.2 MBWhen your spouse breaks your heart, it can take a long time to rebuild trust. Greg and Erin talk with John about a time they learned to choose forgiveness in their marriage. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount!
Letting Go of Unforgiveness in Your Marriage
May 19, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MBForgiveness is like medicine to an ailing marriage. But, when you withhold it from your spouse, you cut off the chance to heal from past hurts. John, Greg and Erin discuss practical ways to choose forgiveness in your marriage. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount!
Blessing Your Spouse in Simple Ways
May 14, 2020 10:00 - 11 minutes - 11 MBMaking your spouse feel loved never happens by accident. It requires paying attention and doing something to bless him or her. John, Greg and Erin explain how they've learned to love their spouse through simple actions. Receive the book Happy Habits for Every Couple with your gift of any amount!
Making Time for Date Nights
May 12, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MBEvery couple needs time for a fun date night. But, it can be difficult to schedule those special times after you have kids. John, Greg and Erin give some simple and fun ideas for spending time with your spouse, even when you're busy raising children. Receive the book Happy Habits for Every Couple with your gift of any amount!
Breaking Free From Pornography
May 07, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13 MBAfter confessing a pornography problem to your spouse, it's critical to take steps toward recovery. Whether you've struggled with it or you're the spouse of an addict, Greg, Erin and John will give some helpful tips for your healing process. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Confessing a Pornography Problem
May 05, 2020 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.84 MBHiding a pornography problem from your spouse is like inviting a tornado to tear through your relationship. If left unchecked, the consequences can leave permanent damage. Greg, Erin and John give some tips for confessing a pornography problem. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Loving Your Wife in a Christ-Like Manner
April 30, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MBWhen God's grace penetrates your heart, it's much easier to show unconditional love to your spouse. John, Greg and Erin talk about how God's love can motivate a husband to listen to his wife. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Dealing with Your Spouse's Sin
April 28, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBYour spouse might be the most wonderful person in the world, but he or she still has shortcomings. How do you respond when your spouse sins? John, Greg and Erin explain how you can show grace to your spouse, even when he or she falls short. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Letting Go of Little Irritations
April 23, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.2 MBPetty offenses can lead to unnecessary fights in your marriage. John, Erin and Greg discuss how to let go of little irritations from your spouse. Receive the book From This Day Forward with your gift of any amount!
Overcoming Past Sexual Trauma
April 21, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBIf you or your spouse have experienced sexual abuse, you are not alone. With God's help, your healing process can begin today. Greg, Erin and John offer hope to women who've been sexually abused. Receive the book Enjoy! with your gift of any amount!
Choosing Forgiveness
April 16, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.4 MBChoosing to forgive can save your marriage from years of heartache and confusion. Greg, Erin and John offer hope to couples who are wounded by an unforgiving spouse. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount!
The Healing Medicine of Forgiveness
April 14, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.5 MBHealthy marriages are built on a foundation of forgiveness. When you choose to forgive, your relationship can weather any storm. John, Greg and Erin give helpful reasons why you should choose forgiveness instead of resentment. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount!
Having Fun Together, Part 2
April 09, 2020 10:00 - 9 minutes - 8.62 MBWhen you enjoy spending time with your spouse, you start looking for ways to have fun together. John, Greg and Erin offer encouragement to couples who are struggling to enjoy each other's company. Receive the book Happy Habits for Every Couple with your gift of any amount!
Having Fun Together
April 07, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.7 MBHaving fun together can be one of the most meaningful parts of your marriage. Through simple activities, your marriage can go to the next level. John, Greg and Erin give some helpful ideas for keeping your relationship fun during the busy seasons. Receive the book Happy Habits for Every Couple with your gift of any amount!
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 4
April 02, 2020 10:00 - 11 minutes - 10.5 MBPornography addiction grows in the darkness. But by bringing it the light, you can begin walking the road to freedom. John and Greg give some helpful tips for how to confess a pornography problem to your spouse. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Discovering God’s Freedom from Pornography, Part 3
March 31, 2020 10:00 - 11 minutes - 10.9 MBSadly, pornography is harming many marriages today. And it's not just men who are struggling; many women are too. John and Greg offer hope to those caught within pornography's snare. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 3
March 31, 2020 06:00Sadly, pornography is harming many marriages today. And it's not just men who are struggling; many women are too. John and Greg offer hope to those caught within pornography's snare. Featuring Nick and Michelle Stumbo
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 4
March 26, 2020 10:00 - 11 minutes - 10.5 MBEven the strongest man can feel insecure in trying to love his wife. But by replacing fear with the truth of God's Word, husbands can excel in their role. Greg and John share how they've learned to deal with fear. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 3
March 24, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MBAs a husband, you play a special role in loving your wife. Your marriage can thrive when you choose to love her in a God-honoring way. Greg and John describe how they've learned to show love to their wives. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 6
March 19, 2020 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.78 MBA healthy marriage is built on the foundation of open communication. The same is true for your sex life. John and Greg give some ideas for how to talk about sex with your spouse, even when it feels awkward. Receive the book Enjoy! with your gift of any amount!
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 5
March 17, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBMaking time for romance and sexual intimacy are great gifts for your marriage. While it's not always convenient during busy seasons, we should not neglect them. Greg and John explain why sex is important and beneficial for your marriage. Receive the book Enjoy! with your gift of any amount!
Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 2
March 12, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.7 MBYou might fear being open up with your spouse about past regrets. But, honesty can be the door that opens your marriage up to greater intimacy. Greg and John offer helpful ideas for discussing your past mistakes in a healthy way. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount.
Grasping the Power of Forgiveness, Part 1
March 10, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.3 MBChoosing forgiveness instead of resentment can bring healing to your marriage. It's not easy, but through God's grace, you can do it. John and Greg explain how walking in forgiveness can strengthen the relationship with your spouse. Receive the book Desperate Forgiveness with your gift of any amount.
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 2
March 05, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.8 MBPornography might not seem like a big deal. But if you don't deal with it, it will lead to some devastating consequences in your marriage. John and Greg give some helpful ideas for confessing a pornography problem to your spouse. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Discovering God's Freedom from Pornography, Part 1
March 03, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12 MBWatching pornography is like letting a disease take over your marriage. But through God's grace, your relationship with your spouse can be restored. John and Greg offer hope to those struggling with pornography. Receive the book Setting Us Free with your gift of any amount!
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 2
February 27, 2020 10:00 - 13 minutes - 12.4 MBEmbracing the unique ways God made you and your spouse can lead to a more fulfilling marriage. Men and women are made to reflect God's heart in similar yet different ways. John, Erin and Greg discuss why a wife should look to God to find her true beauty. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Embracing the Unique Aspects of Male and Female, Part 1
February 25, 2020 10:00 - 12 minutes - 11.6 MBYou and your spouse are so different. It's part of what attracted you to each other. But those differences can also be irritating. Greg, Erin and John share how they've learned to love their spouse, even with their distinctions. Receive the book Fully Alive with your gift of any amount!
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 4
February 20, 2020 07:00Busy seasons can disrupt the amount of sex you and your spouse have. It's important to not neglect intimacy, even when you're busy. John, Greg and Erin offer some insights for how a husband can better meet his wife's needs inside and outside of the bedroom. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Enjoying Physical Intimacy as a Woman, Part 3
February 18, 2020 07:00For a wife to enjoy sex with her husband, she needs to feel good about herself. It's critically important for couples to discuss physical intimacy if they're to enjoy it together. John, Greg and Erin explain a wife's greatest need for intimacy. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Restoring Your Marriage After Infidelity, Part 8
February 13, 2020 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.9 MBInfidelity can deal a crushing blow to your marriage. It devastates the trust you once had. But through God's grace, an affair doesn't have to be the end of your marriage. Greg, Erin and John offer hope to couples who've been traumatized by an affair. Receive the book Unfaithful with your gift of any amount!
Thriving in the Midst of Financial Ruin, Part 3
February 11, 2020 10:00 - 15 minutes - 14.4 MBFinancial stress is something many couples face. But no matter how hopeless it seems, practicing good habits can help your marriage overcome financial problems. Greg, Erin and John give some tips for how you and your spouse can start making good choices with money. Receive the book More Than Just Making It with your gift of any amount!
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 4
February 06, 2020 10:00 - 10 minutes - 9.83 MBIt's not easy to make a blended family work, but with God's help, you can overcome any challenge. Greg, Erin and John share some inspiring ways they've seen God restore blended families. Get the DVD "Blended: The Unspoken Truth About Stepfamilies" with your gift of any amount!
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn't, Part 4
February 06, 2020 07:00It's not easy to make a blended family work, but with God's help, you can overcome any challenge. Greg, Erin and John share some inspiring ways they've seen God restore blended families. Featuring Lamar and Ronnie Tyler. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn’t, Part 3
February 04, 2020 10:00 - 14 minutes - 13.2 MBHow a couple disciplines their children is important for the overall health of their marriage. It can especially be tricky when you're in a blended family. Greg, Erin and John give some tips for how you and your spouse can work through different opinions on disciplining your children. Get the DVD "Blended: The Unspoken Truth About Stepfamilies" with your gift of any amount!
Valuing Marriage in a Culture that Doesn't, Part 3
February 04, 2020 07:00How a couple disciplines their children is important for the overall health of their marriage. It can especially be tricky when you're in a blended family. Greg, Erin and John give some tips for how you and your spouse can work through different opinions on disciplining your children. Featuring Lamar and Ronnie Tyler. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY