The only reason I’m where I am today — divorced from an abusive husband, healed, remarried to a good man, helping others, and thriving — is because of one simple tool.


I share it in Flying Free and Flying Higher, my online coaching, education, and support communities that are worth their weight in fat-melting chocolate (please science, make this real). 


Today, I'm sharing the best thing I have. 


You get a free, front-row seat to this show. Prepare yourself. Cause I absolutely stake my secret pie stash on the fact that if you use this tool, it will ROCK YOUR WORLD.


In my funky magnum opus for your listening delight:*

What “CTFAR” means (this is the solid bass line)Why we think we’re victims of our circumstances, but we’re really victims of our thoughts (woohoo, the groovy chorus)How letting go of control plays a huge part in resetting the stage of our life (cue the irresistible drum solo)The important difference between facts and opinions, and feelings and sensations (ooh, the surprising jazzy bridge)Why we're all prophets and how to make that a good thing (a tear-jerking fade-out to riotous applause)The credits (when you realize YOU ARE THE ROCKSTAR in this story)

*There isn’t actually any music in this episode. I’m sorry. Please imagine me singing all of it, with my blessing.

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