Flirt with Tawni Blake
88 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago -Don't you think it's time for you to find love? Then it's time for Flirt with Tawni Blake, the podcast that will let you unleash the full power of flirting! I'm Tawni, and I'm a dating coach, entrepreneur, relationship guru, and world-class flirt! I've heard every story, studied every scenario, and know all the do's and don'ts when it comes to attracting the partner of your dreams. And that journey starts with discovering your inner flirt. Join me each week where my special guests and I will share it all - the funny, the tragic, the embarrassing, and the hopeful - in a podcast that is super honest, flirty as hell, direct and to the point, and always hilarious. I'll reveal everything to you - all my favorite tips, tricks, resources, and results - and we will discover our best lives, our true selves, and our new loves - together!
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Ep. 87 - The One That Got Away
May 29, 2024 23:24 - 44 minutes - 35.4 MBI tell stories about past loves…. Love lost. Nostalgia. How I deal with all the memories that haunt me a bit. And the adventures I had moving to new cities all on my own.
Ep. 86 - You Will Have to Leave Your House!
May 20, 2024 00:08 - 26 minutes - 21.2 MBTo meet someone in real life, you have to get out! Let’s face it, dating apps are hit or miss. They take up a lot of time without a lot of real tangible results. It is way more effective (and fun, in my opinion) to meet in person and see if there’s chemistry immediately. Let’s get off our phones (& the apps) this summer and fully engage with the world full of people around us!
Ep. 85 - Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?
May 13, 2024 21:51 - 21 minutes - 17.5 MBI discuss the pros and cons of this idea, and share my own personal experience through the years.
Ep. 84 - There's Hope For You Yet
May 05, 2024 23:53 - 34 minutes - 27.3 MBIn this episode, I share 3 success stories of clients who had given up hope on ever finding lasting love. Was it timing? Was it geography? Was it the work they did on themselves? We all need a little HOPE.
Ep. 83 - Insecurity: The Root of All Evil (In Relationships)
April 28, 2024 23:00 - 28 minutes - 23 MBYour insecurity will inevitably manifest in your relationship. How you deal with it, and how you & your partner communicate about it will be the deciding factor if your relationship will last. Create a safer space for your person to talk about their issues with you.
Ep. 82 - You Should Talk To Someone About That
April 14, 2024 23:28 - 26 minutes - 21.5 MBIn this episode, I talk about dating after therapy....How you might feel really ready! You've talked it all out. You may feel you have it all figured out now. All the sh#t from your childhood....But then you meet someone you really like, and all that you think you know flies right out the window....
Ep. 81 - Shit We Don't Talk About
April 10, 2024 12:33 - 31 minutes - 33.5 MBThe stress affecting your mental & physical health and therefore your relationships--your ability to date, connect and attract. Finding joy in the middle of it all. Self care. Taking care of each other. It all matters!
Ep. 79 - Are You Happy?
December 18, 2023 14:38 - 29 minutes - 23.4 MBThat glimpse at insecurity that causes you to stay stuck. Are you spending way too much time in your head? Are you happy with your current partner? Or do you stay for all the wrong reasons?
Ep. 78 - The Loneliest Time of the Year
December 10, 2023 02:41 - 18 minutes - 14.8 MBBeing single during the holidays can be rough! Newly single parents experiencing their first holiday without their kids, the family split apart. You are not the only one! Focus on yourself and self care and maybe do the unexpected.
Ep. 77 - Day 54: Avoiding Self Sabotage
November 21, 2023 14:13 - 28 minutes - 22.7 MBPerfect, beautiful date nights. And realizing my susceptibility to fear in a new relationship. The key to getting past it....and not messing it all up.
Ep. 76 - The Love Of My Life
November 05, 2023 20:09 - 28 minutes - 23 MB1992 was the year I fell in love for the first time with the most amazing human I have ever met...I am so grateful to him for setting the bar high for all the men that followed.
Ep. 75 - Cuffing Season
October 30, 2023 17:17 - 20 minutes - 16.5 MBCold weather is here....time to find someone to cuddle with to stay warm. I am also celebrating another successful singles gathering and feeling beyond grateful!
Ep. 74 - The Evolution of the Beginning
October 22, 2023 10:43 - 31 minutes - 25.2 MBHow does a relationship get started? From the first date to the exclusivity conversation. How do you make that decision to choose that one person to try and make something work?
Ep. 73 - Gratitude in a Time of Tragedy
October 15, 2023 01:32 - 27 minutes - 22.3 MB"During dark times, gratitude matters more than ever." This quote is from an article from a college on ethical leadership. Expressing gratitude can be a valuable tool when it comes to healing from grief. This week has been devastating for so many people. I have had few words to express my feelings, but I have remained in gratitude for every single thing that I have. Taking nothing for granted. Sending you all a little extra love....
Ep. 72 - Happy Happy Joy Joy
October 09, 2023 00:47 - 27 minutes - 21.8 MBMy take on how to get a relationship to develop after your first date. The happy medium of communication, expressing your genuine interest, and curiosity. Flirting, fun, and some directness!
Ep. 71 - Abundance vs Scarcity
October 01, 2023 21:56 - 31 minutes - 24.9 MBIn your dating life, you are the common denominator. Your energy and your thoughts dictate how your dates will go. If you think all the good ones are taken.... If you think dating sucks...then this will be true for you. What do you bring to the table? Drama or healthy fun? Negativity or positive vibes? Get your sh#t together, people. :)
Ep. 70 - So Damn Dramatic!
September 23, 2023 20:28 - 33 minutes - 26.9 MBI keep the theme of going down memory lane and read some of my love letters from the 6th and 7th grades. The intensity. The drama. So passionately in love for two 12 year olds. And this is who I have always been. Makes me smile.
Ep. 69 - Hard To Say I'm Sorry
September 18, 2023 18:28 - 25 minutes - 20.1 MBA "dear diary" episode about my 7th grade love affair who has recently shown up in my life, making us revisit our past moments together. This is the song by Chicago (the band) that takes us both back to me breaking his 13 year old heart back then. (Ouch!) So we have reconnected....now what? :)
Ep. 68 - Do As I Say, Not As I Do!
September 05, 2023 16:57 - 19 minutes - 26.4 MBCoaching dilemma for the dating coach...ignoring my own logical advice. I'm smitten! And all rational thought is thrown out the window...
Ep. 67 - Good Relationships Are No Accident!
August 29, 2023 13:50 - 25 minutes - 34.9 MBYou have to choose it. To work at it. To celebrate it. You must start with having hope that they exist!
Ep. 66 - Another Great First Date
August 22, 2023 11:33 - 17 minutes - 23.9 MBI'm on a roll! Successful first dates are about the energy you bring.
Ep. 65 - Slow Your Roll
August 14, 2023 11:31 - 32 minutes - 43.9 MBThe excitement in the beginning of a new relationship can also mean fear and insecurities popping up for you, perhaps causing you to subconsciously self-sabotage to keep yourself from getting hurt. Try to stay in the moment.
Ep. 64 - The Art of Communication
August 07, 2023 06:00 - 22 minutes - 31.1 MBWords matter. Be more intentional. Be a better listener. It can improve your dating life!
Ep. 63 - First Date Magic
July 29, 2023 17:48 - 22 minutes - 30.4 MBWhat I think it takes to make it a really great first date.
Ep. 62 - I Have A Crush On You!
July 24, 2023 18:09 - 24 minutes - 33.2 MBI describe my yummy feelings and energy of a new crush! Heady like a drug. Losing all logic. Feeling silly. ALL the fun!
Ep. 61 - Single Matchmaker...An Oxymoron?
July 20, 2023 01:14 - 23 minutes - 32.3 MBYes, I have decided to be single again....here we go....my first date adventures...."dear diary" episodes to follow. Stay tuned. I'm excited.
Ep. 60 - First Impressions
July 10, 2023 22:36 - 28 minutes - 38.5 MBConfidence is key. But the superficial gets you your chance. How you present yourself. Clothing often matters. Body language. A smile....Someone has to like what they see first so you get the chance to share who you are.
Ep. 59 - Scary Beginnings
June 27, 2023 03:48 - 23 minutes - 32.9 MBThe beginning of a new relationship can be terrifying. Our fears make us act out and do stupid stuff to test the other human. The answer = true vulnerability and some blatant truth. First to ourselves.
Ep. 58 - Know Your Partner Better (Before You Get Married)
June 19, 2023 00:04 - 21 minutes - 29.4 MBI talk about how you can assume you know someone, never having asked the tough questions. And for people going on first dates, get that chip off your shoulder.
Ep. 57 - Dear Total Stranger, Your Comment Hurt!
June 12, 2023 23:41 - 39 minutes - 54 MBI tell a story of a super negative experience this week. Why do people lash out at strangers? Again, hurt people hurting people, I guess. Does it make them feel better? Make sure you aren't one of these people.
Ep. 56 - Boy Crazy! My Only Addiction
June 05, 2023 02:42 - 23 minutes - 32.5 MBFigure out your insecurities and what your addictions are and try to heal them. Work on loving yourself more and not always seeking external validation.
Ep. 55 - When Your Ex Quickly Finds a New Love
May 28, 2023 18:04 - 18 minutes - 25.2 MBOuch! How to handle the blow to your ego....
Ep. 54 - Hurt People Hurt People
May 22, 2023 00:34 - 19 minutes - 26.5 MBWe must remember in relationships that actions speak louder than words. People can tell you who they WANT to be with you, but how they treat you on a daily basis is the key. Pay attention.
Ep. 53 - Online Dating Sucks!
May 19, 2023 01:54 - 35 minutes - 49 MBBut keep trying. Do it better. More effectively. And also try more to meet in the wild! It's a numbers game. Be your own matchmaker. And don't wear an ugly sweater on a date! :)
Ep. 52 - Flirting with Life
May 07, 2023 15:38 - 20 minutes - 16.1 MBCourage to do the deep dive to build your confidence. Examining your past so you can move forward in a more healthy way. Shifting your energy so you can draw more to you.
Ep. 51 - It's Ok to Meet Your Match in a Bar
April 30, 2023 21:09 - 26 minutes - 21.3 MBLimiting beliefs. Narrow minded views. Your attitude around dating needs to be more positive.
Ep. 50 - No Sex in High School
April 23, 2023 15:49 - 52 minutes - 41.7 MBI talk about the evolution of my incredibly BOY CRAZY dating life... A walk down memory lane. And I include advice on how YOU can get it right this time around...
Ep. 49 - Super Friendly & Cute!
April 16, 2023 20:32 - 22 minutes - 17.5 MBIf flirting could be so easy....Just engage and be curious. Friendly. Open. It's not rocket science, people!
Ep. 48 - Attachment Styles
April 10, 2023 00:29 - 43 minutes - 40 MBIn this episode, I talk about my week of coaching several pain in the ass clients. :) And I discuss attachment styles and how it affects your dating behavior.
Ep. 47 - Romance Fraud
April 02, 2023 16:14 - 23 minutes - 21.4 MBDeliberate deception to woo you into a commitment based on lies. How to avoid this trap. Ask direct questions! Pay attention to the red flags!
Ep. 46 - From Shy to Flirting Experts
March 25, 2023 16:09 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBDo you find the idea of a singles event terrifying? :) I recap the success of my event, and my new clients who are already transforming seemingly overnight. And all the other different personalities coming together for a night of flirting.
Ep. 45 - Live Out Loud
March 20, 2023 13:15 - 39 minutes - 36 MBDo more shit outside your comfort zone! Stop being boring! Talk to people. Flirt more! Be more fearless! Find more joy in your life! No risk=no reward.
Ep. 44 - Is Love Better The Second Time Around?
March 09, 2023 11:08 - 20 minutes - 19 MBPining after a lost love...Did you learn anything the first time? And happy birthday to me! My gratitude for my joy filled life.
Ep. 43 - Boundaries, Breadcrumbs, and Ghosting...Oh My!
March 05, 2023 20:40 - 17 minutes - 16.4 MBThe dating advice you never seem to take...honoring yourself. Why you keep making other people more important than you are!
Ep. 42 - Please, No Dick Pics!
February 26, 2023 16:08 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBThe Lost Art - do you know how to FLIRT? Without being too sexual too soon? Have we all forgotten how to talk to people? Has technology ruined us?
Ep. 41 - How I Deal With Dumb People
February 19, 2023 18:58 - 43 minutes - 39.7 MBAnd other stories of people being stuck. Random emails I get from total strangers..... Another day in the life of a dating coach.
Ep. 40 - Valentine's Day Sucks
February 10, 2023 21:20 - 23 minutes - 54.3 MB1. Stop feeling lonely on this commercialized, arbitrary day designed to shame you for being single. 2. Try to incorporate your cool "on vacation" energy in your own town to date better. 3. Get off your couch and off the apps and back into the "wild".
Ep. 39 - Label Him An Idiot
January 28, 2023 22:02 - 16 minutes - 15.4 MBIf he's afraid to label your relationship.... And if he drives a luxury car.... Pay attention, ladies.
Ep. 38 - Happy 2023!
January 23, 2023 15:06 - 31 minutes - 28.6 MBIn this episode I talk about what keeps a long term relationship romantic, fresh, healthy, and fun.