Family Law Talk with Stange Law Firm, PC
151 episodes - English - Latest episode: 9 days ago - ★★★★ - 16 ratingsFamily Law Talk® with Stange Law Firm, PC on BlogTalkRadio. Stange Law Firm, PC is a multi-state family law firm with offices in Missouri, Illinois, Kansas, Oklahoma, Nebraska, Indiana, and Iowa in places such as St. Louis, Kansas City, Columbia, Springfield, Wichita, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Omaha, Lincoln, Chicago, Indianapolis, Des Moines and beyond. Our phone number is 855-805-0595 and you can find us online at https://www.stangelawfirm.com.
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Risks of bringing others initial consultations
September 12, 2018 16:00 - 14 minutes - 12.4 MBWhen individuals are going through a divorce or family law matter and are looking for an attorney, many want to bring friends or family members into the initial consultation. The reasoning can make sense on a surface level in that they are looking for moral support and a second option. However, there are risks with bringing others into an initial consultation relating to attorney-client privilege and confidentiality. This article talks about those risks and is based on an article on Family La...
Independent counsel needed for prenuptial agreements
June 07, 2018 15:00 - 14 minutes - 12.1 MBWhen individuals who are engaged decide to enter into a prenuptial agreement (also known as a premarital agreement), it is critical that both parties have independent counsel to represent them in the process. This would also be true if parties were entering into a post-nuptial agreement after the marriage. This epside discusses this topic and is based on an episode on Family Law Headquarters titled: Prenuptial agreements require both parties to have separate counsel. You can also find out ...
The state administrative agencies will not establish custody (only support)
April 04, 2018 20:00 - 12 minutes - 10.8 MBState administrative agencies will often help establish paternity and set child support obligations. However, many do not understand that these same administrative agencies will not enter child custody or visitation awards. When many realize this, they are miffed and cannot understand why. Find out more in this episode. You can also read an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Paternity cases: Why The State Will Not Establish Custody. You can also call us at 855-805-0595 or call our Mis...
Average cost of divorce versus a wedding
January 22, 2018 20:30 - 16 minutes - 14.1 MBWhen many are anticipating a divorce, they wonder about the average cost. Obviously, the cost of any divorce can vary depending on whether it is simple or complex, contested or uncontested and based on various other factors. However, many do not think about how much they spent on their wedding. This article discusses the average cost of divorce nationwide versus the average cost of a wedding. The reality is the cost closely mirrors each other when looking at national data. You can find ou...
Necessity of legal research
November 03, 2017 19:00 - 14 minutes - 12.8 MBWhen going through a divorce or family law matter of any kind, legal research is often very important in terms of helping analyze a case and develop the best possible strategy for a positive result. However, many clients do not understand the need or the reasons for legal research. Many think that lawyers should be walking and talking encyclopedias of law. They also might wrongly believe that case outcomes are easy to predict. This episode explores this topic. This episode is based on an...
Keeping a level-head when reading pleadings
September 22, 2017 20:30 - 15 minutes - 13.3 MBDivorce and family law cases can bring out a lot of emotions. Many individuals, however, over-react when they read legal pleadings, motions and other documents in their divorce or family law matter. This is particularly true for those who have not been through a case like this before and/or for those who have no legal training. This episode explains why it is important to remain cool and level-headed vesus over-reacting. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: N...
Get legal counsel before signing
July 12, 2017 15:00 - 14 minutes - 12.2 MBWhen a divorce or family law case begins, one party is sometimes moving quicker than the other. One party may have an attorney while the other does not have an attorney. In some cases, the party who does not have an attorney is presented proposed settlement or other legal documents and asked to sign them. This episode talks about the dangers of signing any proposed settlement and/or other legal documents without having an attorney review the documents first and then provide appropriate leg...
Appropriate dress code for court
June 02, 2017 17:00 - 14 minutes - 11.9 MBWhen going through a divorce or family law matter, the seemingly little things can cause lots of parties dress. From where to park, or what time to show up to what should I wear in court? What a party wears in court can make a difference in terms of how a judge views a party. This episode talks generally about what a party should consider when determining what to wear to court. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: How should I dress in court? You can also...
Guardian ad Litems: Getting information to them
April 26, 2017 16:00 - 15 minutes - 13.5 MBA guardian ad litem is sometimes appointed by the court in a contested custody case. This is particularly true where allegations of abuse and neglect are raised. Ensuring that the guardian ad litem has all the information they need to make a recommendation on behalf of the children is vital. In this episode, we discuss how getting information to the guardian ad litem is critical. This episode is based on an episode on Family Law Headquarters titled: Ensuring that the Guardian ad Litem has...
Proving parental alienation
March 31, 2017 15:00 - 14 minutes - 12.6 MBIn highly contentious divorce and child custody matters, one parent might believe that their is parental alienation that has taken place. In other words, they believe that the other parent has said or done things to such an extreme degree that they children no longer want to be around them or have a relationship with them. Proving parental alienation is hard, however, and often requires the use of an expert. It is also important to distinguish parental alienation from realistic estrangemen...
Not paying child support by cash
February 17, 2017 21:30 - 12 minutes - 10.1 MBMany individuals have child support orders entered against them. Versus paying through the state or by check where it can be documented, some may pay child support by cash (or gifts even). This episode talks about the risks inherent in paying child support by cash. You can read more on this topic in our article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Do not pay child support by cash. You can also find out more about child support lawyers online or by calling 1-855-805-0595.
Are pre-embryos human beings under the law?
January 24, 2017 16:30 - 17 minutes - 15 MBAn interesting decision came out in Missouri known as McQueen v. Gadberry (ED103138). Among others, an important question in this case is whether pre-embroys are considered human beings under Missouri law or whether they are considered property in divorce proceedings. This case is bound to have future implications in Missouri and other states. The case may also make it's way to the Missouri Supreme Court. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Are pre-embroy...
Waiting for a court judgment in divorce & family law
December 07, 2016 17:30 - 17 minutes - 15.4 MBWhen a client goes through a divorce or family law matter, many clients wonder how long it will take a judge to issue a judgment and enter a ruling in their case. Many clients think that judges rule from the bench immediately after a trial. Others have different expectations. This episdoe explores this topic. To read more on this topic, you can read our article on Family Law Headquarters titled: How long do we wait for a court judgment? You can also call us at 1-855-805-0595 or find out a...
Engagement and wedding rings in divorce
November 03, 2016 17:00 - 12 minutes - 10.9 MBAre you wondering who gets the engagement and wedding rings in divorce? In other words, does the person who received these items have to give them back? Or do they ordinarily get to keep them in divorce? In this episode, we explore this topic. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Who gets the wedding and engagement rings during divorce? You can find more more about property and debt division in divorce from our webpage or by calling 1-855-805-0595.
Being courteous in court
October 21, 2016 17:00 - 13 minutes - 11.3 MBHow a party presents themselves can go a long way in the family and divorce court. This is true as it relates to what say, when they say it, their manners, demeanor and overall body language. You can find out more information on this topic by listening to this episode. You can also read our blog article titled: How manners can go a long way in court. You can also call us at 1-855-805-0595 or find out more about St. Louis and Kansas City Divorce Lawyers online. You can find more related...
How a paternity test can sometimes offend
September 09, 2016 21:00 - 12 minutes - 10.2 MBIn many child custody cases between unmarried parents, the paternity of the father can be in doubt. In many of these caess, a paternity tests is warranted. But in somtimes, a paternity test can have the unintended consquence of complicating a child custody case where paternity was never really in doubt. Find out why in this episode. This is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: How a paternity test can sometimes complicate a custody case. You can find out more on this ...
Giving to get in settlement negotiations
August 03, 2016 19:00 - 11 minutes - 9.19 MBIn diorce and family law cases, there can often be lots of issues that are important to the parties. In some cases, the parties might rank their case priorities differently in terms of a substantive case outcome. This episode talks about the principle of giving on some items to get concessions on other items that might be more important to the party. To find out more about our Missouri and Illinois divorce lawyers, you can call 1-855-805-0595. You can find more related content on the Spri...
Parenting time or custody?
July 14, 2016 17:00 - 15 minutes - 13 MBThis episode talks about a fairly recent trend on the part of some states to drop the terms of legal and physical custody in favor of parenting time and allocation of parental responsibilities. One perspective is that these terms are more friendly to litigants in family law matters and can help lead to the resolution of family law disputes. This episodes talks about this trend. It is interesting as well that even in Missouri and Illinois, both states have different approaches. This episod...
New shared parenting statute in Missouri
July 06, 2016 16:00 - 25 minutes - 22.8 MBHB1550 has become the law in Missouri. HB1550 has been put forth has a shared parenting bill, which passed the Missouri House and Senate. Last week, the legislation was signed by Governor Nixon and has become law. What are the implications of this legislation? What are the potential pros? What are the potential cons? And does this legislation help those it was designed to help? This podcast is based on two episodes on Family Law Headquarters titled: New shared parenting legislation sig...
Hyphenated last names in paternity cases
June 07, 2016 14:30 - 11 minutes - 9.25 MBIn lots of child custody matters between married parents, the last name of the minor child can come into dispute. In some cases, the mother may want the child to have her last name whereas the father will want the child to have his last name. In these circumstances, lots of cases can become contested over this issue. As a compromise, more courts are entertaining the thought of hyphenating the last name to attempt to satisfy both parents. Find out more about this topic in this episode. Th...
The status quo during divorce
May 11, 2016 21:00 - 9 minutes - 8.16 MBWhen a divorce is filed, many have questions about how things will work when the divorce is pending? How will marital debts be paid? Who will get possession of the marital property? What about child custody and spousal support? These are all questions many have after a divorce has been filed and while the matter is pending. This episode addresses this topic. It is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Maintaining the status quo during divorce. To find out more about ou...
Inability to compromise a divorce cause
April 06, 2016 18:30 - 15 minutesOne of the most common causes of divorce is the inability to compromise and communicate on important issues. Over time, this can cause the breadown of many marriages. At the same time, when a divorce is filed, many often assume parties should be able to communciate effectively and compromise to settle the divorce. The reality is this is hard for couples who had a hard time communicating and compromising in the first place. You can read more on this topic in an article titled: Inability ...
What school will children attend?
March 25, 2016 20:30 - 16 minutesIn many child custody cases, there can be a big disagreement on what school with the children can attend. This can occur in divoce and child custody cases where parents have different viewpoints on what is in the best interests of this children. In this episode, find out more on this topic and about what courts might consider in case. This episode is based on an episode on family law headquarters titled: What school will the children attend? You can find out more about our child custod...
Supervised visitation in child custody
March 17, 2016 15:30 - 18 minutes - 16 MBIn some child custody cases, supervised visitation ends up being ordered by the court. In some cases, the supervised visitation might be temporary. In other cases, it might be part of the final order. When supervised visitaiton is ordered, individuals often have many questions. This episode will address how supervised visitiation can often work. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: How Does Supervised Visitation Work? You can also read more on this...
Second most common family law case
February 19, 2016 20:00 - 16 minutes - 13.9 MBWhen most think of family law, divorce and the divorce rates instantly come to the mind of most. Most think family law and divorce go hand-in-hand and don't realize that with out-of-wedlock birth rates at approximatleyy 40-percent, paternity cases are on the rise. Paternity cases are likely the second most common type of family law case. This article talks about this topic. You can read more on this topic by reading an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: The second most common ty...
Bringing others to an initial consultation
February 05, 2016 18:00 - 15 minutes - 13.6 MBWhen individuals begin a divorce or family law matter, it can be a stressful experience. Many want the moral support from a close friend or family law matter. While this desire is natural in many ways, this episode discusses the risks involved. These risks involves the doctrines of attorney-client privilege, confidentiality and waiver. This episode is based on an episode on Family Law Headquarters titled: Is it wise to bring another person to an initial consultation? You can find out ...
Talking to kids about divorce
January 15, 2016 21:00 - 13 minutes - 11.7 MBWhen parties are on the verge or have filed for divorced and have children, what to tell the kids is a critical question that many struggle with in terms of what to say and what not to say. In this episode, we talk about this important topic. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters called: What to tel your kids when you are getting divorced? You can find out more information about this topic by calling 1-855-805-0595 or by calling our Divorce Lawyers in Missouri and ...
Looking past your divorce
December 23, 2015 21:00 - 12 minutes - 10.1 MBWhile parties are going through a divorce, it can be much easier for many to focus on the present versus the future. In fousing on the present, parties can often say or do things that can inhibit the ability to have a cordial relelationship with your ex-spouse in the future. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: The importance of looking past your divorce. You can find out more information by calling a 1-855-805-0595 or by contacting our divorce lawyers i...
Two issues that often result in a divorce trial
December 15, 2015 16:00 - 15 minutes - 13 MBMost parties who are going through a divorce prefer to settle their case. To settle a divorce, the reality is that parties have to agree on a comprehensive settlement on all issues. For most, they assume this is easy. But in many cases, this is not easy at all. In this episode, Kirk Stange, from Stange Law Firm, PC, talks about two contested issues that often result in a trial in a divorce. These two issues are child custody disputes and cases where the parties have differing viewpoint...
How long will my case take?
December 08, 2015 16:00 - 14 minutes - 12.8 MBOne of the most common question many ask when they begin a divorce or family law case is how long their family law case will take? Most want to know because they want a general idea in terms of what to expect. This episode discusses many of the variables that can come into play as it relates to the length of a case. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titlted: How long will my case take? You can find out more information on our Missouri and Illinois Divorce an...
Effective communication with a family lawyer
November 20, 2015 21:00 - 14 minutes - 12.5 MBIt is vital that an attorney and client communicate effecitvely regarding their family law matter. In this episode, we will discuss some tips for effective communication with an attorney. To find out more on this topic, you can read an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: How to keep communication effecitve with your attorney? For more information, you can call us at 1-855-805-0595. You can also contact as at Missouri and Illinois Family Lawyers.
Be careful with written correspondence
November 03, 2015 19:30 - 11 minutes - 9.88 MBWhen parties are going through a divorce or child custody case, parties often communicate in writing. These communications can be by text, e-mail or through social media. When tensions are high, many can say things that may not reflect fondly upon them in the family court. In this episode, we will discuss this topic and how individuals can be politte and civil in written communication. You can also find out more by reading our article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Be Careful About Wr...
Should I file my divorce first?
October 28, 2015 21:00 - 13 minutes - 11.5 MBOne of the most common questions people ask regarding divorce is whether they should file first. Many wonder whether there is an advantage or not in filing first or whether it matters. In this episode, we discuss this topic by going through the potential pros and cons in filing for divorce first. To read more on this topic, you can read the article titled: Should I file my divorce first? You can also go to our webpage and red more on Divorce FAQs or you can call us at 1-855-805-0595. S...
Financial statements in divorce
October 20, 2015 21:00 - 16 minutes - 14.6 MBWhen parties file for divorce, they are almost always required to complete financial statements. The requirements can vary by state and locality. However, they usually entail listing the marital property and debt of the parties along with the alleged separate property. Parties also usually have to list their income and expenses. This generally takes place on a monthly basis. This episode talks about the importance of being thorough. This episode is abused on an article on Family Law He...
Do character witnesses help?
October 08, 2015 22:00 - 15 minutes - 13.5 MBInidividuals often wonder whether calling characters witnesses will be pursuasive in their divorce or family law matters. Many consider calling their relative or their friends in the hope that this will sway the judge. This episode addresses whether this is generally pursuasive or not. You can read more on this topic in an article family law headquarters titled: Are character witnesses important in family law cases? You can find out more about firm by going to our webpage on divorce and f...
Marital Misconduct and Divorce
September 11, 2015 14:00 - 16 minutes - 14.4 MBAn often asked question of divorce attorneys is about the role of marital misconduct in a divorce outcome. From affaris, cheating, domestic abuse, abandonmnet, gambling or other financial misconduct, this is a question of many going thorugh a divorce. In this episode, we will talk about this issue as it relates to Missouri and Illnois law in particular. To read more on this topic, you can also read our article on Family Law Headquarters titled: What effect does marital misconduct have in...
Parent Most Likely to Grant Other Contact
September 03, 2015 15:00 - 12 minutes - 10.5 MBIn determining child custody in Missouri and Illnois, courts have to look at the best interests of the child when considering multiple factors. One of those factors involves what parent is most likely to allow for frequent, continuing or meanfingful contact with the other parent (or other similar language which can vary by state). This espisode will discuss this factor. For more on this topic, you can read an article on Family Law Headquarers titled: Which parent is most likely to allow on...
Child Custody Exchanges
August 17, 2015 22:30 - 14 minutes - 12.4 MBWhere mothers and fathers meet to exchange their children after a divorce or child custody case is important. This is one of those terms that can cause many parents to have disagreements that can hang up a potential settlement. It can also be important because this is the one time where parents still must have regular contact with each other even after their case concludes. You can read more on this topic in an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Exchange locations in child custod...
Expectations of quick divorce settlement
July 31, 2015 22:00 - 17 minutes - 15.2 MBWhen a divorce begins, many think that these cases should settle quickly and efficiently. Is it reasonable to expect that parties will be able to reach a quick settlement when emotions are high and the inability of parties to agree is often the cause of a divorce? This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: Is expecting divorcing parties to settle quickly reasonable? Stange Law Firm, PC is a divorce and family law firm with office in Missouri and Illinois. T...
Tracing assets in divorce matters
July 17, 2015 20:30 - 12 minutes - 10.4 MBTracing separate property in a divorce matter is an important component of many cases. In some cases, a party has brought into the marriage assets or money that they owned prior to the marriage. When this becomes commingled in some matter with marital funds and assets, a tracing expert can become important. To read more on this topic, you can read an article of Family Law Headquarters titled: The importance of tracing assets in family law cases. You can also call 1-855-805-0595 for more in...
Case priorities in divorce and family law matters
July 10, 2015 16:00 - 12 minutes - 10.4 MBKirk Stange talks about the importance of ranking your goals for your divorce or family law attorney. This is an important topic because it is critical that a divorce or family law attorney knows the goals of the client at the outset of a case. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters dated June 20, 2015. To learn more about our Columbia, Missouri Divorce Lawyers or Family Law Attorneys in Columbia, Missouri, you can call 1-855-805-0595. Stange Law Firm, PC is a d...
Second-opinions in divorce or family law case
June 15, 2015 14:00 - 11 minutes - 9.35 MBKirk Stange talks about when a party should consider getting a second opinion in their divorce or family law case. This is a question lots of individuals often ask when they are unhappy in the direction that their case is going. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: When should I get a second-opinion? You can find out more about the Columbia, Missouri Divorce Attorneys or our Columbia, Missouri Divorce Law Office at Stange Law Firm, PC by calling 1-855-80...
The Role of Divorce Coaches
May 19, 2015 19:00 - 53 minutes - 48.1 MBKirk Stange discusses the role of a divorce coach with special guest, Deborah Moskovitch. Ms. Moskovitch is a Divorce Coach, Author and Speaker located in Tornoto, Ontario. Deborah founded The Smart Divorce, a suppor organization for those facing a divorce. In addition, she authored a book titled The Smart Divorce. To find more information about Deborah Moskovitch, you can visit her website. Stange Law Firm, PC is a family law focused firm with offices located throughout Missouri and Illinoi...
Parental Alienation: Myth or Monster?
April 16, 2015 16:00 - 40 minutes - 36.6 MBKirk Stange discusses Parental Alienation with special guest, Dean Tong. Dean Tong, MSc. Child Forensic Studies, is a forensic legal consultant and author of three books, the most recent being ‘Elusive Innocence: Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused.’ Dean is an internationally known family rights and forensic consultant who has helped thousands of people on child abuse, domestic violence, and child custody cases. To learn more about Dean Tong you can visit his website. Stange Law Firm, PC...
Changing last name of children
April 10, 2015 19:00 - 11 minutes - 10.1 MBKirk Stange talks about an important issue in child custody cases involving unmarried parents. In some cases, the father seeks to change the last name of the child when the child is given the last name of the mother. This typically takes case in paternity litigation. This episode is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters titled: When can a child's last name be changed? You can find out more about the St. Louis Paternity Lawyers or St. Louis Name Change Attorneys at Stange Law Fi...
Professional Courtesy in Family Law
March 20, 2015 19:30 - 15 minutes - 13.6 MBKirk Stange from Stange Law Firm, PC talks about an article on Family Law Headquarters dated March 7, 2015 titled: Profesisonal Courtesy Is Important. This is an important topic that comes up in many divorce and family law cases. Stange Law Firm, PC is a family law firm with multiples offices in Missouri and Illinois in and around the St. Louis Area. You can find out more about Stange Law Firm, PC and their St. Louis, Missouri Family Law Attorneys or their Springfield, Illinois Family Law...
Use of Parent Coordinators
March 10, 2015 14:00 - 14 minutes - 12.7 MBKirk Stange from Stange Law Firm, PC talks about the use of parent coordinators in high conflict custody cases. This is based on a blog entry on Family Law Headquarters titled: Can A Parent Coordinator Help? You can find out more about Parent Coordinators in other articles written by Stange Law Firm, PC, including one titled: Parenting Coordiantors: A New Trend in Custody Case. You can also read additional information at Stange Law Firm, PC's page on parent coordinators. You can also ...
I want to stay married
February 26, 2015 15:30 - 14 minutes - 12.1 MBKirk Stange talks about a recent article on Family Law Headquarters ® titled: I Don't Want A Divorce. Stange Law Firm, PC has is a divorce and family law firm in Missouri and Illinois. You can contact their Springfield, IL Divorce Attorneys or their Troy, Missouri Divorce Lawyers at 1-855-805-0595.
Getting It Done Right Versus Quick
February 06, 2015 19:00 - 12 minutes - 10.5 MBKirk Stange from Stange Law Firm, PC talks about his article on Family Law Headquarters ® titled: For Most, Seek The Best Possible Result. Stange Law Firm, PC has locations throughout Missouri and Illinois. You can contact their Springfield, Illinois Divorce Lawyers or their Lincoln County, MO in Troy Divorce Attorneys at 1-855-805-0595.
Use of Custody Calendars
January 22, 2015 16:00 - 15 minutes - 12.9 MBKirk Stange from Stange Law Firm, PC talks about the use of custody calendars in child custody cases. This is based on an article on Family Law Headquarters ® titled: Are Custody Calendars Helpful? Stange Law Firm has offices in MIssouri in locations such as St. Louis, St. Charles County and City (by appointment only), Jefferson County, Franklin County, Lincoln County in Missouri. In Illinois, Stange Law Firm is in St. Clair County, Madison County, Sangamon County and Monroe County (by ap...