I struggled before I learned how to listen to my inner voice!

https://youtu.be/7eAFpMTXAWA

Today I talk about the difficult time I had finding and figuring out how to listen to my inner voice. I struggled for nearly a year talking with a therapist looking for validation and permission. Finally, I figured out that I needed to search harder within myself and listen to my inner voice. That was when everything started to change for me, very rapidly and eventually it has gotten much easier!

Also, shout out to my man Eric P. Thomas (former guest on Dreamers Podcast) for the awesome shirt I am rocking today! Check out his company!

Check out the YouTube video above or listen to the podcast on iTunes.

I hope you are all enjoying these mini episodes that I am publishing to YouTube. Please let me know what you think in the comments or shoot me an email. :)

Shoot me your questions to [email protected]

Episode 259
Transcription
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welcome everybody to the dreamers

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podcast I'm your host your party

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unfortunately a big race is not here to

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be here with me here today today I want

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to talk about a topic that it took me

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about a year of going to therapy to

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figure out and the whole time the answer

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was right in front of me so leading up

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to the time which I was getting ready to

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leave my family's business i was going

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to a therapist I was coming week after

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week after week for an entire year and

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all I was doing was complaining about my

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working you know the things that weren't

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going right at work how I was frustrated

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with the reactions i was getting from

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both some of the employees family and

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everything and I was just I was ready to

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give up and be fed I was fed up with the

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whole situation and I had a therapist

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that refused to tell me that it was ok

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leave he was not willing to give me that

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permission and i wrote about this in my

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book 31like changing concepts is that

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you don't need permission from anyone

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except yourself to do things that is

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that you you you and you want to do

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me myself and I he has tagged me myself

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and I radio South Anthony days I she

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totally permission to give yourself our

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provision for anyone else to give

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yourself permission to do things that it

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is that you want to do and that you feel

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is right for you so it took me a year to

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figure out the finally give myself that

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permission to say you know what enough

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is enough

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I'm ready to move on and I i need to

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leave i need to go do something else in

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my life I don't know what that is yet

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but I'm gonna figure it out i started

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https://youtu.be/7eAFpMTXAWA

Today I talk about the difficult time I had finding and figuring out how to listen to my inner voice. I struggled for nearly a year talking with a therapist looking for validation and permission. Finally, I figured out that I needed to search harder within myself and listen to my inner voice. That was when everything started to change for me, very rapidly and eventually it has gotten much easier!

Also, shout out to my man Eric P. Thomas (former guest on Dreamers Podcast) for the awesome shirt I am rocking today! Check out his company!

Check out the YouTube video above or listen to the podcast on iTunes.

I hope you are all enjoying these mini episodes that I am publishing to YouTube. Please let me know what you think in the comments or shoot me an email. 🙂

Shoot me your questions to [email protected]

Episode 259

Transcription

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welcome everybody to the dreamers

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00:00:02,760 –> 00:00:06,990

podcast I’m your host your party

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00:00:04,290 –> 00:00:11,280

unfortunately a big race is not here to

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00:00:06,990 –> 00:00:14,580

be here with me here today today I want

5

00:00:11,280 –> 00:00:18,900

to talk about a topic that it took me

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about a year of going to therapy to

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00:00:18,900 –> 00:00:24,299

figure out and the whole time the answer

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was right in front of me so leading up

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to the time which I was getting ready to

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leave my family’s business i was going

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to a therapist I was coming week after

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00:00:30,630 –> 00:00:37,500

week after week for an entire year and

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all I was doing was complaining about my

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00:00:37,500 –> 00:00:42,510

working you know the things that weren’t

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going right at work how I was frustrated

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with the reactions i was getting from

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both some of the employees family and

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everything and I was just I was ready to

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00:00:50,460 –> 00:00:55,379

give up and be fed I was fed up with the

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whole situation and I had a therapist

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that refused to tell me that it was ok

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leave he was not willing to give me that

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permission and i wrote about this in my

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book 31like changing concepts is that

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you don’t need permission from anyone

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except yourself to do things that is

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that you you you and you want to do

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me myself and I he has tagged me myself

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and I radio South Anthony days I she

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totally permission to give yourself our

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provision for anyone else to give

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yourself permission to do things that it

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is that you want to do and that you feel

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is right for you so it took me a year to

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figure out the finally give myself that

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permission to say you know what enough

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is enough

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I’m ready to move on and I i need to

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leave i need to go do something else in

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my life I don’t know what that is yet

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but I’m gonna figure it out i started

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down that path i started going back to

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school to work on getting my associates

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associates

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yeah associate’s degree in business

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management which wound up going for a

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little while for almost two years doing

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a bunch of courses to get some work done

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on that on

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degree and ultimately decided that

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wasn’t necessarily going to help me go

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where I wanted to go into things that I

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wanted to do so yeah I i really think

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that you need to be able to listen to

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your inner voice and then you you need

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to identify what is really really want

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out of what it’s telling you to do and

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then you can move on to amplify that

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message to yourself so you have the

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courage and you give yourself permission

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to go into the things that is that you

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want to do it’s so so important for you

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to be happy

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I you know some people say don’t follow

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your passion because that’s not gonna

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leave you the money but before you even

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think about money before you even think

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about any of that stuff

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think about yourself and the things that

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is that you want and the things that

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you’re doing in your life that are

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already making it miserable for you so

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you can start to make it better and it

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when it’s better for you it’s better for

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everyone else that was better for my

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wife and it was it ultimately has been

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better for everybody i know that i’m

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happier person in society and doing the

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things that it is that I love so listen

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to your inner voice amplified message to

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yourself and then start to make a game

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plan and go from there and you can even

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use the college ring book that I bro I

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as a game plan

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you know as a framework to build your

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game plan to move on and figure out what

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it is that you want to do with your life

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from here on out

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ok on Joe Parr know this has been the

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dreamers podcast i really appreciate

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hopefully it’s not

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full-time addition I have so many things

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coming up i’ll be going to California

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shortly to write a book co-authoring a

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book with the one and only

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Jeff Barnes if you haven’t picked up

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with the wall go pick it up it’s on

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amazon and it’s actually a bunch of

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different places but i can get on Amazon

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wonderful ball wonderful guy and I’m

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looking forward to co-authoring a

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children’s version of the book with him

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if you haven’t heard it’s gonna be

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awesome and i’m going to California to

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help start that process so i guess i’ll

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see you all next week

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this this upcoming week i have an

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interview coming out with kin shipler

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who is an awesome wordpress person she’s

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a IT person at heart and she’s been

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doing i.t since the eighties when she

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was one of the few and only women in IT

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doing what it is that she loved to do so

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thanks again for watching or listening

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to the dreamers podcast happened a

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magical weekend it’s going to be a great

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week ahead