DN146 - Stu Massengill: How to Find Your Life's Direction

Learning from Stuart Massengill will make you realize that nothing is really impossible, that you can be whoever you want to be, you can do whatever you put your mind into and that everything can be learned. You'll understand skills are not fixed by birth and that being shy might actually is a result of the false stories made up in our minds. Let's learn why.

 

Stu grew up as a shy, introverted kid. He thought he was born that way. He accepted that between the two of him and his brother, he's the shier one and his brother is the outgoing one. But things change for him when he joined a network marketing business where he got his first deep taste of entrepreneurship. There he learned to talk to people, how to go out of his shell and to just get better with people. It felt like he developed a second identity. He traveled to ‘find himself’ for eight months, but he got diagnosed with testicular cancer. That’s when he discovered the real secret to building relationships: vulnerability.

 

He just discovered the real secret to communication, relationship-building, and self-awareness. Today, he teaches everyone that how we interact with people - and if we can do it effectively - shapes our life. In this podcast, he also shared his dream job: working with his model mentor. He now believes he found where he’s able to serve at the highest level, as a National Trainer for the #1 strategist on the planet, Tony Robbins. Discover how he was able to land his dream job, how he strives hard to qualify for it, and how you too can find your life’s direction. Be prepared to turn into the better relationship builder that you should be to accelerate your business fast, today!

 

 

Here’s What You Missed

 

How to have meaningful relationships

The power of modelling

What is true success

Can you learn anything?

Step by step tips to taking action

 

Knowledge Nuggets

 

[2:04] If you're in business and you're not good with people, you're not going to be a successful at business, no matter what business you're in.

 

[5:42] Beauty and pureness in the life in having conversations with whether it's people you love or random strangers in a line, in a grocery store that you got to learn to come out of that shell. So you can truly experience like the fullest parts of life.

 

[8:30] I was so vulnerable with people and sharing that I would notice instantly people would open up to me and I could have the purest connection just because I was vulnerable. If you want true, genuine, real, authentic, the purest connection and relationships you can have in your life, that you have to have vulnerability.

 

[12:27] Find someone who has what you want and model them, and then reach out to them very, very persistently and see how you can add value to them.

 

[14:00] Success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.

 

[15:30] By building the right connection and by being an effective communicator and networker, that you can literally open any door of opportunity.

 

[21:44] Success breeds success and failure can't breed success. What are three things that I could take at the end of the day and go, man, I just dominated this today. And then you carry that into the next day, and that allows you to build success on success.

 

[26:28] Just because someone else has something doesn't mean that they were born with that or everything can be learned

 

[28:10] How to take action: 1. Visualizing process which will take 3 minutes. literally imagine your head as a file cabinet. And imagined thoughts of, I can't do this. I'm not good enough, whatever those negative thoughts, literally imagine them being pulled out of the cabinet file and being thrown away, and then imagine taking these positive, empowering beliefs, and then putting them now in your file cabinet, which is your head and just visualize that. Do over and over and you're literally rewiring your brain. 2. A shitty plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow because tomorrow doesn't exist. As you keep executing on this shitty action, eventually it gets better and better and better and then you'll turn out to be phenomenal.

 

 

Important Reads and Links

 

Stu Massengill Website:                                     https://www.stumassengill.com/     

Stu Massengill Podcast:                                      https://www.stumassengill.com/findingdirection        

Stu Massengill Instagram:                                  https://www.instagram.com/stumassengill/ 

Stu Massengill Twitter:                                       https://twitter.com/stumassengill   

Stu Massengill LinkedIn:                                    https://www.linkedin.com/in/stuart-massengill-5589745a/      

 

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