Disability After Dark
583 episodes - English - Latest episode: 24 days ago - ★★★★★ - 213 ratingsThis is a podcast that looks at disability stories. it's like sitting down with a really close friend to have real conversations about disability, sexuality and everything else about the disability experience that we don't talk about; the things about being disabled we keep in the dark. The show is hosted by Disability Awareness Consultant Andrew Gurza.
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Episode 147 - "That's A Whole Pile of Nope" - Leah Sauter
July 11, 2019 10:00 - 1 hour - 65.1 MBIn this episode, I sit down with my new friend Leah Sauter who shares with us her experiences of being disabled and studying the holocaust in Haifa, Israel. She also shares with us her experience navigating dating and her relationship while living with anxiety, PCOS and a whole host of other disabilities and issues. We find out how she and her partner work with all this together, she tells us why she is an awkward turtle and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Leah on instagram at @peculiar...
Episode 146 - Sex Toys, My Sister and Deliciously Disabled
July 04, 2019 11:18 - 55 minutes - 50.8 MBIn this episode I introduce you to my sister and co-founder of Deliciously Disabled, Heather Morrison. Together we started the brand in the hopes of creating the very first line of sex toys for disabled people. I talk with Heather about why this type of thing was important for her to be involved in, she highlights the specs of the project, our push to find funding, why access to self-pleasure is a human right and something people take for granted, and she even shares some funny awkward stori...
Episode 145 - Disability and the 2nd Date
June 27, 2019 12:00 - 34 minutes - 32 MBIn this episode, I talk about how many disabled people don't get a second date, and from there we look at popular magazine suggestions about what to do on Date #2, and apply disability to them. Maybe on the 2nd date you can bring up ableism. Maybe on the 2nd date you can take your date on disability transit. Maybe on that second date you can wear comfy crip clothes, and be way more your disabled self on the date than you thought. All this and more on this episode. Enjoy! Get 15% off any pur...
Episode 144 - Sexy Disabled Bathtub Time
June 22, 2019 12:21 - 35 minutes - 32 MBIn this episode, I look at the logistics of sex in a bathtub when you have a disability. We talk about how you and a partner can get you in the tub, the accessibility of sexy disabled bathtub time once in the tub, some of the problems you might encounter and more. Enjoy! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjuke...
Episode 143 - The Disabled Duo - Kate & Aaron Wolovsky
June 15, 2019 18:00 - 2 hours - 125 MBIn this episode, I sit down with disabled married couple Kate & Aaron Wolovsky. They go by "The Disabled Duo." We have a fun chat about their disabled meet cute, their marrisge and sex life as a disabled couple and a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow The Disabled Duo at @DisabledDuo on Twitter. Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement h...
Episode 142 - "Taint-Sucking Is The Most Accessible Sex Act" - Elliott & Thom
June 08, 2019 19:09 - 1 hour - 77.6 MBIn this episode, I invite the hosts of the Do You Queer What I Queer Podcast, Elliott and Thom to ask me questions about sex, disability and queerness they might have. Things take a pretty hilarious turn as they discover why taint-sucking is the most accessible sex act, I recount hilarious stories (again!), we talk ableist misconceptions and more! Enjoy! Follow the Do Queer What I Queer Pod here: iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/do-you-queer-what-i-queer/id1297564476?mt=2 Twi...
Bonus: Crip Sexuality, Disability and Shakespeare - Alison Hobgood
June 05, 2019 21:54 - 49 minutes - 45.1 MBIn this bonus episode, I sit down with Associate Professor of English in Women's and Gender Studies at Williamette, Allison P. Hobgood. We interrogate how crip sexuality, disability and Shakespeare go together by looking at his play Measure by Measure. Through the play, we talk about how in Shakespearean times crip corporeality has always been there whether we realized it or not. This episode brought my love of history, disability and sexuality back together, and I had to share with you. Enj...
Episode 141 - "I Wanted To Be Sure I Was Desirable" - Travis Lau
June 02, 2019 14:27 - 1 hour - 79.6 MBIn this episode, I sit down with poet and professor Travis Lau as we talk about how his queerness and Asian background and upbringing both collided with his disability and mild scoliosis throughout his formative years and in gay spaces. Enjoy! You can follow Travis on Twitter @travisclau or on his website at www.travisclau.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shi...
Episode 140 - Sex Beds and Accessibility
May 28, 2019 04:00 - 40 minutes - 46.8 MBIn this episode I talk about how I just got a brand new accessible bed, and how that has changed my sex life. I share how difficult sex was in my old bed, the struggles of finding an accessible luxury bed, I ponder why these beds are not marketed to sexy, disabled people, and finally, I tell you why sex in my new accessible bed is awesome. Enjoy! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPe...
Episode 139 - "Wanna Put it in My Memory Hole?" - Thomas Dixon
May 21, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 81 MBI sit down with Thomas Dixon, creator of Me.mory as we talk about how his experience with traumatic brain injury affects his memory, and how his memory has played a role in his sex life and his relationships; how sex has been different since his injury (maybe even better) and so much more. Enjoy! You can support Thomas' work by going to his GoFundMe Page Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #D...
Episode 138 - Gimps on Grindr II - Ableist Appholes
May 14, 2019 04:00 - 37 minutes - 43.4 MBSince we haven't done an episode about Gimps on Grindr since WAAAAAAAAY back in Episode 5, I thought it was time to revisit some of the things guys have said to me on the app recently. You'll hear about the guy who gave me a rude awakening, the guy who asked me if I was "born in a tiny chair" and so much more. Enjoy Episode 138, all about ableist appholes! Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a ...
Episode 138.5 - "I Never Coughed Into a Pu**y" - Jeremie Saunders
May 14, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 86.9 MBIn this very special bonus episode, I sit down with one of my podcast colleagues and someone who I totally admire, Jeremie Saunders. He is the one of the hosts of the wildly popular podcasts Sickboy" all about finding the funny in chronic illness and/or disability and "Turn Me On", a podcast wherein he explores sexuality topics with his wife, Bryde. I talk to him today about his life with Cystic Fibrosis, and how living with a shortened life expectancy has had an impact on his sense of impu...
Episode 137 - "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" Jeffrey Masters
May 07, 2019 04:00 - 47 minutes - 54 MBIn this episode, I continue talking to non-disabled community members about what might happen if they became disabled tomorrow. This time, I sit down with LGBTQ&A Podcast host, Jeffrey Masters. He tells me how he thinks his sense of independence might be altered, and how car hook ups might be a tad different. I loved this one. Enjoy! Follow Jeffrey Masters here: [@jeffmasters1](www.twitter.com/jeffmasters1) Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are C...
Episode 136 - "I Pretended I Could See On Dates" - Fern Lulham
April 30, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 69.6 MBIn this episode, I sit down with UK motivational speaker, Fern Lulham. We talk about her experiences navigating the dating world as a blind woman, some of the ways she tried to cope with the stigma of blindness, how disability affected her self-esteem and her sense self, fashion, her guide dog Nancy and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Fern's work at www.fernlulham.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "aft...
Episode 135 - Sex, Comfort and Chronic Constipation - Anne Hodder-Ship
April 23, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 91.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with sex educator Anne Hodder-Ship as we explore her experiences with chronic constipation and how that has affected her sexuality, her sense of safety and so much more. You can follow Anne's work by heading over to www.annehodder.com Be sure to support our sponsors: Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark". Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/...
Episode 134 - "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" The Guys From Gayish
April 16, 2019 04:17 - 1 hour - 102 MBIn this episode I do something a little different on the show. I reached out to my friends Mike and Kyle from the wildly popular Gayish Podcast, and asked them to come on the show so I could ask them, "What If You Became Disabled Tomorrow?" We talk about how their views on sex might change, what they'd be afraid of and so much more. Download Gayish here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/gayish-podcast/id1223826362 Follow Gayish here: https://twitter.com/gayishpodcast Be sure to suppo...
Episode 133 - Stump F*cker - Anthony Michael Lopez
April 09, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 91.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with actor Anthony Michael Lopez. We chat everything from acting with a disability, and how he prepared for his roles in Mapplethorpe and Broad City, to chatting about sex and disability as a gay amputee. Believe me, the title of this episode is more than appropriate. I loved this episode so much, and I hope you do too. Follow Anthony at @flittergaggot on Twitter and insta. Be sure to support our sponsors: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest ...
Episode 132 - How to Go on a Romantic Surprise Getaway with your Disabled Lover
April 02, 2019 11:49 - 37 minutes - 42.4 MBIn this episode, I explore how to go on a romantic getaway with your disabled lover. We talk about how there are no images of disabled couples on blogs about romantic getaways... We explore why maybe surprising your disabled lover with an impromptu unplanned getaway is a bad idea, and we talk about how some of the blogs' romantic getaway spots completely miss the mark on accessibility. We also look at a few things you can do to still have that sexy, disabled vacation. Enjoy! Be sure to supp...
Episode 131 - "I Need Really Intense Everything". - August McLaughlin
March 26, 2019 12:33 - 1 hour - 79.1 MBIn this episode, I sit down with the creator of the Girl Boner brand, August McLaughlin. We have a chat about how ADHD has an effect on your sex life, how sometimes things can be really intense because of it, and a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow August's work at www.augustmclaughlin.com. You can find all her socials there as well. Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests...
Bonus: Is Not Telling a Hookup You're Disabled Catfishing? - Nicholas Linnehan
March 21, 2019 23:41 - 52 minutes - 60 MBIn this very special bonus episode, I sit down with playwright and artist Nicholas Linnehan. We talk about his experience being gay and disabled, and turning that into art projects like his upcoming short film, "Catfish", and his play "Identity" which closes in New York this weekend! We also talk about how Nicholas is looking for more than just a hook up, and so much more. You can get tickets for the show here: https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4052890
Episode 130 - I Am Disabled. I Am Angry, and I will tell you about it. - Roo Bernascone.
March 19, 2019 10:06 - 1 hour - 90 MBIn this episode, I chat with Roo Bernascone, a self-professed "cripple punk". We have a really important chat about disability, fatness and scoliosis, and how his fatness is linked inextricably to care and disability. We also talk sex, transmasc identities, polyamory and disability. We flirt with each other too. Enjoy! You can follow Roo on twitter: @roo_b_arts Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: ww...
DISAFTDARK MINI 24 - A DISABLED HOMO DISCOVERS ABLEISM
March 18, 2019 23:35 - 10 minutes - 12 MBIn this minisode, I get an e-mail from Crystal, a self-appointed "disabled homo" from Washington, who talks about how listening to episode 125 with her ex-partner helped her understand an access internalized ableism. If you want to write in for a minisode, e-mail me at [email protected]
Episode 129 - "Nobody Wants to F@!K the Weird Kid" - Max from Off The Cuffs.
March 12, 2019 12:00 - 1 hourIn episode 129, I sit down with the cohost of the kink and BDSM podcast "Off The Cuffs", Minimus Maximus, or just "Max" for short. He reveals how his autism and Asperger's has an effect on his masculinity. We chat about how ASD plays into kink scenes, how order in BDSM calms his Aspie brain; we chat about his bisexuality and how different partners handle his Asperger's. he tells me about some thoughts on Asperger's portrayals in pop culture, and we both prove that the weird kid is almost alw...
Episode 128 - "I Heard A Click" - Ryann Kress
March 05, 2019 05:00 - 1 hour - 82.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with ER nurse Ryann Kress as she shares her experiences working in a busy hospital and living with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. We talk about how her disability affects her job as a nurse, and I ask her what you learn about sex and disability in nursing school... shocker, not much. Ryann also shares some jaw dropping sex stories about her experiences with EDS, blowjobs, polyquads and so much more. You don't wanna miss this one. Enjoy! Be sure to support our new spons...
Episode 127 - A Chat with Noor
February 26, 2019 05:00 - 1 hour - 76.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with guest Noor Pervez, as we talk about autism, physical disability, sex, disability and religion. Noor shares his experiences of dating while trans and disabled and so much more. Enjoy! Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/cripplecontent
DISAFTDARK MINI: #DISABLEDPEOPLEAREHOT
February 22, 2019 21:36 - 7 minutes - 8.47 MBIn this random minisode I talk about the viral success of my hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot; where it came from, why it is important, what I wanna do with it and more. Enjoy!
Episode 126 - You Think You Could Do Better Than Me - Danielle Perez
February 19, 2019 05:15 - 1 hour - 61.2 MBIn this episode, I sit down with LA based comedienne Danielle Perez. We chat about devotees, the challenges of hunting for good d*ck in Los Angeles when you're a wheelchair user, internalized ableism, and Danielle talks about a new romantic comedy she is writing that will have a disabled lead actress! Enjoy! Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest for disabled parents. Details here: www.olebbooks.com/contests Support Disability After Dark...
Episode 125 - "I Had GREAT SEX TWICE...and then I got Mad".
February 12, 2019 05:15 - 23 minutes - 38 MBIn this episode, I share with you some GREAT sex I had recently, and discuss how ableism can be a constant bedfellow. I share my anger over not being able to jerk a lover off, or give him head in the way I want due to limited fine motor function. I explore how that anger made me feel in the moment, and consider what you can do if you have better gross motor functions than fine motor skills. Lastly, I look at exercises you might do to improve fine motor function so you can jerk cocks/lovers o...
Episode 124 - "I want more than just a taste..." - An Interview w/ Spencer Williams
February 05, 2019 05:46 - 12 minutes - 52.3 MBIn this episode, I sit down with freelance writer in sex and disability, Spencer Williams. We talk about his work as a Vice Columnist writing about the personal side of sex and disability. He also shares his experience being featured in a documentary about his work with sex surrogates and sex workers. We share in those experiences; talking about shame, fear and stigma... and it was nice to be in a space with another disabled man who has had these experiences, too. Enjoy! You can follow Spen...
Episode 123 - "My Internal Voice is a Tyrant" - An Interview w/ Roxie
January 29, 2019 05:39 - 1 hour - 63.4 MBOn this episode, I sit down with fan turned guest Roxie, who e-mailed me a few weeks ago saying that she listened to the show, and it was helping her get through her own internalized ableism as a woman with Cerebral Palsy raising two kids. We have a really important conversation that dives into things like financial abuse, emotional abuse, kinks, ableism, self-esteem, disability and so much more. This is an important one.
Episode 122 - "Margarita with a Naw" - Disability After Dark Reviews Margarita With a Straw
January 22, 2019 05:28 - 51 minutes - 47.5 MBIn this episode, I review the film Margarita with a Straw. It's a movie that came out in 2014 about an Indian woman with Cerebral Palsy who is experimenting her sexuality. I talk about how this film is ableist in so many ways, share some funny anecdotes about the film, and even highlight how my views on actors "cripping up" has changed. Enjoy!
BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - FACEFUCK ME PART 1 WITH PORN STAR PIERCE PARIS
January 19, 2019 17:32 - 51 minutes - 47.5 MBIn this episode, I sit down with porn star Pierce Paris about his new scene with quadriplegic porn star, Kenneth Connin. We talk all about this new scene produced by Himeros.TV and the importance of having disabled porn stars like Kenneth. I ask him about what it was like working with a disabled star; some of the considerations, accessibility, whether disabled people give great head and so much more. To watch the scene, you can head over Himeros.TV. You can connect with Pierce on his twitt...
BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - FACEFUCK ME PART 1 WITH PORN STAR PIERCE PARIS
January 19, 2019 17:32 - 47.5 MBIn this episode, I sit down with porn star Pierce Paris about his new scene with quadriplegic porn star, Kenneth Connin. We talk all about this new scene produced by Himeros.TV and the importance of having disabled porn stars like Kenneth. I ask him about what it was like working with a disabled star; some of the considerations, accessibility, whether disabled people give great head and so much more. To watch the scene, you can head over Himeros.TV. You can connect with Pierce o...
Episode 121 - "Would You Shove This in My Mouth?"
January 15, 2019 12:50 - 43 minutes - 40.1 MBIn this episode, I take a look at typical first date foods, and consider how accessible or inaccessible they might be if you had to be fed by a partner. I explain why asking the question "Would you shove this in my mouth?" is both playful and important. I also give tips to non-disabled partners on how to help your disabled lover eat and more. Enjoy!
PATREON CONVO W/ CHARLIE GARNER
January 12, 2019 02:32 - 33 minutes - 30.9 MBAs a special treat, I have decided to release the Patreon Bonus Chat with Charlie Garner from Episode 120. We talk about hospitals, doctors, medications, orgasms, disability and so, so much more. If you pledge $1 a month or more to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent you get these bonuses first! Hope you enjoy!
Episode 120 - I'm Allergic To Sperm w/ guest Charlie Garner
January 08, 2019 05:01 - 1 hour - 73 MBIn this interview, I sit down with a DisabilityAfterDark fan turned guest from the UK, who wrote into me telling me how important the show is to her, and then proceeded to tell me of her deathly allergy to sperm, and how that affects her sex life. I knew I wanted her on the show. We talk about her sperm allergy and how that has affected her, IBS, fibromyalgia, sexual trauma and a whole lot more. This is a really important episode. Enjoy! Also, if you sign up for the Patreon, there is a bonus...
Episode 119 - "Coming Out As a Chronic Pain Babe" - An Interview w/ SEIC Host Cameron Glover
January 01, 2019 13:30 - 1 hour - 69.4 MBIn this episode, I sit down with Cameron Glover, host of a new podcast Sex Ed in Color, as she comes out to us as a QPOC living with chronic pain. I heard of her work when she shouted out this podcast on Twitter. I started following her, listening to her show, and I fell in love with her work immediately. We have such a great chat about disability, sexuality, chronic pain, POC, I come out as femme in this episode maybe, and so much more!! Enjoy! Follow Cameron's work at www.cameronglover.com...
BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - WHEN I WAS A DISABLED KID - EPISODE 02
December 29, 2018 02:20 - 39 minutes - 47.6 MBSurprise! In this Bonus Episode of "When I Was A Disabled Kid", I sit down with writer Wendy Lu to talk about her experiences as a disabled kid with a trach; what it was like having a nurse with you 24/7, trying to make friends and be independent and so, so much more about her disabled childhood. You can follow all of Wendy's work on Twitter at @wendyluwrites . You can also follow my work at @andrewgurza or @disaftdarkpod. You can support the show by pledging $1 a month or more by heading o...
Episode 118 - "There's a Gaping Hole" - An Interview w/ Ryan O'Connell
December 25, 2018 12:25 - 1 hour - 56.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with author, producer and soon to be TV personality, Ryan O'Connell. We talk about his experience of Cerebral Palsy and gay identity, and trying to bring that into the public sphere with his up and coming TV show, "Special". We also chat about wanting boys to ask us out on weekend dates as disabled guys, disability activism and queerness, his experience of sex work and so much more. You can follow Ryan's work by following him on Twitter at @ryanoconn Remember yo...
Episode 117 - Guys I F*cked - Raj
December 21, 2018 14:27 - 10 minutes - 50 MBThis episode I sit down with my friend, sex worker and porn star, Raj. We have a chat about what it was like for him to have sex with a disabled lover - me. We talk about our experiences having sex together, and I ask him what that must have felt like for him; was he nervous? Was he scared he'd hurt me because I was disabled? Am I a good disabled lover? All this and more will be revealed in this episode. Enjoy!!!! You can contact Raj on Twitter at @iamrajxxx Remember you can support Disabil...
Episode 116 - That Time I Worked With Sex Workers
December 14, 2018 13:18 - 45 minutes - 41.9 MBIn this episode, I come out about my experiences working with sex workers as a queer disabled man. I share why I made the decision, some good and not-so-good experiences working with sex workers when disabled, and I offer tips and tricks to disabled clients on how to make the sessions about your agency and your pleasure. I share how sex work helped me gain self-confidence as a disabled man and so much more... Like what it was like telling my Mom. Enjoy! Remember you can support DisabilityAf...
BONUS CRIPPLE CONTENT - When I Was A Disabled Kid - Episode 01
December 11, 2018 17:24 - 1 hour - 64.6 MBI wanted to do something special today. You may have heard on the show that I'd be releasing When I Was A Disabled Ki episodes exclusively on Patreon. BUT - I wanted to gift you with the first episode of When I Was A Disabled Kid - as a thank you for supporting the show DisabilityAfterDark and Cripple Content Creations. This first episode is with my friend; author, disabled activist Carrie Wade. We talk about her childhood growing up with Cerebral Palsy, no snow, coming out as Queer and Disa...
Episode 115 - An Interview w/ Disabled, Queer and Sexy AF Artist, Robert Andy Coombs
December 07, 2018 12:58 - 1 hour - 66.9 MBIn this episode, I talk with disabled, queer photographer, Robert Andy Coombs. We talk about how he became disabled and how he felt about that, his amazing photography work centering disabled, male sexuality and why he is a badass in the bedroom. This one is funny, raw, sexy, and I definitely spent half the episode flirting with Robert! Enjoy. Links to all of Robert's work can be found at his website: www.robertandycoombs.com. Remember you can support DisabilityAfterDark by following @andre...
Episode 114 - "I Don't Wanna Touch Your Face" - An Interview w/ Belo Cipriani
November 30, 2018 15:30 - 1 hour - 50.3 MBIn this episode, I sit down with award winning author and journalist, Belo Cipriani as we talk about navigating the world as a blind gay man; everything from how he became blind to the accessibility of gay hook up culture is openly explored. Of course, we have some laughs too. Enjoy! You can follow Belo's work by heading over to his website: www.belocipriani.com.
Episode 113 - Cerebral Sexuality - A Conversation with Galia Godel about Sexuality and Intellectual Disability
November 23, 2018 15:00 - 13 minutes - 54.6 MBIn this episode, I talk with Jewish sex educator and behavior specialist, Galia Godel. She works as a sex educator around sexual health and intellectual disabilities. We talk about how to talk about sex and sexuality with intellectually disabled people. She shares some experiences working with intellectually disabled clients, we talk consent, intellectual disabilities and so much more. Follow Galia's work at @SexCerebral on Twitter. You can work with Galia and hire her by going to cerebral-s...
Episode 112 - Meat Cage, Dislocations, Revealing Your Disability and More - An Interview w/ Ace Ratcliff
November 16, 2018 12:46 - 1 hour - 43.5 MBIn this episode, we sit down with writer, activist and disability badass, Ace Ratcliff. We talk about things dislocating during sex, revealing your identity as an ambulatory wheelchair user, and we talk to Ace about how their use of pronoun they/them is directly related to their disabled identity. You can follow Ace at @MortuaryReport on Twitter, or hit up their website at www.stayweirdbekind.com You can support DisabilityAfterDark for as little as $1 per month by going to Patreon.com/cripp...
Episode 111 - Tips for a Sexy, Disabled Sleepover
November 09, 2018 13:20 - 43 minutes - 26.2 MBIn this episode, we look at tips and tricks for a sexy, disabled sleepover, and how a lot of the tips in popular culture around sleepovers aren't accessible to disabled people. We look at things like phone etiquette, scent needs, bringing stuff in a discreet bag (how inaccessible is that when you have wheelchairs?) and so much more. Follow the show on Twitter at @disaftdarkpod and pledge to the show on Patreon at $1 month at www.patreon.com/cripplecontent
Episode 110 - Sexuality, Disability and Tattoos
November 02, 2018 12:27 - 43 minutes - 40.2 MBIn this episode, find out why I have "Queer Cripple" tattooed on my chest, and how all my tattoos connect to my sexuality and my disability. Let me know if I should get a sexy pin up tat or not. I tell you the story of when I got a tattoo to impress a boy, and so much more. Enjoy!
Episode 109 - I love being autistic - An Interview w/ Sara Camps
October 26, 2018 12:26 - 1 hour - 60 MBIn this episode, I sit down with Sara Camps, an autistic queer person whose gender is cat lady. We talk about how autism affects her experience of intimacy. Sara talks about running a queer disability support group at a University, and suggests ways that University groups can engage with intersectional identities better. We talk about her relationship with her cishet husband, and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Sara on Twitter here: @cheesepickles
Episode 108 - Karolyn Gehrig
October 19, 2018 12:30 - 1 hour - 68.9 MBIn this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Karolyn Gehrig, creator of the #HospitalGlam hashtag about sexuality, disability, and so much more. Our conversations touch on Karolyn's experience of EDS, her "How Much Blood is Too Much Blood", talking about the right to die and then getting her pussy eaten out with a date, and lots more. Follow Karolyn on Twitter here: @karolynprg Go to Karolyn's website here: http://www.karolyngehrig.com/