Dating Is Hard Y'All
199 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratingsDating is really hard. Especially now when everything's online AND there's a pandemic going on. What's a single girl gotta do to find love? Join me as we lament on the dismal state of dating, pour over terrible advice and find deep solace in incoherent dating tv shows. Dating is hard y'all, but we can pull through this sh*t together. If you like our show, make sure to find us on Instagram @datingishardyall and say hi!
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Too Hot to Handle - Is it a Trashy Dating Show or Something Deeper?
May 25, 2020 04:00 - 22 minutes - 15.3 MBSo I binged "Too Hot to Handle" the day it came out and let me tell you...I have some thoughts! In general, I found the show a little lackluster compared to Love is Blind and I explain why in this episode.
Love is Blind on Netflix - The Couples We Loved, Didn't Understand and Disliked (Feat. Polly!)
May 18, 2020 03:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MBLove is Blind on Netflix is WILD and so entertaining! In this episode, Polly and I discuss which couples we fell in love with, the ones we found kinda off and those we simply didn't like. Dating is hard y'all, even on reality TV!
Ok, So I Changed My Mind
May 08, 2020 01:00 - 9 minutes - 6.46 MBGuys...this podcast had nearly 100 downloads in the last seven days. WHAT is going on? Is the universe playing a trick on me? Is someone sinister trying to dupe me? That number might not seem like a lot...but it's a lot to me and this podcast. So, I changed my mind - sorry, haha - this podcast will go on after all! Spoiler alert - next few episodes will be about notorious dating reality tv shows...(cough cough, NETFLIX). Stay tuned, stay in and remember, dating is hard y'all but it's better ...
#30 - The END Is Here and So Is a New Beginning (feat. the awesome Polly!)
April 05, 2020 20:00 - 1 hour - 47.3 MBPolly and I discuss the state of dating (how abysmal it is) and why the time is now to pivot to a new podcast that's NOT all about dating. We also talk about everything else in our lives (work, coronavirus, the next podcast) as we wrap up the final episode of Dating is Hard Y'All! Thank YOU so much for listening and make sure to add me on social media at Akemi Liyanage (google me, I'm easy to find) so we can stay connected when my new podcast comes out next month!
I'm Ending This Podcast (Feat. the WONDERFUL Polly)
April 05, 2020 20:00 - 1 hour - 47.3 MBPolly and I discuss the state of dating (how abysmal it is) and why the time is now to pivot to a new podcast that's NOT all about dating. We also talk about everything else in our lives (work, coronavirus, the next podcast) as we wrap up the final episode of Dating is Hard Y'All! Thank YOU so much for listening and make sure to add me on social media at Akemi Liyanage (google me, I'm easy to find) so we can stay connected when my new podcast comes out next month!
Why I've Decided to Be Single for a LONG Time
March 30, 2020 01:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MBWell! It is a strange day when a dating podcaster like myself admits to losing interest in dating and wanting to stay single. But that's how it is right? Things change. We evolve. And I'm quite happy with my life without a boyfriend.
#29 - How I Completely Lost Interest in Dating & Why I've Decided to Be Single for a LONG Time
March 30, 2020 01:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MBWell! It is a strange day when a dating podcaster like myself admits to losing interest in dating and wanting to stay single. But that's how it is right? Things change. We evolve. And I'm quite happy with my life without a boyfriend.
Being Rejected By Your Best Guy Friend
March 22, 2020 23:00 - 22 minutes - 15.6 MBWhat happens when you confess your love to someone that you KNOW doesn't like you, during a time in your life when you know you don't want to date? The answer - pure emotional chaos. After a friend/listener reached out to me to learn about the full story, I decided to dish the complete, unedited tale of how I developed feelings for, got rejected by and am feeling about the crush I had on my best (former?) guy friend. It ain't pretty, y'all, I'll give you that.
#28 - The Ridiculously Bittersweet Experience of Being Rejected By Your Best Guy Friend
March 22, 2020 23:00 - 22 minutes - 15.6 MBWhat happens when you confess your love to someone that you KNOW doesn't like you, during a time in your life when you know you don't want to date? The answer - pure emotional chaos. After a friend/listener reached out to me to learn about the full story, I decided to dish the complete, unedited tale of how I developed feelings for, got rejected by and am feeling about the crush I had on my best (former?) guy friend. It ain't pretty, y'all, I'll give you that.
#27 - How to Channel that BADASS Single Lady Energy
March 16, 2020 01:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MBAh, what a week! Coronavirus, Muay Thai and of course, a confession of true love...not. What the hell happened this week? Let's get on with this dating journey, my fellow badasses.
How to Channel that BADASS Single Lady Energy
March 16, 2020 01:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MBAh, what a week! Coronavirus, Muay Thai and of course, a confession of true love...not. What the hell happened this week? Let's get on with this dating journey, my fellow badasses.
Why I Took a BREAK from Dating Apps and I'm LOVING It
March 09, 2020 02:00 - 21 minutes - 14.7 MBHello my lovely ladies! Welcome to the tribe where we openly voice our disdain for poorly written dating profiles, awful pictures and the whole sh*tshow that is modern dating in general. This week I talk about why I decided to DELETE all of my dating apps and what I've been focusing on instead! Dating is HARD y'all but it's way better together.
#26 - Why I Took a BREAK from Dating Apps and I'm LOVING It
March 09, 2020 02:00 - 21 minutes - 14.7 MBHello my lovely ladies! Welcome to the tribe where we openly voice our disdain for poorly written dating profiles, awful pictures and the whole sh*tshow that is modern dating in general. This week I talk about why I decided to DELETE all of my dating apps and what I've been focusing on instead! Dating is HARD y'all but it's way better together.
Possibly the WORST Date I've Been On (Feat. Abby from Sis Are You Okay? Podcast)
March 02, 2020 03:00 - 19 minutes - 13.1 MBWe're having a totally normal conversation...that takes a NOSE DIVE into some uncharted territory. Ugh! This date when from alright to TERRIBLE pretty damn quickly. What the f*ck happened? Listen to me and Abby from Sis Are You Okay? podcast as we dish out and dissect all the details on this AWFUL date! Also make sure to follow her podcast on Spotify/Itunes/everywhere!
#25 - Possibly the WORST Date I've Been On (Feat. Abby from Sis Are You Okay? Podcast)
March 02, 2020 03:00 - 19 minutes - 13.1 MBWe're having a totally normal conversation...that takes a NOSE DIVE into some uncharted territory. Ugh! This date when from alright to TERRIBLE pretty damn quickly. What the f*ck happened? Listen to me and Abby from Sis Are You Okay? podcast as we dish out and dissect all the details on this AWFUL date! Also make sure to follow her podcast on Spotify/Itunes/everywhere!
Guy OVERREACTS to Girl Cancelling Last Minute (Feat. @ThirdLifeCrisis)
February 23, 2020 16:00 - 15 minutes - 10.9 MBIn part two of my awesome episode with @Thirdlifecrisis (follow her NOW) we talk about a post that went viral - a girl posts a screenshot of herself cancelling at 5 PM due to a product launch and her date responds...not so kindly. We discuss our thoughts on this and whether or not she truly dodged a bullet!
#24 - Guy OVERREACTS to Girl Cancelling Last Minute (Feat. @ThirdLifeCrisis of Insta)
February 23, 2020 16:00 - 15 minutes - 10.9 MBIn part two of my awesome episode with @Thirdlifecrisis (follow her NOW) we talk about a post that went viral - a girl posts a screenshot of herself cancelling at 5 PM due to a product launch and her date responds...not so kindly. We discuss our thoughts on this and whether or not she truly dodged a bullet!
#23 - This Dude FREAKED OUT at Me Over Text (Feat. @ThirdLifeCrisis of Insta)
February 17, 2020 03:00 - 16 minutes - 11.5 MBSo I matched with this guy and we went on this date...and then THIS happens. What the hell? How does a situation go from being pretty okay to us being DONE? Listen in on me and @Thirdlifecrisis (she's AWESOME - follow her on Instagram RIGHT now).
This Dude FREAKED OUT at Me (Feat. @ThirdLifeCrisis)
February 17, 2020 03:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MBSo I matched with this guy and we went on this date...and then THIS happens. What the hell? How does a situation go from being pretty okay to us being DONE? Listen in on me and @Thirdlifecrisis (she's AWESOME - follow her on Instagram RIGHT now).
I Met a CARBON COPY of My Ex
February 11, 2020 00:00 - 39 minutes - 27.1 MBPolly on the POD y'all! Three weeks after I went no-contact with my ex, I meet ANOTHER VERSION of him. Holy hell - how do I deal with this situation and did I pass the test? Then, Polly and I take apart the story of a Redditor with a curious dilemma - why is she so unsure about dating a dude she's known for a whopping ten years?! We go deeper as to why she might be feeling this way and our advice for anyone dealing with a similar situation.
#22 - I Met a CARBON COPY of My Ex + Redditor is TORN Over a Man She's Known for TEN YEARS
February 11, 2020 00:00 - 39 minutes - 27.1 MBPolly on the POD y'all! Three weeks after I went no-contact with my ex, I meet ANOTHER VERSION of him. Holy hell - how do I deal with this situation and did I pass the test? Then, Polly and I take apart the story of a Redditor with a curious dilemma - why is she so unsure about dating a dude she's known for a whopping ten years?! We go deeper as to why she might be feeling this way and our advice for anyone dealing with a similar situation.
Online Dating for Dudes is ROUGH
February 03, 2020 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MBYan and I sit down, colour and talk about his dating experience using Tinder Gold in Europe and how he's changed his dating profile since the last time we talked. We also cover some truly awful (yet SUPER interesting) stories of people on Reddit telling us why they're glad a relationship ended. Dating is Hard Y'All!
#21 - Online Dating for Dudes is ROUGH + Why Redditors NOPED Out of These Relationships
February 03, 2020 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MBYan and I sit down, colour and talk about his dating experience using Tinder Gold in Europe and how he's changed his dating profile since the last time we talked. We also cover some truly awful (yet SUPER interesting) stories of people on Reddit telling us why they're glad a relationship ended. Dating is Hard Y'All!
#21 - Does Tinder Gold Really WORK? + Redditors on TRULY Shitty Relationships They Gladly Ditched
February 03, 2020 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MBYan and I sit down, colour and talk about his experience using Tinder Gold in Europe and how he's changed his dating profile since the last time we talked. We also cover some truly awful (yet SUPER interesting) stories of people on Reddit telling us why they're glad a relationship ended. Dating is Hard Y'All!
#21 - Sorry, Tinder Gold Does NOT Work People + Why Redditors NOPED Out of Relationships
February 03, 2020 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MBYan and I sit down, colour and talk about his experience using Tinder Gold in Europe and how he's changed his dating profile since the last time we talked. We also cover some truly awful (yet SUPER interesting) stories of people on Reddit telling us why they're glad a relationship ended. Dating is Hard Y'All!
#21 - Does Tinder Gold WORK? + Redditors On Why They NOPED Out of Relationships
February 03, 2020 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MBYan and I sit down, colour and talk about his experience using Tinder Gold in Europe and how he's changed his dating profile since the last time we talked. We also cover some truly awful (yet SUPER interesting) stories of people on Reddit telling us why they're glad a relationship ended. Dating is Hard Y'All!
Why Dating is TERRIFYING After Ending a Long-Term Relationship
January 27, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.5 MBIn this episode, we cover how scary AF it can be to be back on the dating scene after a long hiatus (read: a long-ass relationship). Plus we cover two r/relationships stories on partners that are CLEARLY being weird about stupid shit. Ugh! So frustration. Also, this is Meg's first episode on the podcast..WELCOME MEG!
#20 - Why Dating is TERRIFYING After Ending a Long-Term Relationship + Off Reddit - Partners Being Real SHADY
January 27, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.5 MBIn this episode, we cover how scary AF it can be to be back on the dating scene after a long hiatus (read: a long-ass relationship). Plus we cover two r/relationships stories on partners that are CLEARLY being weird about stupid shit. Ugh! So frustration. Also, this is Meg's first episode on the podcast..WELCOME MEG!
#20 - Why Dating is TERRIFYING After Ending a Long-Term Relationship +Redditors on Partners Being Real SHADY
January 27, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.5 MBIn this episode, we cover how scary AF it can be to be back on the dating scene after a long hiatus (read: a long-ass relationship). Plus we cover two r/relationships stories on partners that are CLEARLY being weird about stupid shit. Ugh! So frustration. Also, this is Meg's first episode on the podcast..WELCOME MEG!
Two BIG Early Warning Signs In My Last Relationship
January 20, 2020 04:00 - 45 minutes - 31 MBHello hello! In week two of no-contact, I found myself ruminating a LOT on my last relationship, especially the stuff that went wrong. In this episode, I give a small PSA about trusting astrology/tarot TOO much (everything with a grain of salt is healthier, y'all!), go over two early signs that my last relationship probably wasn't for the best and I read several r/askreddit stories on why people broke up with their ex-SO's. Topics or thoughts? DM me at @datingishardyall on Insta!
#19 - Two BIG Early Warning Signs In My Last Relationship + Real Breakup Stories From Reddit
January 20, 2020 04:00 - 45 minutes - 31 MBHello hello! In week two of no-contact, I found myself ruminating a LOT on my last relationship, especially the stuff that went wrong. In this episode, I give a small PSA about trusting astrology/tarot TOO much (everything with a grain of salt is healthier, y'all!), go over two early signs that my last relationship probably wasn't for the best and I read several r/askreddit stories on why people broke up with their ex-SO's. Topics or thoughts? DM me at @datingishardyall on Insta!
#18 - Surviving ONE WEEK of No Contact With My Ex + Redditors Explain How Two Men Realized They Were Getting Cheated On, Simultaneously
January 13, 2020 02:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBHi y'all! Coming at you hot with this solo-sode packed with personal updates, more complaining about dating apps (of course) as well as some crazy CHEATING stories I picked up on reddit and the official urban dictionary definition of breadcrumming!
#18 - Surviving ONE WEEK of No Contact With My Ex + How Two Men Realized They Were Getting Cheated On, Simultaneously [Reddit Story]
January 13, 2020 02:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBHi y'all! Coming at you hot with this solo-sode packed with personal updates, more complaining about dating apps (of course) as well as some crazy CHEATING stories I picked up on reddit and the official urban dictionary definition of breadcrumming!
#18 - Why Being Single is SO Fun After Pointless Bullsh*t + CRAZY Cheating Stories From Reddit
January 13, 2020 02:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBHi y'all! Coming at you hot with this solo-sode packed with personal updates, more complaining about dating apps (of course) as well as some crazy CHEATING stories I picked up on reddit and the official urban dictionary definition of breadcrumming!
#18 - Surviving ONE WEEK of No Contact With My Ex of 3 Years + How Two Men Realized They Were Getting Cheated On, Simultaneously [Reddit Story]
January 13, 2020 02:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBHi y'all! Coming at you hot with this solo-sode packed with personal updates, more complaining about dating apps (of course) as well as some crazy CHEATING stories I picked up on reddit and the official urban dictionary definition of breadcrumming!
Surviving ONE WEEK of No Contact With My Ex
January 13, 2020 02:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBHi y'all! Coming at you hot with this solo-sode packed with personal updates, more complaining about dating apps (of course) as well as some crazy CHEATING stories I picked up on reddit and the official urban dictionary definition of breadcrumming!
#34 - Haunted By Your Ex? Why You Should Break the Toxic Cycle And Go No-Contact Once And For All
January 06, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MBOur exes can be really difficult to part with. They're a huge chunk of our history, the people that we shared beautiful experiences with. But, trying to figure out what you are after your break up can turn out to be a toxic cycle of false hope and deep hurt. You guys broke up for a reason right? This is why you should keep it that way.
#34 - Tired of Their Shi*t? Time To Go NO-CONTACT Once & For All
January 06, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MBOur exes can be really difficult to part with. They're a huge chunk of our history, the people that we shared beautiful experiences with. But, trying to figure out what you are after your break up can turn out to be a toxic cycle of false hope and deep hurt. You guys broke up for a reason right? This is why you should keep it that way.
#17 - Tired of Their Shi*t? Time To Go NO-CONTACT Once & For All
January 06, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MBOur exes can be really difficult to part with. They're a huge chunk of our history, the people that we shared beautiful experiences with. But, trying to figure out what you are after your break up can turn out to be a toxic cycle of false hope and deep hurt. You guys broke up for a reason right? This is why you should keep it that way.
Tired of Their Shi*t? Time To Go NO-CONTACT Once & For All
January 06, 2020 03:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MBOur exes can be really difficult to part with. They're a huge chunk of our history, the people that we shared beautiful experiences with. But, trying to figure out what you are after your break up can turn out to be a toxic cycle of false hope and deep hurt. You guys broke up for a reason right? This is why you should keep it that way.
PSA to "Busy" Guys - Stop Wasting Our Time
December 31, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 54.5 MBWhy do we always meet people who don't have time to date on DATING apps? In this episode, Polly and I talk about how we're DONE with dating people who for one reason or another are too "busy" to date us. Boy, BYE!
#33 - PSA to "Busy" Guys - If You're Too Busy to Date Us, Get OFF the Apps & Stop Wasting Our Time
December 31, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 54.5 MBWhy do we always meet people who don't have time to date on DATING apps? In this episode, Polly and I talk about how we're DONE with dating people who for one reason or another are too "busy" to date us. Boy, BYE!
#16 - PSA to "Busy" Guys - If You're Too Busy to Date Us, Get OFF the Apps & Stop Wasting Our Time
December 31, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 54.5 MBWhy do we always meet people who don't have time to date on DATING apps? In this episode, Polly and I talk about how we're DONE with dating people who for one reason or another are too "busy" to date us. Boy, BYE!
#32 - After All the Shitty Dates & An Awful Relationship, Here's What I'm F*cking Grateful For
December 23, 2019 05:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB2019 has been a WHIRLWIND of a year folks! Lots of frogs, only one prince. Hear the wild tales of the tadpoles that I gladly tossed back into the pond.
#15 - After All the Shitty Dates & An Awful Relationship, Here's What I'm F*cking Grateful For
December 23, 2019 05:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB2019 has been a WHIRLWIND of a year folks! Lots of frogs, only one prince. Hear the wild tales of the tadpoles that I gladly tossed back into the pond.
#32 - DIHY - All The Guys I Never Dated & Dudes I'm Glad I Passed Over On (2019 Edition)
December 23, 2019 05:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB2019 has been a WHIRLWIND of a year folks! Lots of frogs, only one prince. Hear the wild tales of the tadpoles that I gladly tossed back into the pond.
Here's What I'm F*cking Grateful For
December 23, 2019 05:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB2019 has been a WHIRLWIND of a year folks! Lots of frogs, only one prince. Hear the wild tales of the tadpoles that I gladly tossed back into the pond.
#31 - DIHY - Why Dudes Aren't Swiping Right On Me On OkCupid, As Explained By a DUDE
December 16, 2019 02:00 - 1 hour - 60.6 MBEesh! While I can't say I've worked particularly hard on my OkCupid profile, I didn't think it was THAT bad. As the dudes swiping right on me and leaving me messages has progressively gotten lower, I decided to consult on expert to find out WHY from the source of all dude-esque wisdom - YAN. And boy, was I in for a surprise - my profile definitely wasn't as good as I thought it was!
Why Dudes Aren't Swiping Right On Me On OkCupid, As Explained By a DUDE
December 16, 2019 02:00 - 1 hour - 60.6 MBEesh! While I can't say I've worked particularly hard on my OkCupid profile, I didn't think it was THAT bad. As the dudes swiping right on me and leaving me messages has progressively gotten lower, I decided to consult on expert to find out WHY from the source of all dude-esque wisdom - YAN. And boy, was I in for a surprise - my profile definitely wasn't as good as I thought it was!
#31 - Why Dudes Aren't Swiping Right On Me On OkCupid, As Explained By a DUDE
December 16, 2019 02:00 - 1 hour - 60.6 MBEesh! While I can't say I've worked particularly hard on my OkCupid profile, I didn't think it was THAT bad. As the dudes swiping right on me and leaving me messages has progressively gotten lower, I decided to consult on expert to find out WHY from the source of all dude-esque wisdom - YAN. And boy, was I in for a surprise - my profile definitely wasn't as good as I thought it was!