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Daddy Got Custody: Helping Good Parents Win Custody of their Kids

42 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 31 ratings

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad on Twitter, shares his unique experience of winning a paternity suit and being full custody, of his then 4-year-old daughter. As a non-attorney but a male parent, he shares unique ideas on how to be a better parent and ultimately win a child custody suit. Fred's goal is to help good parents caught in the complicated process of divorce or child custody. This show has parenting and custody tips as well as attorney interviews from state to state.

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Episodes

DGC 041 - 10 Favors Custodial Parents Should Do for Their Ex

August 31, 2020 16:39 - 15 minutes - 16.3 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten favors or acts of kindness custodial parents do for the other parent. You will learn to consider "First Right of Refusal," encouraging phone or video calls with your children, adding your Ex as an emergency contact, and so much more. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com

DGC 040 - 10 Ways to Be a Credible, Calm Witness

August 30, 2020 19:49 - 21 minutes - 25.1 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to be a credible, calm witness both in court and dealing with high stressed situations like cross examinations. You will learn reasons to be calm, keep your emotions in check, stick to the facts, speak in a non-condescending way when speaking with judges, social workers, police and other authorities. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com  

DGC 039 - 10 Ways to Absolutely Lose Custody of Your Kids

August 30, 2020 02:50 - 19 minutes - 23.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares ten ways to absolutely lose custody of your kids.  Ranging from failing a home or social study, arguing with the judge in court, to not providing basic needs for your children. You will learn the fastest sure far way to lose custody.  The cost of parental alienation or brainwashing your children and finally the trap of not planning ahead or taking your case seriously. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGot...

DGC 038 - 5 Tips to Consider in Your Case Thanks to Covid-19

August 23, 2020 21:58 - 17 minutes - 21.2 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares three questions and five points you should be asking yourself regarding your child custody case in reference to Covid-19.  Has their been a change in your job?  How about the daily schedule of your kids?  Have your finance changed? Learn 5 points to consider and talk with your attorney in regards to custody modification during this Covid crisis. More details can always be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com  

DGC 037 - 10 Side Hustles During Covid-19

June 28, 2020 20:38 - 21 minutes - 26.2 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, and 11 year website designer.  Shares 10 successful side hustles he has watched clients start during this Covid-19 shutdown to help earn extra money for both their kids and their custody case.  True stories from #2 starting a lawn care business, to #9 a painting couple that earned nearly $7500 their first month starting an online membership class. Learn 10 ideas to make money within seven days so that you survive this pandemic. ...

DGC 036 - Parental Alienation, Cathy's Story

May 10, 2020 22:46 - 39 minutes - 29.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, interviews Cathy who tells the story of how her custody case with her children are going.  This interview touches things done right, wrong, parental alienation and elements she would do differently knowing what she knows now.  Fred ends the interview inviting you to reach out and support her through her GoFundMe page... https://www.gofundme.com/f/the-littlest-michaels-parentalalienation

DGC 035 - Spend Some Time with Your Kids

March 22, 2020 19:36 - 21 minutes - 25.8 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses ten activities to do with your kids at home (during the Covid-19 virus).  From building a fort, teaching your kids how to cook, he explains this is a memory making opportunity like no other.  He goes on to suggest five things to do when you don't have your kids at home as well and much, much, more.

DGC - 035 - Spend Some Time with Your Kids

March 22, 2020 19:36 - 21 minutes - 25.8 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses ten activities to do with your kids at home (during the Covid-19 virus).  From building a fort, teaching your kids how to cook, he explains this is a memory making opportunity like no other.  He goes on to suggest five things to do when you don't have your kids at home as well and much, much, more.

DGC 033 - Best Advice for Being a Step-Parent

March 08, 2020 21:13 - 22 minutes - 27.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for being a step-parent. He outlines eight points or expectations to be the best parent you can be.  Ranging from "Don't Try to Be the Kids Mother" to "Don't Handle the Discipline" and much, much, more.

DGC 034 - Best Advice for Working with an Attorney

March 02, 2020 03:57 - 20 minutes - 24.9 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice for working with your attorney.  He outlines seven points he wish he knew in working with his lawyer.  Starting with listening to your attorney, sharing EVERYTHING, doing your homework, working out a payment plan, and much, much, more.

DGC 032 - Best Advice to be Calm in Court

February 24, 2020 03:06 - 18 minutes - 23.1 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got in order to stay calm in court.  This advice ranged from joining Toastmasters, visiting his courtroom, practicing prepared speeches as to why he should have custody and much, much more.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody.com/podcast

DGC 031 - Best Advice in Handling & Communcating with Your Ex

February 21, 2020 12:00 - 18 minutes - 19.1 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses the best advice he got from his attorney on how to deal and communicate with your Ex.  He expresses six thoughts on the best advice he ever got from James Newth regarding this issue.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody.com  

DGC 030 - Ask Fred 02/20/2020 Parental Alienation

February 20, 2020 14:07 - 23 minutes - 29.5 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, starts a new Wednesday addition, Ask Fred.  Here he pulls 5 questions/emails he has gotten and answers them.  Today's episode talks about social media in court, do my kids need their own room, and much, much more.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody.com

DGC 029 - 10 Elements of a Good Custodial Parent

February 17, 2020 19:01 - 22 minutes - 23.4 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares 10 elements that make up a good custodial parent.  Ranging from being the more stable parent, one who has more time for the kids, more involved in the kids school down to one who doesn't speak ill of the Ex. This is the final installment of his 10-part series in regards to seeking custody and dealing with your Ex.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody.com  

DGC 028 - 10 Elements to Let Go of in Your Custody Case

February 16, 2020 23:20 - 26 minutes - 27.2 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares 10 elements you need to let go of in your custody case or co-parenting with your Ex.  These ten items range from trying to parent to the other side, down to what your kids eat at your Ex's house. This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to seeking custody and dealing with your Ex.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody.com

DGC 027 - 10 Elements I Would Change if I Could Do My Custody Case Over

February 12, 2020 22:00 - 21 minutes - 22.2 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, shares 10 elements he would change if doing his custody case over.  Looking back now that his daughter is nearly 21 of elements he would do different ranging from trying mediation, listening to his attorney more, and cutting his Ex a bit more slack, and much, much more. This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to seeking custody and especially remarrying.  For more information visit... https://DaddyGotCustody....

DGC 026 - 10 Parenting Tips for Blended Families

February 10, 2020 03:23 - 21 minutes - 21.3 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, suggests 10 parenting tips for blended families.  After 20 years of consulting and meeting parents he has suggestions ranging from making the biological parent do the heavy discipline to having family meetings.  He recommends considering creating new traditions, as well as, the importance of having a weekly date night.  This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to seeking custody and especially remarrying.  For more ...

DGC 025 - 10 Different Types of Visitation Schedules

February 02, 2020 12:04 - 26 minutes - 27.8 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses 10 of the most common visitation schedules to consider for your Final Court Order.  After 20 years of consulting and meeting parents he has suggestions to consider from 50/50 equal time to 4:3 split time.  He recommends considering how well you get along with your Ex down to the needs of your children and much, much more.  This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to child custody that Fred wished he ha...

DGC 024 - 10 Rules for Divorced Parents

January 26, 2020 23:42 - 18 minutes - 16.9 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 20-year custody consultant, discusses 10 rules or best practices for divorced parents.  After 20 years of consulting and meeting parents he has rules such as, not speaking ill of your Ex with your kids (#5), down to don't make your kids the messenger in communicating wtih your Ex (#9) and much, much more.  This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to child custody that Fred wished he had known for his case.  https://DaddyGotCustody.com

DGC 023 - Ten Additional Things to Ask for in Your Final Court Hearing

January 19, 2020 23:52 - 20 minutes - 25.4 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, and 21-year custody consultant discusses 10 additional things to ask for in your final court hearing.  These are elements to consider that perhaps the court or your attorney may not think about.  Ranging from sharing Halloween, summer marching band, or extended time for other family members, and much, much more.  This is a continuation of a 10-part series in regards to child custody that Fred wished he had known for his case.  https://DaddyGotCustody.com

DGC 022 - Ten Pieces of Evidence for Your Custody Case

January 12, 2020 20:59 - 20 minutes - 27.1 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses the 10 pieces of evidence you need to prepare for your custody case. Fred, a 21-year custody consultant, and full custody dad of his then 4-YO daughter, discusses the 10 types of evidence you should prepare for your attorney.  He lays out ideas to present in court like journals, notes, calendars, photo albums and much, much more.  (More info can be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com)

DGC 021 - Ten Witnesses to Call for Your Custody Case

January 05, 2020 19:02 - 23 minutes - 29.1 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses the 10 most important witnesses to call for your child custody case. Fred, a 21-year custody consultant, and full custody dad of his then, 4 YO daughter, discusses the 10 types of witnesses you may want to call for your temporary or final hearing.  He also lays out how to organize your witnesses to further aid your attorney.  (More info can be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com)

DGC 020 - Ten Ways to Earn Money for Your Custody Case

January 01, 2020 01:53 - 23 minutes - 30.5 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses 10 part-time jobs or side hustles he would do today to pay his divorce attorney fees. Fred, a 21-year custody consultant, outlines 10 ways to earn some additional money to pay your attorney fees.  Starting with a story of how he paid his attorney by being a waiter (#1), to web design work (#3) or virtual assistant work (#7).  Learn ideas on how you can not be in debt to your attorney.  (More info can be found at https://DaddyGotCustody.com)

DGC 019 - First Ten Things to Do to Win Custody

December 27, 2019 20:02 - 30 minutes - 35.8 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, answers what would be his first 10 things he would do if served divorce papers today to win custody. Fred a 21-year custody consultant outlines step-by-step the very first 10 things he would do if trying to win custody.  Starting with the crazy idea of trying to delay the divorce until the kids are grown (#1), to finding and hiring a GREAT attorney (#4) to preparing some photo albums for court (#9).

DGC 018 - Ten Reasons I Got Full Custody as a Dad

November 18, 2018 22:20 - 27 minutes - 23.6 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, answers the most commonly asked question he gets... "How did you win full custody of your 4-year-old daughter?" Fred reflects backs and interviews post jury members as to why he was award full custody of his then 4-year-old daughter over the mother in this episode.  Furthermore, he outlines ten points you should consider in your court case.

DGC 017 - The Custody Road w/John Lacy

September 09, 2018 20:26 - 45 minutes - 47.2 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, interviews Los Angeles writer and director, John Lacy.  Mr. Lacy has just released "Custody Road" a serious child custody film that deals with the struggles a father would go through to gain full custody of his son. John shares insight into the making of the movie, his thoughts on marriage and his examination of the "Custody Road" in today's society between parents. Please visit https:\\CustodyRoad.com for more information on seeing this great movie!

DGC 016 - Communicating with the Ex, Q&A

September 02, 2018 02:00 - 30 minutes - 34.4 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, answers seven questions in dealing or communicating with your Ex.  “How do I deal with my Ex?” "Advice on written communication?" "How do you deal with a false CPS accusation?" "How much effort would you promote the other side seeing their child?" "How do you deal with a child that doesn't want to visit the other parent?" "How to dealing with over communication from the Ex." "Beginning divorce, any advice?" Want to ask a question for future shows? ...

DGC 015 - Tulsa Area Attorney, James M. Wirth

August 06, 2018 03:57 - 40 minutes - 40.8 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, interviews Tulsa, OK based attorney, James M. Wirth. Together they discuss divorce and child custody Tulsa and Oklahoma based law including: 10 Day Waiting Period for divorce with no kids. 2-2-3 Plan of shared custody 50/50 custody with small kids. The Pitfalls of restraining or protective orders. The making of a good custodial parent. Interesting Oklahoma child custody law. And much, much more. Tune in to learn tips to help you in your case.

DGC 014 - LA Area Attorney, Matthew A. Breddan

July 28, 2018 11:51 - 36 minutes - 38.4 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, interviews Los Angeles / Calabasas CA attorney, Matthew A. Breddan.  Together they discuss divorce and child custody including: The reasons you need an attorney. How to work well with the attorney you pick. Interesting California child custody law. How to work with your Ex for the kids. And much, much more.  Tune in to learn tips to help you in your case.  

DGC 013 - 50 Years of Custody, Dallas Attorney James F. Newth

July 16, 2018 20:51 - 41 minutes - 41 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, interviews his attorney that won him full custody of his then, 4-year-old daughter.  They discuss their strategy, elements they did well and not so well. How to Help Your Attorney. Conversation on the Stand. The Making of a Good Custodial Parent. Chalked full of good custody tips straight from an attorney who has been practicing law for over 50 years.

DGC 012 - What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger

July 10, 2018 14:38 - 32 minutes - 34.9 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses taking the experience of fighting for custody and allowing it to change your life for good.  Really focus on becoming he better parent for your kids and learning to get along with your Ex afterwards.

DGC 011 - Winning, Losing, Modifying Custody After the Final

June 24, 2018 21:18 - 26 minutes - 26.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses winning and losing custody, contempts, modification and the reality of gaining custody after the final. In this episode Fred is going to recommend six elements your attorney needs to do when you win custody, four elements that need to be done if you lose custody, an open discussion about contempts and enforcement, and finally a detailed and story discussion about custody after the final.

DGC 010 - Do's and Don'ts Conduct Inside the Courtroom

June 20, 2018 22:24 - 21 minutes - 21.9 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses conduct and presentation in appearing and testifying in court.  How you conduct yourself says a lot in regards to your chances for full custody. Fred outlines 10 Do's you must do every time you are in court, as well as, 10 Don'ts to do in court. Custody success favors the prepared parent, be that parent!

DGC 009 - Your Final Court Case Rehearsal Dinner

June 10, 2018 18:49 - 25 minutes - 26.2 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses all the elements that make up your Final Court hearing.  Like a wedding rehearsal dinner, Fred outlines the evidence and witnesses you need to have pre-prepared for in regard to this all-important event.  Fred outlines three helpers, and eight important task you need that of your final and how to organize them into a winning case.

DGC 008 - Temporary Orders & Child Support

June 03, 2018 18:04 - 28 minutes - 28.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses your child custody temporary order hearing, what it is and how to prepare for it.  He list seven elements that will be determined during the Temporary Hearing, and 14 considerations to pre-talk with your attorney.  Then Fred outlines the four different ways child support is determined in the United States.  Treat your temporary hearing like a final when fighting for your kids.

DGC 007 - The Matrix: Custody Evaluators, Evidence & Depositions

May 26, 2018 18:00 - 26 minutes - 26.9 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses three elements to prepare ahead of time for your final court appears.  Preparing for the Custody Evaluations, How to Prepare Evidence, and finally How to Prepare and Use Depositions in Court. Social Studies, or Custody Evaluations need to be prepared for in advance, from filling out the paperwork to staging your house, plan ahead and take it serious. The bulk of evidence is your job.  From preparing witnesses, charts, calendars, and photo albums, F...

DGC 006 - The People's Court

May 19, 2018 22:28 - 26 minutes - 23 MB

  Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses the importance of your final court hearing.  Can you win custody after the final?  What is the typical flow of a judge or jury trial?  Is it like television courtroom drama? Finally, he shares how to prepare for your final court hearing.  What to do three months in advance, a week in advance and the day before. Life comes down to a few moments, your final day in court is one of them!  

DGC 005 - Moving Up the Food Chain

May 12, 2018 20:00 - 25 minutes - 21.4 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses and provides tips on dating after a divorce, thoughts, and considerations in regards to remarrying, what it takes to be a good step-parent, and the role and selection of new friends. Don't repeat the pattern, take your relationships to a new level. Move up the food chain!

DGC 004 - Custody Favors the Prepared Parent & Better Parent

May 05, 2018 22:11 - 21 minutes - 22.7 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, discusses in this episode that custody is usually won by being the most prepared parent (for court) and being the best parent.  He describes five elements judges look for in the best parent and seven tasks of a prepared parent for court.

DGC 003 - Will the Real Perry Mason Please Stand Up

April 28, 2018 15:38 - 27 minutes - 23.1 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, advises parents on the reasons for hiring a child custody attorney.  He goes on to explain the process of where to find good attorneys, how to hire them, and 20 interviewing questions to help you settle in on the best one.

DGC 002 - The Art of War, Is It Worth the Fight (for Custody)?

April 21, 2018 22:27 - 21 minutes - 22.3 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, advises parents to take a serious stake in getting divorce, filing and fighting for custody.  He tells stories on whether the custody pursuit is realistic and if so, what you should be doing first the moment you have decided to fight.

DGC 001 - Who is Full Custody Dad?

April 14, 2018 21:45 - 22 minutes - 23 MB

Fred Campos, @FullCustodyDad, kicks off his weekly podcast by explaining his 20 year experience in dealing with the court system, how he gained full custody of his then 4 year old daughter, and maintained custody until she went to college. His story outlines more than 60 court appearances, dealing with CPS, his involvement with teaching classes and courses to help other good parents gain custody of their kids.  His non-legal parenting approach will provide tips and ongoing attorney intervi...