The episode's title fits Cleveland Dads Group co-founder Darren W. Carter well, both as a foster parent of five ("As long as I am here, I'll have love to give") and aspiring pitmaster ("I'll shovel out to my pit barrel cooker before I shovel my driveway"), because parenting and barbecue are sweet sciences that benefit from the mistakes you're bound to make and learn from.

Darren says his faith helps temper his fears for the Black boys he's raising in this current climate. Join us to discuss growing up in a predominantly white suburb, that time a cop pulled a gun on him, and whether he ever dated Halle Berry.