When you can do no wrong, you leave the lessons learned buried beneath your imperfections. You know only what you know. There is no room for growth or maturity.

Our children live in their own world where they can do no wrong. As their mothers, sometimes we even think they can do no wrong.

Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT

This isn't about whether or not your child is better than someone else, it's about raising children up to become productive individuals in society ready to lead with more than their own thoughts.

When we come to the table where we can do no wrong, this idea shuts down the process of growing from our faults and failures.

Just think if your child came home and said he failed a test. But then continued to argue his point that the answers the teacher gave him were incorrect. I just don't know what happened mom. I studied and I know my stuff. What she said is wrong.

How unfair and unjust to yourself, the child. You wrong the right before it even happens based solely on what you know or what you think you know.

Parenting is not easy. But giving your children what they want including the attention of where they can do no wrong, raises up only generations that are egotistical, selfish and very self-absorbed.

And as a parent of five, that scares the daylights out of me. I do many things wrong in life when it comes to parenting, coaching, being a wife, a daughter, a friend, etc.

When we enable our children that they can do no wrong, we slam the door shut in their face of living a life on purpose. Because what we are doing is confirming their belief that no one is better than me.

And that's just not true.

If we want to raise children that opens widely the doors of opportunities and holds them accountable for their actions along with empowering them to grow and mature discovering God's plan for their lives, we must train up in love and truth.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Train up in love and truth!

No child should be broken down by berating him or her when they make a mistake. However, the other cheek cannot be turned either when the mistake is made.

As moms, we must train up in love and truth.

Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. ~ Proverbs 22:6

Here we are instructed to train up our child in the way he should go.

Show your child where the wrong occurred. Hold him accountable for the actions. (Discipline) Encourage your child to create a change or to right the wrong. (Standards) Train up in love and truth. Hold your ground. Don't back down. (Consistency) "Live. Love. IMPACT!!!"

 

TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.

Live. Love. IMPACT!  "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

 

Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.

Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora.

Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.

The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here.  http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5

Contact me at [email protected]

THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN

Instagram
@CreateYourNow
@Kristianne Wargo

Twitter
@KristianneWargo
@CreateYourNow

Facebook
www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach
www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow

 


PERISCOPE USERS!!!

Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android

Click here for APPLE Users  https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677

 

Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

http://bit.ly/9amHabits

https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/

 

DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)

1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT  http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact

2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora!

3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1

4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2

5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3

6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4

7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5

8. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com

9. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2

10. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me.

11. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library

 

Cover Art by Jenny Hamson

 

Music by Mandisa - Overcomer

http://www.mandisaofficial.com

Song ID: 68209
Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI)
9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - 
Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Twitter Mentions