From Food Stamps to Millionaire Real Estate Investor: How a Single Mother Did It

Today we are interviewing an incredible woman, Heather Self, a multi-millionaire real estate investor that literally came from nothing. I am incredibly humbled to interview her, she was a single mother of FOUR when she started her journey into real estate investing.



You can read this entire interview here: https://montecarlorei.com/how-a-single-mother-of-four-went-from-food-stamps-to-millionaire-real-estate-investor/



I am so excited that you are here to share with our audience how you started from zero, or maybe negative, why don't we get started with how you got into real estate? 

To make a long story short, otherwise we'll be here for three weeks, I'll start by saying that I got married directly out of high school. My first husband and I had our daughter and, shortly after that, I found out that my husband was using drugs. I then decided that my kids are not going to be raised like this, that this is not the lifestyle and things that I want them to know and be privy to. At the same time I also got an eviction notice on my apartment door. Keep in mind that I'm 18 years old at the time. My car was repossessed, and found out that my husband had robbed my boss at the time. I ended up losing that job too. Within a 48 hour period I had lost my job, my car, my apartment, and found out that my husband was on drugs and I was pregnant with my second child. Now I look at my calendar, and if it looks crazy for 48 hours, I don't worry about it. If I can handle all of that in 48 hours, I can do anything. Luckily, I had a wonderful, supportive family. And they told me to move back in. 

I was able to take that time and rebuild myself and figure out what I wanted out of life. And since I was pregnant, it was really difficult finding a job, and I was in the middle of all this turmoil, so what do you do? I got to the point where I didn't see any other way out but to receive welfare benefits, I had to get on food stamps, and they started offering some classes with the Welfare Reform Act. These were called Fresh Start classes in order to receive the benefit of $185 per month. The positive with that, though, is that they were offering these classes. I couldn't work at the time, so what better way to take time off and go get a different perspective. Maybe get a paradigm shift. I needed to get out of that because I knew that's not how I wanted to raise my family.



Did you need a downpayment for that?

You do need a down payment. You have to have very reasonable credit, which is also something that I was working to fix. I had already made up my mindset that I don't want to be that person that depends on somebody else for my independence, or for my children's future, or what I'm going be able to offer. That was the first time that I said "This is my responsibility and my responsibility alone to get out here and make this happen". You have to have a job for a good amount of time. You have to have decent credit. You have to have a down payment and you make mortgage payments. It's not a free house. That's a big common misconception. It is something that you have to qualify for, and very few people qualify for that. In the summer of 2001, we started building and we moved in shortly after. Going through that process you start to see that all these choices that I felt were kind of stripped away, I now had control over. And that's what that program is able to do. And that's why I'm a contributor and a donor to it now. It's very important to my life's work and what I want to do.



Heather Self

www.heatherself.com

[email protected]

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Today we are interviewing an incredible woman, Heather Self, a multi-millionaire real estate investor that literally came from nothing. I am incredibly humbled to interview her, she was a single mother of FOUR when she started her journey into real estate investing.



You can read this entire interview here: https://montecarlorei.com/how-a-single-mother-of-four-went-from-food-stamps-to-millionaire-real-estate-investor/



I am so excited that you are here to share with our audience how you started from zero, or maybe negative, why don't we get started with how you got into real estate? 

To make a long story short, otherwise we'll be here for three weeks, I'll start by saying that I got married directly out of high school. My first husband and I had our daughter and, shortly after that, I found out that my husband was using drugs. I then decided that my kids are not going to be raised like this, that this is not the lifestyle and things that I want them to know and be privy to. At the same time I also got an eviction notice on my apartment door. Keep in mind that I'm 18 years old at the time. My car was repossessed, and found out that my husband had robbed my boss at the time. I ended up losing that job too. Within a 48 hour period I had lost my job, my car, my apartment, and found out that my husband was on drugs and I was pregnant with my second child. Now I look at my calendar, and if it looks crazy for 48 hours, I don't worry about it. If I can handle all of that in 48 hours, I can do anything. Luckily, I had a wonderful, supportive family. And they told me to move back in. 

I was able to take that time and rebuild myself and figure out what I wanted out of life. And since I was pregnant, it was really difficult finding a job, and I was in the middle of all this turmoil, so what do you do? I got to the point where I didn't see any other way out but to receive welfare benefits, I had to get on food stamps, and they started offering some classes with the Welfare Reform Act. These were called Fresh Start classes in order to receive the benefit of $185 per month. The positive with that, though, is that they were offering these classes. I couldn't work at the time, so what better way to take time off and go get a different perspective. Maybe get a paradigm shift. I needed to get out of that because I knew that's not how I wanted to raise my family.



Did you need a downpayment for that?

You do need a down payment. You have to have very reasonable credit, which is also something that I was working to fix. I had already made up my mindset that I don't want to be that person that depends on somebody else for my independence, or for my children's future, or what I'm going be able to offer. That was the first time that I said "This is my responsibility and my responsibility alone to get out here and make this happen". You have to have a job for a good amount of time. You have to have decent credit. You have to have a down payment and you make mortgage payments. It's not a free house. That's a big common misconception. It is something that you have to qualify for, and very few people qualify for that. In the summer of 2001, we started building and we moved in shortly after. Going through that process you start to see that all these choices that I felt were kind of stripped away, I now had control over. And that's what that program is able to do. And that's why I'm a contributor and a donor to it now. It's very important to my life's work and what I want to do.



Heather Self

www.heatherself.com

[email protected]

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