There's nothing wrong with telling someone (who deserves it) to f*ck off.

But when you live your life from a position of "Everyone can go F themselves", it slowly destroys you.

Your living from a wounded place & under all that anger, is hurt. 

Deep hurt.

From when you were a child.

There are parts of you that are scared, terrorized & traumatized.

These wounds can heal though...

And not by putting a bandaid on it & hoping the deep cuts will just go away.

OH NO...

These wounds require a voice & to be seen & to be rewritten.

This takes a shit ton of courage & a willingness to face yourself & grow.

This process of deep healing allows you to create an UNSHAKABLE bond with yourself &  not only will you learn to trust yourself above all else, you will also fall madly in love with who you are.

And then it won't matter what other people do.

You'll stop wasting your precious energy & f*cks on people that don't matter.

XO,

Roddy


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