Leaders  live by  their  core values  and model the behavior  they  seek  with COL. Katherine Graef

COL. Katherine Graef is the current  Logistics Director of Special Operations Command Africa. Graef  has also served as the Director of Logistics in  Qatar, she commanded the  Combat Sustainment Support Battalion, and  taught as a  Military Professor at  the  Nava l War College in Newport, RI.  In this episode, Graef discusses how leading a group of high performers can  sometimes  be more challenging than leading  a group of mixed ability level.  Graef also presents how authenticity  became an explicit value for overcoming  her own adversity and through her experiences of  working with other leaders that lacked integrity and consistency.  She even admits how there were even parts of her career where she felt like a hypocrite. Listen to this Coaching Through Stories episode and learn how  Graef found her way to  authenticity  and how you can discover your own authentic path  and be your true self in the workplace.  

 

NOTE: This podcast was recorded in January 2020, shortly after an attack on US forces in Kenya. Kathy mentions this attack contemporaneously as a current event in January. This attack did not occur in April when this podcast airs. Views presented in the podcast as reflective of COL. Katherine Graef’s personal opinions and are not those of the Department of Defense or any of its components.  

  

Episode Highlights:   

Graef’s current role as Logistics Director of Special Operations Command Africa has been the most challenging but the most reward role so far in her career    “It takes moral courage to look somebody in the eye and say, ‘Hey, you’re not meeting the standard.”   When leaders are faced with an employee who does not meet expectations, focus on the outcome you seek.   Reflect as a leader and ask yourself: 1. Are you providing the right instruction for your subordinates to be successful? 2. Are you as a leader giving an underperforming subordinate the tools needed to be successful? 3. Is your training or leadership style working for all of your subordinates?   Humans in general tend to gravitate toward problem-focused solutions to resolve issues rather than solution-focused. High performers approach problems with a solution-focused mindset.   Graef will test people if she feels integrity in compromised in someone and discusses how a lack of integrity is a deal breaker for her.   Leadership authenticity shows up in a leader’s ability to be consistent in the treatment of their superiors, peers, and subordinates. “You have to model and reward the behavior you seek.” A lack of consistency in leadership reduces credibility in the organization and the organization’s values.   A lack of alignment of authenticity creates stress, Graef discusses her journey of being fully authentic and how it empowered her to fully enjoy life   As a leader, you must understand what an organization needs from you and under what competencies are required to prioritize, perform, and thrive.   Understand what your followers need from you as a leader.   A leader must set the pace to avoid burnout and live a balanced life.    A high performing leader has the ability to balance humility and confidence.   Self-awareness is critical, a leader much learn the physical symptoms that come with self-doubt and lack of confidence.   Sometimes it takes a situation or some kind of adversity to occur in order to provide the opportunity for a leader to be great instead of just average

 

Resources Mentioned:  

How We Decide  by Jonah Lehrer   Whistling Vivaldi: How Stereotypes Affect Us and What We Can Do  by Claude Steele   To learn more about how to become a resilient and adaptable leader please visit https://www.higherechelon.com/  

 

 

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