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Claiming Zero

202 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago - ★★★★★ - 28 ratings

What happens when society tells you, you have nothing to claim but "zero"? You make a podcast for the Childfree & Fencesitter community. Vanessa is a news producer with a schedule filled to the brim, and Daliyce is just trying to fill her schedule with anything but kids. Join us as we share our hilariously honest life experiences living childfree in a world full of mommy blogs.
Music by audionautix.com.
Support the show and “buy us a coffee or two” https://www.buymeacoffee.com/claimingzero
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Episodes

Ep 118: Reddit Reads w/ Basic and Boujie

June 27, 2023 10:00 - 29 minutes - 20.6 MB

It’s our first crossover episode and we’re teaming up with the Basic and Boujie Podcast! All four of us are sharing our thoughts on a Reddit post brought to the group by Daliyce and r/childfree. Follow Basic and Boujie on YouTube & IG @basicandboujiepodcast Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 117: Reasons to be Childfree: Aging Gracefully

June 20, 2023 10:00 - 36 minutes - 25.2 MB

This week we’ve found yet another reason to live Childfree. If we’re lucky enough, we’ll grow old and experience many of life’s adventures in our Golden Years. Without children, we think that experience gets a lot better. But, that’s just our opinion ;) Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 116: Meet Childfree Guest, Dane

June 13, 2023 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18.5 MB

Today Dane joins the pod and shares his deep passion and joy for the childfree community! He’s so excited about it, he even wrote a book! Check him and his book out @forgethavingkidsimhavingfun Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 115: HerStory: Martha Graham

June 06, 2023 10:00 - 31 minutes - 21.4 MB

Todays episode involves two big passions for Daliyce: living Childfree and Dance. She shares the life and legacy of Martha Graham, the mother of Modern dance and a true icon in the dance world. Do you have a passion that’s purposefully enveloped your life thanks to living without kids? Share it with us! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 114: Reddit Reads - Babysitting Expectations

May 30, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.7 MB

The Reddit topic today comes from r/AITA and it’s not even specific to being Childfree. Do you feel like you’re expected to babysit on a whim because you have “so much time”? Have you ever been left out of your family plans simply because you’re “other”? It’s another discussion about being the outcast and fighting back for yourself.  Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 113: Ways to Avoid Having Kids

May 23, 2023 10:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

You know you don’t want kids, but how do you make sure it doesn’t happen? Today Vanessa & Daliyce are talking birth control and abortion. Then we’re joined by Haley, who recently underwent sterilization surgery. Everyone has their own way of deciding how not to have kids, so let’s remember to respect those choices.  Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 112: Meet Childfree Guest, Nancy

May 16, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

Today we have Nancy from Austin, who shares her childfree journey with us. She loves her partner and their 3 dogs, baking, and the freedom to visit wineries and breweries anytime!  Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 111: HimStory: Pedro Pascal

May 09, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

On today’s episode, Vanessa shares the story of the hilarious and mucho talented, Pedro Pascal! Some of his recent roles have him playing fatherly figures, but does that make him a good candidate for becoming a father or is he just a good actor? And, is he really even childfree? Tell us what you think! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 110: Reddit Reads - Is “Childfree” a Spectrum?

May 02, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.9 MB

Here comes the controversy! Daliyce found a Reddit that immediately stuck out as something that would ruffle some feathers. Is there a concrete definition of what it means to be Childfree, or is it a broader umbrella with grey areas? Tell us your thoughts (in a kind way plz!) Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 109: Childfree News Around the World

April 25, 2023 10:00 - 30 minutes - 21.3 MB

Today's episode is a reminder that there are childfree people all around the world! However, depending on what country you live in, your ability to remain childfree and continue to have a choice varies. To read more about the articles discussed in this episode, see links below. https://time.com/6265842/south-korea-birth-rate-military-service-exemption/ https://apple.news/ABuDjE42HTqCct53LtZYxTw https://chronicle.lu/category/medical/44762-luxembourg-to-introduce-free-contraception-from-1-ap...

Mini Episode - LIB Reunion Recap!

April 20, 2023 00:00 - 29 minutes - 20.2 MB

Surprise! No, this hasn’t turned  into a reality show recap podcast. We just found out we’re both obsessed with Love is Blind and after a reunion like that, we had to share our two cents! Let us know how you’re feeling  Email - [email protected] IG/FB - @claimingzero Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 108: Meet Childfree Guest, Kendra

April 18, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

When you think of the nomadic lifestyle, RV’s and the open road are synonymous. This week Kendra shares her incredible journey (thus far) with us and brings an entirely new childfree perspective to the pod.  TW: discussion of suicide Get in touch with Kendra @kendracontinues Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 107: HerStory: Coco Chanel

April 11, 2023 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MB

Coco Chanel was a milliner, business entrepreneur, couturier, mistress to many, and an anti-semite. You read that right! This weeks episode gets into all the juicy details of the Childfree life of Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel. Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 106: Reddit Reads - Being an Aunt is Hard

April 04, 2023 10:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

This week Vanessa has a Reddit post that discusses what it’s like being an Auntie, when you just don’t feel the vibes with your niblings… aka your siblings kids/nieces/nephews!  Email - [email protected] Insta/FB - @claimingzero Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 105: Why Did Your Parents Have You?

March 28, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23.4 MB

Obviously none of the Childfree people come from Childfree parents. But, what was their reasoning for having each of us? We asked our parents, and the answers are really eye opening and have us looking at our parents in an entirely different way! So, tell us, why did your parents have you? Email: [email protected] Facebook & Instagram: @claimingzero Want info on the Childfree Cruise? Connect with Katie @cf.travelconnect Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast...

Ep 104: Meet Childfree Guest, Mike

March 21, 2023 10:00 - 36 minutes - 24.8 MB

Our first guest of Season 3  is Mike from Chicago! He's a fence sitter who has graciously offered to share his story up until now. His journey will simultaneously brings tears of grief and tears of joy. Thank you Mike for being so candid Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 103: HerStory: Megan Rapinoe

March 14, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MB

In our first Herstory episode of the season, we open with a woman who Vanessa promised one day to talk about, and today she delivered! Megan Rapinoe isn't just engaged to Sue Bird, she's also a pretty badass soccer player and social justice advocate. Enjoy this week's episode and don't forget to follow/rate/review/subscribe wherever you're listening. Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 102: Reddit Reads - No Kids Menu

March 07, 2023 11:00 - 28 minutes - 19.8 MB

Our first Reddit episode of the season is a good one! A NJ restaurant has decided not to serve children under 10 and the movement of more adult only spaces has begun! Be sure to show some love to Nettie’s House of Spaghetti and your two favorite podcasters with a coffee below ;) Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 101: Reasons to be Childfree - Divorce

February 28, 2023 11:00 - 30 minutes - 21.2 MB

Welcome to Season 3! To start things off, we're going back to another reason to remain Childfree by Choice. But is this one really true? Only the research can tell us. Listen in and share your opinions on the topic with a DM @claimingzero or an email [email protected] As always, don't forget to follow/rate/review and if you're feeling generous, support the pod below Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingz...

EPISODE 100!

January 24, 2023 11:00 - 40 minutes - 28.1 MB

We did it! We made it to 100! February 2, 2021, we posted the very first podcast episode. It was meant as a hobby & a way to stay in touch while living 1000’s of miles apart. We’ve built a community who we want to thank for being a part of the podcast and our lives! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Claiming Zero Request Hotline

January 17, 2023 11:00 - 9 minutes - 6.25 MB

During our live recording of our 100th episode in Las Vegas, we want to answer some of your burning questions! Send us any questions you have from things related to being childfree to favorite pizza to deep burning personal questions! Post them to our Instagram or email us at [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 99: Meet Childfree Guest, Devin

January 10, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

Devin! We know him! After 2 years and 99 episodes, the infamous Devin is here! Vanessa’s partner and the mastermind behind the naming of Claiming Zero is chatting with us for our penultimate Season 2 episode. Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 98: HerStory: Sandra Oh

January 03, 2023 11:00 - 27 minutes - 19.1 MB

On today’s episode, Daliyce is sharing the life story (so far) of Sandra Oh! She’s had the acting bug since she was 10 years old and hasn’t stopped since! From film to TV to real life, Sandra Oh is a Childfree icon  we absolutely adore! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 97: Reddit Reads - When Tragedy Strikes

December 27, 2022 11:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

This week Vanessa found a Reddit post that she really connected with. Listen as she shares a personal story of a recent experience she and her family went through. Some life experiences make us thankful to be childfree and if you ever need a shoulder to lean on, we’re here! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 96: Childfree Holidays

December 20, 2022 11:00 - 32 minutes - 22.5 MB

Happy holidays to all of our listeners! We’re in the thick of it and ‘tis the season for plenty of fun (and not always fun) festivities with friends and family. Today the girls are chatting about being childfree during the holiday season. Tell us about the good and bad happening in your life [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 95: Meet Childfree Guest, Kelsey

December 13, 2022 11:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MB

This week we’re talking to Kelsey aka @DiaryoftheChildfree and we realized something many of us have in common. At first glance, we all thought we were alone in our childfree journey, but once we started creating our own content, we saw just how many of us are out there! You are not alone. We’re here! Never be afraid to reach out [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 94: HerStory: Sue Bird

December 06, 2022 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

This week Vanessa is taking her shot (pun intended) at sharing the story of an incredible athlete. WNBA rockstar Sue Bird is maybe more of a fence sitter, but when your fiancé is Megan Rapinoe and your lives as professional athletes are always busy, kids are something that often take the back burner. Send us your Herstory suggestions with a DM @claimingzero and buy us a coffee at the link below Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] ...

Ep 93: Reddit Reads - To Aunt or Not To Aunt

November 29, 2022 11:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MB

This week Daliyce reads a Reddit post from r/AmItheAsshole and it’s a doozy! It has moms, newborns, selfish comments, childfree outcasts, and more! Tell us your thoughts on the post @claimingzero and don’t forget to register for our Childfree Weekend in Las Vegas! Buy us a "coffee" at the link below Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 92: Childfree News

November 22, 2022 11:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MB

This week Daliyce and Vanessa break down some various news articles and topics circling the world of the Childfree community. If you've seen or read something positive, be sure to send it on over [email protected] and don’t forget to send some love by buying us a coffee at the link below Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 91: Meet Childfree Guest, Jordan

November 15, 2022 11:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MB

This week Daliyce is flying solo but she's got a great cohost in Jordan, who runs the Childless & Childfree Instagram Violet_Unexplained. This week Jordan is sharing her story; a journey that began with being Childless due to Infertility to making a decision to be Childfree. Feel free to reach out and share your story [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 90: HerStory: Sarah Grimke & Captain Kate McCue

November 08, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 42.1 MB

This week Daliyce and Vanessa are each going to share a Childfree story of 2 incredible women. Daliyce will share the life story of Sarah Grimke, whose birthday is a mere 16 years after the birth of the United States of America. Vanessa went for a listener request, and shares the journey of Captain Kate McCue and how she became a cruise ship captain! If you know of a Childfree person whose story should be shared with the world, send us a DM @claimingzero or email us claimingzeropodcast@gmail...

Ep 89: Reddit Reads - Halloween as a Childfree Person

November 01, 2022 10:00 - 31 minutes - 21.7 MB

This week Vanessa shares two Reddit posts from r/childfree about Halloween. Discussion includes who gets to celebrate, the expectation of decorations and giving out candy, and the reason why Vanessa didn’t celebrate as a kid. Share your favorite Halloween costume photos with us [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 88: Dedicated to the Fencesitters

October 25, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.5 MB

This week it’s time to show up for the fencesitters and get a better understanding of what it’s like to be unsure of whether or not you want kids. And we want to be sure everyone in our community knows, it’s ok to not know! We’re not here to convince anyone of one choice or another; we just want everyone to feel heard and understood. Tell us your story [email protected] Don't forget to take our Childfree Weekend Survey on our Instagram page @ClaimingZero Support the Show. Patre...

Ep 87: Meet Childfree Guest, Diana

October 18, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 21.3 MB

On today’s episode we get to chat with Diana, one of our kindest and sweetest guests! She has made the decision to remain Childfree, but as a first generation Asian American woman there was a lot of pressure from family and the history of her culture that made the decision difficult to come out with. Let us know your story with an email [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 86: We Interrupt Your Regularly Scheduled Program to Bring You…

October 11, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.9 MB

… a random episode in the midst of our busy lives and talk more about our IN PERSON CHILDFREE WEEKEND! Today we’re just chatting and catching up with each other and filling you in on what’s in store for our Childfree Vegas Weekend! Complete the survey using the link in our Instagram Bio Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 85: Reddit Reads - Look Both Ways

October 04, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MB

SPOILER ALERT! If you haven’t watched Look Both Ways on Netflix, do it before you listen to this week's episode! Vanessa convinced Daliyce this was a good movie so she watched it. She wasn’t the only one because Reddit also had something to say about it, so we joined the millions and chatted about it, too. Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 84: Leaving a "Legacy"

September 27, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes - 21.1 MB

On today’s episode we’re discussing the concept of a legacy and what it means for people who are childfree. Parents (men in particular) often claim the need to leave a legacy is their reason for wanting offspring, but there’s no guarantee that legacy will even make a difference after you’re gone.  Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 83: Meet Childfree Guest, Josh

September 20, 2022 10:00 - 24 minutes - 16.7 MB

This weeks episode guest is Josh from MN and Josh just recently got a vasectomy! We were so curious about his childfree life and what brought him to make the decision to get snipped. This is great info for everyone who is certain they want to remain childfree and we hope you appreciate his candor. But also, see a doctor for the facts and don't take medical advice from strangers! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claiming...

Ep 82: HerStory: Julia Child

September 13, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MB

On today's episode, Daliyce takes us through the many accomplishments and fascinating life of Julia Child. She was a renowned cookbook author, essentially started the cooking show genre of TV, and lived one of the most extraordinary lives as a Childfree woman. Next time you take a picture your food or find some fabulous recipe on Pinterest, think of our gal Julia! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 81: Reddit Reads - Being Treated Differently Than Parents

September 06, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

This week Vanessa has two Reddit posts for us!  The first one is about being treated as less of an adult (or less mature) compared to those who are mothers. The second one is about celebrating the big and small milestones of our fabulous lives. DM us @claimingzero about an accomplishment from your life so we can all celebrate together! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 80: How to Talk About Being Childfree

August 30, 2022 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MB

Today we discuss how we like to approach talking about our decision (and contemplation) around being childfree. Talking about ourselves and having conversations about life’s choices definitely varies on the individual. How much you want to share or keep to yourself is up to you and while we always want people to be respectful, it can be hard sometimes! Share your story with us [email protected] Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: claimingzeropodcas...

Ep 79: Meet Childfree Guest, Margaret

August 23, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MB

Are you or is someone you know on the fence about having kids? Margaret is here to help counsel and guide people towards making the serious decision about whether or not to have children. She never pressures anyone to feel one way or the other, but knows that it’s helpful to have someone help you along the path for counsel and guidance. Visit her website www.arekidsforme.ie and follow her on Instagram @arekidsforme Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: claimingz...

Ep 78: HimStory: Jack Daniel

August 16, 2022 10:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MB

Jack Daniel? Thee Jack Daniel of whiskey making fame?! That’s right! Vanessa discovered that the distiller himself was Childfree so we’re getting a little history lesson about whiskey and the man we know on a first name basis. Cheers! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 77: Reddit Reads - Friends with Kids

August 09, 2022 10:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MB

Today's episode asks whether or not Childfree people can have friends with kids. There are some strong opinions about this one, but honestly, it's up to you! Are you the kind of person who can handle all that comes with mom friends or would you rather not even bother? Tell us where you fall with a DM @claimingzero Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 76: Childfree Summer 2022

August 02, 2022 10:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MB

Summertime is the season for vacations and hot days out by the pool. Daliyce and Vanessa chat about how their summers are going and what it's like on those annual family vacations as Childfree adults. We’d love to hear about your summer so give us a shout [email protected]  Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 75: Meet Childfree Guest, Sarah

July 26, 2022 10:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MB

Today we talk with student and childfree by choice listener, Sarah! She’s got a great point about the age of social media and her self awareness gives us hope that the future of our community is going to thrive! We appreciate what all generations have to bring to the table and we gotta say,  Gen Z, you’re going to do just fine! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 74: HerStory: Ava and Kathy and Fortune

July 19, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MB

On today’s episode, Daliyce shares the stories of 3 incredible women in various aspects of the entertainment industry! Not everyone who lives their life without children is as open about it as us, and that’s ok! These 3 women don’t have kids and we’re fairly certain they don’t want them, and that’s all we need to feel connected to them and the Childfree community. Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 73: Reddit Reads - One For the Guys

July 12, 2022 10:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB

This week Vanessa has a Reddit post that asks a pretty good question for the guys! Since we’re both women, we put our two cents in, but really have no idea what men are actually thinking. We invite the guys of childfree status to reach out and tell us everything! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingzeropodcast Email: [email protected] IG/FB: @claimingzero

Ep 72: Reasons to be Childfree: Biology

July 05, 2022 10:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

TW: Todays episode talks about being pregnant and giving birth. This week we wanted to share a more physical (and mental) reason for why people may chose to remain childfree. The biology (we are definitely not scientists!) and the way bodies can change during gestation can affect people negatively and be traumatic. While it’s just one moment in your life, birthing a child can have lasting affects that we just don’t want to risk dealing with! Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.com/claimingz...

Ep 71: Meet Childfree Guest, Marcia

June 28, 2022 11:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MB

This weeks guest is considered to be a pioneer of the modern childfree movement (at least to us)! Marcia’s story is an incredible journey that played out in the public eye when 60 minutes approached her to “come out” as childfree to her in-laws on their show. Listen as she shares how her life has meaning and purpose and is so full of love that you’d think she’s never heard a “bingo” in her nearly 80 years of life! Follow her on instagram @childfree_guru Support the Show. Patreon: patreon.c...