116: Rejection, Being Chosen, Societal Pressures, Triggers, & Intentional Dating feat. Todd Dorsey, Becca von Bereghy, Taylor Peterson, & Mariam Hassan

ChaseLife with Kelly

English - July 09, 2024 13:30 - 1 hour - 59.3 MB - ★★★★★ - 42 ratings
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Previous Episode: 115: Edging to Expansion with Keri Ford

In this episode, we chat with Todd Dorsey, Becca, Taylor & Mari, and dive deeper towards the pressure put on women by society, self-discovery, empowerment, and the significance of self-respect and honesty in relationships. Get ready to unlock the secrets to loving and creating more peace for yourself.

[4:12] Societal Pressure

“The doctor was like ‘You need to have kids by 35’… That is so much pressure for any woman.”

[6:42] Expectations

“Sometimes it feels like all of your (women) happiness, hopes, and dreams hinge on us (men)… It’s almost like they want me to fit this role for them.”

[9:20] Double Standards and Self-Pressure

“When I see a 50-year-old (man) at the club, it’s nothing new, but when I see a 35-year-old woman who is single with no kids,’What’s wrong with her?’”

[12:30] Wanting to be Chosen

“At the end of the day… I wanted the attention, I wanted to be chosen… I wanted you to follow through and I felt like I was let down.”

[18:52] Romeo-and-Juliet Relationship

I don’t regret the relationship… He just wasn’t right for the things I was ready for.”

[24:34] Managing Emotions

“I don’t care what happened because it happened and there’s nothing I could do… I can only control how I react.”

[36:00] First Impressions

“Guys in first month or so....they put on an act and impress, and I heard it from multiple men, guy friends, guys I did a podcast with, to impress a girl.”

[38:14] Men fickleness

“When a guys is setting a girl for an expectation of a relationship that he has no intention of fulfilling, he is immediately creating a problem for himself.”

[39:59] Woman’s Strong Intuitions

“It's crazy when a woman's body acts up...intuition is real”

[42:30] Friendly Love

“When people in your life who love you, are seeing you in your best-self...they are seeing you for who you are and they will protect that person.”

[44:44] Taking Responsibility

“Taking responsibility. You can free yourself and it creates a lot more peace about how you feel towards that other person.”

[48:30] Don’t Stop Being Kind

“If you're a person who has so much love and light and you have your heart broken, don't stop putting that love in the Universe because it will come back to you.”

[53:55] Men as Catalyst of Relationships

“Every relationship is basically started by men, we're the ones that do the pursuing.”

[59:30] Seek and Provide Honesty

“If I want someone to be honest with me. I need to incentivize the honesty… I’ll be like I legit want what’s best for you.”