Catholic Life Coach For Men
205 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 days ago - ★★★★★ - 35 ratingsAs a modern Catholic guy, it's hard to find the balance. We know that God should come first, but what does that really mean? We know we're supposed to love our wife, but how do I do that when I'm overwhelmed by work and kids?
This podcast is dedicated to those guys who really want to grow and become the man God created them to be. You'll find both practical strategies for managing life and better ways to view and engage the world. Join Life Coach Michael Jaquith and take one step closer to standing tall in the sight of the Father.
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198 - Deacons of Hope with Dr Kevin Cummings
May 01, 2024 09:00 - 52 minutes - 28.3 MBThe Pro-Life cause is near and dear to many Catholics' hearts. Yet, a lot of us, with good intention, write a check, pray, and hope that's enough. Here's a great story about a group of Deacons who set out to do more. Join me in this episode as Deacon Dr. Kevin Cummings shares the story of Deacons of Hope. While based in Kansas, they are looking to expand. They created an amazing way to help women who were considering abortion; they support, treat, and train these women for success in lif...
196 - Time and Purpose with David Buck
April 29, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 37 MBMost of us believe that God has a plan for us. Probably even a purpose...but do we know what it is? Have you done the work to really connect deeply with God's plan for you? If so, have you gone even further and aligned your time, your calendar, and your life with that purpose? Join me in this episode as David Buck shares both his story and his wisdom about this topic. Like many of us, God has regularly given David a radical turn in the "plan" of his life. As David learned to navigate t...
197 - How To Find The Real Issue
April 23, 2024 09:00 - 32 minutes - 27.9 MBWe all get triggered. Some of us, frequently. When we get triggered, we love to point the finger at the other person, at the situation, even at God. But what if the right person to point the finger at is ourselves? My claim to you is that you have the power to solve your own triggers, to create your own responses that you choose. You can do it by finally getting to the bottom of what in your life controls you. Join me in this episode as I walk through a process to help sort out and con...
195 - The Trap of Addiction with Logan Hufford
April 10, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MBThere are some addictions and traps that God lets us get out of pretty easy, but there are some that are really tough. Often we persuade ourselves that we can do it, or that it'll be enough to just get mostly clean - but we're wrong. We delay the healing through self deception. Join me in this episode as Logan Hufford shares his story of a severe sexual addiction and the years he spent struggling for freedom. So often he deceived even himself about what was going on. Even in his darkes...
194 - Community and Mentorship with Terry Allen
April 08, 2024 09:00 - 43 minutes - 25.2 MBMost of us have been blessed repeatedly in life by another person offering wisdom and perspective. Sometimes it was a formal mentorship, sometimes simply a random passing. There's something fundamental to the human experience to learn from and be in community with other humans. Our modern world is quietly suffering in extreme isolation. We've never been so lonely. But we don't have to stay alone! Join me in this episode as Terry Allen describes a new program he is launching to provide ...
193 - Escape Addiction with Nico Morales
April 03, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 38.8 MBAddiction can leave one feeling utterly trapped, helpless, and powerless. It's so hard to escape, and even harder yet to hold onto hope. Yet we are never too far gone for God's mercy. Join me in this episode as Nico Morales shares his amazing story of addiction, escape, falling again, and escape again. God's love and grace are what save us all, but not everyone's story shows that love and grace quite so powerfully! You can read more about Nico at his website: https://nohalonm.com/
192 - Suffering and Marriage with Steve Thomas
April 01, 2024 09:00 - 52 minutes - 28.9 MB"Marriage is the primordial sacrament" - a comment understood by almost none of us. We know that marriage matters, intellectually at least. But how do we actually live out our marriage? How do we capture that sacramental grace in a practical way? Join me in this episode as Catholic author Steve Thomas and I walk through what it means to be a man who is committed to living his marital sacrament in the modern day. It is not an easy, or painless, path. It's a cross, in the most painful of...
191 - Music and Purpose with John Michael Talbot
March 27, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 33.3 MBThe early church (and much of the modern Eastern church) had this strong Contemplative component that provided a powerful basis for Christians. This component is, sadly, mostly missing from our modern western Latin Rite Catholicism. But what if what we lost is actually really important? What if we need both contemplative time and community life at times? Join me in this episode as Catholic music composer and community founder John Michael Talbot talks about his life with me. He not onl...
190 - Differences Between Coaching and Therapy
March 20, 2024 09:00 - 33 minutes - 28.2 MBOne of the most common questions I get is what are the actual differences between Coaching and Therapy. While there are some common challenges between them, there are also some significant differences. Coaching, much like in a gym, is much more of a push to do your best. Therapy, at it's finest, is a gentle nurturing restoration of traumatic damage. There's a time and a place for each, but there's definitely a modern trend to turn to therapy too quickly for too many things. Join me in th...
189 - Conquering Addiction with Ryan Penley
March 18, 2024 09:00 - 53 minutes - 29 MBWe all get into a low slump at times in our lives. Some of those times are lower than others. Most men, when we get into a sticky and dark situation, really struggle to accept help. It seems like simply too much. Join me in this episode as Ryan Penley shares his story of addiction, and how one man's tenderness and gentleness finally cut through his defensive shell and inspired him to get help. Wherever you are in your struggles, or if you know someone else who is struggling, kindness, te...
188 - A Conversion Story with Bill Yoh
March 13, 2024 09:00 - 43 minutes - 24.1 MBSo often, when God tells us His plan, we resist. We fight it, we avoid it, we might even ignore it. But the Hound of Heaven is not so easily avoided. Sometimes it might take more than 40 years, but He comes for us relentlessly. Join me in this episode as Bill Yoh shares his life and conversion story. We talk through some of his difficult moments and what they mean for us men now. You can find out more about Bill and his book at his website: https://unvarnishedfaith.com/
187 - Let Go Of The Past
March 11, 2024 09:00 - 31 minutes - 26.7 MBWe all know we're supposed to forgive. It should be simple, it should be straightforward. But the truth is it's not only complicated, but extremely difficult. Often we don't even realize when we're failing to forgive. Historians often say that those who do not study the past are doomed to repeat it. I would add that those who do not forgive past hurts are doomed to repeat them. Join me in this episode as I walk through both the metaphysics of forgiveness and some practical ways to real...
186 - Follow Gods Plan with Brandon Davis
March 04, 2024 10:00 - 50 minutes - 30.6 MBMost of us already feel overwhelmed, like we cannot get everything done we need to. The thought of slowing down to do something else feels impossible. When God suggests a path that isn't already on our list - it's hard. Yet often, when we surrender the first fruits of our time to God, He gives us far more in return. Join me in this episode as Brandon Davis shares how God transformed his life. At the age of 18, Brandon put everything on hold to go into mission for 2 years. Although many t...
185 - How To Understand Women
February 26, 2024 22:53 - 46 minutes - 36.4 MBWhether you're married or not, it's a safe assumption to say you've been confused by how women think. All men are, at least sometimes. But what if there were at least some guidelines to help you better understand her? Join me in this episode as I offer you 10 different perspectives on specific ways that women think differently from men. I also offer you some specific tips and tricks to help you better understand and connect with a woman. Both men and women are created in the image of God...
184 - Radical Catholic Responsibility
February 19, 2024 10:00 - 27 minutes - 22.7 MBWe love the stories of the heroes, the underdogs, and the winners. We revel in the touchdown throw that wins the superbowl. We sometimes even cry as the hero in the movie sacrifices everything. Yet we so often fail to live our potential in our own lives. What if "taking radical responsibility," "extreme ownership," and "radical accountability" are actually very Catholic ideas, consistent with the teachings of the church? Join me in this episode as I explore the idea that not only is ta...
183 - Catholic Parenting with Nancy Bandzuch
February 14, 2024 10:00 - 48 minutes - 28.9 MBIt's always been hard to be a parent of a large family. It's even harder these days. The entire culture often seems aligned against us. Even our own church members often seem upset with large families during mass. It's often lonely, isolating, and so frustrating. But you're not alone. Join me in this episode as Nancy Bandzuch talks about the new show put out by the Augustine Institute called "The Catholic Parent." It will help you feel like you're not alone and also help you to be a be...
182 - Stop Fighting with Daryl Dittmer
February 12, 2024 10:00 - 54 minutes - 30.2 MBSurrender is a funny concept. Sometimes we need to fight for what's right. Sometimes we just need to surrender and accept what is. Always, we are in a struggle to balance the two. Join me in this episode as Daryl Dittmer and I discuss how to build a life that is fulfilling and purposeful. We all come from broken beginnings - some more broken than others. What we do what that makes the difference for where our lives go. When we surrender, stop fighting, and accept what actually works,...
181 - Encouraging Youth with Ahmard Vital
February 07, 2024 10:00 - 55 minutes - 30.1 MBAre frustrated and unsure about how to really reach your teenage (or even 20's) son? Have you tried a lot, but they just don't seem interested? Maybe your son isn't yet a teenager, but you're worried because other dads you know have shared some unsettling stories? Join me in this episode as Ahmard Vital shares both his story, as well as practical lessons from his work with young men. It's hard to be a male of any age in our world right now, but particularly hard on the youth. Our only...
180 - How To Seek Greatness
February 05, 2024 10:00 - 35 minutes - 28.5 MBSo many men are slowly dying inside as they choose comfort or convenience over the greater calling that God has placed within their lives. Mostly because that battle is scary! It will cost you greatly. The cost to inaction, however, is actually greater. Join me in this episode as I talk about how it takes a balance of both humility and magnanimity to counter pride. It takes a willingness to embrace discomfort as part of the pursuit of adventure that God has planned for your life. You...
179 - How to discern a change
January 29, 2024 10:00 - 26 minutes - 21.9 MBThere's a number of times in life we come to a potential crossroads in our life. We can either stumble along on our own, or we can bring God into the process. One of those works a whole lot better than others Join me in this episode as I discuss how you can include God in your discernment process and make a decision that you will respect. To stand strong as a man and lead your marriage and family, you must be able to make a strong decision, aligned with God's will, and stand in confidenc...
178 - Entitlements and Frozen Pipes
January 22, 2024 10:00 - 38 minutes - 31.6 MBIt's not common for an event to take over your life. In that list is frozen main water supply during winter. That's the story that starts this podcast episode. It's funny how God takes away anything we choose over Him. While often extremely painful, it is effective at pointing out our entitlements. Join me in this episode as I share how a really horrible week allowed me to improve my gratitude and humility. God's plans are sometimes painful, but to trust in Him is always the invitation. ...
177 - Orphan to Inner Hero with David Ask
January 19, 2024 20:45 - 49 minutes - 28.9 MBDeep inside every man is a boy desiring to become a hero. So often this boy gets stomped, beaten down, and stuffed into the corner of the needs of the world. Yet he's still there, in each of us men - longing for greatness. Longing to finally find and slay the dragon. Longing to be accepted and welcomed by the Father. Join me in this episode as David Ask and I have an amazing conversation about the inner call and journey of manhood. Where are we going, what's important, and how do we be...
175 - Why Men Must Honor Their Word
January 08, 2024 10:00 - 36 minutes - 29.6 MBMost men would acknowledge they should keep their word - but so many of us really don't make it a priority. If our wife gets upset, or if the kids are worked up, or maybe even if I just don't feel great; I'm all too ready to bail on a commitment. What if our failure to honor our word is actually a far bigger deal than we want to admit? Join me in this episode as I discuss why your word is so critical to your identity and strength as a man. I also discuss some practical ways to improve yo...
176 - Strong and Dangerous with Jason Perry
January 03, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 32.2 MBTo say that we don't really see a lot of great masculine examples is an understatement. Even the idea of a "Strong man" sounds scary to a lot of people. But what if men are supposed to be strong? Competent? Dangerous, even? Join me in this episode as former Navy Seal and police officer Jason Perry shares his journey into the faith and authentic masculinity. Men are supposed to be powerful and dangerous. Yet so few of us live into that potential. You can read more about Jason on his web...
174 - Mentorship and Healing Prayer with Dr David Chotka
December 27, 2023 10:00 - 58 minutes - 31.1 MBI have a confession to make. Don't tell - at least not too many. Most of us Catholics aren't very good at praying for (and expecting!) really big miracles. We tend to get lost in repetitive prayer (which is good) and forget that Christ gave the power for miracles to us too - not just to Protestants. Join me in this podcast as Dr. David Chotka shares some powerful stories - both about prayer and mentorship in his life and healing prayer in general. He has powerful stories about the miracu...
173 - What Isn't Transformed is Transmitted
December 25, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 27.1 MBI bet you're a pretty good dad, right? You provide and shelter. You do your best to engage. You try to keep them safe. But what if there's a lurking problem that you aren't addressing? What if the problem is inside of you? Join me in this episode as I explore how critically important it is for us men to engage in self work. The problems in ourselves that we allow to remain will be transmitted on to our children and even our grandchildren. The devil is motivated to keep you complace...
172 - Introspective Humility with Eric Sardina
December 20, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 39.1 MBThere's a lot of self-help advice out there today. A lot of quick fixes and cures that will solve any problem! Yet all the ones that actually work come down to the same basic premise: Are you willing to actually look inside at the parts of yourself that are less flattering, accept they are there, and work on them? Join me in this episode as fellow Executive and Life Coach Eric Sardina shares his story and his perspective on what's going on with men right now. We talk about some real prac...
171 - Embrace Masculinity with Nico Lagan
December 18, 2023 10:00 - 53 minutes - 30.6 MBSociety's plan for men doesn't work. This should not be a surprise to any of us. But what do we do about it? How are Christian men supposed to lead in our current world? Join me in this episode as Nico Lagan and I open up what it means to be a man of radical responsibility, purpose, and fulfillment. He shares his story of how he found Christ, and what effect that has had on his life. We men need to lean into our strengths and take responsibility. The only thing worse is to not do it....
170 - Families Need Support
December 11, 2023 10:00 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MBFamilies are suffering - this is not a novel claim, but one we aren't discussing much. We are more isolated than ever. Lonely, overwhelmed, and stressed out; parents of young families are suffering. But what do we do? Join me in this episode as I explore this issue. It is a nearly universal problem in our ultra-mobile world. How do we help our family to thrive despite such a hostile environment? It's up to us husbands to lead. We have to step up our game. Now, more than ever.
169 - Radical Authenticity
December 04, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 27.9 MBEver notice how great men and women can say more with their presence that some can with many words? While we all know that actions speak louder than words, what happens when our actions and words speak the same? Join me in this episode as I explore the idea of Authenticity. What does it mean to be authentic, and why is it important? How do we remain authentic knowing that we also sin? What do we do when we do fail? These are hard questions that must be worked through with faith and hum...
168 - Special Needs and Catholic Post Scandal with Rob Ralston
November 29, 2023 10:00 - 51 minutes - 30.5 MBThis is almost a two-part episode. There are two great conversations here - don't miss it. Why would anyone be Catholic after the revelation of the terrible scandals? How do parents deal with special needs children? Join me in this episode as Rob Ralston and I explore these two issues. They are not simple or safe, but they are important. You can find out more about Rob Ralston at: https://www.icf-coaching.org/lifecoachingforspecialneedsfamilies-com/profile/
167 - My Conversion Story
November 27, 2023 10:00 - 52 minutes - 42.2 MBI've spoken before about the story of where and how I grew up. I've mentioned parts of how I found the faith. But how did I find the Catholic church amidst all that hurt? Join me in this episode as I tell the story of my journey to the faith. It's a bit dark at moments, and definitely far from perfect, but I think it's a powerful story.
166 - All In with Aaron Guyett
November 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 38.2 MBSo many of us have the idea that we're on the Godly path, but are afraid to surrender that last little bit. We give *almost* everything, and can sometimes fail to notice that there's something left to give. Yet God will often bring us a juncture in life where we are directly confronted to our need to surrender even that last bit. Join me in this episode as Aaron Guyett shares his story about how he was a great warrior and had everything but God, but really had nothing at all. He shares...
165 - SSA Discussion
November 20, 2023 10:00 - 49 minutes - 39.5 MBThere is no doubt that sexuality is a very hot and politically charged topic right now - both in the church and the culture in general. I have no doubt that some who listen to this episode will find something (or perhaps many things) I say offensive. Nevertheless I have worked with too many Catholics who are struggling with SSA and too many Catholics who are not, but are unsure what to think or say about this issue. Join me in this episode for a direct, open, and honest discussion about ...
164 - Inner Demons
November 13, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 27.5 MBMost of us are pretty negative in our own heads. We tend not to speak kindly to ourselves. At first glance, that might not seem that important, right? What if I claim to you that how you speak to yourself is actually critically important to the success and peace of your family? Join me in this episode as I discuss the responsibility and power we husbands and fathers have to create and point towards the good via our words. You are made in the image and likeness of God. Your words, spoken ...
163 - Marriage Coaching Part 1 with Kelly Dupee
November 08, 2023 20:00 - 55 minutes - 32.5 MBMarriage is hard. I sometimes wonder if I should dedicate an entire series to "How To Improve Your Marriage." It is in many ways a lynchpin to your entire success and happiness. The second most important part of your life is your marriage. As a husband, you have a duty to your wife and family that is higher than that to anyone other than God. Do not accept mediocrity! Join me in this episode as Christian Marriage Coach Kelly Dupee and I discuss our coaching work with Christian marriage...
162 - Lead Into Fun
November 06, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutes - 22 MBLet's be honest. Most of us men are not leading our wives well. Most of us struggle to lead our children to the dinner table, let alone manage the complicated balance of large family leadership! What if I gave you a secret to one aspect of leadership that could help you improve in other areas as well? One of the least understood leadership directions I find in the men I work with is the leadership into fun. Join me in this episode as I explore what it means to lead our wives and family...
161 - Surrender Myself To Better Love with Bill Senyard
October 30, 2023 09:00 - 52 minutes - 29.6 MBWe live in a rough time. Despite all the knowledge, grace, and blessings that come from being a Christian, many of us regularly fall radically short of the mark. We miss opportunities to really show a deep and powerful love to our spouses, our children, and our communities. We're so focused on the hyper rational that we've lost site that God's love isn't rational. And ours isn't supposed to be either. Join me in this episode as Dr. Bill Senyard returns to the show. We have a fantastic d...
160 - Free From Weight with Alan Thomas
October 23, 2023 09:00 - 50 minutes - 24.4 MBSo many people think "weight loss" is just about a diet. We also think that being "overweight" is just a problem for another day. But what if underneath our wide-spread problem with weight is a series of crippling fears, doubts, and stories that are dragging down many parts of our lives, not merely our trousers. Weight loss isn't about looking good. It's about living a life of freedom, free to pursue what God made you for! Join me in this episode as my guest Alan Thomas explores his ...
159 - Forgiveness
October 16, 2023 09:00 - 29 minutes - 22.9 MBOur Lord explicitly commands us to "forgive," but it's stinkin' hard! We know we should do it, but we often don't know how - not even how to start. Yet what if this seemingly impossible task is actually the key to unlocking our greatest desires and needs in relationships? Forgiveness can heal marriages, restore friendships, connect with lost loved ones, and open the channels to God's grace to flow into every part of our lives. Yet we fight it so hard! Join me in this episode as I exp...
158 - True Freedom with Massimo Rigotti
October 09, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 34.7 MBSo many of us are hurting badly right now. This decade may well be remembered as the decade when emotional wounds and pain reached an all time high. All too often, we struggle ever more to fill that painful gap with anything at all that we hope will make us feel better. Money. Alcohol. Success. Sex. Porn. Gambling. Whatever it is. It doesn't work. It just slowly bleeds us dry until we come up against the inevitable wall of our own inadequacy. Join me in this episode as Massimo Rigotti ...
157 - Leave No Soul Behind with Fred Vilbig
October 02, 2023 09:00 - 51 minutes - 24.7 MBChrist commissioned his disciples to spread the Good News to everyone throughout the world. While this has always been challenging, it is even harder in our "post-Christian" world. It's very clear that arguments are rarely effective. Join me in this episode as Fred Vilbig shares his story and how he shares his faith with everyone - including his fallen-away children. This is a challenge that many Catholic parents are struggling with, uncertain how to reach them. As a father of 11 child...
156 - Why with Cory Rosenke
September 25, 2023 09:00 - 48 minutes - 27.3 MBDeep down, we all (even non-Christians) know that there has to be some part of us beyond our brains and bodies. Those deepest parts have yearnings that call us to search for something that is not material. Those yearnings call us to search for God. Though, we do get confused sometimes. Join me in this episode as Cory Rosenke shares how his yearnings (and and irrepressible urge to ask "Why?") lead him to his faith and to God. We talk about how the deepest issues of identity, purpose, miss...
155 - Beauty and Connection with Michaell Magrutsche
September 18, 2023 09:00 - 47 minutes - 26.7 MBWe live in an age that emphasizes systems, order, processes, logic, and efficiency as a primary purpose of our work. In many ways, these indeed have brought tremendous comfort, safety, and convenience to our lives. But what if we've lost something also? What if this overemphasis on systems has cost us the meaning, purpose, and connection that makes human life ultimately worth living? Join me in this episode as I'm joined by a rather unusual guest. Many of you know that I'm an engineering...
154 - Love Your Neighbor As Yourself
September 11, 2023 23:01 - 35 minutes - 27.1 MBThe Second Greatest Commandment is to "Love Your Neighbor As Yourself." Sounds simple enough, right? Maybe not. First, what does it mean to love "yourself?" Most of us, if we spoke the truth, actually think very poorly of ourselves. We treat ourselves horribly, stealing from our own futures. We are unkind and speak to ourselves with anger. Then we proceed to "love" our neighbor in the same way. Join me in this episode as I talk about what we can do to better understand how to live th...
153 - Phase 2 - Seriously?
August 28, 2023 17:15 - 42 minutes - 32.3 MBThere's a lot of reasons when It is sometimes off the table. But almost all of them make it harder to be a good husband. What's worse, for a couple practicing NFP in order to avoid conception, the time when It is off the table is also the time when both parties want It the most! This is not easy. Join me in this episode as I talk about some practical ways to look at Phase 2 of NFP, as well as some rules for how to navigate Phase 2. This is not a universally agreed upon topic, and I att...
152 - Applied Love Language with Paul Zolman
August 22, 2023 09:00 - 44 minutes - 23.6 MBPerhaps you've heard about Gary Chapman's idea that we communicate love as a particular "language." Perhaps you've even done a little bit of work and learned you and your wife's Love Language. But how do you really use the love languages to help your wife feel loved? Join me in this episode as I bring in a Love Language expert (not to be confused with the Love Experts from the Frozen movie series.) Mr Paul Zolman shares his practical ways to really lean into the love language concept - b...
151 - Gospel of Work with Dan Donaldson
August 14, 2023 09:00 - 42 minutes - 23.4 MBWhen God kicked Adam out of the garden, He assigned Adam to work. This work wasn't meant to be merely a "punishment" but rather a path to redemption. Work is a chance for a man to strive, grow, and become the deeper man that God intended him to be! So many of us look at our jobs as simply a way to pay the bills. We tend to either rush to get the bare minimum done or instead become obsessed with work to the detriment of our families. This was never God's plan. You have an opportunity to...
150 - Physical Fitness with Roman Fischer
August 07, 2023 09:00 - 36 minutes - 21.8 MBIt's hard to stay in shape. This is obviously true because we all see the statistics of how out of shape our country is. I know that I struggle to limit how much I eat - God is just so good and has provided so much wonderful food! But what if it was easier to get and stay in shape? Join me in this episode as my guest Roman Fischer explains how he got strong and fit, as well as how he helps his guest. As with so much else, the first step is always in our mind. Our thoughts and mindset are...
149 - Masculinity, Women, and Workplaces
July 31, 2023 17:52 - 28 minutes - 22.3 MBThere's a tension between gender differences when it comes to the workplace. It's impossible to successfully deny that the differences are real (though many do try), but we're supposed to act is if everyone is the same. How do we do that? Join me in this episode as I explore this issue (translation: ramble and postulate.) This is not an easy issue, but may not be as difficult as some think. We are all different in many many ways. The difference of gender, while profound and significant, ...