Catholic Life Coach For Men
216 episodes - English - Latest episode: 21 days ago - ★★★★★ - 38 ratingsAs a modern Catholic guy, it's hard to find the balance. We know that God should come first, but what does that really mean? We know we're supposed to love our wife, but how do I do that when I'm overwhelmed by work and kids?
This podcast is dedicated to those guys who really want to grow and become the man God created them to be. You'll find both practical strategies for managing life and better ways to view and engage the world. Join Life Coach Michael Jaquith and take one step closer to standing tall in the sight of the Father.
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209 - Day One or One Day
July 01, 2024 09:00 - 27 minutes - 23.3 MBWhile Eve was speaking to the serpent, Adam...stood by idle. He did not act. How often do we also fail to act - either entirely or slowly? Join me in this episode as I explore why it is so important to make today "Day One" or obedience to God's will, rather than waiting to obey "One Day" in the future when it's more convenient. God invites us to obedience. I also invite you to check out my free Manly Strengths Assessment at https://catholiclifecoachformen.com/manly-strengths-assessment...
208 - Dealing with Critical Race Theory with Dr George Maurer
June 26, 2024 09:00 - 57 minutes - 32.8 MBIf you have children that are currently being educated, you need to know about the attacks coming under the label of "Critical Race Theory." CRT is devastating to children - it causes confusion, guilt, blame, and a lifetime of misunderstanding. It's also demonic in origin. Join me in this episode as CRT opposition expert Dr George Maurer walks through what is happening in schools and even home-schooling curriculum across the country in regards to CRT. He explains why it is so bad, and ...
207 - Encounters With God with Joshua Marcengill
June 24, 2024 09:00 - 56 minutes - 35.2 MBWe worship a God of miracles. Sometimes they're subtle or slight - but sometimes they're not! Sometimes the miracles are so big and powerful we're left to wonder how we ever doubted. Join me in this episode as Joshua Marcengill shares his story about God's powerful and miraculous intervention in his life. Multiple times in his story, God brings a powerful healing. Now he has the opportunity to share his encounter with God with others. You can read more about Abundant Encounters at http...
206 - Demons Are Real
June 17, 2024 09:00 - 35 minutes - 30.8 MBMany today want to deny the existence or importance of the spiritual realm. It's scary, confusing, and often overwhelming. Yet, we would be foolish to not take it seriously. We know that it's real and has real power in our lives. Join me in this episode as I give some high level guidelines for some things you need to be aware of as a Catholic about the demonic world. This episode is only an introduction that will inspire you to dig deeper with the actual authorities. This should help yo...
205 - Leadership and Empathy with Lancy Cayko
June 12, 2024 09:00 - 57 minutes - 32.4 MBA lot of us take great confidence in our technical skills. We may be the very best at our jobs of all the competition, but if we cannot connect on a personal level then we are going to struggle. Join me in this episode as Lance Cayko walks through his journey of learning to connect with others, and eventually with God. So often we run from God - or at least from what we think God represents. Yet, God patiently draws us back to Himself. The truth always points to Him. You can find Lance's...
204 - Balance the Faith and Work
June 10, 2024 09:00 - 30 minutes - 25.4 MBThis is a tough time to be in a corporate environment and be a Catholic. There's a tremendous number of powerful assaults on the truth and teachings of goodness going on everywhere. Many men are intimidated and unsure how to balance what seems like an impossible mix: providing for their family while also speaking the truth. Join me in this episode as I tackle this difficult question. What are the principles and practical ways we as Catholic men can navigate these treacherous waters? We ...
203 - The Ten Commandments with Ed Van Buskirk
June 03, 2024 09:00 - 55 minutes - 26.9 MBVirtually everyone has heard of the Ten Commandments. Yet, surprisingly, most of us can't actually name all ten. If we can't even name them - do you really think we're actually keeping them? Some people might even wonder if they're still relevant in our lives today. Join me in this episode as Ed Van Buskirk and I talk about the value and necessity of the Ten Commandments in our lives, even today. We discuss why they are a critical part of our struggle towards holiness. God has given us...
202 - How To Surrender
May 29, 2024 04:21 - 35 minutes - 30.6 MBWe hear all the time that we need to surrender something to the Lord. Sure, it sounds good, and is probably a good thing to do - but how do we actually do it? Sometimes surrendering that particular thing kind of feels almost like a little bit of death! Sometimes it actually is. But we still have to do it anyways. Join me in this episode as I walk through How to finally Surrender something to the Lord. It's super simple, but also super hard. To help make the point, I also tell 3 storie...
201 - Burn The Boats with Kevin Phillip
May 20, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 37.7 MBSometimes God asks us for little things. A little adjustment here or there. Sometimes He asks us to do things that scare the...poop out of us. How we respond to His call tells us a lot about ourselves. All too often we crumble and falter. But we don't have to! Join me in this episode as Kevin Phillip shares his story of God's call to ministry through his life. Sometimes it was easy, and sometimes it was very hard. God often calls us into the place we least want to go - the place we ar...
200 - The Real I
May 13, 2024 09:00 - 30 minutes - 26.2 MBEvery human has a great number of pieces, parts, and facets to themself. Finding balance is often difficult - commonly one piece (perhaps a lustful piece) takes over control and we seem "surprised" with where we end up. Things get really bad when we confuse a "piece" of ourself for the actual "self." Who is the real "I" that lives beneath all our desires, whims, and needs? Join me in this episode as I start with Exodus chapter 32 (the original "Pride Parade") and explore what commonly ...
199 - God's Patience with Scott Maderer
May 08, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 36.9 MBSo often in our lives, God is moving pieces that we don't see, or at least understand. We commonly are so focused on the moment we fail to see the bigger picture. Commonly we fear that things are so bad there is no way even God could bring good out. But there are also those blessed moments where God lets us really see back in time - see the beauty of His design, the power of His creativity. In those moments we are offered a renewed hope. Join me in this episode as Scott Maderer shares ...
198 - Deacons of Hope with Dr Kevin Cummings
May 01, 2024 09:00 - 52 minutes - 28.3 MBThe Pro-Life cause is near and dear to many Catholics' hearts. Yet, a lot of us, with good intention, write a check, pray, and hope that's enough. Here's a great story about a group of Deacons who set out to do more. Join me in this episode as Deacon Dr. Kevin Cummings shares the story of Deacons of Hope. While based in Kansas, they are looking to expand. They created an amazing way to help women who were considering abortion; they support, treat, and train these women for success in lif...
196 - Time and Purpose with David Buck
April 29, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 37 MBMost of us believe that God has a plan for us. Probably even a purpose...but do we know what it is? Have you done the work to really connect deeply with God's plan for you? If so, have you gone even further and aligned your time, your calendar, and your life with that purpose? Join me in this episode as David Buck shares both his story and his wisdom about this topic. Like many of us, God has regularly given David a radical turn in the "plan" of his life. As David learned to navigate t...
197 - How To Find The Real Issue
April 23, 2024 09:00 - 32 minutes - 27.9 MBWe all get triggered. Some of us, frequently. When we get triggered, we love to point the finger at the other person, at the situation, even at God. But what if the right person to point the finger at is ourselves? My claim to you is that you have the power to solve your own triggers, to create your own responses that you choose. You can do it by finally getting to the bottom of what in your life controls you. Join me in this episode as I walk through a process to help sort out and con...
195 - The Trap of Addiction with Logan Hufford
April 10, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MBThere are some addictions and traps that God lets us get out of pretty easy, but there are some that are really tough. Often we persuade ourselves that we can do it, or that it'll be enough to just get mostly clean - but we're wrong. We delay the healing through self deception. Join me in this episode as Logan Hufford shares his story of a severe sexual addiction and the years he spent struggling for freedom. So often he deceived even himself about what was going on. Even in his darkes...
194 - Community and Mentorship with Terry Allen
April 08, 2024 09:00 - 43 minutes - 25.2 MBMost of us have been blessed repeatedly in life by another person offering wisdom and perspective. Sometimes it was a formal mentorship, sometimes simply a random passing. There's something fundamental to the human experience to learn from and be in community with other humans. Our modern world is quietly suffering in extreme isolation. We've never been so lonely. But we don't have to stay alone! Join me in this episode as Terry Allen describes a new program he is launching to provide ...
193 - Escape Addiction with Nico Morales
April 03, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 38.8 MBAddiction can leave one feeling utterly trapped, helpless, and powerless. It's so hard to escape, and even harder yet to hold onto hope. Yet we are never too far gone for God's mercy. Join me in this episode as Nico Morales shares his amazing story of addiction, escape, falling again, and escape again. God's love and grace are what save us all, but not everyone's story shows that love and grace quite so powerfully! You can read more about Nico at his website: https://nohalonm.com/
192 - Suffering and Marriage with Steve Thomas
April 01, 2024 09:00 - 52 minutes - 28.9 MB"Marriage is the primordial sacrament" - a comment understood by almost none of us. We know that marriage matters, intellectually at least. But how do we actually live out our marriage? How do we capture that sacramental grace in a practical way? Join me in this episode as Catholic author Steve Thomas and I walk through what it means to be a man who is committed to living his marital sacrament in the modern day. It is not an easy, or painless, path. It's a cross, in the most painful of...
191 - Music and Purpose with John Michael Talbot
March 27, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 33.3 MBThe early church (and much of the modern Eastern church) had this strong Contemplative component that provided a powerful basis for Christians. This component is, sadly, mostly missing from our modern western Latin Rite Catholicism. But what if what we lost is actually really important? What if we need both contemplative time and community life at times? Join me in this episode as Catholic music composer and community founder John Michael Talbot talks about his life with me. He not onl...
190 - Differences Between Coaching and Therapy
March 20, 2024 09:00 - 33 minutes - 28.2 MBOne of the most common questions I get is what are the actual differences between Coaching and Therapy. While there are some common challenges between them, there are also some significant differences. Coaching, much like in a gym, is much more of a push to do your best. Therapy, at it's finest, is a gentle nurturing restoration of traumatic damage. There's a time and a place for each, but there's definitely a modern trend to turn to therapy too quickly for too many things. Join me in th...
189 - Conquering Addiction with Ryan Penley
March 18, 2024 09:00 - 53 minutes - 29 MBWe all get into a low slump at times in our lives. Some of those times are lower than others. Most men, when we get into a sticky and dark situation, really struggle to accept help. It seems like simply too much. Join me in this episode as Ryan Penley shares his story of addiction, and how one man's tenderness and gentleness finally cut through his defensive shell and inspired him to get help. Wherever you are in your struggles, or if you know someone else who is struggling, kindness, te...
188 - A Conversion Story with Bill Yoh
March 13, 2024 09:00 - 43 minutes - 24.1 MBSo often, when God tells us His plan, we resist. We fight it, we avoid it, we might even ignore it. But the Hound of Heaven is not so easily avoided. Sometimes it might take more than 40 years, but He comes for us relentlessly. Join me in this episode as Bill Yoh shares his life and conversion story. We talk through some of his difficult moments and what they mean for us men now. You can find out more about Bill and his book at his website: https://unvarnishedfaith.com/
187 - Let Go Of The Past
March 11, 2024 09:00 - 31 minutes - 26.7 MBWe all know we're supposed to forgive. It should be simple, it should be straightforward. But the truth is it's not only complicated, but extremely difficult. Often we don't even realize when we're failing to forgive. Historians often say that those who do not study the past are doomed to repeat it. I would add that those who do not forgive past hurts are doomed to repeat them. Join me in this episode as I walk through both the metaphysics of forgiveness and some practical ways to real...
186 - Follow Gods Plan with Brandon Davis
March 04, 2024 10:00 - 50 minutes - 30.6 MBMost of us already feel overwhelmed, like we cannot get everything done we need to. The thought of slowing down to do something else feels impossible. When God suggests a path that isn't already on our list - it's hard. Yet often, when we surrender the first fruits of our time to God, He gives us far more in return. Join me in this episode as Brandon Davis shares how God transformed his life. At the age of 18, Brandon put everything on hold to go into mission for 2 years. Although many t...
185 - How To Understand Women
February 26, 2024 22:53 - 46 minutes - 36.4 MBWhether you're married or not, it's a safe assumption to say you've been confused by how women think. All men are, at least sometimes. But what if there were at least some guidelines to help you better understand her? Join me in this episode as I offer you 10 different perspectives on specific ways that women think differently from men. I also offer you some specific tips and tricks to help you better understand and connect with a woman. Both men and women are created in the image of God...
184 - Radical Catholic Responsibility
February 19, 2024 10:00 - 27 minutes - 22.7 MBWe love the stories of the heroes, the underdogs, and the winners. We revel in the touchdown throw that wins the superbowl. We sometimes even cry as the hero in the movie sacrifices everything. Yet we so often fail to live our potential in our own lives. What if "taking radical responsibility," "extreme ownership," and "radical accountability" are actually very Catholic ideas, consistent with the teachings of the church? Join me in this episode as I explore the idea that not only is ta...
183 - Catholic Parenting with Nancy Bandzuch
February 14, 2024 10:00 - 48 minutes - 28.9 MBIt's always been hard to be a parent of a large family. It's even harder these days. The entire culture often seems aligned against us. Even our own church members often seem upset with large families during mass. It's often lonely, isolating, and so frustrating. But you're not alone. Join me in this episode as Nancy Bandzuch talks about the new show put out by the Augustine Institute called "The Catholic Parent." It will help you feel like you're not alone and also help you to be a be...
182 - Stop Fighting with Daryl Dittmer
February 12, 2024 10:00 - 54 minutes - 30.2 MBSurrender is a funny concept. Sometimes we need to fight for what's right. Sometimes we just need to surrender and accept what is. Always, we are in a struggle to balance the two. Join me in this episode as Daryl Dittmer and I discuss how to build a life that is fulfilling and purposeful. We all come from broken beginnings - some more broken than others. What we do what that makes the difference for where our lives go. When we surrender, stop fighting, and accept what actually works,...
181 - Encouraging Youth with Ahmard Vital
February 07, 2024 10:00 - 55 minutes - 30.1 MBAre frustrated and unsure about how to really reach your teenage (or even 20's) son? Have you tried a lot, but they just don't seem interested? Maybe your son isn't yet a teenager, but you're worried because other dads you know have shared some unsettling stories? Join me in this episode as Ahmard Vital shares both his story, as well as practical lessons from his work with young men. It's hard to be a male of any age in our world right now, but particularly hard on the youth. Our only...
180 - How To Seek Greatness
February 05, 2024 10:00 - 35 minutes - 28.5 MBSo many men are slowly dying inside as they choose comfort or convenience over the greater calling that God has placed within their lives. Mostly because that battle is scary! It will cost you greatly. The cost to inaction, however, is actually greater. Join me in this episode as I talk about how it takes a balance of both humility and magnanimity to counter pride. It takes a willingness to embrace discomfort as part of the pursuit of adventure that God has planned for your life. You...
179 - How to discern a change
January 29, 2024 10:00 - 26 minutes - 21.9 MBThere's a number of times in life we come to a potential crossroads in our life. We can either stumble along on our own, or we can bring God into the process. One of those works a whole lot better than others Join me in this episode as I discuss how you can include God in your discernment process and make a decision that you will respect. To stand strong as a man and lead your marriage and family, you must be able to make a strong decision, aligned with God's will, and stand in confidenc...
178 - Entitlements and Frozen Pipes
January 22, 2024 10:00 - 38 minutes - 31.6 MBIt's not common for an event to take over your life. In that list is frozen main water supply during winter. That's the story that starts this podcast episode. It's funny how God takes away anything we choose over Him. While often extremely painful, it is effective at pointing out our entitlements. Join me in this episode as I share how a really horrible week allowed me to improve my gratitude and humility. God's plans are sometimes painful, but to trust in Him is always the invitation. ...
177 - Orphan to Inner Hero with David Ask
January 19, 2024 20:45 - 49 minutes - 28.9 MBDeep inside every man is a boy desiring to become a hero. So often this boy gets stomped, beaten down, and stuffed into the corner of the needs of the world. Yet he's still there, in each of us men - longing for greatness. Longing to finally find and slay the dragon. Longing to be accepted and welcomed by the Father. Join me in this episode as David Ask and I have an amazing conversation about the inner call and journey of manhood. Where are we going, what's important, and how do we be...
175 - Why Men Must Honor Their Word
January 08, 2024 10:00 - 36 minutes - 29.6 MBMost men would acknowledge they should keep their word - but so many of us really don't make it a priority. If our wife gets upset, or if the kids are worked up, or maybe even if I just don't feel great; I'm all too ready to bail on a commitment. What if our failure to honor our word is actually a far bigger deal than we want to admit? Join me in this episode as I discuss why your word is so critical to your identity and strength as a man. I also discuss some practical ways to improve yo...
176 - Strong and Dangerous with Jason Perry
January 03, 2024 10:00 - 1 hour - 32.2 MBTo say that we don't really see a lot of great masculine examples is an understatement. Even the idea of a "Strong man" sounds scary to a lot of people. But what if men are supposed to be strong? Competent? Dangerous, even? Join me in this episode as former Navy Seal and police officer Jason Perry shares his journey into the faith and authentic masculinity. Men are supposed to be powerful and dangerous. Yet so few of us live into that potential. You can read more about Jason on his web...
174 - Mentorship and Healing Prayer with Dr David Chotka
December 27, 2023 10:00 - 58 minutes - 31.1 MBI have a confession to make. Don't tell - at least not too many. Most of us Catholics aren't very good at praying for (and expecting!) really big miracles. We tend to get lost in repetitive prayer (which is good) and forget that Christ gave the power for miracles to us too - not just to Protestants. Join me in this podcast as Dr. David Chotka shares some powerful stories - both about prayer and mentorship in his life and healing prayer in general. He has powerful stories about the miracu...
173 - What Isn't Transformed is Transmitted
December 25, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 27.1 MBI bet you're a pretty good dad, right? You provide and shelter. You do your best to engage. You try to keep them safe. But what if there's a lurking problem that you aren't addressing? What if the problem is inside of you? Join me in this episode as I explore how critically important it is for us men to engage in self work. The problems in ourselves that we allow to remain will be transmitted on to our children and even our grandchildren. The devil is motivated to keep you complace...
172 - Introspective Humility with Eric Sardina
December 20, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 39.1 MBThere's a lot of self-help advice out there today. A lot of quick fixes and cures that will solve any problem! Yet all the ones that actually work come down to the same basic premise: Are you willing to actually look inside at the parts of yourself that are less flattering, accept they are there, and work on them? Join me in this episode as fellow Executive and Life Coach Eric Sardina shares his story and his perspective on what's going on with men right now. We talk about some real prac...
171 - Embrace Masculinity with Nico Lagan
December 18, 2023 10:00 - 53 minutes - 30.6 MBSociety's plan for men doesn't work. This should not be a surprise to any of us. But what do we do about it? How are Christian men supposed to lead in our current world? Join me in this episode as Nico Lagan and I open up what it means to be a man of radical responsibility, purpose, and fulfillment. He shares his story of how he found Christ, and what effect that has had on his life. We men need to lean into our strengths and take responsibility. The only thing worse is to not do it....
170 - Families Need Support
December 11, 2023 10:00 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MBFamilies are suffering - this is not a novel claim, but one we aren't discussing much. We are more isolated than ever. Lonely, overwhelmed, and stressed out; parents of young families are suffering. But what do we do? Join me in this episode as I explore this issue. It is a nearly universal problem in our ultra-mobile world. How do we help our family to thrive despite such a hostile environment? It's up to us husbands to lead. We have to step up our game. Now, more than ever.
169 - Radical Authenticity
December 04, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 27.9 MBEver notice how great men and women can say more with their presence that some can with many words? While we all know that actions speak louder than words, what happens when our actions and words speak the same? Join me in this episode as I explore the idea of Authenticity. What does it mean to be authentic, and why is it important? How do we remain authentic knowing that we also sin? What do we do when we do fail? These are hard questions that must be worked through with faith and hum...
168 - Special Needs and Catholic Post Scandal with Rob Ralston
November 29, 2023 10:00 - 51 minutes - 30.5 MBThis is almost a two-part episode. There are two great conversations here - don't miss it. Why would anyone be Catholic after the revelation of the terrible scandals? How do parents deal with special needs children? Join me in this episode as Rob Ralston and I explore these two issues. They are not simple or safe, but they are important. You can find out more about Rob Ralston at: https://www.icf-coaching.org/lifecoachingforspecialneedsfamilies-com/profile/
167 - My Conversion Story
November 27, 2023 10:00 - 52 minutes - 42.2 MBI've spoken before about the story of where and how I grew up. I've mentioned parts of how I found the faith. But how did I find the Catholic church amidst all that hurt? Join me in this episode as I tell the story of my journey to the faith. It's a bit dark at moments, and definitely far from perfect, but I think it's a powerful story.
166 - All In with Aaron Guyett
November 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 38.2 MBSo many of us have the idea that we're on the Godly path, but are afraid to surrender that last little bit. We give *almost* everything, and can sometimes fail to notice that there's something left to give. Yet God will often bring us a juncture in life where we are directly confronted to our need to surrender even that last bit. Join me in this episode as Aaron Guyett shares his story about how he was a great warrior and had everything but God, but really had nothing at all. He shares...
165 - SSA Discussion
November 20, 2023 10:00 - 49 minutes - 39.5 MBThere is no doubt that sexuality is a very hot and politically charged topic right now - both in the church and the culture in general. I have no doubt that some who listen to this episode will find something (or perhaps many things) I say offensive. Nevertheless I have worked with too many Catholics who are struggling with SSA and too many Catholics who are not, but are unsure what to think or say about this issue. Join me in this episode for a direct, open, and honest discussion about ...
164 - Inner Demons
November 13, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 27.5 MBMost of us are pretty negative in our own heads. We tend not to speak kindly to ourselves. At first glance, that might not seem that important, right? What if I claim to you that how you speak to yourself is actually critically important to the success and peace of your family? Join me in this episode as I discuss the responsibility and power we husbands and fathers have to create and point towards the good via our words. You are made in the image and likeness of God. Your words, spoken ...
163 - Marriage Coaching Part 1 with Kelly Dupee
November 08, 2023 20:00 - 55 minutes - 32.5 MBMarriage is hard. I sometimes wonder if I should dedicate an entire series to "How To Improve Your Marriage." It is in many ways a lynchpin to your entire success and happiness. The second most important part of your life is your marriage. As a husband, you have a duty to your wife and family that is higher than that to anyone other than God. Do not accept mediocrity! Join me in this episode as Christian Marriage Coach Kelly Dupee and I discuss our coaching work with Christian marriage...
162 - Lead Into Fun
November 06, 2023 10:00 - 28 minutes - 22 MBLet's be honest. Most of us men are not leading our wives well. Most of us struggle to lead our children to the dinner table, let alone manage the complicated balance of large family leadership! What if I gave you a secret to one aspect of leadership that could help you improve in other areas as well? One of the least understood leadership directions I find in the men I work with is the leadership into fun. Join me in this episode as I explore what it means to lead our wives and family...
161 - Surrender Myself To Better Love with Bill Senyard
October 30, 2023 09:00 - 52 minutes - 29.6 MBWe live in a rough time. Despite all the knowledge, grace, and blessings that come from being a Christian, many of us regularly fall radically short of the mark. We miss opportunities to really show a deep and powerful love to our spouses, our children, and our communities. We're so focused on the hyper rational that we've lost site that God's love isn't rational. And ours isn't supposed to be either. Join me in this episode as Dr. Bill Senyard returns to the show. We have a fantastic d...
160 - Free From Weight with Alan Thomas
October 23, 2023 09:00 - 50 minutes - 24.4 MBSo many people think "weight loss" is just about a diet. We also think that being "overweight" is just a problem for another day. But what if underneath our wide-spread problem with weight is a series of crippling fears, doubts, and stories that are dragging down many parts of our lives, not merely our trousers. Weight loss isn't about looking good. It's about living a life of freedom, free to pursue what God made you for! Join me in this episode as my guest Alan Thomas explores his ...