How to talk less and listen consciously.

We often are so engrossed in the ego, listening becomes a side item. I have found this true with myself and have been catching the error in my conversational ways.

Exercising the ability to be in the moment with conversations helps me and may help you to communicate far more effectively in your daily and overall like.  Often conversation is about perception. Certainly, there are times when we are the pusher of the conversation, and it feels a little off when someone you are trying to share a point of view with are simply waiting for their turn to talk. 

I don't want to be that guy any longer. Mind you it is a work in progress, particularly when in a dialogue. 

The concept is referred to as active listening and dialogue. My youngest daughter is the perfect example of nonactive listening. When she decides to share something with you, you will be forced to be an active listener. I've learned to move the lessons learned from Miss Anna to adulting conversations. Often a voice will render me into an active state of listening. to better perceive the information someone is trying to impart to me. 

Quieter people may also seem more intriguing to other persons during a conversation.

 

As a method of communicating reply with a sincere question versus an opinion, and see how your relationships change. Also smile more, not in the cray eyes way though.  

 

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