228: The Orgasm Gap Revisited with Dr. Laurie Mintz
Better Sex
English - June 16, 2024 12:52 - 29 minutes - 22.4 MB - ★★★★★ - 123 ratingsSexuality Health & Fitness Education health business fitness entrepreneur entrepreneurship interview marketing leadership selfhelp finance Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
In this episode of Better Sex, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the topic of discussion is the orgasm gap between heterosexual men and women. Joined by Dr. Laurie Mintz, an expert who wrote 'Becoming Cliterate', they explore the reasons behind this gap, which includes the lack of clitoral stimulation for women and societal misconceptions about female pleasure. Dr. Mintz shares insights from her research and teaching experiences, highlights the improvements since her book's publication in 2017, and discusses ways to enhance sexual pleasure through communication, use of vibrators, and changing cultural narratives around sex. The episode provides valuable information for both women and men to improve their intimate relationships and achieve a more fulfilling sex life.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex
00:48 Understanding the Orgasm Gap
01:02 Guest Introduction: Laurie Mintz
01:39 Defining the Orgasm Gap
04:59 Cultural Influences on Female Pleasure
05:43 Statistics and Research on Female Orgasm
08:45 Barriers to Female Pleasure
19:09 Strategies to Close the Orgasm Gap
19:40 The Role of Vibrators in Sexual Pleasure
23:10 Empowering Women and Men in Sexual Relationships
26:55 Closing Thoughts and Resources
27:55 Podcast Outro
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Dr. Laurie Mintz is a professor, author, speaker, and therapist. As an Emeritus Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She has published over 50 scholarly articles and six chapters in academic books. She is the author of two popular press books, both written with the aim of empowering women sexually and both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It (HarperOne, 2017) and A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship (Adams Media, 2009). With this same goal of providing scientifically-accurate, sex-positive information to enhance female pleasure, Dr. Mintz gives presentations and workshops to professionals and lay audiences, including a TEDx talk with over two million views. For over 30 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a private practice, working with individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. Dr. Mintz is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. In 2023, she was named one of Forbes “50 over 50” woman innovators.
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