BedLoveBeyond
155 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 5 years ago - ★★★★★ - 4 ratingsA place to discuss Sex, Love, and whatever's clever with like minded people who are also in Limbo with Love.
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Ep #155 The End Of The Road: Farewell Episode
July 27, 2019 12:42 - 1 hour - 123 MBJoin us for our last episode as we reunite and talk about all of our favorite moments of this podcast that was birthed from some of our most intense moments in growth and love. We thank each one of you from the bottom of our hearts for riding with us. As where you will not hear our lovely voices for a while, BedLoveBeyond is alive and well and we hope to thrive by staying up to date with all the on goings around the world and keeping these conversations that are so very important going. We p...
Ep #154 " A Very Special Episode
July 06, 2019 00:58 - 1 hour - 89.2 MBIn this VERY SPECIAL EPISODE of BedLoveBeyond we talk about how movies , TV and Media have changed in what is acceptable to show us. Should young people be watching shows like Euphoria and Grownish that depict drug use and extra curricular sex or should it be like the 70's and 80's and just touch the surface and sugar coat important topics? Join us in this convo!!
Ep #153: Public Permission for Private Decisions.
June 15, 2019 17:35 - 58 minutes - 60 MBOn this episode we discuss people outside of someone’s life trying to influence other people’s private decisions. Decisions that are based on their own life experiences and circumstances. From the policing of women’s bodies (ie abortion) to opinionated commenters on social media. We delve into why people need to consider not being open to public permission for their private decisions and why people should stop trying to force them to. Share with us a time you felt like a public permission w...
Ep #152 Turn Your Lights Down Low : The Effects of Gaslighting
June 01, 2019 09:28 - 1 hour - 68.5 MBJoin us this week as we discuss the exciting and yet pretty fucking crazy concept of Gaslighting. Where did it come from? Is it happening to me? Have I ever done it? , and of course How to avoid it!! If you still are not sure what it is.. We tell you some movies that were clear indicators of Gaslighting .So let us know where you stand on the topic.. Have you been gaslit before? Did you do it to someone and didn't realize? Join the convo below!!
Ep #151 Tempted to Touch: How to Resist the Cheating Temptation in a Long Tern Relationship with Special Guest The Rock God of Podcasting Charles Mcfall.
May 18, 2019 09:30 - 1 hour - 81.2 MBJoin us this week with our returning guest Charles Mcfall. See what he has been up to! Catch up with us and join in the conversation as we talk about how temptation in a long term relationship is still there and how we overcome it. Is it possible? Also we talk basic relationship maintenance and survival . Let us know your thoughts below!!
Ep #150 Debunking the Myth: Dating Younger
May 04, 2019 20:19 - 1 hour - 75.9 MBToday’s episode is about dating people that are younger than you. Is it good? Is it Bad? Does it depend on certain circumstances? Listen to us delve into this funny, but serious, relevant, somewhat important topic! Join us below in the conversation! Have you dated someone younger than you? How old were you and they at the time? How was the experience?
Ep #149 Hello From the Friend Zone! :SHE yelled!
April 20, 2019 08:30 - 1 hour - 69.9 MBWe're back from Spring Break !!... In this episode we are talking specifically about women getting friend zone. Yes, this is a WHOLE conversation. Manhood, ego, communication, maturity, emotional intelligence, sexual attraction. Can you really be friends with the opposite sex? There are a bunch of sub topics under this umbrella. Listen to us work it out with our new resident millennial— Kamal Brown.
Ep #148: Time Waits For No One
March 30, 2019 10:15 - 58 minutes - 62.3 MBTime.. Time.. Time.. See what's become of me... This Hazy shade of winter is wrapping up and spring will be sprung...all in good time, But how much time is actually appropriate. Come chat with us as we explore dating and the progression of a relationship. A relationship grows just like the flowers bloom.. But how long should it take before you give someone a key to your place, move in, get engaged, have sex, or even get married..Join us and share below your experiences.
Ep #147 Stigmata: Dating Someone with a Mark of Shame
March 16, 2019 14:24 - 1 hour - 113 MBWould you date someone who was a Felon, Heavily tattooed, has dreads, a physical handicap or maybe a midget? What about Mental illness, Divorced, a person who had an abortion or told you they asked someone to get an abortion. We dive in to these topics and discuss what sometimes society views as a Stigmata. Are any of these for you? What are yours? Should we judge? Join in on the conversation!
Ep #146 Beards, Brows, Makeup, Wow! Push Up, Weave, Eye Color? Puh leez! Lipstick, Muscles, Hair Dye, Nip/Tuck, Big Butt. WTF!
March 02, 2019 12:48 - 19 minutes - 21.1 MBJoin us this week as we discuss the trials and tribulations how we nip/ tuck, shave, braid, weave, shadow, stretch, paint, dye, pluck, cut, suck, and change the fuck out of our bodies. Have you ? Would you ? Could you? Ladies would you date a guy who has a weave ? or what about a fake beard? Fellas, Would you date the girl with the lopsided butt cheeks? Join in the conversation. See how far we would go!
Ep: #145 Debunking the Myth: Love at First Sight
February 12, 2019 00:29 - 54 minutes - 56.7 MBIn this episode we discuss whether love at first sight is real or just a myth?? We run down our daily dish and catch up with you guys!.. Have you ever had at first sight?? Join us and tell us below!!
Ep #144 What are You Offended by Today? W/ Guest TJ Sopoci
January 26, 2019 14:39 - 55 minutes - 57.1 MBCheck us out this week as we are joined by our special guest TJ Sopoci from the Chicago Based Podcast Menage-A-Pod. We collab to dive in to all of this week's hot topics that seem to have everyone's panties in a bunch. Miss April is back this week to discuss her POV with the aftermath of Surviving R Kelly, and we all try to figure out what was so offensive that has men wanting to #MUTEGILLETTE. We love a good beard, but really fellas?? And if the week couldn't get any weirder there was a ru...
Ep #143: Kool-Aid was a Popular Drink and it Still is w/ Music Journalist Kathy Iandoli
January 11, 2019 20:32 - 1 hour - 69.2 MBThis week on Bed Love Beyond we are joined by Music Journalist Kathy Iandoli to discuss the aftermath of the Lifetime Docuseries "Surviving R.Kelly". R Kelly is a world renowned R&B artist who was rumored to have dated and married Aaliyah in 1994 and has allegations brought against him in 2004 of him having sex and urinating on a 14 year old female. Although at the time he was found Not guilty , other allegations continued to pile against him. Most recently with the birth of this series, it...
Ep #142: Holiday Episode Part 2: Deuces! People, Places and Things We Think Should Go Ghost for 2019.
December 29, 2018 06:00 - 1 hour - 93.5 MBJoin us for our end of the year wrap up as we talk about what needs to stay it's ass in 2018, and what needs to grow for the new year. Fake butts, Fake friends, Toxic people and relationships. Will you read more? Eat more veggies? Watch more movies? What are your resolutions? Hear ours and share your thoughts below!
Ep #141 Holiday Episode Part 1: Meet Me Under the Mistletoe
December 22, 2018 16:35 - 1 hour - 64.8 MBJoin us this week as we discuss how to navigate the holidays with your family and your significant other. April gives great advice on how to avoid those sticky questions from your family. We also talk about gift giving , What to expect and what not to expect! Join in the convo and let us know how your holiday went below!
Ep #140: Winter is Coming: What We Would Tell Our Twenty Something Selves & Millennials.
December 08, 2018 15:11 - 1 hour - 73.2 MBOn this episode we discuss what we would tell our twenty something selves. And, what we would tell to the millennials who are currently the center of attention regarding the current state of our society. In the spirit of an upcoming New Year, we are reflecting on what we would tell our twenty something selves in order to embrace our continuous growth and enlightenment; and to encourage our listeners to grow, evolve, embrace change, and not feel bad about occasionally schooling a millennial o...
Ep #139 Miss Fix It
December 01, 2018 13:43 - 1 hour - 71 MBIn this episode we are discussing men with baggage and the women who try to “fix” them or continue to deal with the baggage for a long period of time. We discuss the toxic myth of, “ride or die chick”, and the difference between leaving and loyalty. Join us and leave your thoughts below.
Ep #138: Chick Flicks? or Man Picks?
November 17, 2018 16:24 - 1 hour - 72.2 MBChick Flick? or Man Picks? What's your favorite? Why do they need to be categorized? Do men really enjoy " Chick Flicks" ? and Do women actually enjoy " Man picks"? Besides figuring out where to eat , picking a movie always seems to always be a tough decision for Netflix and Chill nights or Date night. Come hear what we have to say about our favorites in these categories and what our other listeners have said. You know we are big movie buff's here at BLB, Come join in the convo!
Ep #137 .. And That's What I Call Growth
November 10, 2018 01:35 - 1 hour - 65.5 MBIn this episode we our discussing moving on with life after a breakup and how the break up can affect your personal growth and development. Often times we think we have stopped growing, learning, and developing because we are adults but like a flower if you no longer take care of yourself you die. You can be physiologically alive but mentally and spiritually dead. From our discussion we want you to learn or keep in mind to continue to shine, thrive, and be your best self through life and lov...
Ep #136 Hey Zaddy! w/ Guest Aimee
November 03, 2018 14:48 - 1 hour - 74 MBOur friend Aimee stops in for a visit to discuss the " Taboo" topic of DD/LG. Dominant Daddy/ Little Girl relationships. We talk about this community of women who love dating men who are literally old enough to be their " Daddy". Also how the word "Daddy" doesn't necessarily mean father and how it is interchangeable. Come here our thoughts and Aimee's account of dating an older man. Would you date an older man? If you're a older man would you date an younger woman? Have you ? Come join in t...
Ep #135:Intel into Incels
October 27, 2018 14:47 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBHey Lovers this week's episode was developed after a recent Episode of Law and Order SVU. We didn't know that INCELS were given a name and even a movement. Even though there is a an extreme side to this dive in with us as we give you the intel on these Incels. A group of men in an online community that hate women and themselves because they can't get women to have sex with them. There are even extremes where the men have taken what they feel is theirs by way of rape. They call the men who t...
Ep# 134 Keeping Things HOT ..' Cause Winter in Coming' w/ Special Guest Marie-Claire Thauvette
October 20, 2018 14:31 - 47 minutes - 49 MBHave things in the bedroom started getting a tad chilly? Do you want to keep that spark alive? Join your favs from BLB as we sit down with a our new Canadian friend Marie-Claire Thauvette , a Canadian relationship coach, AASECT certified sexual educator, and woman on a mission to teach individuals and couples alike about the power of intimacy and communication. She is also the author of Honeymoon Playbook, a book for both newlyweds and longtime partners alike, teaching couples how to light a...
Ep# 133 10 Things I Hate About Your Boo
October 13, 2018 10:49 - 1 hour - 65.7 MBSo you finally met your bestie's Boo and he or she is HORRIBLE!! Now what? Or Your Best friend tells you that even though you think you've found Mr. Right , they feel like perhaps he's Mr. Right Now.. How do we handle these situations? Are we to choose? Join Us this week as we dive in to this topic. How have you handled the situation? Tell us your thoughts and stories below!
Ep #132 How to Attract the Right Man into your Life with Georgia Woodbine
October 05, 2018 00:35 - 55 minutes - 59.6 MBJoin us and our guest Georgia Woodbine as she breaks down the Do's and Don'ts to attracting the right person into your life. Georgia Woodbine is a life coach and public speaker who helps people change their lives on a daily basis. Come engage and get some pointers! Do you agree with what our guest is saying? How did you attract the right person..Join in the conversation below!
Ep #131 Podcast Politics and Going Ghost but not St. Patrick
September 29, 2018 14:28 - 1 hour - 83.4 MBCome chat with us this week as we discuss our Sex Expo experience , A day filled with Dildos , Chastity Belts and Tacos. We also have a conversation about the recent controversy on the Interwebs about the hosts of 'The Guys We F@$ked' Podcast who are being called Racists for fetishizing black men. Do we as Podcast hosts have a duty to not spread negativity? or Is it on some First Amendment Freedom of Speech and what not?? We also dive in to Ghosting! What is it? What are the effects of it? ...
Ep #130 It's All About the Benjamins Baby!.... Or Is It?
September 22, 2018 09:00 - 1 hour - 85.2 MBJoin us this week for our conversation about one of the most difficult things to talk about with your partner... MONEY!. Who's got it ? Who doesn't ? Who should pay? How to split the bills when cohabitating? We dive in to all the ins and outs and we will discuss how to navigate this tricky conversation. No matter how hard this conversation is to have it's a must. Better to know before it's too late. Check it out and Share your comments below and let us know how you had this conversation o...
Ep# 129: Opening Ourselves Up to New Possibilities….Literally
September 15, 2018 09:25 - 1 hour - 77.9 MB“Open Mind, open heart….open relationship?”. Join us this week as we discuss whether sharing is caring or just plain crazy. If you are in a relationship do you feel like it's okay that your partner steps out on the relationship as long as he or she follows the " rules". Hear the listener's thoughts and come and share some of yours.
Ep# 128 How Many Red Flags Do You Need to See Before You Wave Your White Flag?
September 08, 2018 18:00 - 1 hour - 90.9 MBJoin us this week as we discuss red flags. What is a red flag? What are your red flags? Our Facebook friends share their thoughts on red flags. Can you get passed these red flags? Will they change if you get married? Probably not, but come hear our thoughts on the sunject matter. Maybe your partner is rude to the waiters? Maybe they have a secretive past? Maybe they like cats ? What are your red flags? Share below !
Ep# 127: Intimate Hang Out Session w/ Joshua Shea: Porn Addiction
September 01, 2018 08:36 - 1 hour - 65.4 MBJoin us this week as we chat it up with Joshua Shea , Former politician, Magazine Publisher and Porn Addict. Joshua shares his story of ups and downs and offers a candid look on that taboo topic of Porn addiction. What constitutes addiction? Can women be addicts too? How Porn addiction affects families? Check out this eye opening conversation and join in the conversation about this topic with your fellow listeners below!
Ep#126: Big Bang Theory: Does Penis Size Matter?
August 25, 2018 16:37 - 1 hour - 91.5 MBJoin BedLoveBeyond this week as the ladies chat it up about if the 'myth is true" and whether it's the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat. Does Penis size really matter? Is there such thing as too big? or too small? Also find out what "BDE" is and if you or someone you know has it! Fellas find out what women are actually saying about this taboo subject.
Ep #125 Tell Me Lies ..Tell Me Sweet Little Lies.. : Do White Lies Matter ?
August 18, 2018 08:59 - 1 hour - 80 MBEver told a tiny little " white" lie to avoid hurting someone's feelings? Your Partner asks you ," Do I look fat in this ?" What do you say ?? We all know sometimes the truth hurts, but maybe it's our delivery. Have a chat with April and Jenn to discuss which white lies should never be told, Which one's are OK, and how to change the dialog so that you can be honest without being hurtful. Have you ever told a white lie to avoid something ? Did it ever backfire? Join in the conversation below...
#124 There’s No Crying in Baseball: Toxic Masculinity is in a League of Its Own
August 11, 2018 15:49 - 1 hour - 84.5 MBJoin us this week as we dive into the popular topic of TOXIC MASCULINITY! We talk about how society, media and general upbringing has shaped how people define a man and how men define themselves. Also how society defines masculinity with exaggerated masculine traits like being violent, unemotional, sexually aggressive , etc. We talk about how we as women can be change agents in changing the conversation with our partners and children to open up doors for positive emotions as opposed to just...
#123 The Man and the Woman in the Mirror: Vanity in Relationships
August 01, 2018 14:26 - 1 hour - 118 MBIn this episode of BLB we discuss whether or not it's okay to ask someone you are dating to change something about themselves? Whether it be weight , clothes, the style of hair, too much or not enough make-up, is it ever okay to ask someone to change? Are these things deal breakers ? Is weight the only taboo topic? Is it okay to say" Hey babe, you've gained a few pounds, get on that"!? We discuss healthy ways to have these conversations. We all know no one is perfect , but how far have yo...
#122 Meet You At The Altar Or Meet You At The Club?.....Are You Marriage Material?
July 24, 2018 14:30 - 1 hour - 105 MBIn this Episode of BLB , the ladies discuss what makes a man or a woman marraige material. Women and Men are quick to say they can't find someone to settle down with but forget to ask themselves, " What I am bringing to the table?". Women are not going to take the womanizer male seriously if he like to put out that playboy persona. Same for ladies who want to bare it all with out leaving anything to the imagination. Does this get you your Happily Ever After or just the Ex to the Next ? Come...
Ep #121 It's Allegedly A Man's World: Are You Attracted to Sexist Men? w/ Brigid
July 16, 2018 14:32 - 1 hour - 88.8 MBJoin us this week ,with our returning guest Brigid, as we talk about the theory that some women are actually attracted to men who are sexist. We debunk studies and talk about the difference of being sexist, chauvinistic, and an alpha male, and whether or not us women find that sexy. What do you find attractive? Is what he's saying being sexist ? What can we do as women to change the conversation? Join us in the discussion!
Ep #120 What's Good for the Goose, Isn't Always Good for the Gander
July 10, 2018 16:10 - 52 minutes - 58.5 MBCome join us as we introduce our new co- host Miss April Speaks and dive in to dating at a certain age. Is dating in your 20's like dating in your 30"s ? Do things get better? , Worse? , Easier? Come Chat with us! Comment below to join in the conversation !!
#119 - Letting Go & Moving On
July 02, 2018 17:22 - 2 hours - 221 MBThere's this meme that reads "Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go". In this episode we explore that statement and try to answer why we hold on to the things that have hurt us. What are we trying to prove? What exactly can't we get over? Join us as we attempt to let go and move on mentally, spiritually, and physically from things that can hold us back from becoming better people.
#118 - 4:44: The Story of MJ - An Intervention w/April, Brigid & Randy
June 26, 2018 12:58 - 1 hour - 157 MB12 episodes ago, a conversation started. Today, we (finally) have it. Tune in to hear how this band of brother (and sisters, literally and figuratively) try to bring hope back into the life of a jaded spirit. You don't want to miss this informative, important and invaluable conversation dealing with relationships, dating, and personal struggles. Grab YOUR friends and listen in. Maybe it might spark a dialogue within your group to share your stories with one another. Enjoy and educate!
#117 - Keeping Relationships Fresh w/guest "The Rock God of Podcasting" Charles Mcfall
June 16, 2018 20:04 - 2 hours - 173 MBIn this week's episode Jenn meets the Rock God of Podcasting, Finally! and we all chat it up about how to keep a relationship fresh. The important things to do that will keep your significant other feeling all the feels they felt on day one, even if its day 5236! Charles helped us break down keeping things fresh before you start a family with little one and after. Also howto notice and discover the root of what your partner really wants and needs from you. So check it out, and let us know ...
#116 - Man-Child / Kid at Heart: Admiring or Adult Wanted? w/Brigid
June 12, 2018 22:17 - 1 hour - 127 MB"Why don't you GROW UP?" "GET A JOB!" "Do something with yourSELF!" We've all heard THAT before right? To some, those exclamations remind us of our adolescence when our parents were down our throats about our future. To others, however, it reminds us of last week - but this time - with our significant others! In this episode we talk about the difference between a man child and a kid heart. Is there a difference or should they just both put on their adult pants. Are the significant others out...
#115 - Can You Be/Stay in a Celibate Relationship?
June 05, 2018 13:18 - 52 minutes - 71.7 MBHow much is sex important to you? To some, it's MONUMENTAL. To others a big MEH. Experts say sex is important in a relationship. Others say SCREW the experts (no pun intended). What do you when confronted with the fact someone you're newly dating tells you they're celibate? Do you stay or skidaddle? What do you if you're in the middle of a relationship and your partner decides that they want to become celibate? Do you join in or jump off at the next exit? Waiting til marriage to some sounds ...
#114 - Is Your Self Body Image Affecting Your Relationship? w/SUPER FAN Sam
May 23, 2018 19:16 - 1 hour - 118 MBYou wake up, feeling bloated, & go check the scale to confirm your assumptions. *Ugh* 10 MORE pounds?! WHYYYY. You jump back into bed, completely cover yourself in your blanket and make yourself into what you feel like - a human burrito. Your S/o comes in the room to greet you but you've decided to never interact with the natural world AGAIN! Over dramatic? Sure, but it doesn't take away how a lot of people feel when it comes to their self image. The feeling of doubt, shame, and despair are ...
#113 - What’s In A Name?: I Now Pronounce You, Mr. & Mrs. Uhh? w/Miss April Speaks
May 22, 2018 18:14 - 1 hour - 130 MBThere you are about to enter the reception hall. You hear the DJ say his announcement "and now for the first time ever, I present to you ---"; the doors open. "Mr & Mrs (Fill in the blank)." What do you want to be called? Do you have your new married man or are you keeping your surname? Now more then ever that question is up for debate when it used to a non issue. What happened? Is it a sign of the times? An Archaic trope? Is it disrespectful to not take the new "family" name or is it just a...
#112 - The Strain, Stress, & Strength Within: Relationships & Mental Illness w/Miss April Speaks
May 16, 2018 01:25 - 1 hour - 151 MBFrom school shootings to our favorite musical artists, the elephant in the room has now become the bull in a china shop. Mass hysteria for something we should have had under control for some time now. At least we're now talking about it publicly as opposed to putting it under the rug. Mental illness. Even if you don't have it, it's reach will effect you in some form or fashion. It's one thing to hear about it on the news, but how about if someone you desire is going through their own battles...
#111 - Thoughts, Views & All That Jazz w/Jasmine & Sarah
May 09, 2018 13:56 - 1 hour - 129 MBBack on the podcast is Jenn's niece, Jasmine, and her girlfriend Sarah. It's a laid back episode this week as we tackle subjects that pop up from thin air. What a fun, thought provoking, emotional episode it turned out to be. Who says Millennials are the worst? (oh yeah, Jenn does! lol) Tune in to hear what goes on in these young minds and inadvertently how old they make us feel.
#110 - I’m Not Mad. Whatever. Fine. UGH!: Passive Aggressiveness & Dating w/Brigid
May 01, 2018 18:17 - 1 hour - 144 MB"It's okay". "Thanks in advance". "No that's okay...I'LL do it". YEESH. Have you heard or spoken any of these lines? We put so much effort into avoiding conflict. Are you the same? Can you identify? What are the reasons? How can we stop it? We had the lovely Brigid back to tell us her story about her most recent bout with passive aggressiveness and we also a LIVE listener question! Tune in to hear what we had to say!
#109 - Naked & Afraid: How Do We Date & Mate In a #MeToo World? w/Sexologist & Psychotherapist Dr. Kristie Overstreet
April 24, 2018 16:36 - 1 hour - 111 MBFrom Ansari to "I'm Sorry", there's been a range of the good, the bad, and the ugly pertaining to the #MeToo Movement. The one thing lacking is sort of a "rules and regulations" to the conversation. How do we date in a #metoo world? How do we touch/make love to a suitor? Can we still mimic what they do in the movies or is that outdated? Can a person be "too" careful enough to ruin the mood? No one wants to make anyone uncomfortable so how do we go about interacting with someone in a romatic ...
#108 - So Close Yet So Far: The Dating and Distance Dilemma w/Brigid
April 16, 2018 18:00 - 1 hour - 112 MBHave you ever dated someone only to find that they're juuust out of reach? Not mentally out of reach, or even physically - but geographically. We're not even talking long distance either. Maybe a bridge away or a couple tolls, or how about even a hour away. Yes, as the saying goes "what won't you do for love", but we're not being lazy here! Going back and forth seeing someone who may live in a metropolitan area while you may be "in the sticks" is a daunting venture in the world of dating. Ti...
#107 - Tambourine Or Lead?: What Position Should You Play in Your Relationship? w/Arvie
April 12, 2018 20:31 - 1 hour - 144 MBThis is pretty much a revisit of a topic we explored on Episode 29 but with a new spin on things and with a new person! What position should we play in a relationship? Should we take turns? What if you are the lead and don't feel comfortable being the submissive one because it doesn't suit who you are? Will you step back for the betterment of the relationship or do you feel that we have our roles to play and no need to play musical chairs? Listen in to hear what we had to say!
#106 - Is Marriage A Bad Investment? w/Randy & Miss April Speaks
March 27, 2018 18:00 - 1 hour - 152 MBWe got a PACKED HOUSE this episode because it is such a hot topic that we couldn't do it alone. FINALLY, it's the two people that we've been trying to get on at the same time meeting for the first time EVER! We were waiting for the fisticuffs to fly between our guests but little did we know, the tables would turn and it would be the HOSTS that would be in the heat of battle! One guest even got some verbal jabs in to prove their point. Was it justified or was insecurity at play? Was it "Tough...