EP278: Being an Enneagram Four- The Good, Beautiful, Hard, and Ugly of the Individualist/Romantic

Feelings and self-expression are important to Enneagram 4s. Romantics at heart, they appreciate creating meaning for themselves and others. Unafraid of deep emotions, they courageously ask the deep questions and then hold space without judgment for those willing to answer.

Enneagram 4s are motivated by a need to be unique and authentic, often leading them to become purpose-driven creatives sharing their inspiring contributions with the world.

But, when they're not in a great place, they compare themselves to others causing them to get stuck in an unhealthy loop of melancholy and envy.

So, how can Enneagram 4s overcome their fear of being ordinary and finally see their positive and negative qualities in equal measure?

Today, on The Leadership Formula, we're going to dive into what it means to be an Enneagram 4. I'll share some triggers Enneagram 4s face that can spark an unhealthy comparison loop. I'll also take you deep into how the three instinctual variations bring a very different flavor to the typical Enneagram 4 stereotype.

Listen in as I share how Enneagram 4s can use their wings to step out of their emotions, stop cycling in envy, and finally do the work that needs to be done to birth their gifts into the world.

If you're not sure what your Enneagram type is, please go to TracyO'Malley.com for information on how my all-NEW Blueprint can help you accelerate your transformation!

What You Will Learn

Which type is the hardest and least typed on the Enneagram
How the Enneagram 4s courageous ability to 'go deep' can inspire others to be open about their feelings
Why self-preservation 4s might ghost you
Why special are the biggest triggers of Enneagram 4s fear of being ordinary
Why 4s use fantasy and imagination to create a version of the truth that better suits their self-image
Why an Enneagram 4s focus on lack can keep them from finding joy in their journey
Why listening is the way to the romantic Enneagram 4s heart
How an Enneagram 4s intensity of emotion can cause them to travel into 'TMI' territory when communicating with others
The Enneagram 4 subtype that is NOT the typical 4 stereotype
Which Enneagram 4 subtype could be considered 'needy'

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