Asking For A Friend
38 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 40 ratingsThis podcast is and will be dedicated to an open table discussion on topics most don't want to talk about or tend to ignore! We want to give the perspective from the side that really counts and help others understand because through understanding we can truly grow and learn from each other. We welcome all topics, no topic too big or too small. Hopefully, we can share a few smiles along the way!
Homepage Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Episodes
Tati Speaks (What is living up to others expectations and the COLD truth!)
July 20, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 42.1 MBThis episode we discuss our fair or fouls in todays time. Whats going on in the olympics? How do we fight a fight with one hand tied behind our back? White fragility and living up to others expectations. How do we move forward, how do we gain understanding in troubled times? This conversation Tatiana goes OFF! Explaining her perspective so eloquently, let me know your thoughts and perspectives. Let me know topics you would like to discuss or even if you would like to join! As always w...
The Comeback!
July 02, 2021 00:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBI just want to say i apologize first off! I let a lot of things get in the way of one of the spaces i've invested so much time into, one of my safe spaces. But none the less me & T are back! This is the comeback, we catching up on where we are in our lives. The good the bad, i will no longer let outside emotions effect whats going on, on the inside. We talk about protecting YOUR energy...growing in the workplace and how we navigate this thing called life. Please send in your thoughts an...
Can Winners Lose?
October 27, 2020 19:00 - 44 minutes - 30.9 MBWe are in WEEK 2 of Season 3 and we are discussing "Can Winners Lose?" This season we are all about being positive and finding growth during divisive times. We have changed the tide of conversation right now to provide understanding for every one from any and all walks of life. If you want to smile and grow as a person, you definitely wont want to miss this episode! Give it a listen and leave a comment, tell me what you think...share with a friend!
Can You Be the Light in the Darkness?
October 16, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 41.3 MBWELCOME to SEASON 3! So as i'm on this journey called life, I'm learning and growing. Im working to be better man daily and i know some people may listen and want to do the same. My point is in the last few episodes we have provided vast education and perspective. Some agree and some do not, which is totally fine. In season 3, the focus has changed we want to give EVERYONE something to look forward to. If you are, black, white, hispanic, democrat, republican, gay, straight, or christian o...
Can we Add Value?
September 11, 2020 16:00 - 55 minutes - 37.9 MBHeres a break from the politics....can we add value? What does that even mean? Can we make some one else's life better with our life? Are we giving in a relationship what we also expect back in return? Life is all about adding value, your job hired you because they expect you to bring a certain value to the company....Your partner believes that you add value to their lives...we must learn to add value. Value-the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefuln...
Can We Level the Playing Field?
September 04, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 46.4 MBCan we level the playing field? In This episode, me and T discuss this "playing field" we are on? We begin by, What is race, what is ethnicity and nationality? What are the differences. We talk about taking out politics and the differences in our communities and how do we improve. T, came in clutch at the end with the Nugget on what should we ALL do when it comes to this election. As always, share your thoughts, like and comment. Let me know how to improve, enjoy because i definitely d...
What does bridging the gap Mean?
August 14, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 51 MBThis week we discuss what does it mean to "Bridge the Gap"? What does it mean to agree to disagree, can we still be friends if you are a republican and i'm a democrat? My goal is to bring people together and this week we have my good friend, my brother Brandon on who i assumed was a avid "Trump supporter" but never judge a book by its cover. Listen up, ask why, and enjoy. The basis of what politics is and how the 2 party system isn't working very well and how do we over come and come tog...
What are the 5 Love Languages?
August 07, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 41.3 MBDo you want a break from the stresses of the world? Do you want to smile and share a few laughs? Well in this podcast i have me and Tee, my guest Alex Rhodes on and we discuss the 5 love languages. We talk about how we receive and give love. We also discuss how not only can these languages influence relationships with our significant other but in our friendships as well. Very Interesting podcast, we shared a lot of smiles...complete transparency and amazing perspectives. Vibe out, have ...
Can you be a Capitalist AND a Revolutionary?
July 31, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 47 MBThis week me and T, we dive in to can you be a Capitalist AND a revolutionary at the same time? So in retrospect, can you be about making money AND fighting for injustice? Do you have to give up one without the other? Examples: Nick Cannon and Jay Z? So in this episode we have a great conversation catching up on how our weeks are going. How do we get to that "Next Level" and Grow as people. The Goal should always be to elevate. You cant have growth without struggle. Enjoy, if you get ...
Why dont relationships last? / Dating in 2020
July 24, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 58.5 MBSo this week we taking a break from over politicized topics and talking about something thats on every ones mind. Why don't relationships last as long as they used to? Is there a correlation between our grandparents time and now? Whats manifested that has made it so difficult to stay with partners we have taken an oath to be with. Also we will dive into whats it like dating in 2020? Struggles from a mans perspective as well as a woman? How do we come together, how do we grow and get bette...
Everything Under the Sun
July 16, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 59.2 MBOk, Ok, OK, this is the shake back, this is me catching back up with every listener. I labeled this everything under the sun cause this is the catch up, we talk about covid, will and jada, what is white supremacy etc. This is just healthy conversation, smile, have a laugh and enjoy. I know during this with everything politicized i wanted to have a conversation that was light hearted and provided a means for all of us to come together, share perspectives and grow. I know you will enjoy i...
What is Systemic Trauma?
June 11, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 72.2 MBWow, Just wow! This podcast is one of the special ones that i will hold near and dear to me. Im being completely transparent and open with my experiences. Listen effectively. My goal is to unify people through education and compassion. Im not asking every one to feel sorry but to have compassion and understanding. Walk with me, talk to me and lets break down the walls of injustice and racism. Remember that black lives matter is not saying other lives dont matter but right now black people...
What does it mean to be Black in America?
June 01, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 63.6 MBIn this episode of Asking for a Friend we have 3 of my friends on to discuss a multitude of issues that we as Black Americans face and how do we elevate and over come. We gain perspective over why does Pro black not mean anti white. We give a VERY informed perspective with educational and historical references. Tatianna gives the strong views as we speak on the black community as far as women's rights and the feminist movement. Shaquille talks about him becoming an author and speaking of...
Episode 15 (Overcoming adversity)
March 31, 2020 13:00 - 1 hour - 49.3 MBIn todays episode we talk with Ms. Ariel! This episode is special because here at asking for a friend we try to get the perspectives that really matter. Who better than Ms. Ariel....why might you ask? Well Ariel Broke her back in an accident at the gym....where she was told she could be paralyzed for the rest of her life. Her being an entrepreneur this was a very realistic scary proposition she was in but she overcame. No life isn't normal, no its not like it was but every day is a battle ...
Episode 16: What is compassion when adversity hits?
March 31, 2020 13:00 - 53 minutes - 36.9 MBIn this episode me and Ms. Kesha have a good open discussion about what is compassion when adversity hits? This is really valuable in a sense with the corona virus going on and the social distancing, quarantining etc. How do we show compassion for our brothers and sisters. How do we provide understanding without passing judgement. I had the pleasure of talking with Kesha and we shared laughs as well as some deep moments of growth. Give it a listen and remember to always be compassionate b...
What Is Gratitude?
March 24, 2020 20:00 - 49 minutes - 34.1 MBIn this weeks Episode, me and Danny Kepler talk about what is Gratitude? Whats it like to be present and be grateful? We go into Dannys life and just some experiences that helped us realize what its like to be grateful, how we can change the mindset in order to be more grateful and how to grow as a human and be a better human being! I gained a lot and i'm sure you will to, enjoy the show. Leave a comment, like, share and don't forget to subscribe to weekly episodes as well as "Monday tal...
Is college worth the investment Pt. 2 professors view
March 05, 2020 19:00 - 58 minutes - 40.1 MBWe are back again, with the question....Is college worth the investment. Part 2. This time it goes from a students point of view to a professor who has a doctorate as well as a child getting ready to go to college. We unpack how can we be better equipped for college, is it worth the investment and what are our options. This episode also unravels the issues in society we have with the views and expectations of the people who have so much influence over our youth. I learned alot as im sure...
When is it a good time to call it quits?
February 07, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 50.8 MBIn this episode we discuss when is it a good time to break up? -after time invested (7+ Years) -Moving across the country for some one -so much being invested How do we get past what seems right and not wanting to "waste" all the time we have invested. This episode we talk to Ms. A and Ms. L about their relationship experiences and how being sisters have helped and hindered their relationships. Whats it like to live for yourself and do what makes you happy? If the relationship is not pr...
Whats a Professional Open Relationship?
January 31, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 52.9 MBIn this episode of asking for a friend we go in and figure out what's it like to be in a professional open relationship? What's it like being a professional model. Also, we figure out how to do what's best for us, not caring what others and or society thinks about it. I love this conversation in a sense because too many of us care what others think. We are afraid to do what's best for us cause of what it looks like. If you don't like something about your body, its ok to change it or fix it...
LIVE your life, don't just exist in an average lifestyle!
January 27, 2020 23:00 - 7 minutes - 5.34 MBI recorded this in california a week ago...i wanted to speak to people about LIVING and not just existing. Yesterday i got the news that a helicopter went down and Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gigi lost their lives. The message still resonates, as we see life is short and no one is immortal. One of the biggest influences in my childhood is gone. Greatest player of my generation. In such a horrific way, my heart is broken. If your reading this please go watch the youtube where i gave a tribut...
Come Out of the Darkness
January 14, 2020 15:00 - 5 minutes - 3.62 MBWant to know how fun Monday’s are??? . . . I’m releasing Monday Talks with Jay Jones on Tuesday....lol . . . Subject is perfect for the topic! I’m human, I have struggles just like every one. I’m not perfect! ——————————————— BUT, you won’t want to miss next Monday’s y’all. Stay stunned, getting better daily to not have this problem again!
Discipline = Freedom (Monday Talks w/ Jay Jones)
January 06, 2020 16:00 - 9 minutes - 6.44 MBThis is basically the 2nd week of the NEW YEAR 2020! Let's start it off right. In this episode we talk about how Discipline equals freedom. Took that line from the famous Jocko Willink We talk about how doing the small things, controlling what we know we should early gives us freedom in life. Listen, if you like then share, if you have comments leave one or a review! Im pumped! Let's go family! Im excited!
Episode 12: How do we Gain Understanding Of Black Society?
January 03, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 43.5 MBWOW! Just wow, this was one of those podcasts that were very organic and provides a lot of information and education. -We talk about the Willie Lynch Theory -3 Main Issues of black society -How do we overcome these issues. This was an open discussion between me and two of my friends about the miseducation of not only black society but white society as well. If you want a deep perspective and understanding please listen. This will be the PRE-lude to an even bigger discussion in remembrance o...
Monday Talks W/ Jay Jones ( Self Evaluation)
December 30, 2019 07:00 - 6 minutes - 4.55 MBThis the last Monday talks with Jay Jones for the year! "Self Evaluation" Let's talk about looking in the mirror. Let's talk about telling ourselves the truth. In Order to move forward we must take a hard look at ourselves and find out where we are so that we can not just spin our tires but actually move the needle forward. Let this be the last year, we dwell on what could have or should have been! Lets take control of our lives and live to our fullest potential. Let action be our guide...
Monday Talks with Jay Jones Episode 3: Taking Ownership!
December 24, 2019 00:00 - 11 minutes - 7.87 MBIn this episode we discover what is "Taking ownership" why its so beneficial and how do we grow and learn from our previous mistakes! No Pity Parties, only Growth! Growing together through understanding!
Monday Talks W/ Jay Jones "Being Authentic"
December 24, 2019 00:00 - 5 minutes - 3.87 MBThis is the first of many, every week we will be discussing a topic to prepare you for the week and give you what you need in a condensed version. As to something you can listen to on your way to work or before you start your day! Episode 1: Whats being Authentic?
Monday Talks with Jay Jones Episode 2: Are You Adding or subtracting value?
December 24, 2019 00:00 - 6 minutes - 4.36 MBEpisode 2: Are you adding value or subtracting value in your relationships? Lets talk about how we can live and do better! Teamwork makes the dream work! No time for selfishness!
Is College Worth The Investment? Part 1
December 13, 2019 22:00 - 1 hour - 50.7 MBIn This episode we unpack the discussion, "Is college worth the investment?" this is part 1 in a series where we will talk about college, tuition debt, history and ways we could improve our educational system. I learned a-lot, i'm excited to follow up with Part 2, i do believe there is great information here from a "Student" aspect. Next we will move on to an entrepreneur and professor mindset. Stay tuned as we gain insight and understanding through perspective and healthy discussion. Please...
Whats a "Strong" Woman?
December 05, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 44.2 MBIn this episode we dive into the life of a female bodybuilder and we go into the different stereotypes and what it takes to be a strong woman. Is the sport healthy and is it worth it? We gain insight with Carolyn into her life and how she views the sport of female bodybuilding. This is a valuable perspective into what a lot dont understand and what alot of people judge. Like, Comment, Share!
Why you not pushing your own car?
November 04, 2019 12:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MBThis episode of asking for a friend is special! This episode is with my family, and we talk in depth about "why you ain't sweet" more in a sense of why you not blowing up. Why you not pushing your own car to success. I think me and T'cam give great insight to what every one is thinking but don't want to talk about or choose to ignore. We give ways you can fix that, i believe we give great insight on how to be sweet, how to get the ball rolling and moving the needle forward in your life. Grow...
Are You Cook or a Chef, Are you a Coach or are you a Trainer?
October 21, 2019 18:00 - 1 hour - 42.2 MBIn this episode we go in depth, me and my brother Devin Frederick. He is a self made business man and entrepreneur who is living in his purpose to help others live and be Healthy. We dive into the meaning behind cook or chef, trainer or coach. We work to provide resolution to those seeking health advice and how to "figure it out" on you own before investing money into others who are not quite sure them selves on what they are doing. -How can you start your health journey. -If you decide to g...
Should College Athletes Be Paid?
October 14, 2019 17:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MBIn this episode we chat with LOYAL Arkansas Razorback fan, Nathan Striegler. Me and my good friend Nate discuss should college athletes specifically in topic football players be PAID. We talk about new bills being proposed in California and how it would (in our opinions) effect an already corrupt system. We go down the rabbit hole of what its like being a college athlete and how the NCAA rules over college athletics. Dont want to give to much information, I gained a lot of perspective and ho...
Can we be Friends once we break up?
October 07, 2019 17:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MBSo in this episode I have my good friend Ryley on the show. We dive into can one be friends after we both decide that we are not compatible with each other. We discuss what's a "good break up" and if y'all friends would you invite them to YOUR wedding. I enjoyed this conversation and think that we both came to a mutual conclusion and realized what friends truly means. Hope you enjoy, like...comment...share! Thanks for listening, reading...God bless
How Have "Participation Trophies" Ruined Society
September 26, 2019 16:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MBIn this episode me and VP go in to the different points on why I (jay jones) disagree with participation trophies and why VP (thinks sometimes they are necessary" Really good discussion on how Participation trophies as youth may or may not make weak adults who don't know how to react to or deal with wins vs. losses.
"Why don't People follow their Dreams"
September 10, 2019 13:00 - 47 minutes - 32.7 MBIn this Episode I am honored to have my frat brother, my homie, my guy, Felix (ig: whoizfelix) on the podcast. We talk about his journey to L.A. following his dreams and his journey on how to live and not exist. I really enjoyed this one, so many DIAMONDS, you will take something from it. His clothing line is art! If your interested check him out @ropesclothing and @whoizfelix his website for clothes is www.ropesclothing.com follow and support the movement. Lets Win Together thru gaining ...
Whats Depression?
September 04, 2019 13:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBIn this episode we define, "what is depression"? We want to tap into what it is, how does it come about, and how do we attempt to fix it. In this episode I, sweet jones will be VERY transparent in my experiences with depression not for pity but because I believe some one out there is going thru the same thing and I believe it can help some one! Share your thoughts! We must learn to grow daily, without growth there can only be mediocrity...
What do you expect on a First Date...
August 31, 2019 01:00 - 51 minutes - 35.5 MBSo this week we have 2 guests, we will be discussing what are the expectations on a first date. I enjoyed both points of view as far as one being FAAAAAR left and one being FAAAAAR right. As always I give my point of view, hope you smile cause I did. For the record this episode is PG-13. Further episodes from now on will be G rated.
Episode 1 "Why don't relationships last as long as they did in 07"
August 19, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 42.3 MBIn this very first episode me and my boy Nick Glover discuss the battles and changes in why is keeping a fulfilled meaningful relationship so hard in 2019 as opposed to 2007! This is a guys perspective. We will be having a Part 2 from the females perspective next week! Via Soon Glover. Please share, comment and give any criticism in hopes that I can make this better. Thank You for listening, I love you and appreciate you! -Sweet Jones