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Art of Attraction with Dominey Drew

215 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 28 ratings

Dominey Drew is the gold standard in personal and success coaching. She uses a powerful process of self-awareness that shows you exactly what is keeping you from the success and happiness you desire - and how to fix it. Join Dominey and her guests as they teach the psychology, spirituality, and ontology behind how to be authentically - and effortlessly - yourself.

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Episodes

The Art of Showing Up

July 01, 2020 21:40 - 30 minutes

Today Dominey discusses the most important skill in all of self work - the art of showing up. It turns out that just showing up as you are will take you through a whole slew of resistances and issues in one fell swoop. Learn more inside! To learn more about how to do this, what is really holding you back from what you want and how to fix it, schedule a FREE call with Dominey or her team here: https://calendly.com/domineydrewco…/exclusive-access-consult

AoA - Ep71 - Dating Coach on Dating Coach - Meet Marni the Wing Girl

June 18, 2020 03:09 - 52 minutes - 48.7 MB

Today I get to talk with Marni the wing girl - creator of the wing girl method. She literally helps guys understand women's actions (you know, the ones that make NO sense?) so they can attract women confidently and easily. I went in thinking we approached this topic from totally different angles, and learn throughout that our work is nearly identical. She's rad. You need to listen to this one. And don't forget to download and subscribe! <3

Dating Coach on Dating Coach - Meet Marni the Wing Girl

June 17, 2020 22:09 - 52 minutes

Today I get to talk with Marni the wing girl - creator of the wing girl method. She literally helps guys understand women's actions (you know, the ones that make NO sense?) so they can attract women confidently and easily. I went in thinking we approached this topic from totally different angles, and learn throughout that our work is nearly identical. She's rad. You need to listen to this one. And don't forget to download and subscribe! <3

AoA - Ep70 - Should I Pretend I'm Not Interested?

June 11, 2020 03:02 - 54 minutes - 50.5 MB

Why are women attracted to men who don't want them? Is it better to pretend you're not interested to get her attention? Or is this the best way to lose her? Find out in today's episode of Art of Attraction with Dominey Drew!

Should I Pretend I'm Not Interested?

June 10, 2020 22:02 - 54 minutes

Why are women attracted to men who don't want them? Is it better to pretend you're not interested to get her attention? Or is this the best way to lose her? Find out in today's episode of Art of Attraction with Dominey Drew!

AoA - Ep69 - Random Musings IV

April 24, 2020 00:41 - 47 minutes - 44.1 MB

For today's podcast episode, we hear from people all over North America on how they're faring with COVID-19 lockdowns, dating in quarantine, and how to find your longing in life. Today I want to hear from you and how you're faring with the COVID experience. Whatever you're experiencing, if you'd like to vent, get help, or just need to be heard, this is your space. Welcome. To schedule this space for yourself (yes, you deserve it), click here: https://calendly.com/domineydrewcoaching/...

Random Musings IV

April 23, 2020 19:41 - 47 minutes

For today's podcast episode, we hear from people all over North America on how they're faring with COVID-19 lockdowns, dating in quarantine, and how to find your longing in life. Today I want to hear from you and how you're faring with the COVID experience. Whatever you're experiencing, if you'd like to vent, get help, or just need to be heard, this is your space. Welcome. To schedule this space for yourself (yes, you deserve it), click here: https://calendly.com/domineydrewcoaching/individua...

AoA - Ep68 - How to Create Safety in Yourself

April 16, 2020 05:15 - 1 hour - 58.6 MB

Imagine if you could feel safe, calm and confident in your body no matter what was going on in life around you? Imagine if life's waves didn't knock you around like drift wood, but passed around and through you while you experience only a small ripple? This is a life with resilience. It is a life where you are grounded, connected to yourself, and safe regardless of what is happening around you. In today's show, you'll learn how.

How to Create Safety in Yourself

April 16, 2020 00:15 - 1 hour

Imagine if you could feel safe, calm and confident in your body no matter what was going on in life around you? Imagine if life's waves didn't knock you around like drift wood, but passed around and through you while you experience only a small ripple? This is a life with resilience. It is a life where you are grounded, connected to yourself, and safe regardless of what is happening around you. In today's show, you'll learn how.

AoA - Ep67 - Change Your Perception, Change Your Life!

April 09, 2020 03:32 - 59 minutes - 54.5 MB

Today Dominey looks directly at the link between what you perceive and what you create in your life. Learn how to take what life gifts you (out of your control) and use it for your best and highest good (VERY much in your control!).

Change Your Perception, Change Your Life!

April 08, 2020 22:32 - 59 minutes

Today Dominey looks directly at the link between what you perceive and what you create in your life. Learn how to take what life gifts you (out of your control) and use it for your best and highest good (VERY much in your control!).

AoA - Ep66 - How to Overcome Fear

March 26, 2020 03:17 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

Today, amid fears of the Corona virus, we discuss how to overcome fear, anxiety, nervousness and worry. Aron calls in to ask questions about two women he's interested in, a decades old relationship pattern, and an aggressive co-worker. All get answered and without even meaning to, the healing response for fear is modeled beautifully.

How to Overcome Fear

March 25, 2020 22:17 - 1 hour

Today, amid fears of the Corona virus, we discuss how to overcome fear, anxiety, nervousness and worry. Aron calls in to ask questions about two women he's interested in, a decades old relationship pattern, and an aggressive co-worker. All get answered and without even meaning to, the healing response for fear is modeled beautifully.

AoA - Ep65 - How to Access Your Binary Inner Guidance System

March 12, 2020 03:05 - 1 hour - 55.5 MB

This is a special episode. Today, Dominey teaches you how to identify and access your own inner guidance system. What is so special about that? Well, imagine you can access the answer to any question you want - should I travel to this place, what is best for me to eat, should I date this person, should I have kids, etc? Imagine all you needed to do was ask and the answer would appear - and not just any answer, but the RIGHT answer for you, every. single. time. What would that be wort...

How to Access Your Binary Inner Guidance System

March 11, 2020 22:05 - 1 hour

This is a special episode. Today, Dominey teaches you how to identify and access your own inner guidance system. What is so special about that? Well, imagine you can access the answer to any question you want - should I travel to this place, what is best for me to eat, should I date this person, should I have kids, etc? Imagine all you needed to do was ask and the answer would appear - and not just any answer, but the RIGHT answer for you, every. single. time. What would that be worth to you?...

AoA - Ep64 - For The Perfectionists: Personality Pattern 5 - The Rigid Pattern

March 05, 2020 04:07 - 1 hour - 56.1 MB

Do you naturally gravitate to order and organization? Do you have a powerfully strong inner critic? Do you worry about making mistakes, have difficulty relinquishing control, or find yourself overly focused on things being "correct"? If so, you likely use the rigid personality pattern. In this episode, you're learn how this pattern begins, how it operates, effecting your relationships, career and happiness, and most importantly - what to do about it. Dominey's method is a direct and ...

For The Perfectionists: Personality Pattern 5 - The Rigid Pattern

March 04, 2020 23:07 - 1 hour

Do you naturally gravitate to order and organization? Do you have a powerfully strong inner critic? Do you worry about making mistakes, have difficulty relinquishing control, or find yourself overly focused on things being "correct"? If so, you likely use the rigid personality pattern. In this episode, you're learn how this pattern begins, how it operates, effecting your relationships, career and happiness, and most importantly - what to do about it. Dominey's method is a direct and accelerat...

AoA - Ep63 - For Those Who Fight Life: Personality Pattern 4 - The Aggressive Pattern

February 13, 2020 04:05 - 1 hour - 57.3 MB

Do you find yourself seeking to control others, or waiting for people to betray you? Preferring to fight rather than cooperate, or having a difficult time apologizing? If so you may tend to use the aggressive pattern. In today's episode, we examine how this pattern forms, how it ends up sabotaging your life, and how to stop so you can live a life of openness and freedom. Working with Dominey accelerates your progress in these areas 100 fold. Learn more about her, here: domineydrew.co...

For Those Who Fight Life: Personality Pattern 4 - The Aggressive Pattern

February 12, 2020 23:05 - 1 hour

Do you find yourself seeking to control others, or waiting for people to betray you? Preferring to fight rather than cooperate, or having a difficult time apologizing? If so you may tend to use the aggressive pattern. In today's episode, we examine how this pattern forms, how it ends up sabotaging your life, and how to stop so you can live a life of openness and freedom. Working with Dominey accelerates your progress in these areas 100 fold. Learn more about her, here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep62 - For Those Who Resist Life: Personality Pattern 3 - The Enduring Pattern

January 16, 2020 04:14 - 1 hour - 58.1 MB

Do you resist life? Feel trapped or hopeless? Have difficulty expressing your emotions? If so you might be someone who uses the enduring (or masochistic) personality pattern. These kids had overbearing or controlling parents who didn't allow them the space to be who they are, but instead forced them to be who the parents wanted them to be. This could have been done in small ways or very large ways, most likely, it was both. Leaving them feeling trapped between a rock and hard place. ...

For Those Who Resist Life: Personality Pattern 3 - The Enduring Pattern

January 15, 2020 23:14 - 1 hour

Do you resist life? Feel trapped or hopeless? Have difficulty expressing your emotions? If so you might be someone who uses the enduring (or masochistic) personality pattern. These kids had overbearing or controlling parents who didn't allow them the space to be who they are, but instead forced them to be who the parents wanted them to be. This could have been done in small ways or very large ways, most likely, it was both. Leaving them feeling trapped between a rock and hard place. Learn how...

AoA - Ep61 - For Those Who Feel They Are Not Enough: Personality Pattern 2 - The Merging Pattern

January 09, 2020 04:12 - 1 hour - 56.1 MB

Have you always felt like you're not enough? Do you often feel abandoned by people, emotionally or literally? How is your relationship with your own needs? This episode took an unexpected turn when Dominey gets deeply (and unexpectedly) touched by today's topic. Following what feels real and sharing her observations as she does, she gives you a unique listening experience - a glimpse into the deeper, more sensitive levels these defensive patterns inhabit. Want to learn more about Dom...

For Those Who Feel They Are Not Enough: Personality Pattern 2 - The Merging Pattern

January 08, 2020 23:12 - 1 hour

Have you always felt like you're not enough? Do you often feel abandoned by people, emotionally or literally? How is your relationship with your own needs? This episode took an unexpected turn when Dominey gets deeply (and unexpectedly) touched by today's topic. Following what feels real and sharing her observations as she does, she gives you a unique listening experience - a glimpse into the deeper, more sensitive levels these defensive patterns inhabit. Want to learn more about Dominey Drew...

AoA - Ep60 - For Those Who Fear Life: Personality Pattern 1 - The Leaving Pattern

December 19, 2019 22:02 - 1 hour - 55.5 MB

Today we dive deeply into the first personality pattern, the "leaving pattern", also known as the "schiziod character". This person was wounded earliest - at or before birth. They enter the world in a traumatic way instilling the impression that the world is an unsafe place to be. They will tend to "fragment" when they feel overwhelmed, and have a hard time staying present in their bodies. Anxiety, clumsiness, and feeling like you have no right to exist in the world are typical issue...

For Those Who Fear Life: Personality Pattern 1 - The Leaving Pattern

December 19, 2019 17:02 - 1 hour

Today we dive deeply into the first personality pattern, the "leaving pattern", also known as the "schiziod character". This person was wounded earliest - at or before birth. They enter the world in a traumatic way instilling the impression that the world is an unsafe place to be. They will tend to "fragment" when they feel overwhelmed, and have a hard time staying present in their bodies. Anxiety, clumsiness, and feeling like you have no right to exist in the world are typical issues the sch...

AoA - Ep59 - The 5 Personality Patterns - Which Are You?

December 12, 2019 04:03 - 59 minutes - 54.9 MB

Today we look at all 5 personality patterns - survival methods that you formed in childhood to help you deal with overwhelm. The pros? They helped you to survive childhood. The cons? They are mindsets that are still the age you where when they formed, and now limit your adult experience, keeping you unhappy, single, unsuccessful, and unfulfilled. In today's episode, we examine all five - how they form, how to recognize them, and the miraculous gifts they camouflage. Want to learn mor...

The 5 Personality Patterns - Which Are You?

December 11, 2019 23:03 - 59 minutes

Today we look at all 5 personality patterns - survival methods that you formed in childhood to help you deal with overwhelm. The pros? They helped you to survive childhood. The cons? They are mindsets that are still the age you where when they formed, and now limit your adult experience, keeping you unhappy, single, unsuccessful, and unfulfilled. In today's episode, we examine all five - how they form, how to recognize them, and the miraculous gifts they camouflage. Want to learn more about D...

AoA - Ep58 - The Inner Critic

December 05, 2019 04:17 - 1 hour - 56.3 MB

Today, Dominey takes a more Levar Burton-ey approach than usual, and reads to you, while diving in deeply to the inner critic - what it is, why it is, how to see it, and what to do. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

The Inner Critic

December 04, 2019 23:17 - 1 hour

Today, Dominey takes a more Levar Burton-ey approach than usual, and reads to you, while diving in deeply to the inner critic - what it is, why it is, how to see it, and what to do. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep57 - Why is dating so HARD? - The Art of Effortlessness

November 28, 2019 07:30 - 1 hour - 55.4 MB

Why is life (& dating!) so HARD? Today, Dominey shows you exactly why life can be so difficult and step by step how to change it so that you can live life in the flow. Looking for an owner's manual for this amazing human vehicle that you have? Look no further. Dominey's area of expertise is in showing you how you work - how to recognize defenses that you've carried subconsciously for decades, and what to do with them once you see them. Master the art of effortlessness. Working with D...

Why is dating so HARD? - The Art of Effortlessness

November 28, 2019 02:30 - 1 hour

Why is life (& dating!) so HARD? Today, Dominey shows you exactly why life can be so difficult and step by step how to change it so that you can live life in the flow. Looking for an owner's manual for this amazing human vehicle that you have? Look no further. Dominey's area of expertise is in showing you how you work - how to recognize defenses that you've carried subconsciously for decades, and what to do with them once you see them. Master the art of effortlessness. Working with Dominey ac...

AoA - Ep56 - Rejection - Is It You Or Is It Her?

November 07, 2019 07:22 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MB

Do you seem to get rejected all the time, even as you watch people around you approaching with confidence and getting a totally different response? In this episode you'll learn why that happens, what to do about it in the moment so it doesn't ruin your night or get you down, and how to end this frustrating pattern once and for all. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Rejection - Is It You Or Is It Her?

November 07, 2019 02:22 - 51 minutes

Do you seem to get rejected all the time, even as you watch people around you approaching with confidence and getting a totally different response? In this episode you'll learn why that happens, what to do about it in the moment so it doesn't ruin your night or get you down, and how to end this frustrating pattern once and for all. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep55 - Taking Responsibility for Others

October 10, 2019 21:48 - 28 minutes - 26.4 MB

Taking on responsibility for others' life choices can lead to a number of negative outcomes - weight gain, depression, low energy, heaviness in the body or emotions, negative mindset, and general unhappiness. Learn how to identify and release this responsibility so you can feel light, happy, and fulfilled in a whole new way! Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Taking Responsibility for Others

October 10, 2019 16:48 - 28 minutes

Taking on responsibility for others' life choices can lead to a number of negative outcomes - weight gain, depression, low energy, heaviness in the body or emotions, negative mindset, and general unhappiness. Learn how to identify and release this responsibility so you can feel light, happy, and fulfilled in a whole new way! Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Relationships as Sales w/ Immy Tariq

September 11, 2019 22:15 - 1 hour

We get a unique new perspective from my good friend Immy Tariq, CEO of the SEO firm Webmetrix, as he shares on how perception is everything, what to say when you first approach a woman to make a connection, and how dating and relationships are really all about sales. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

AoA - Ep54 - Preconceived Notions

September 05, 2019 19:19 - 1 hour - 56.6 MB

Today we look at the compulsion to recreate and overcome childhood hurts, how to tell good therapy from bad, and a dating coach calls in for advice.  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Preconceived Notions

September 05, 2019 14:19 - 1 hour

Today we look at the compulsion to recreate and overcome childhood hurts, how to tell good therapy from bad, and a dating coach calls in for advice.  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep53 - Random Musings III

August 15, 2019 18:16 - 59 minutes - 54.6 MB

Learn why you have reactions and interactions that don't seem to make sense (like a strong reaction away from an attractive woman), by slowing the moment down and revealing all the underlying reactions you're having in the moment that you haven't been aware of, previously. A caller requests more advanced ways to recognize self-sabotage. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Random Musings III

August 15, 2019 13:16 - 59 minutes

Learn why you have reactions and interactions that don't seem to make sense (like a strong reaction away from an attractive woman), by slowing the moment down and revealing all the underlying reactions you're having in the moment that you haven't been aware of, previously. A caller requests more advanced ways to recognize self-sabotage. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep52 - Anxiety

August 01, 2019 03:13 - 1 hour - 56 MB

Do you struggle with anxiety? Whether that's approach anxiety where you get nervous or start overthinking when you want to approach an attractive women, or anxiety around ANYthing else (job, travel, flights, the future, the unknown, you name it), then this is the episode for you. I talk in depth about not only about how to recognize anxiety on every level (physical, mental, emotional, and energetic) but also how you can solve it in the moment, every time. This is a powerful one! Work...

Anxiety

July 31, 2019 22:13 - 1 hour

Do you struggle with anxiety? Whether that's approach anxiety where you get nervous or start overthinking when you want to approach an attractive women, or anxiety around ANYthing else (job, travel, flights, the future, the unknown, you name it), then this is the episode for you. I talk in depth about not only about how to recognize anxiety on every level (physical, mental, emotional, and energetic) but also how you can solve it in the moment, every time. This is a powerful one! Working with ...

AoA - Ep51 - Flow

July 18, 2019 03:16 - 59 minutes - 55.2 MB

Today we discuss how flow is essential to learning, growing, and changing, and how avoiding it can keep you single. Dominey looks at flow on the many different levels: mental, emotional, physical, practical (scheduling, etc), and spiritual. Where are you resisting life? Where are you digging in your heels, being inflexible and creating stagnation in your thoughts, emotions, and physical life? In that exact place you will find what is keeping you single... Working with Dominey acceler...

Flow

July 17, 2019 22:16 - 59 minutes

Today we discuss how flow is essential to learning, growing, and changing, and how avoiding it can keep you single. Dominey looks at flow on the many different levels: mental, emotional, physical, practical (scheduling, etc), and spiritual. Where are you resisting life? Where are you digging in your heels, being inflexible and creating stagnation in your thoughts, emotions, and physical life? In that exact place you will find what is keeping you single... Working with Dominey accelerates your...

AoA - Ep50 - Perfectionism

July 11, 2019 03:07 - 1 hour - 56.2 MB

The secret of perfectionism is that it is, in fact, impossible to achieve. Today we discuss how perfectionism and control hold you back from living a rich, full life, and how its ultimately illusory nature can leave you chasing after a mirage for the rest of your life.  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Perfectionism

July 10, 2019 22:07 - 1 hour

The secret of perfectionism is that it is, in fact, impossible to achieve. Today we discuss how perfectionism and control hold you back from living a rich, full life, and how its ultimately illusory nature can leave you chasing after a mirage for the rest of your life.  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep49 - Control

July 04, 2019 03:09 - 1 hour - 56.3 MB

How is control keeping you single? Today we dive into how underlying patterns of control - some so subtle you may not even know you do them - hold you back from what you want in life. These controlling impulses are insidious - they are fear based and genuinely keep you from freely and openly experiencing life. Learn how to work through them here! :-)  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Control

July 03, 2019 22:09 - 1 hour

How is control keeping you single? Today we dive into how underlying patterns of control - some so subtle you may not even know you do them - hold you back from what you want in life. These controlling impulses are insidious - they are fear based and genuinely keep you from freely and openly experiencing life. Learn how to work through them here! :-)  Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

AoA - Ep48 - Language & Images

June 27, 2019 23:23 - 54 minutes - 50.2 MB

Today, Dominey shares her proven method to identify and eliminate your underlying beliefs - in just minutes. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

Language & Images

June 27, 2019 18:23 - 54 minutes

Today, Dominey shares her proven method to identify and eliminate your underlying beliefs - in just minutes. Working with Dominey accelerates your results like nothing else will. Learn more here: domineydrew.com

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The Art of Being
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