One of the best tricks that you will ever learn--and nobody will ever teach you--is how to figure out what you're doing RIGHT!  You may know every detail of what you've done wrong, but not what you're already doing right.  If this is a new way to look at yourself, you may want to try another approach.  This type of self reflection can open many doors that you thought were closed forever.  So, stop standing in your own way with deficit thinking.  Instead, use these insights to become the person that you want to be.....