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Adulting Decrypted

218 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago -

We prepare young adults to be independent powerhouses for life.--Who We Are: The Adulting Decrypted team is composed of a Dad and his three sons: Roscoe(Dad - age redacted), Ashton(22), Gene(18), and Gideon(14). How We Started: As a family we have always tried to have at least one meal together daily. The meal that typically ends up being is dinner. One night in particular near the beginning of the COVID pandemic, our conversation started with Roscoe mentioning that he had recently read a news article stating that an Ivy League college was offering “Adulting,” classes. These classes were being offered in the hopes that they might be able to educate students who were struggling with common “Adult” tasks. It didn't make sense to us that someone would have to enroll in an Ivy League school to learn things that nearly every person has to deal with daily. To us it seemed that things like shopping, laundry, mental health, communication, taxes, loans, and so much more should be basic knowledge before taking on the substantial challenges of modern life. Eventually the idea was floated that there should be a podcast that can be accessed for free that would help people gain insight into these things that we thought we knew fairly well. Since COVID-19 had caused unemployment and school schedule changes for all of us we thought that there could be no better thing than for us to take on this challenge. Less than a month later, after several planning meetings and countless hours of research, we had recorded and uploaded our first episode. 

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Episodes

S-7 E-16 5 Steps to Solve Your Problems

April 24, 2024 07:00 - 31 minutes - 21.5 MB

Today Dad takes us through a series of enlightening discussions where we explore problem-solving techniques, share personal reflections, and emphasize the significance of confident action in overcoming hurdles. Together, we uncover the essence of identifying root causes, visualizing challenges, brainstorming solutions, and embarking on a journey of growth and empowerment through practical wisdom and shared experiences. Thank you for listening to todays episode of Adulting Decrypted! Suppor...

S-7 E-15 Finance 103

April 17, 2024 13:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

Links for more information: Retirement Calculator www.bankrates.com Fidelity www.fidelity.com J. P. Morgan www.jpmorgan.com Charles Schwab www.scwab.com Robinhood www.robinhood.com Support the Show.

S-7 E-14 Adulting Quiz

April 09, 2024 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20.5 MB

In this one we laugh and try to determine who is the most adult out of the group.  Dad won for sure.  However, Ashton was close behind with Gene and Gideon tying for last.  If you want to take the quiz here it is!  Feel free to share your results with us. https://www.buzzfeed.com/andyneuenschwander/what-percent-adult-are-you-quiz Support the Show.

S-7 E-13 Open Mindedness

April 03, 2024 13:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MB

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S-7 E-12 Celebrate Good Times

March 27, 2024 13:00 - 16 minutes - 11.6 MB

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S-7 E-11 Financial Literacy 102

March 20, 2024 13:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MB

On this episode we had a ton of fun covering finances this is the 102 version of the episode.   We covered CSP not a budget.  This is borrowed from Ramit the CSP is conscious spending plan. Net worth on topline just to have it. Fixed Cost -50% to 60% of income (rent, insurance, utilities, fee's etc) Investment -10%  (Roth, 401K) Savings -5% to 10% (trips, emergencies, gifts, weddings) Guilt Free 20% to 30%  have fun do what you want Reach out to us give us insight! Find our contact info on...

S-7 E-10 Life takes turns, no one is the expert on your life | ft. Jake Strack |

March 13, 2024 13:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MB

This episode is about Jake Strack and his road to adult hood.  There is not a straight path.  There can and will be twists and turn and it is part of the process.  Jake has a belief that most people don't know what they are doing.   They are possibly the expert at their area but not at all areas.  Be willing to fail, fail often fail fast.  Jake talks about Hanlon's razor "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity".  Find our contact information on our website!...

S-7 E-10 Jake Strack

March 13, 2024 13:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MB

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S-7 E-9 Financial Literacy 101

March 06, 2024 14:00 - 45 minutes - 31 MB

This one we  go over financial independence vs security and cover some very basics of finances.  Do you know what your net worth is?  Assets-Liability= Net Worth...  Do you know how much you spent last month?    Remember your net worth and personal worth aren't a direct result for each other.  However, at times we do understand how we assume they are!  Great discussion on the first steps of finance.  Keep us posted on any questions! Find our contact info and blogs on our website! adultingde...

S-7 E-8 Listening Through Filters W/ Larry Chatterton(adj)

February 29, 2024 04:00 - 50 minutes - 34.7 MB

In this episode we talk about listening skilz and how they can set us apart.  How there are 10 diffrent types of filters to be aware of.  You can reach Larry @ [email protected] ...  We learned to be aware of what you are saying and how you say it.   Support the show

S-7 E-8 Listening Through Filters with Larry Chatterton

February 29, 2024 04:00 - 50 minutes - 34.7 MB

In this episode we talk about listening skilz and how they can set us apart.  How there are 10 diffrent types of filters to be aware of.  You can reach Larry @ [email protected] ...  We learned to be aware of what you are saying and how you say it. Find all our episodes by category on our website! https://adultingdecrypted.com/episode-search/ Support the show

S-7 E-7 Wellness 8 Areas to Think About

February 21, 2024 12:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MB

Gene Lead this Episode on Willens!  Hey man, I'm mentally stable.  I got you beat I  110 mentally stable and you're only at eighty-five. You know what I mean? Like Yeah, I totally get that. There's just like a a mystery  We talk about the 8 areas of  Wellness, Physical, Intellectual, Social,  Emotional, Financial, Occupational, Environmental, and Spiritual. We have a fun discussion of the diffrent areas we can all be working on!  Good luck as you adult!  And remember!  YOU GOT THIS!  Supp...

S-7 E-7 Wellness, 8 Areas to Think About

February 21, 2024 12:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MB

Gene Lead this Episode on Wellness! We talk about the 8 areas of  Wellness, Physical, Intellectual, Social,  Emotional, Financial, Occupational, Environmental, and Spiritual. Today we had a fun discussion of the different areas we can all be working on!  Good luck as you adult!  And remember!  YOU GOT THIS! Find our website here. Support the Show.

S-7 E-6 Job Interview Skills

February 14, 2024 13:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MB

We had a great conversation about what we need to do for job interviews. Join us today as we look through skills specifically for job interviews and some general communication skills. It might be hard right now to find a "job" so when you get a chance to interview you jump on it.  Here are some ideas on how to prepare and what to say when you get in there. A few things we forgot are follow up e-mails, thank you emails etc. Have new questions? Reach out to us on our website. Support the S...

S-7 E-5 How to Make Friends in College

February 07, 2024 08:00 - 40 minutes - 28 MB

Join us this week, where we discuss the ins and outs of making friends in college. As we chat, we touch on  navigating roommate relationships, making good use of social media to meet people, and finding your crew among new groups. Our friend Gene, who has just started university himself, shares some of his experiences. We also chat about how important group projects and extracurricular activities are for making friends, and we stress a lot on small talk since it's often where friendships beg...

Fear Stuff

January 31, 2024 14:00 - 32 minutes - 22.4 MB

We discuss running from Bears, Avoiding Rattle Snakes and the occasional heigh story.  We had a fun time discussing Fears and how to overcome them and to realize what we need to do to improve our chances of feeling Brave! Support the show

S-7 E-4 Fear Stuff

January 31, 2024 14:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MB

We discuss running from Bears, Avoiding Rattle Snakes and the occasional heigh story.  We had a fun time discussing Fears and how to overcome them and to realize what we need to do to improve our chances of feeling Brave! Find this and many other episodes by category on our website! https://adultingdecrypted.com/episode-search/ Support the Show.

S-7 E-3 Sextortion

January 24, 2024 12:00 - 33 minutes - 22.7 MB

In this episode we discuss a scary trend that every parent, grandparent and adult decrypted listener needs to know about.  Thanks #CrimeJunkies for the info.  We cover what it is, who to talk to and the dangers of being scammed as well as trying to go forward with confidence.  PLEASE share this with everyone.  Be willing to talk around the kitchen table or at the grocery store.  Everyone deserves to live their best life and not walk around with this type of anxiety or pressure.  Find this an...

S 7 E 2 Words and how they hurt and help! Word for the Year!

January 17, 2024 11:00 - 36 minutes - 25.4 MB

This one we discuss how words hurt you and sticks and stones might be less painful.  To ourselves and others!  Find your word for 2024, Ashton is discover, Gene is Connect, Gideon is Consistency and Dad is flow.  We spend a lot of time on personal talk and trying to keep things positive and uplifting when you visit with others. Find this and many other episodes by category on our website! https://adultingdecrypted.com/episode-search/ Support the Show.

Words and how they hurt and help! Word for the Year!

January 17, 2024 11:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MB

This one we discuss how words hurt you and sticks and stones might be less painful.  To ourselves and others!  Find your word for 2024, Ashton is discover, Gene is Connect, Gideon is Consistency and Dad is flow.  We spend a lot of time on personal talk and trying to keep things positive and uplifting when you visit with others.   Support the show

S-7 E-1 Effecient vs Effective

January 10, 2024 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20.4 MB

In this episode we talk about the many ways we could have came home from the Pirate Ship!  Effective vs efficient!  And what does it mean to us!  When do we prioritize efficiency over effectiveness?  Mass marketing, being better texters and yes we can take the entire family! Find this and many other episodes by category on our website! https://adultingdecrypted.com/episode-search/ Support the Show.

Season 7 Prequel

January 09, 2024 04:00 - 20 minutes - 14 MB

Update with All 4 of us Back together!  We learn what we are all doing!  Gene shares about his mission and how the podcast helped and things he can do better!  Gideon shares that we are not in New Mexico, and how he likes going to College.  Ashton talks about adulting as a band leader! Find this and many other episodes by category on our website! https://adultingdecrypted.com/episode-search/ Support the Show.

S-6 E-18 A truth about Goal setting, Gid gives us a Challenge

October 07, 2023 15:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

This episode reminded us that we all are struggling hitting our best life.  There is so much to do and so much we need to get done.  Putting our goals first is a big priority.  However, we still missed them and did not get all done that we needed or wanted to.  Good reminder on smart goals, and real life example of how it worked or didn't.  Support the Show.

A truth about Goal setting, Gid give sus a Challenge

October 07, 2023 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MB

This episode reminded us that we all are struggling hitting our best life.  There is so much to do and so much we need to get done.  Putting our goals first is a big priority.  However, we still missed them and did not get all done that we needed or wanted to.  Good reminder on smart goals, and real life example of how it worked or didn't.  Support the show

S-6 E-17 The crew plays "Family Feud" Or lets go fishing!!!

September 27, 2023 16:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MB

On this one we play family Feud about adulting and what we can do better.  What we need to do better!  This one was a fun chance to grow, win and .... someone won... someone lost! But we had fun.  We also included some tips and tricks and advice!!   Support the show

The crew plays "Family Feud" Or lets go fishing!!!

September 27, 2023 16:00 - 34 minutes - 23.6 MB

On this one we play family Feud about adulting and what we can do better.  What we need to do better!  This one was a fun chance to grow, win and .... someone won... someone lost! But we had fun.  We also included some tips and tricks and advice!!   Support the show

S-6 E-16 VIP very important person dinners! Do this with your Friends

September 20, 2023 18:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MB

We cover VIP dinners, how to send a compliment how to take one and what do do about it!  Why it is important to give complements, get compliments and say Thank you!  This was a fun way to spend an evening as you will hear from the bloopers section.  We are exited about were this is going and what we are doing!   Support the Show.

VIP very important person dinners! Do this with your Friends

September 20, 2023 18:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MB

We cover VIP dinners, how to send a compliment how to take one and what do do about it!  Why it is important to give complements, get compliments and say Thank you!  This was a fun way to spend an evening as you will hear from the bloopers section.  We are exited about were this is going and what we are doing!   Support the show

S-6 E-15 WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!! Seriously don't hang on the fridge

September 13, 2023 18:00 - 30 minutes - 21 MB

Ashton, Gideon and I talk about What were you thinking!  Ashton shaves his beard, Gideon does level 20 gymnastics but not at level 25.  Dad keeps asking the kids what were you thinking!  Good episode to think back on your life and determine what were you thinking.  And how you can think about your new desired outcomes.  We only hold a few of the indicators, such as how fast can I run.  Then you will know what you were thinking!  Support the show

WHAT WERE YOU THINKING!! Seriously don't hang on the fridge S-6 E-15

September 13, 2023 18:00 - 26 minutes - 18.5 MB

Ashton, Gideon and I talk about What were you thinking!  Ashton shaves his beard, Gideon does level 20 gymnastics but not at level 25.  Dad keeps asking the kids what were you thinking!  Good episode to think back on your life and determine what were you thinking.  And how you can think about your new desired outcomes.  We only hold a few of the indicators, such as how fast can I run.  Then you will know what you were thinking!  Support the show

Not Romantically, Relationships and Communication To hike or not to hike S-6 E-14

September 06, 2023 21:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MB

A few things to keep in mind as you are developing relationship and what matters.  We discuss Gideon going on a Hike with his buddy, we discuss transactional relationships and maybe don't call just for help.  And actually I think you started off by saying, well, there's all different types of relationships. There's a very transactional relationship. There's a deeper bonded relationship. There's family relationships, there's friendships. I would, I would challenge you and the listener to thi...

S-6 E-13 Important Documents... Or Are They

August 29, 2023 22:00 - 39 minutes - 27.4 MB

In this episode we talk about were the safe in the house, what items to keep.  What items might now be lost.  How to find them and were to store them.  This should help you think of items you need to take with you or keep safe for your children.   Support the Show.

S-6 E-12 Ashton Takes an Adulting Quiz!

August 23, 2023 19:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MB

In this weeks episode of Adulting Decrypted, Ashton takes an Adulting quiz to see if he qualifies as a real adult. From laundry, to cars and credit scores. We think you will like this episode! Support the Show.

S-6 E-11 Self Love, Job Love, Homemade noodless and Tipping (not cows)

August 16, 2023 17:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MB

We answer some questions we have got through reddit, fakebook and friends.  Please keep asking those if you want our opinions.  Best part, Gid take on working, Ashton love of messy home made noodles and dad don't tip for that.   Support the show

S-6 E-10 New School Year, New Habits and Salsa/Cereal

August 09, 2023 14:00 - 30 minutes - 21.1 MB

We talk Salsa, Habits and Cereal and how to improve using 3 items from atomic habit.  This is the one that Dad makes a mistake and tells everyone he likes weird food at night.  And the British Bicycle team determine to improve 1% a day.  Atomic Habits by James Clear 3 key points.. Support the show

New School Year, New Habits and Salsa/Cereal

August 09, 2023 14:00 - 27 minutes - 18.7 MB

We talk Salsa, Habits and Cereal and how to improve using 3 items from atomic habit.  This is the one that Dad makes a mistake and tells everyone he likes weird food at night.  And the British Bicycle team determine to improve 1% a day.  Atomic Habits by James Clear 3 key points.. Support the show

S-6 E-9 Update and Top 10 Highlight reel

August 02, 2023 20:00 - 18 minutes - 13.1 MB

Make a Highlight real!  You are not Tom Brady, or Tiger Woods be grateful.  You are you, start each morning with reviewing these or any time the negative thoughts become to much!   Support the show

S:6 E:9 Update and Top 10 Highlight reel

August 02, 2023 20:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MB

Make a Highlight real!  You are not Tom Brady, or Tiger Woods be grateful.  You are you, start each morning with reviewing these or any time the negative thoughts become to much!   Support the show

S:6 E:8 What is Health Insurance and What Types are there?

July 25, 2023 15:00 - 31 minutes - 21.9 MB

So today we're gonna cover some financial side of a  as well as a mental health, social help and it's kind of interesting because as we're recording Ashton is feeling a little under the weather. That's correct. Not that you'd probably go to the doctor for this normally anyways. It's a cold but it's something to be, something to think of and we might wonder why is health insurance a financial conversation? Any thoughts on that before we go too far? Because you gotta pay for it. Yeah. Hospita...

S-6 E-8 What is Health Insurance and What Types are there?

July 25, 2023 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.4 MB

So today we're gonna cover some financial side of a  as well as a mental health, social help and it's kind of interesting because as we're recording Ashton is feeling a little under the weather. That's correct. Not that you'd probably go to the doctor for this normally anyways. It's a cold but it's something to be, something to think of and we might wonder why is health insurance a financial conversation? Any thoughts on that before we go too far? Because you gotta pay for it. Yeah. Hospita...

S-6 E-7 Is Home Buying What is it good for

July 19, 2023 20:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

. Is the home an asset or a liability? Meaning, does it make you money or cost you money? We've had a liability asset conversation before, haven't we? You guys comfortable enough with that to answer the question? Yeah, I have an answer. Yeah. I think, well, I'm fairly certain a home is an asset. Interesting. Because it makes money. Okay. Gideon, I think it's a liability. You know, you're, you're both right. No, how is that possible? Well, most people misunderstand that it is just an asset. ...

S:6 - E:7 Is Home Buying What is it good for

July 19, 2023 20:00 - 24 minutes - 17 MB

. Is the home an asset or a liability? Meaning, does it make you money or cost you money? We've had a liability asset conversation before, haven't we? You guys comfortable enough with that to answer the question? Yeah, I have an answer. Yeah. I think, well, I'm fairly certain a home is an asset. Interesting. Because it makes money. Okay. Gideon, I think it's a liability. You know, you're, you're both right. No, how is that possible? Well, most people misunderstand that it is just an asset. ...

S-6 E-6 Knowledge vs wisdom

July 15, 2023 18:00 - 30 minutes - 21.1 MB

I remember when you guys were little, I'd say something that I would get myself in trouble for often. I'd say, Hey, being an adult just means I'm better at Googling or tubing how to fix something. You guys remember me saying that? I think so. So what I wanna talk about today is there's a few different things. When we, when we talk about, , really the theme I want to get across is Google has all the answers, but not all the answers are always right. So think about this as we get started on t...

S:6 - E:6 Knowledge vs wisdom

July 15, 2023 18:00 - 26 minutes - 18.6 MB

I remember when you guys were little, I'd say something that I would get myself in trouble for often. I'd say, Hey, being an adult just means I'm better at Googling or tubing how to fix something. You guys remember me saying that? I think so. So what I wanna talk about today is there's a few different things. When we, when we talk about, , really the theme I want to get across is Google has all the answers, but not all the answers are always right. So think about this as we get started on t...

S-6 E-6 Keeping it Clean

July 05, 2023 09:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MB

In this episode we talk about the mental and physical aspects of keeping a clean area.  Some tricks on how to keep the home clean, the car clean and even the toothbrush clean.   When is the last time you cleaned something?  Are you like Ashton do you love one chore and find it rewarding?  Share with us what it is.   Support the show

S-6 E-5 Keeping it Clean

July 05, 2023 09:00 - 28 minutes - 19.7 MB

In this episode we talk about the mental and physical aspects of keeping a clean area.  Some tricks on how to keep the home clean, the car clean and even the toothbrush clean.   When is the last time you cleaned something?  Are you like Ashton do you love one chore and find it rewarding?  Share with us what it is.   Support the show

S-6 E-4 - My Brand

June 28, 2023 20:00 - 31 minutes - 21.4 MB

We are all in business for ourselves.  We are our brand.  We need to put the best foot forward.  On this episode we talk about Ashton starting a business and making sure he is presenting his best self.  Support the Show.

S-6 E-3 How to Get What You Want

June 21, 2023 21:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MB

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How do I deal with feedback?

February 08, 2023 06:00 - 40 minutes - 28.2 MB

This week the Adulting Decrypted crew dives deep into figuring out how to give and receive feedback. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. Support the show

S-6 E-2 How do I deal with feedback?

February 08, 2023 06:00 - 44 minutes - 30.6 MB

This week the Adulting Decrypted crew dives deep into figuring out how to give and receive feedback. We hope you enjoy this week's episode. Support the Show.