214: Ask Alvin Anything: Part 2

Want to know how my autism self-diagnosis has affected my relationship with my husband? (I will apologize to autistic listeners here as an ableist perspective is still something we're working on, and he also uses some outdated terminology probably from an old book he's started twice - but not yet finished - on supporting partners with Asperger's Syndrome.)

Curious about whether he identifies as Filipino-American... or not? And how his perspective on race differs from mine?

Want to hear how he sent a chicken up into space...and then found out what the two pink lines of a pregnancy test mean?

Last year, when we were coming up on our 200th podcast episode, I asked my husband Alvin if he would be willing to record a podcast episode. I had envisioned listeners asking the questions and him answering - but he wanted me to join as well!

One of the first things we learned was that Alvin cannot be succinct. (Well, technically speaking, this was not a new lesson for me - and interviewer Iris had tried really hard to prepare him for succinctness by asking for his 'elevator pitch' - but he just couldn't do it!)

So we ended up cutting the episode when it was already over an hour and we hadn't covered half of the questions listeners had submitted...and interviewers Iris and Corrine graciously agreed to return for a Part 2. So here it is!
 
Other episodes mentioned

175: I’ll be me; can you be you?

200: Ask Alvin Anything (Part 1!)

 
Jump to Highlights
01:22  Introducing this episode

04:28  Alvin talks about how...

Want to know how my autism self-diagnosis has affected my relationship with my husband? (I will apologize to autistic listeners here as an ableist perspective is still something we're working on, and he also uses some outdated terminology probably from an old book he's started twice - but not yet finished - on supporting partners with Asperger's Syndrome.)

Curious about whether he identifies as Filipino-American... or not? And how his perspective on race differs from mine?

Want to hear how he sent a chicken up into space...and then found out what the two pink lines of a pregnancy test mean?

Last year, when we were coming up on our 200th podcast episode, I asked my husband Alvin if he would be willing to record a podcast episode. I had envisioned listeners asking the questions and him answering - but he wanted me to join as well!

One of the first things we learned was that Alvin cannot be succinct. (Well, technically speaking, this was not a new lesson for me - and interviewer Iris had tried really hard to prepare him for succinctness by asking for his 'elevator pitch' - but he just couldn't do it!)

So we ended up cutting the episode when it was already over an hour and we hadn't covered half of the questions listeners had submitted...and interviewers Iris and Corrine graciously agreed to return for a Part 2. So here it is!
 
Other episodes mentioned

175: I’ll be me; can you be you?

200: Ask Alvin Anything (Part 1!)

 
Jump to Highlights
01:22  Introducing this episode

04:28  Alvin talks about how Jen's autism diagnosis helps their relationship while Jen shares how it helps in their daily life and parenting.

12:47  Alvin and Jen talk about how they decided to become parents.  

25:10  Alvin discusses his upbringing in a predominantly White area, his evolving awareness of his Filipino heritage, and how his wife Jen's advocacy work has shaped his understanding of race and culture.

38:13  Alvin talks about his journey from wanting to be seen as White to embracing his Filipino heritage and identifying as a Brown person.

46:32  Alvin encourages dads to be actively involved in parenting, prioritize their partners, and be present in family life. 

57:15  Alvin and the hosts engage in a quickfire round of questions, discussing topics from parenting to personal preferences. 

01:00:50 Wrapping up