I'm So Gay
51 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 3 years ago -This podcast is presented and brought to you by Kara Godfrey. A awkwardly funny (hopefully) podcast that features a bunch of her close friends, normal humans, speaking on issues surrounding gay relationships, life and more. There is no filter when sh*t comes flying out Kara's mouth that's for sure. She's ready to SPILL on her life and theirs, hopefully giving some semi-okay advice along the way. So strap in, grab a glass of wine (or a bottle) & prepare yourself to cringe at some f***king awkward stories each week. Gay life ain't easy!
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Episodes
Tik Tok & Whatever
April 07, 2021 00:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBKara has lost it this week. Chatting about her anniversary and how something unexpected happened before it. She also touches on us all being more than our sexuality in a very round about way. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs and listen to the podcast on Apple & Spotify.
Innocence vs Abuse
March 12, 2021 08:00 - 33 minutes - 23 MBFollowing on from our last episode, Kara goes into detail around distinguishing between someone who is emotionally abusive and someone who is just confused. All from personal experience. We can't judge someone for breaking our hearts, it isn't our fault if we fall out of love, but we can control how we treat others! Listen on Apple & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Emotional Manipulation
March 11, 2021 01:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBEmotional manipulation is one of the hardest forms of emotional abuse to overcome. Victims are made to feel like they are in the wrong and losing their own minds when that just isn't the case. Kara takes you through her own journey with emotional manipulation and how it effected her before, during and after the abusive relationship. Listen on Apple & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Emotional Manipulation & The Trauma Tea
March 11, 2021 01:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBEmotional manipulation is one of the hardest forms of emotional abuse to overcome. Victims are made to feel like they are in the wrong and losing their own minds when that just isn't the case. Kara takes you through her own journey with emotional manipulation and how it effected her before, during and after the abusive relationship. Listen on Apple & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Your Struggle Is Valid
February 12, 2021 20:00 - 19 minutes - 13.3 MBThis week Kara talks about personal experience with her struggles through life being invalidated. We all go through it at some point right? Just because our struggles are perceived as not so troublesome doesn't invalidate them! Listen on Apple and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
My Friend Brittenelle Ft. Brittenelle
February 06, 2021 02:00 - 40 minutes - 28.1 MBKara enjoys a catch up with her friend Brittenelle. Who is she? What does she think of LGBTQ+ life? How did she come out? What has her clothing journey been like? Take a listen and enjoy with a class of water because we are both doing sober February! Listen on Apple and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Clothing: A Daily Struggle
January 29, 2021 08:00 - 29 minutes - 20.6 MBHave you ever worn something you knew wasn't 'you' or felt completely uncomfortable in your clothes? What about formal clothing or swimwear, do they scare you? Me too. This week Kara talks about her clothing struggles and journey. Listen on Apple and Spotify as well as following Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Being Present in a Relationship
January 22, 2021 08:00 - 31 minutes - 21.4 MBHow do you achieve ultimate presence in a relationship? How can we let go of the past and stop worrying about the future? Usually it's our expectations that cause us disappointment! Kara examines why we have trouble being present and how we can enjoy our relationships more as a result of it. Available on Apple, Spotify and follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Lesbian Therapy 2.0
January 16, 2021 03:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MBGot problems? Don't we all! Kara's followers on Instagram submitted questions regarding their relationships and problems in general. Kara provides some unprofessional therapy and gives her take on their issues. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen on Apple & Spotify every Friday.
Allyship or As*hole?
December 05, 2020 03:00 - 9 minutes - 6.72 MBAre you an ally or an asshole? Listen to this weeks episode to find out. Being an ally isn't easy but we can all learn to be a better one for those in our community or if you aren't in the LGBTQ+ community you can also learn how to support friends and family better. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen to this podcast on Apple and Spotify!
Ally or As*hole?
December 05, 2020 03:00 - 9 minutes - 6.72 MBAre you an ally or an asshole? Listen to this weeks episode to find out. Being an ally isn't easy but we can all learn to be a better one for those in our community or if you aren't in the LGBTQ+ community you can also learn how to support friends and family better. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen to this podcast on Apple and Spotify!
F*ck Judgement
November 27, 2020 20:00 - 12 minutes - 8.76 MBA sad fact of life is we are judged from birth. But why? It doesn't seem fair or kind. How have we ended up with a society that doesn't allow for opinions but does seem to think it's fair to have opinions on others?! Why is there so much judgement in the LGBTQ+ community also? Listen on Apple and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Broken Trust (With Some Tears)
November 13, 2020 20:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MBTrust is a hard thing to give. Especially when we have trauma surrounding it. This week Kara discusses her personal experiences of being burnt by those she trusts. How do trust again? How much do we trust? Who do we trust? It's not an easy path... Listen on Apple, Google and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
Green Flags Ft. T & Soph
October 30, 2020 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MBThis week we have two of Karas friends T and Soph on the podcast talking about green flags in relationships! We've all heard about red flags, in fact we hear about them non-stop. But how about those green ones? What does our partner do that we love and means they love us? Listen on Apple, Google and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
Are you being yourself or lying to yourself? Ft. Kennedy
October 23, 2020 16:00 - 36 minutes - 25.5 MBWelcome to the re-brand! Yep we've changed up the podcast name to 'I'm So Gay' and this is for good reason! Because Kara is so f**king gay. Kara is back with a good friend this week for the podcast, singer and song writer Kennedy! She is the most unapologetically herself person in Karas close circle of friends, which begs the question, how does she do it?! Let's find out. Listen on Apple and Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
Fake Friends
October 16, 2020 20:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MBX's & Oh's is back! Kara talks about fake friends this week on the podcast. Sometimes they are hard to spot, it can be exhausting! She talks through how to spot them and what types of fake friends are out there. Listen on Apple & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Are You Dating a Narcissist?
September 11, 2020 07:00 - 27 minutes - 18.7 MBKara's back after her season break! And she asks, are you dating a narcissist? Not the easiest of questions but definitely some good listening! Grab a beer, wine or shot... you might need it! Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen on Apple or Spotify!
Lesbian Therapy 1.0
July 31, 2020 22:00 - 22 minutes - 15.5 MBGot problems? Don't we all! Kara's followers on Instagram submitted questions regarding their relationships and problems in general. Kara provides some unprofessional therapy and gives her take on their issues. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen on Apple & Spotify every Friday.
Healthy Habits
July 24, 2020 07:00 - 13 minutes - 9.47 MBWhat are healthy habits? Why now is it more important than ever to develop them? Kara shares some of her own. And if you've listened to the episode and want to try out investing here is a link to join Robinhood: https://join.robinhood.com/karag236. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen on Apple and Spotify.
Breakup Songs
July 11, 2020 21:00 - 17 minutes - 11.9 MBThis week Kara shares her favourite breakup songs and analyzes them. Feeling depressed? Missing your ex? Are you angry at them still? We got all those emotions covered. Here is a link to her Heartbreak playlist on Spotify which includes all of the songs from todays episode: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0HZRaeNdZLYpgbUWs2hsO1?si=7M-ASZLaTNuOenwjCjRBHQ. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Don't Do These Things On A First Date
July 03, 2020 00:00 - 13 minutes - 9.68 MBFirst dates, ah.. the excitement, the judgement and ultimately sometimes the disappointment. Kara delves into her top 10 things to NOT do on your first dates. Some are a little off the wall. Listen on Apple, Spotfity and sometimes YouTube! Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Cheating
June 26, 2020 07:00 - 21 minutes - 15 MBThis week Kara gets vulnerable by talking about her experiences with cheating and what she has learned from them. We have all either been the cheat, been cheated on or experienced both. Listen on Apple, Spotify or YouTube. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Coming Out
June 11, 2020 07:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MBThinking about coming out? Already come out? Either way, saddle up. Kara is explores what coming out means to her this week, as well as discussing personal experiences and the trials and tribulations of one of her most daunting life experiences! Grab wine or beer. Listen on Apple Podcast, Spotify & Youtube. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs. Enjoy!
Sexual Identity & Labels
May 22, 2020 23:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MBKara welcomes her good friend and actor Nadia Mohebban to the podcast. They discuss their own sexual identities and the evolution of them, as well as delving into the subject of labels. Do we need them? What are the positive and negative outcomes of labelling yourself? Best listened to with wine. Enjoy the podcast on Apple, Spotify and Youtube! Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Sexual Identity & Labels Ft. Nadia Mohebban
May 22, 2020 23:00 - 46 minutes - 32.2 MBKara welcomes her good friend and actor Nadia Mohebban to the podcast. They discuss their own sexual identities and the evolution of them, as well as delving into the subject of labels. Do we need them? What are the positive and negative outcomes of labelling yourself? Best listened to with wine. Enjoy the podcast on Apple, Spotify and Youtube! Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
The Best Sex Songs Feat. My Girlfriend
May 16, 2020 03:00 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MBThis week Kara has a guest on the show, her girlfriend! They go through their favorite sex songs and talk about what makes a good sex song. Listen on Apple, Spotify and YouTube! Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
The Best Sex Songs FT. My Girlfriend
May 16, 2020 03:00 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MBThis week Kara has a guest on the show, her girlfriend! They go through their favorite sex songs and talk about what makes a good sex song. Listen on Apple, Spotify and YouTube! Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
The Best Sex Songs Ft. My Girlfriend
May 16, 2020 03:00 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MBThis week Kara has a guest on the show, her girlfriend! They go through their favorite sex songs and talk about what makes a good sex song. Listen on Apple, Spotify and YouTube! Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
Delving Into My Insecurities
May 07, 2020 07:00 - 22 minutes - 15.8 MBSo, Kara is in love, in a new relationship and obsessed. But she is insecure. Why? Where does it come from? How do you prevent insecurities in relationships? Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs and listen on Spotify, YouTube and Apple Podcasts!
Analyzing Breakup Quotes
May 02, 2020 02:00 - 16 minutes - 11.2 MBOver the many years Kara has been collecting and saving quotes about heartbreak. Has she ever gone back through them? Not really. But now is the time! Grab some wine and enjoy. Follow her on Instagram @godd8rs. Stream this podcast on Apple, Spotify and YouTube!
Awkward Dating Stories
April 24, 2020 21:00 - 18 minutes - 12.8 MBAlright, we've all been there. It's a first date, you want to make a good impression or you don't want the person you're meeting to be a total weirdo. There are no guarantees however, so you've just got to go with it when weird sh*t happens! I share my own awkward date story as well as some from my friends, Hink, Peach, Kennedy and Birtu! Grab some wine or a beer and enjoy! Follow me on Instagram @godd8rs. Listen on Spotify, Apple or Youtube!
Phases of a Breakup
April 14, 2020 07:00 - 14 minutes - 10.2 MBYup, we all know there are phases to a breakup. It absolutely sucks, and really the only healer is time. But where are the phases? How do we cope with them? Join Kara as she discusses. As promised in the episode here is a link to Psychodrama by Dave: https://open.spotify.com/album/4GrFuXwRmEBJec22p58fsD. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Listen to the podcast on Youtube, Apple & Spotify.
Long Distance Relationships
April 10, 2020 07:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MBThis week we are recording during quarantine, yet again! Kara's good friend Erica Tamposi joins her. Erica works for the NFL & has her own podcast. They both discuss being in long distance relationships, the good times and the bad. Both have had very different experiences with them. They also share some tips! Watch on Youtube, listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Long Distance Relationships Ft. Erica Tamposi
April 10, 2020 07:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MBThis week we are recording during quarantine, yet again! Kara's good friend Erica Tamposi joins her. Erica works for the NFL & has her own podcast. They both discuss being in long distance relationships, the good times and the bad. Both have had very different experiences with them. They also share some tips! Watch on Youtube, listen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs.
Myths About Lesbians
April 07, 2020 07:00 - 21 minutes - 14.7 MBAh... Myths about lesbians. We've all heard them, but which are true if any? Kara debunks them and shares some of her own personal experiences in this weeks episode. Listen on Spotify, Youtube or Apple Podcasts. Follow Kara on Instagram: @godd8rs. Enjoy!
I've Got Some Good News
April 03, 2020 07:00 - 16 minutes - 11.7 MBHappy April! This week, amid the global pandemic, Kara has decided to share some good news and positives to draw from the situation. It's tough times for all of us, but with a little alcohol, appreciation and love we can get through it. Podcast is available on Apple, Spotify & Youtube. Follow Kara on Instagram @godd8rs.
Relationship Fears
March 31, 2020 07:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MBWe've all got things we are scared of when entering into a new relationship or even if we are currently in one. What are they? How do they surface? What can we do to subdue them? Kara talks with her best friend J2. Podcast is available on Spotify, Apple & YouTube!
Relationship Fears Ft. Jenny Knight
March 31, 2020 07:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MBWe've all got things we are scared of when entering into a new relationship or even if we are currently in one. What are they? How do they surface? What can we do to subdue them? Kara talks with her best friend J2. Podcast is available on Spotify, Apple & YouTube!
A-Z of Sex Fetishes
March 25, 2020 08:00 - 40 minutes - 27.7 MBKara talks fetishes! In her first video recorded podcast there is an exploration of anything from Pee Play to Yogi Eggs! She goes A-Z through an article she found online, admitting what she is into and what she isn't! Available on Spotify, Apple and now Youtube!
Gay Siblings & Heartbreak
March 20, 2020 18:00 - 39 minutes - 27.5 MBWho'd have thunk it?! Gay siblings are pretty common and this week Kara gets to speak to two of them. Dan and Ceilidh both came out to each other over the past 5 years and their stories will make you smile and cry all at the same time. Kara also discusses Ceilidh's first heartbreak which included her laying in the middle of a driveway for three days... Grab wine!
Gay Siblings & Heartbreak Ft Dan & Ceilidh
March 20, 2020 18:00 - 39 minutes - 27.5 MBWho'd have thunk it?! Gay siblings are pretty common and this week Kara gets to speak to two of them. Dan and Ceilidh both came out to each other over the past 5 years and their stories will make you smile and cry all at the same time. Kara also discusses Ceilidh's first heartbreak which included her laying in the middle of a driveway for three days... Grab wine!
Red Flags
March 13, 2020 07:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MBThis week Kara discusses red flags. We've all dated someone who has thrown a whole bunch of them at us and we have chosen to ignore them. What is a red flag? How do we spot one? Which are the worst? And Kara even delves into her own. Wine at the ready!
Breakups
March 11, 2020 21:00 - 31 minutes - 21.5 MBYou asked and Kara listened. X's & Oh's delves into breakups! Instagram followers submitted 22 questions about breakups, Kara gives her hilarious and genuine opinions. Enjoy! *Best listened to with wine*
Bisexual Struggles
March 06, 2020 08:00 - 39 minutes - 27.4 MBThis week Kara has her good friend Peach on the podcast. They discuss the struggles of being bisexual. What does it mean? What is biphobia? What is the difference between dating men and women? Let's get into it!
Bisexual Struggles Ft. Alex Papiccio
March 06, 2020 08:00 - 39 minutes - 27.3 MBThis week Kara has her good friend Peach on the podcast. They discuss the struggles of being bisexual. What does it mean? What is biphobia? What is the difference between dating men and women? Let's get into it!
Awkward Sex Stories
February 28, 2020 08:00 - 18 minutes - 12.9 MBEver felt like you want to crawl under a rock after you finish sleeping with someone? This weeks episode features a collection of terribly awkward sex stories from Kara & some of her closest friends. Impromptu bondage, yogurt & razor blades all included today. Prepare to cringe your ass off!
We All Need To Be More Kind Ft. Jordan
February 21, 2020 08:00 - 27 minutes - 19.1 MBThis week we discuss the recent passing of UK Love Island host Caroline Flack, bullying and more. Kara's best friend, Jordan Gonzalez features on the episode. Relationships and friendships in our lives should be nurtured, collectively we can all make an effort to be better people.
We All Need To Be More Kind
February 21, 2020 08:00 - 27 minutes - 19.2 MBThis week we discuss the recent passing of UK Love Island host Caroline Flack, bullying and more. Kara's best friend, Jordan Gonzalez features on the episode. Relationships and friendships in our lives should be nurtured, collectively we can all make an effort to be better people.
F**k Valentines Day Ft. Jezzel
February 14, 2020 03:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MBIn this episode Kara chats with a great friend of hers called J3. They s**t talk all things Valentines Day, as well as discuss how it was for J3 growing up gay in the church and how she used to f**k the pastors daughter! Special appearance from Kelly Miyar!
F**k Valentines Day
February 14, 2020 03:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MBIn this episode Kara chats with a great friend of hers called J3. They s**t talk all things Valentines Day, as well as discuss how it was for J3 growing up gay in the church and how she used to f**k the pastors daughter! Special appearance from Kelly Miyar!