What Are We Even Doing Here?
58 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 7 ratingsAs my wife and i sit in church we sometimes wonder “What Are We Even Doing Here?” Not because we don’t believe, but because we do. It is crazy that years ago we didn’t believe in Jesus. We were a young and struggling married couple with a young daughter. But thanks to God’s soveriegnty and His use of a believer, I came to believe in Jesus. About two years later God changed Karen’s heart and she was brought to belief. Now we look back in amazement and see where we are today, knowing we don’t deserve to be here, and ask, “What Are We Even Doing Here?” I’m sure you all have asked this question for one reason or another. This question is asked both in our personal lives and life in general. “Why are we here? What is our purpose? What is this world?”During this podcast we hope to explore these questions and more. We will share our story as husband, wife, and parents as God continues to work in our lives. We will seek to answer what we are even doing here from a biblical perspective. Come along on our adventure and find out “What Are We Even Doing Here?”
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Talking With Troy Frasier of Revived Thoughts
March 31, 2020 11:00 - 37 minutes - 52 MBOn this episode I was honored to interview a cohost of one of my favorite podcasts Revived Thoughts. Troy is very encouraging in his passion for truth and to serve the Lord. He and his partner Joel take old sermons that have never been recorded and have them narrated. They also give a history of the pastor who preached them originally as well as a history of what was going on at that time. When you listen it is not just like someone is reading a stiff paper. The narrators read as if they...
Special Family Quarantine Episode
March 30, 2020 00:00 - 19 minutes - 18.2 MBIt has been a while since we last had an episode. Karen suggested we record this special episode with our daughters and talk about how the quarantine has been going. We discuss having school at home and Lord's day worship. We pray this episode will encourage and bless you. Patreon https://www.patreon.com/whatareweevendoinghere Facebook https://www.facebook.com/WhatAreWeEvenDoingHere/
Karen And Roo quizzed about Worship
February 05, 2020 10:00 - 37 minutes - 51.1 MBOn this episode we talk about worship. Does God say how he is to be worshipped or can we worship Him however we want? After coming back from the G3 conference a few weeks ago this has still been on our minds. I ask Karen and Roo some questions about worship and we have a fun time discussing this as well as some other theological topics. We hope this conversation encourages you to think about these important matters. Help us produce better podcasts by partnering with us. https://www.patr...
We Are Back!
January 11, 2020 13:22 - 15 minutes - 14.2 MBAfter taking a few months off we are back. A lot has happened since our last episode back in September, but we are back and have plans to continue. In one of our last shows we talked about having a new foster child in our home. We have been adjusting to life going from one to three kids in one year. We hope to keep providing good Christian content as a husband and wife, and sometimes kids. But sometimes life may get in the way. It is all a blessing. We will just keep seeking the kingdo...
Coleen Sharp of Theology Gals Talks about Reformed Theology, Discernment, and More
September 13, 2019 09:15 - 53.5 MBOn this episode we talk with Coleen Sharp, host of the podcasts “Theology Gals” and “So, You Want to be a Podcaster” about her life, reformed theology, and discernment. We find out about her background and family. We also learn how she came to believe the Reformed Christian Faith. We also discuss why it is important to be discerning in our walk as Christians. Please check out her podcasts in the Christian Podcast Community. Links to her shows are provided below. http://theologygals.com h...
Life and Theology in Maryland with Kyle and Hannah
September 09, 2019 09:45 - 49.8 MBOn this episode we follow up with our friends in Maryland about their life with their baby and also how they have been blessed being in an Orthodox Presbyterian Church. Last week we replayed when we record with them a year ago. Listen now to hear what has changed. We also discuss baptism and Reformed worship. May this episode bless you. Help keep this podcast going by partnering with us. http://www.Patreon.com/whatareweevendoinghere http://www.christianpodcastcommunity.org https://trave...
Flashback: Conversation With Friends In Maryland
August 30, 2019 10:30 - 53.3 MBThis episode is a replay from something we recorded early on in the history of this podcast. We take a trip each year to visit our friends in Maryland. We decided to sit down and record a casual conversation about what God has done in our lives. At the time Kyle and Hannah had recently had a baby that you will hear in the background. Jhoi was single and Karen and I didn’t have our foster children yet. We will be heading to Maryland again so stay tuned for the followup episode. Much has ...
It Has Been A Year!
August 16, 2019 10:00 - 21.9 MBOn this episode we talk about how we’ve been podcasting for a year. It has been a blast so far recording with each other and with special guests from time to time. We hope you have been encouraged by the show and hope you continue to listen and share. Let us know your favorite episode by going to our facebook page. Also, we do apologize for the few microphone pops that occur. We had some unforeseen technical difficulties. If you would like to help us avoid these in the future please part...
Heidelberg Catechism Lord’s Day 2
August 09, 2019 10:14 - 24.7 MBOn this episode we go over Lord’s Day 2 of the Heidelberg Catechism. This begins the section on our sin and misery. We discuss the catechism and some of the Scripture references that the answers are drawn from. If you have a family or not we suggest going through a historic Christian catechism. Lord’s Day 2 Q & A 3 Q. How do you come to know your misery? A. The law of God tells me.1 1 Rom. 3:20; 7:7-25 Q & A 4 Q. What does God’s law require of us? A. Christ teaches us this in summary in ...
Talking Worship With James D White of The Every Day Ministry Podcast?
August 02, 2019 09:30 - 40.5 MBOn this episode we have a special guest. James White came on to discuss worship. NO! NOT THAT James White!!! James D White, one of the hosts of The Everyday Ministry Podcast, talked with us about how he formats his church’s worship as lead pastor. We go through their liturgy, song selection, and talk some about the Lord’s Supper. James is a great brother in Christ and we were honored to have him on. Please check out his podcast (link is below) as we have been edified and encouraged by hi...
With Andrew Rappaport Discussing Biblical Women’s Roles
July 26, 2019 22:10 - 60.5 MBOn this episode we got to have Andrew Rappaport over to discuss what the Bible says about women in ministry roles. Some of his comments caused a stir on social media a bit ago and we wanted to see what he had to say. More importantly we wanted to see what the Word of God has to say. I know not all agree on this but as Christians we need to believe what God says. We also discuss some of what happens to some pastors when they achieve celebrity status. Enjoy and if you want to give feedback...
What Are We Even Doing Here Catechizing?
July 12, 2019 23:00 - 32.3 MBWe decided that each month we will have an episode where we start to discuss a catechism. A catechism is a tool used to teach the what we believe as Christians. This is done in a question and answer form. There is a link below to the catechism we have decided to start with. You can find the history behind it as well as the biblical texts the questions and answers are drawn from. We hope to get through this entire catechism then move on to another one. It is important for Christians to k...
What Are We Even Doing Here At The Mill?
July 05, 2019 10:23 - 41.5 MBOn this episode we hope to answer what we are even doing at the abortion mill. Thousands of unborn babies are murdered everyday. Should Christians be going to where this is happening and providing a solution? Should Christians be going to where this is happening and preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ? Many say this isn’t the way to address this problem. Give a listen to what we think and what the Bible says. https://endabortionnow.com https://whatareweevendoinghere.com https://strivi...
What Are We Even Doing Here Discussing Those Who Can’t Hear?
June 28, 2019 18:20 - 28.5 MBIn this episode we look to the Bible to help us answer the question, “What happens to people who never hear the gospel?” We also try to tackle what happens to babies if they die before they can make a confession of saving faith. God has the answers and we can only tell you what we see in the Scriptures. If you have any insight on these issues please let us know. Let us preach the gospel to everyone we can and may “whosoever will” come to Jesus Christ. Please partner with us on Patreon. ht...
What Are We Even Doing Here teaching the Bible Doesn’t Say That with James Watkins?
June 21, 2019 08:00 - 27.9 MBKaren was away this week and we thought we wouldn't have an episode for you. But my friend James Watkins of the 5 Solas Podcast and 5 Solas Ministries asked me to be a guest on his show. He was nice enough to allow us to put this on our show as well. I hope you are encouraged and educated by our discussion about things that are commonly said by Christians that the Bible actually doesn't say or teach. https://whatareweevendoinghere.com/ https://5solasministries.com
What Are We Even Doing Here discerning about ministry roles?
June 14, 2019 11:19 - 49.2 MBWhat Are We Even Doing Here discerning about ministry roles? by Daryl and Karen Updike
What are we even doing here Preaching in the open air?
June 07, 2019 14:36 - 52.2 MBToday we discuss Daryl's recent trip to New York for Open Air evangelism training with Sports Fan outreach. What is it and why do it in the first place? Do you feel called to Preach God's word in the open air?? Check out Sports fan outreach here: https://sfoi.org
What are we even doing here talking about the “P”?
May 31, 2019 13:56 - 72.3 MBHere is a special episode recorded with James Watkins of the 5 solas podcast. Daryl and James discuss the "P" in TULIP, (aka Doctrines of Grace), which stands for Perseverance of the Saints. Please go check out James' entire series over at the 5 Solas podcast where he has an episode on each letter or doctrine. We will be back next week! Thanks for listening!
What Are We EvenDoing Here Fostering (With 5 Solas Podcast)
May 24, 2019 12:27 - 53.4 MBOn this episode we are joined by James Watkins of the 5 Solas Podcast, and his wife Shelby, to talk about being foster parents. James and Selby are in the process of being lisenced and we have had our first foster baby for 6 months. We discuss fears, joys, and everything in between when it comes to being a foster parent. We hope this episode encourages you if you are thinking about fostering or have been a foster parent for any amount of time. Be blessed and make sure you subscribe to the...
What Are We Even Doing Here Training Up A Child
May 17, 2019 16:08 - 19.8 MBWhat Are We Even Doing Here Training Up A Child by Daryl and Karen Updike
What are we even doing here with the Christian Podcast Community?
May 10, 2019 14:37 - 1 ByteOn this episode we announce some exciting news. We have joined the Christian Podcast Community. The community of podcastsers we have joined with are outstanding and it’s an honor to be with them. On this episode Daryl describes a little bit of each show and hints at some exciting things coming in the future of this podcast. Looking forward to our new relationship with the Christian Podcast Community and we hope you go and listen to all the shows that are there.
What are we even doing here with Hope of LBI at the Jersey Shore?
May 04, 2019 02:18 - 1 ByteOn this week’s episode we sit down with two people who have meant a lot to us in our walk with Christ. Pastor Luke Fraser and his wife Ashlee Fraser are great friends and have always been encouraging. Pastor Luke is the pastor of Island Baptist Church in Beach Haven, NJ. We sit down and discuss doing ministry as husband and wife, balancing that as parents, homeschool, and what they have seen God doing with His church at the beach in NJ. We appreciated them talking with us and hosting us in th...
What are we even doing here talkin’ bout Allie Stuckey and Matt Walsh
April 26, 2019 18:14 - 1 ByteJoin us this week as we discuss Allie Stuckey's recent episode with Matt Walsh on her podcast "Relatable," comparing Catholicism and Protestantism. We are also joined by our special guests and neighbor Erica Layton!
What are we even doing here sharing the gospel with our families?
April 17, 2019 12:33 - 1 ByteJoin us today as we discuss why is it so hard to share the gospel with our family and close friends? We don't have all the answers but we will talk it out and hopefully you will be more encouraged and emboldened to do so more often! Happy Easter!
What are we even doing here getting Revelation from God?
April 10, 2019 05:00 - 1 ByteJoin us today as we discuss receiving personal revelation from God. Is God speaking privately to us? Is there a living prophet on earth today? Does God give us desires we must follow? How do we know? Listen as we discuss this and a few other things like how to answer those who might disagree. Resources: https://strivingforeternity.org https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/5-solas/id1453800007?mt=2 Hope of LBI, Pastor Luke Fraser. Gentleness: According to Jesus https://www.youtube.com/wa...
What are we even doing here calling ourselves Calvinists?
April 03, 2019 11:32 - 1 ByteToday we discuss why we would consider ourselves Calvinists. Though the debate on soteriology goes back to the 5th century... (before Calvin) it is alive and well today. Check out Phil Johnson's video: "The Story of Calvinism" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dzY2kYH9nqI&t=1s
What are we even doing here at SufferCon?
March 27, 2019 19:45 - 1 ByteToday we are finally getting a chance to talk about the recent conference we attended on Suffering put on by Striving for Eternity.
What are we even doing here Saved By Grace
March 13, 2019 10:00 - 1 ByteThank you for joining us today as we discuss being saved by Grace!
What are we even doing here with an objective standard?
March 06, 2019 14:20 - 1 ByteToday on the podcast we talk about having an objective standard for what we believe. Being ready to give a defense should anyone ask! Thanks for joining us!
What are we even doing here married to an unbeliever
February 27, 2019 19:01 - 77 MBIn this episode we discuss what to do if you find yourself saved with a spouse who is not? Or whether to date unbelievers or if you should hold out for a Christian. The vanishing American Adult: By Ben Sasse https://www.amazon.com/Vanishing-American-Adult-Coming-Crisis/dp/1250114403/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1ZZYZLXTGDVDR&keywords=the+vanishing+american+adult+by+ben+sasse&qid=1551303019&s=gateway&sprefix=the+vanishing+amber%2Caps%2C124&sr=8-1
What are we even doing here igniting our Marriage?
February 20, 2019 05:25 - 101 MBThanks for joining us today as we discuss the recent marriage conference we attended at our own church! And then continue to run down other rabbit trails... as per usual. And we might hear a little from Joel Osteen toward the end... heh... Follow us on iTunes: What are we even doing here
What are we even doing here talking to this kid?
February 13, 2019 04:00 - 63.7 MBOn this episode we have a special guest host. She may be young but she has lots of wisdom and biblical insight. We also talk about evangelism and open air preaching as Daryl recaps his visit to Union Square, NY with Andrew Rappaport from Striving for Eternity Ministries. Check out his podcasts and resources at: strivingforeternity.org
What are we even doing here fighting abortion rates
February 06, 2019 22:05 - 1 ByteThanks for joining us today as we continue chatting about abortion as well as dissecting a well shared post describing ways a "Pro-Life Christian can fight abortion rates." We don't know what that means, but we will discuss!
What are we even doing here killing babies?
January 30, 2019 19:17 - 1 ByteIt's only fitting that we would talk about the elephant in the room: Abortion. But sadly, it's not only in the room... it's in every part of the world. It is something that has been going on for a long time but is continuing to gain acceptance and lose shock value through the guise of "legal" and "necessary." We only wish to inform and make our plea for the lives being sacrificed in the name of convenience and other un-excusable reasons. Please check out these resources for more information!...
G3 Conference 2019 Review
January 23, 2019 15:05 - 1 ByteThis past week we had the privilege of attending the G3 Conference in Georgia on Missions. We had an amazing time and we'd love to share our experience with you! Among the speakers were: John Piper, Paul Washer, Conrad Mbewe, Voddie Baucham, Steven Lawson, David Platt, Mark Devor, Josh Buice, Time Challies, David Miller, and Dr. James White! We got tons of book loot and made lots of friends. We also got to meet some podcasters that we enjoy including The Bar Podcast, WWUTT, Iron sharpens Iro...
Don’t Misrepresent.
January 09, 2019 05:08 - 1 ByteIn this episode we wander around on a few topics but primarily we discuss the importance of representing the other side of an argument accurately. Well, we attempt to do so. We probably misrepresented the people we talked about who misrepresent. We hope we didn’t. We were inspired to do so after watching a youtube show done by Leighton Flowers where he discussed arguments against Calvinism with Andy Stanley. They did not accurately represent the position and created a straw man argument....
Rosaria Butterfield’s “The gospel comes with a house key” book review with guest Katie Trainor
January 02, 2019 05:01 - 129 MBToday we are doing our first book review! The Gospel comes with a house key: Practicing radically ordinary hospitality in our Post Christian World by Rosaria Butterfield. Rosaria is one of our new favs for sure! Check out her website and other books here: https://rosariabutterfield.com Annnnnnnd…. we are soooo excited to start off the new year with a special guest: Katie Trainor! Katie is a writer and English teacher and she has blog! Check out her blog here: https://travelwithjesusblog.w...
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
December 19, 2018 06:00 - 55.7 MBMerry Christmas from our family to yours! Today we'll discuss some family Christmas traditions and then get right to the reason for the season! We hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and a very Happy New Year!
The Great Candy Cane Controversy of 2018
December 13, 2018 03:09 - 111 MBIn this episode we discuss the recent banning of Candy Canes from school as well as other items that may point to Jesus or Christmas. We will also talk through the history of the Candy cane as described by one of our own Church tracts. And to top it off, we sprinkle a little debate about a particular bathroom habit. Tune in and let us know your thoughts! Thanks for listening! God Bless!
Santa Claus is not coming to town – listener discretion advised
December 05, 2018 16:55 - 55.8 MBWell... we hate to be the bearer of bad news but.... Here it goes anyway! Be advised if any little ones are around whom you still want to believe in the Big guy in Red. Thanks for listening! Blessings!
Gauging the Christian Walk
November 28, 2018 18:38 - 76.5 MBThis week we discuss the question of how to gauge the Christian walk. Why is this relationship with God different for each believer? Thanks for joining us! God Bless!
Happy Thanksgiving, What are you thankful for?
November 21, 2018 17:41 - 54.7 MBThis week's podcast is just a simple chat about what our family is thankful for. We hope you take time to acknowledge everything God has blessed you with in the past, the present, and what awaits. All for the GLORY! AMEN!
The state of theology today and the American Gospel
November 07, 2018 15:45 - 110 MBThis week we discuss briefly the State of Theology survey done by Ligonier Ministries. You can read it here: https://thestateoftheology.com And then we move on the American Gospel documentary done by Transition Studios. You can purchase or rent it to watch on Vimeo: Here is the trailer: https://vimeo.com/153172697 I think both resources are a good wake up call for what is really being taught in God's Big Church. Thanks for listening! God Bless!
Happy Reformation Day… Rome is still wrong!
October 31, 2018 16:06 - 128 MBSince today is Reformation Day, we thought we'd talk about that and dive into a brief background of Martin Luther and how he eventually came to start the PROTEST on the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church on Oct. 31, 1517. He was like... "What are we EVEN doing here!?!"
Yes we should cast God as male because HE does
October 24, 2018 19:40 - 145 MBThis week we discuss an article written by Christy Edwards that was posted on Baptist News Global. Read the article here; https://baptistnews.com/article/continuing-to-cast-god-as-male-does-a-disservice-to-us-all-women-and-men-sons-and-daughters/#.W9DINS-ZOi4
Don’t forget to Pray
October 17, 2018 04:00 - 108 MBIn this episode we talk about what prayer is, how to pray, when to pray, what to pray, and... well, you get the picture. We hope this blesses you!
Using technology wisely in this world
October 10, 2018 05:00 - 128 MBThough we touch on the Easter Bunny to the dangers of Pornography... tonight's discussion is mainly about Kirk Cameron's documentary, "Connect." We discuss how important it is to use technology wisely in this world. We watched it on Netflix, but if it is no longer there, check out the main site here; https://connectmovie.com/
Reviewing our talk with Mormon missionaries
October 03, 2018 13:37 - 97 MBOn this episode we review our meeting with two Mormon missionaries. They were very nice young men. I hope this episode encourages you to share your faith In Jesus Christ. Here are some links that may help you learn more about the Latter Day Saint Church. https://youtu.be/IQNObk2qAwo IQNObk2qAwo http://apologiaradio.com/mormon/ https://carm.org/mormonism
The Gospel.
September 26, 2018 17:47 - 87.7 MBIn this episode, we talk about what the Gospel is. The Good news! Join us! The book I'm reading now: https://www.amazon.com/Gospel-Comes-House-Key-Post-Christian/dp/143355786X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537984010&sr=8-1&keywords=the+gospel+comes+with+a+house+key
The one about Homeschool
September 19, 2018 11:05 - 146 MBGod called, He wants His children back. In Episode 11, we talk about alternatives to Public School. And by alternatives, I mean alternative. And by alternative, I mean Homeschool. Here are some of the resources we talk about: Education: Does God have an opinion: https://www.amazon.com/Education-Does-God-Have-Opinion/dp/168344034X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537355025&sr=8-1&keywords=education+does+god+have+an+opinion ColinGunn Productions: http://www.colingunn.com/indoctrination/ Thanks for ...