It's not any kind of trick that we are going to play on you . It's a human tendency to see things differently from different perspective . You can see glass, half filled with water as partially empty or partially filled. Its all up to you similarly you see yourself tangled in situations , where as you already know how to get out of it . It's just you kept on reminding yourself that this is hard or this is impossible. You know the solutions of your problems but still you always appear to be in fear or tension which will just going to decrease your productivity. TAKEAWAY :- HAVE BELIEVE IN YOURSELF , IGNORE THE HATERS , IGNORE THE UNDERACHIEVER AND JUST WORK .