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Weight Loss for Successful Women

326 episodes - English - Latest episode: 10 days ago - ★★★★★ - 82 ratings

It’s time to get off the diet roller coaster. So many successful women are thriving in most areas of their lives - family, love, business, leadership - but continue to struggle with their weight. They feel hopeless and frustrated with diets and false promises.

There is a different way - one that doesn’t involve dieting, endless products, or counting every calorie.

Your host Shannan Christiansen is a Fortune 100 Executive and Weight Loss Coach. Five years ago she decided she’d never diet again, and found a way to lose eighty pounds while transforming her relationship with her body.

Each week, we’ll explore the thoughts and feelings that contribute to the struggles many successful women have with weight. If you’re tired of the typical approach to losing weight and are ready to try something new, you’re in the right place.

To learn more, visit bflycoaching.com.

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Ep #114: Disconnected and What it Really Means

December 01, 2021 08:00 - 9 minutes - 16.9 MB

Having a hard time staying out of your habit/automatic brain. If you are having a hard time committing or staying connected in your weight loss journey, you will not want to miss this episode. I will teach you how to stay connected because when you disconnect you are taking care of everyone else but you.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/114

Ep #113: 10 Lessons From the First 50

November 24, 2021 08:00 - 27 minutes - 51.2 MB

I am turning 50 and have lived a 50/50 human experience. I share in this episode what lessons I have learned a long the way. I also share what I am going to do in the next 50 years!  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/113

EP #112: Habit Eating and Breaking the Habit

November 17, 2021 08:00 - 26 minutes - 48.2 MB

Do you find that you overeat at night or blow it on the weekends? You are not alone, we have triggers, we overeat, and then it becomes a habit. In this episode, I will teach you how to stop habit eating.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/112 Follow me on Instagram at @shannanchristiansen

Ep #111: Mourning the Loss of Your Overweight Identity

November 10, 2021 08:00 - 11 minutes - 21.9 MB

I created an overweight identity. I had been overweight for 38 years and would sabotage my weight loss success any time I wanted to hang on to my "overweight" identity. To lose weight for the last time, I had to step into the next version of myself, create a new identity.  Listen to this episode for the steps on how to step into the next version of yourself.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/111

EP #110: Making Weight Loss Easy

November 03, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 29.9 MB

Join me as I dive into what is easy and hard about losing weight and how to move forward. The key to losing weight for the last time is to change your thinking. It all begins and ends there.  Get more show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/110

EP #109: Holidays 2.0

October 27, 2021 07:00 - 21 minutes - 39.5 MB

How do you want your holidays to go?  In this episode I dig into how to decide on purpose how you want you holidays to be. I spent many years feeling exhausted at the holidays and gaining weight. I will take you through my process so you can lose weight and enjoy your holidays.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/109 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #108: What We Underestimate in Weight Loss 2.0

October 20, 2021 07:00 - 21 minutes - 39.3 MB

As humans there are some basic things our bodies need, we underestimate the importance and what role they play in weight loss. I am going to teach you what they are and how they can help you.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/108

Ep #107: What to Eat and How to Reconnect With Your Body 2.0

October 13, 2021 07:00 - 28 minutes - 52 MB

Join me as I explain how to reconnect with your body so you can feel hunger and fullness. We have everything we need to lose weight and reconnecting to our body is a must to lose weight and get off the diet roller coaster.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/107

Ep #106: Breaking Up with Dieting 2.0

October 06, 2021 07:00 - 23 minutes - 43.7 MB

Join me as I teach you how to break up with dieting. This one simple tool has helped me and many other women get off the diet roller coaster. I go deeper into a fundamental that will help you lose the fear of food, restricting/overeating, and fall in love with the process.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/106  

Ep #105: How to Believe New Things 2.0

September 29, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 47.5 MB

We are going deep into how to believe new things. To lose weight for the last time you have to start to believe new things about what you can do, how you can show up, and you must lose the old diet beliefs. I am going to teach you a tool in this episode that you will not want to miss!  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/105  

Facebook Live #60: The Trauma of Diet Culture

September 26, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 47.7 MB

Join me in this Bonus Facebook live where I teach how diet culture has resulted in trauma. We carry this in our body and minds. It keeps us searching for a solution outside of us when the solution is within you. You do not want to miss this.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live60

Facebook Live #59: Fear of Failure and Judgement

September 25, 2021 07:00 - 24 minutes - 44.7 MB

The Fear of Failure and Judgement keeps women on the diet roller coaster. We fear that we will be judge if we lose or don't lose weight, so we stay stuck. Join me as I teach you how to move through the fear.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live59

Ep #104: The Fear of Judgement 2.0

September 22, 2021 07:00 - 17 minutes - 31.5 MB

We have this fear of judgement from others. I used to think that when I lost my weight people would judge me, I was worried about my loose skin. This fear kept me stuck for many years.  Join me as I teach you 4 steps to overcome the fear.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/104

Ep #103: The Next Best Decision 2.0

September 15, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 26.7 MB

This is a deep dive on how you can ask this one simple question that can help you never "start over" again. This episode will give you a 4-step process to follow to help you lose weight for the last time.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/103

Facebook Live #58: Do You Tell Yourself You Will Start Tomorrow?

September 11, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 47.9 MB

In this recent Facebook Live, I teach how this thought of "starting tomorrow, after the weekend, after the event, after the holidays, just keeps us on the diet roller coaster.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live58

Ep #102: How Action Shows Up in Weight Loss 2.0

September 08, 2021 07:00 - 13 minutes - 24.4 MB

To lose weight for the last time you must take action but there are different ways that you take action and knowing the difference is key to have success.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/102

Ep #101: Have You Given Up on You in 2021?

September 01, 2021 07:00 - 13 minutes - 23.8 MB

Many of us get overwhelmed during the holiday season, work gets busy, and we are exhausted. We start disconnecting and powering down for the year. I will teach you how to finish this year strong! Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/101

Facebook Live #57: Why You Want to Lose Weight

August 28, 2021 07:00 - 29 minutes - 53.4 MB

Struggling to lose weight and be consistent?  Understanding why you want to do the work to lose weight for the last time.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live57

Ep #100: Advice from Weight Loss Coaches

August 25, 2021 07:00 - 34 minutes - 63.7 MB

Episode 100 - I am so excited about this show! In this episode the Transform Weight Loss Coaches join me to share how they have lost weight and how this work has impacted their lives. You do not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/100

EP #99: How they did it - The Transform Bosses

August 18, 2021 07:00 - 1 hour - 117 MB

Join me for a very special episode. The Transform bosses are here to help you - they are going to share their experience, story, and advice for weight loss success!  Get full show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/99

Facebook Live #56: Breakthrough in Weight Loss

August 14, 2021 07:00 - 28 minutes - 52.3 MB

I wanted off the diet roller coaster, I was so tired of carrying extra weight, going on diets, and hating my body. I needed a breakthrough. Join me on the Facebook Live where I talk about the steps you can take to have a breakthrough in weight loss.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live56

Ep #98: When You Don't Know What You Don't Know

August 11, 2021 07:00 - 8 minutes - 15.6 MB

We are wired to believe that we mostly know things, especially as we get older. But if we have not had an experience ourselves then we do not know any different. This is huge in weight loss because most women only know Diet Culture. In this episode, I will teach you why understanding what you don't know can help you move forward in your weight loss journey.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/98

Ep #97: Are You Unmotivated in Weight Loss?

August 04, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 26.2 MB

Are you unmotivated or maybe just uninspired in your weight loss journey?  If this is you, you will not want to miss this episode.  I will help you start taking steps forward.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/97

Facebook Live #55: I am Not Doing What I Think I "Should" be Doing

July 31, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 46.2 MB

In this recent Facebook Live, I will teach what to do when you think you know what to do, but just are not doing it. I did this so often and it kept me from starting, it kept me disconnected.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live55

Ep #96: Failing Ahead of Time in Weight Loss

July 28, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 25.7 MB

I would want to lose weight and feel good in my body. I wanted it more than anything but I would keep putting it off. I would fail ahead of time. Has this happened to you?  If so, you do not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/96

Ep #95: Losing Weight When You Don't Have Any Evidence You Can

July 21, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 29.8 MB

Our brains are always looking for evidence that we can or can't do something. We keep this record on repeat, "I can't lose weight for good," and then we build a whole bunch of evidence that it is true. In this episode, I am going to help you build different evidence and challenge your current beliefs.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/95

Facebook Live #54: Believable Thoughts That Sabotage Your Success

July 17, 2021 12:30 - 26 minutes - 48.8 MB

Join me in this recent Facebook Live where we talk about 2 tricky thoughts that sabotage your success.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live54

Ep #94: Impossible to Lose Weight?

July 14, 2021 07:00 - 12 minutes - 23.1 MB

Join me in today's episode where we dive into the word "impossible" and how it shows up and keeps us stuck on the diet roller coaster. You will not want to miss it.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/94

Ep #93: The 3 Types of Hunger and How they Show Up in Weight Loss

July 07, 2021 07:00 - 22 minutes - 40.6 MB

Join me in this episode as I share how hunger shows up and I am introducing a new type of hunger - You will not want to miss it! I will help you become aware and how to handle hunger.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/93

Facebook Live #53: My Favorite Lessons from Jon Acuff

July 03, 2021 07:00 - 27 minutes - 51 MB

Join me in this recent Facebook Live where I share 2 of my favorite lessons from the book "Finish" by Jon Acuff. This book is all about eliminating perfectionism. It is so good! Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live53

Ep #92: What I learned from Jon Acuff

June 30, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutes - 46.7 MB

In this special episode I share 3 learnings from the book "Finish" by Jon Acuff. We are doing a book club in Transform this month and wanted to share a little sneak peek into it.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/92  

Ep #91: What is Hard About Losing Weight and What To Do

June 23, 2021 07:00 - 10 minutes - 19.1 MB

We have believed that weight loss is hard and it keeps us wanting a magical solution. But we do hard. We have done so many hard things as women. Join me in todays show to find out what is really hard.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/91

Facebook Live 52: Magical Food Plans and How They Keep You Stuck

June 19, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 48.8 MB

Join me in this Facebook Live where we dive into magical food plans. We are always searching for the next best thing - the next food or exercise plan but it just keeps us on the diet roller coaster. Love, the Magic is in you.  You do not want to miss.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live52  

EP #90: How to Lose Weight by Eating Foods You Enjoy

June 16, 2021 07:00 - 19 minutes - 36.3 MB

I eat foods that I enjoy - I lost weight eating foods I enjoyed. I eat fuel and non fuel food. There is no good or bad food. Join me in this episode to learn how eating food you enjoy is a key to weight loss success.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/90

Ep #89: Double Down On Time and It Is Not What You Think

June 09, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 30.8 MB

We have been programmed by diet culture that we should lose weight in this short period of time. Remember biggest loser?  Guys dropped 30 pounds in a week, so we go on these quick fix, detox, pills, and potion diets and then stay on the diet roller coaster. Join me in today's show where I am going to show you how to lose weight for the last time.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/89

Facebook Live #51: Feeling Your Feelings and How We Push Them Down

June 05, 2021 07:00 - 29 minutes - 54 MB

We as women push our feelings down - we avoid our feelings by eating all the things. In this recent Facebook Live, I discuss how to feel our feelings and why it is so important in weight loss.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live51

Ep #88: The 5 Phases of Permanent Weight Loss

June 02, 2021 07:00 - 22 minutes - 40.6 MB

Are you ready to lose weight for the last time?  There are 5 phases that you must go through to lose it for good - you do not want to miss this episode!!  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/88  

Ep #87: Waiting Until It Is The Right Time To Lose Weight?

May 26, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 30.8 MB

When is the last time you thought about you, about your dreams, about what you really wanted? I see so many ladies put themselves on the backburner and keep waiting until the "right" time to lose weight. You will not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/87

Facebook Live 50: What to Do When You Start to Give Up

May 22, 2021 07:00 - 27 minutes - 49.7 MB

Join me on my Facebook Live as I talk about what to do when you start to give up on your weight loss goals, when you start to quit. You will not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live50

Ep #86: What Freedom in Weight Loss Really Is

May 19, 2021 07:00 - 15 minutes - 27.9 MB

We think freedom is eating all the things. We have a belief that eating foods that fuel us, is restriction. These thoughts keep us stuck. Join me on this episode to learn about your inner rebel.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/86

Facebook Live 49: The Scale and What the "Number" Really Means

May 15, 2021 07:00 - 28 minutes - 52.6 MB

In this oldie but goodie, I talk all things "scale", why the number is just data and how viewing it differently can help you in your weight loss journey.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live49

Ep #85: How Taking Action On Your Weight Loss Goals Really Feels

May 12, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 26.1 MB

Weight loss can feel hard and learning to take the next best action, 1 simple step forward, is the way to lose weight for good. Listen to this weeks show to see how taking action actually feels and what thoughts you will think before you take action.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/85

Facebook Live 48: The 4 Fundamentals to Lose Weight for Good

May 08, 2021 07:00 - 27 minutes - 49.7 MB

In this recent episode, I teach the 4 fundamentals to losing weight. These fundamentals are the foundation, they are simple, easy, and doable. You will not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live48

Ep #84: Quick Fixes - Why They Don't Work for Long-Term Weight Loss

May 05, 2021 07:00 - 11 minutes - 21.5 MB

I did quick fixes, diets, pills, and all the things to try and lose weight for almost 38 years. It just kept me stuck on the diet roller coaster. I had to learn how to change from the inside out, so I could lose weight for good. You will not want to miss this episode.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/84

Facebook Live 47: The Capacity for Love

May 01, 2021 07:00 - 16 minutes - 29.8 MB

Join me for this oldie but goodie. This is a powerful episode that can change your life and relationships. I will teach you a concept that can help you get unstuck and feel more love for yourself and others.   Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live47

EP #83: The 5 Emotions to Lean Into While Losing Weight

April 28, 2021 07:00 - 14 minutes - 26 MB

There are 5 Emotions I relied on to help me during my weight loss journey. These are powerful emotions that can help you stop quitting on yourself.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/83

Facebook Live 46: How Perfectionism Shows Up in Weight Loss

April 24, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 49.1 MB

Calling all my perfectionists!  I am a recovering perfectionist and this kept me stuck on the diet roller coaster. Join me in this weeks Facebook Live.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live46

Ep #82: Transform Cheat Code to Weight Loss - Success

April 21, 2021 07:00 - 15 minutes - 29 MB

Join me today as I wrap up our 4-part series on the cheat code. This pillar is critical to your success. I am going to teach you how to set yourself up for success and also how to find your successes. You will not want to miss it.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/82

Facebook Live 45: How to Stop Desiring to Overeat and Allow Urges

April 17, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 56.7 MB

Join me for an oldie but goodie.  I will teach you how to desire food less and how to handle urges. This technique is so good, you will not want to miss it.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live45

Ep #81: Transform Cheat Code to Weight Loss - Immersion

April 14, 2021 07:00 - 7 minutes - 13.4 MB

Join me today as I talk about an important part of weight loss and changing your thoughts and beliefs.  You will walk away knowing exactly how to immerse yourself in this content and why it is important! Get full show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/81