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Weight Loss for Successful Women

326 episodes - English - Latest episode: 10 days ago - ★★★★★ - 82 ratings

It’s time to get off the diet roller coaster. So many successful women are thriving in most areas of their lives - family, love, business, leadership - but continue to struggle with their weight. They feel hopeless and frustrated with diets and false promises.

There is a different way - one that doesn’t involve dieting, endless products, or counting every calorie.

Your host Shannan Christiansen is a Fortune 100 Executive and Weight Loss Coach. Five years ago she decided she’d never diet again, and found a way to lose eighty pounds while transforming her relationship with her body.

Each week, we’ll explore the thoughts and feelings that contribute to the struggles many successful women have with weight. If you’re tired of the typical approach to losing weight and are ready to try something new, you’re in the right place.

To learn more, visit bflycoaching.com.

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Ep #188: How to Know When You Have Had Enough

May 03, 2023 07:00 - 16 minutes - 23.3 MB

Have you ever felt sluggish, tired, or had a belly ache after you eat? If so, this episode has so many great nuggets of information for you. Over time, we have disconnected from our bodies and lost the ability to know when we’ve had enough to eat. In today’s episode, I will teach you how to slowly reconnect with your body and how to quickly start to use the tips I will share with you today so that you can start to understand when your body has had enough.   Get more information and show ...

Ep #187: Feeling In Control Around Food

April 26, 2023 07:00 - 15 minutes - 21 MB

Do you think there are foods you just can't control yourself around food?  I want to challenge that and give you my take on it. I will give you a few steps to change that belief.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/187 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #186: 3 Thoughts to Change to Lose Weight

April 19, 2023 07:00 - 16 minutes - 22.1 MB

Our thinking is what creates how we feel and then we do or don't do something from that feeling. In this show, I explore 3 thoughts that are keeping you stuck on the diet roller coaster and what to do to change them.    Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/186 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #185: Is a Magical Food Plan the Answer?

April 12, 2023 07:00 - 14 minutes - 19.9 MB

If you have been looking for a magical food plan, this episode is for you.  Humans have a bias towards what is familiar, what we know and it keeps us stuck with extra weight you may not want.  In this episode, I will teach you 3 steps and give you my take on how to lose weight and heal your relationship with food.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/185 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #184: How a Review Process Helped Me Lose Weight

April 05, 2023 07:00 - 13 minutes - 18.3 MB

In today’s episode, you will discover: How I used a review process to help me lose weight. This process has allowed me to live in a body that feels like freedom. It has allowed me to live a life that I have created, not one that someone created for me. Listen for my take on why the review process is important for your weight loss journey.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/184 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #183: Living in Your Success is the Magic

March 29, 2023 07:00 - 14 minutes - 20 MB

In today’s episode, you will discover: How going to a bike shop made me look for my success instead of quitting. In any journey, you are going to have challenges. You will have times when you want to quit. We think our past is evidence of our future, but our past is the bridge to our future. Our past makes us who we are. I will give you my take on how to overcome your challenges and start finding your success.   Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/183 F...

Ep #182: Why Going Solo is Keeping You From Losing Weight

March 22, 2023 07:00 - 12 minutes - 17.5 MB

You can try to lose weight by yourself - I tried for most of my life but I think it can keep you on the diet roller coaster longer. Having support and accountability is an important part of the "losing weight for good" process.  Join me in this episode as I share why and what to do.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/182 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #181: How Sabotage is Sidelining Your Weight Loss

March 15, 2023 07:00 - 15 minutes - 22 MB

  In today’s episode, you will discover: Have you ever had things going well in your life and then all of the sudden, boom, things start going back down? You have lost weight, but then you start overeating, you start quitting on yourself, you say you’ll start again on Monday. Sabotage is something we all do. I will teach you three steps to handle your self-sabotage. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/181 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #180: What is Better Than the Scale in Weight Loss

March 08, 2023 08:00 - 20 minutes - 28.6 MB

If you are anything like me, you have a love/hate relationship with the scale. We have tied so much to the scale and what we make it mean about us. In this show I give you my take on how I have changed the way I think of it and how it helped me to lose weight.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/180 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #179: Are You Having an Overdesire for Food?

March 01, 2023 08:00 - 16 minutes - 22.6 MB

Desire is an emotion but many of us have an overdesire to food. We don't believe that we can lose weight because we feel out of control. In this episode, I give you 4 steps to overcome your overdesire for food.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/179 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #178: Eating to Feel Numb

February 22, 2023 08:00 - 14 minutes - 20.1 MB

We buffer our emotions by overeating, this is one of the main reasons why we carry extra weight. When you overeat you become numb and stop feeling emotions including the good ones. Join Coach Jenn and I to hear our take on feeling all the feelings.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/178 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #177: Using the Pause Button in Weight Loss

February 15, 2023 08:00 - 13 minutes - 18.7 MB

In this show, you will learn how the power of the pause can help you make a better decision for yourself. So much of the time you are in your automatic brain and Coach Jenn and I will teach you how to get into your thinking brain more. Coach Jenn shares 1 question that can change everything. Listen in to learn how this will help you stay on your journey to losing weight for the last time.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/177 Follow me on Instagram: @sha...

Ep #176: Is Good Bye Eating Showing Up and Wrecking Your Efforts

February 08, 2023 08:00 - 6 minutes - 9.16 MB

You will learn what goodbye eating is and how it is keeping you on the diet rollercoaster. You get my take on what to do so you can have success this year. Losing weight is about doing something different and thinking differently about how to do it. You do not need to stop eating food you like to lose weight. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/176 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #175: Exercise Can Sabotage Your Weight Loss Efforts

February 01, 2023 08:00 - 7 minutes - 10.5 MB

You will learn why you don’t need to exercise to lose weight. Why it is just a myth and something we have been sold on. How it can actually hinder your weight loss and what to do about it. I give you an alternative take on how to think about it. You don’t want to miss this one. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/175 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen    

Ep #174: I Feel Out Of Control When It Comes to Food

January 25, 2023 08:00 - 7 minutes - 10.5 MB

Join me in this T-BOSS Take where I cover this thought, "I am out of control."  I give you steps to be in control and new thoughts to think.  If you have ever thought, "I just can't control" myself, then this episode is for you.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/174 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #173: How to Stop the YOYO of the Diet Roller Coaster

January 18, 2023 08:00 - 5 minutes - 7.96 MB

In todays T-BOSS Take, I teach you how allowance and restriction have played a part in your weight loss journey. How restriction has kept you on the diet roller coaster and how the only way to lose weight for the long term is through allowance. If you have ever thought “I will be good tomorrow when I start my diet”, then this episode is for you. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/173 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #172: Why You Can't Stop Eating & Dopamine Hunger

January 11, 2023 08:00 - 5 minutes - 7.79 MB

In Today's T-BOSS Take, I share my take on Dopamine and how it shows up when you are eating. I give 3 tips on how to make it easier on yourself so you can recognize when you are feeling satisfied.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/172 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #171: How to Handle Hunger with T-BOSS Take 1

January 04, 2023 08:00 - 7 minutes - 9.91 MB

In this episode I will show you how emotional eating shows up and how it has left you feeling numb. I will teach you a 3-step process to handle your hunger with a quick tip that takes less than 30 seconds. If you are an emotional eater, you will not want to miss this episode. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/171 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #170: How Regret Keeps You From Losing Weight

December 28, 2022 08:00 - 8 minutes - 12.2 MB

Regret is a powerful emotion, when most ladies feel it, they want to shutdown and disconnect. We cannot change our pasts, even what we did yesterday but we can do something different in this moment. In today's show, I teach you how regret shows up and what to do to double down on your success.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/170 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #169: How Regret Shows Up In Loss

December 21, 2022 08:00 - 8 minutes - 11.1 MB

My mom passed and I miss her so much. The holidays are full of amazingness and sadness. I want to feel all of it. When my mom first passed, I had a lot of thoughts about what I “should” have done, I had regrets. The regret turned into a way that I could push down sadness, and then that turned into overeating. In this episode I share a simple way to allow the sadness and not play in the puddle. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/169

Ep #168: 3 Things That Have Helped Me Be Successful

December 14, 2022 08:00 - 13 minutes - 18.7 MB

Join me as I share the top 3 things that have helped me lose weight and get off the diet roller coaster. These are simple things but they help you change your mindset so you can lose weight for the last time.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/168 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

EP #167: What I Learned From The Gap & The Gain

December 07, 2022 08:00 - 11 minutes - 16.2 MB

I used to think that if I would focus on my challenges and failures that I could improve them and then I would lose weight. But it does not work long term, it keeps you thinking that you are not doing enough and then you start comparing yourself to others. In this episode, I share 3 things that reinforced my beliefs about losing weight for the last time and what you really have to do.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/167 Follow me on Instagram: @shannan...

Ep #166: What I Learned From Mel Robbins

November 30, 2022 08:00 - 8 minutes - 16.1 MB

In today’s episode, I share what I love about the book, High Five Habits by Mel Robbins. In this book, Mel shares a simple 2-minute daily practice that can help you start to see yourself differently. I share 3 things I love about this book and how you can start implementing them into your daily routines. Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/166 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Ep #165: 2 Simple Steps to Help You With Holiday Meals

November 23, 2022 08:00 - 13 minutes - 24.5 MB

How to use my simple 2-part process so you can eat without the shame and guilt this holiday season. In this process you will learn how to decide ahead of time and what to do when you are facing challenges – like a food pusher or feeling grief and loss during this time. Holidays are meant for fun and joy but for many of us they bring a whole lot of baggage and overeating. You won’t want to miss this episode as I also share simple tricks to help you during your holiday meal. Get show notes...

Ep #164: Bust Those Old Diet Beliefs Part 3

November 16, 2022 08:00 - 20 minutes - 37.8 MB

In the last of this series, Coach Jenn and I bust through old diet beliefs that can keep you stuck. Today we teach you how to turn in your membership to the clean plate club and how to start to want more for yourself than a cupcake.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/164 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #163: Bust Those Old Diet Beliefs Part 2

November 09, 2022 08:00 - 19 minutes - 36.6 MB

Join Coach Jenn and I in part 2 of a 3 part series on busting old diet beliefs and myths. In this episode we dive into excersise and last suppering. We give you actionable steps so you can think and do differently.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/163 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #162: Bust Those Old Diet Beliefs

November 02, 2022 07:00 - 20 minutes - 37.8 MB

Coach Jenn and I take a deep dive into the diet beliefs, and we do our own version of myth busters, what the diet beliefs are and how to move forward from them. We give you simple solutions to bust your old diet beliefs like cutting out food groups and that you must eat at a certain time of day. Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/162 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #161: Ohh the Holidays

October 26, 2022 07:00 - 8 minutes - 15.3 MB

In this episode, I give you 3 steps to move through the holidays. We have spent years doing for others in the holidays and they leave us feeling overwhelmed and reaching for the nearest cookie.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/161 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Bonus - How to Lose Weight and Get Off the Diet Roller Coaster

October 20, 2022 07:00 - 9 minutes - 16.8 MB

Ready to finally stop dieting and get off the diet roller coaster. I want to introduce you to Transform Boss and how you can get support and have the tools that you need to live your best life in a body you love.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/BE1 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen jointransformboss.com

EP #160: What Have You Given Up On In Your Weight Loss Journey

October 19, 2022 07:00 - 12 minutes - 22.5 MB

We have stopped dreaming and desiring things for ourselves. We stop having hope that we can lose weight for the last time. We become indifferent to our goals, dreams, and desires. I will teach you 3 steps so you can start going after your goals again.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/160 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #159: How to Heal Your Relationship with Food for Long Term Success

October 12, 2022 07:00 - 11 minutes - 21.5 MB

There are 5 steps to my healing process and healing your relationship is important for long term success with losing weight.  You will walk away with knowing why and how healing your relationship with food.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/159 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #158: Showing Up for You During the Holidays

October 05, 2022 07:00 - 14 minutes - 26.7 MB

Do you love the holidays but find that you lose yourself in them. I used to do all the things for everyone else. I love the holidays and all of our traditions. In this episode, I teach you how to show up for yourself even during the holidays.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/158 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #157: How Dieting is Sabotaging Your Weight Loss

September 28, 2022 07:00 - 12 minutes - 23 MB

Dieting has trained your brain to think food is a scarce resource so you want to overeat it.  When you tell yourself you can't have the cupcake, then all you want is the cupcake. In this episode, I will teach you what to do to so you can continue to heal your relationship with food.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/157 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #156: The Scale and What the Number Really Means

September 21, 2022 07:00 - 10 minutes - 18.7 MB

Join me in this episode where I teach you about healing your thinking around the scale and what you weigh. You may think "If I just" lose all my weight then everything will be good but if you don't change your thinking now you may sabotage your success.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/156 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #155: Weight Loss Q&A Part 2

September 14, 2022 07:00 - 21 minutes - 39.3 MB

In this episode Coach Jenn and I answer more questions. We talk about excersise and how to think about it to lose weight. We also teach you about perfectionism and how it keeps you stuck on the diet roller coaster.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/155 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #154: Weight Loss Q&A Part 1

September 07, 2022 07:00 - 16 minutes - 30.5 MB

In this episode, we answer questions from listeners and our ladies on weight loss. In this episode you will learn what to do when you want to eat everything and how to start allowing instead of restricting.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/154 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

EP #153: The COST of Losing Weight Part 2

August 31, 2022 07:00 - 6 minutes - 12.8 MB

There is a COST to losing weight and it might not be what you think it is, join me today as I share the last 2 steps in the COST method.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/153 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #152: The COST Of Losing Weight For The Last Time

August 24, 2022 07:00 - 8 minutes - 16.3 MB

There is a cost when you live in a body that you don't love and carry extra weight but I want to teach you the real COST and steps to losing weight for the last time.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/152 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #151: You Never Have To Start Over Again

August 17, 2022 07:00 - 9 minutes - 16.9 MB

We have these limiting beliefs that we need to start over, we are behind, we should do it all. These keep us stuck on the diet roller coaster. Join me in this episode where I teach you what to do so you never have to start over.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/151 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #150: The Basics of Weight Loss Success Tips

August 10, 2022 07:00 - 33 minutes - 60.6 MB

In this special episode, Coach Jenn and I share our best tips on implementing the fundamentals to long term weight loss success.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/150 Follow me on instagram @shannanchristiansen    

Ep #149: The Fear of Gaining It Back

August 03, 2022 07:00 - 8 minutes - 16.4 MB

I lost and gained weight so many times. I developed a fear of gaining it back, this fear would keep me from even trying to lose weight or I would sabotage myself after I had lost it.  Listen in for 5 tips on how to manage this thought. Weight Loss for Successful Women Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/149 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Ep #148: How to Start Losing Weight for The Last Time

July 27, 2022 07:00 - 12 minutes - 23.5 MB

I wanted to lose weight so badly that I would try any diet or quick fix.  When I decided to lose weight for the last time I had to do it differenly, I had to start differently. Listen to this episode to find out how.  Weight Loss for Successful Women Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/148 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

EP #147: Reinforcements from Soundtracks by Jon Acuff

July 20, 2022 07:00 - 15 minutes - 27.8 MB

We did a bookclub in Transform and I am sharing all of the good stuff in this book.  I relate it to weight loss and how to keep moving forward. There are 3 simple questions that are life and weight changing.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/147 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Facebook Live #74: How Fear and Failure Keeps You Stuck

July 13, 2022 15:00 - 26 minutes - 47.9 MB

Join me in week 8 of this special 8-week series on getting off of the diet roller coaster!  I talk about fear and failure and how they keep you stuck and what to do.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live74 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

EP #146: The Why of Weight Loss

July 13, 2022 07:00 - 10 minutes - 20.1 MB

Knowing your why is so important as you lose weight but also to understand how your thoughts about it can derail you so you sabotage.  I will give you some tips on how to keep moving forward.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/146 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen    

Facebook Live #73: Are You Tired of Wasting Time & Money?

July 10, 2022 20:11 - 30 minutes - 56 MB

Join me as I talk about investing in yourself and how you can do it without wasting any of it. You do not want to miss week 7 of this special 8-week Facebook Live Series.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live73 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen  

Ep #145: How to Lose the Guilt

July 06, 2022 07:00 - 27 minutes - 51.2 MB

We as women carry a lot of guilt and shame around showing up for ourselves. In this episode Sr. weight loss coach Jenn Taylor and I have a conversation on why and then how to change it.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/145 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Facebook Live #72 Can't find the time for yourself?

July 01, 2022 07:00 - 31 minutes - 58 MB

Do you find that you are so busy that you can't find any time for yourself or your weight loss journey - you will not want to miss this Facebook Live! Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live72 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

EP #144: Two Critical Things to Your Success in Weight Loss

June 29, 2022 07:00 - 10 minutes - 19.3 MB

In this episode, I want to share 2 important components to losing weight for the last time. I am going to explain why they are important, what they are, and how they get you off the diet roller coaster.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/144 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen

Facebook Live #71: I Just Want to Eat Like a Normal Person

June 24, 2022 07:00 - 29 minutes - 54.1 MB

I had this thought a lot and it kept me focused on some diet or quick fix. In tonights live, I am going to dig into Fuel and Hunger. You will not want to miss it.  Get show notes and more information here: https://bflycoaching.com/live71 Follow me on Instagram @shannanchristiansen