So, Revz is flip-flopping on the fur-ball, which is oddly out of character, but that's kinda the vibe of this year, isn't it? Gem is musing on the sex vibe in her house, and tells us all the 25 stage process she needs to go through before she's "in the mood" (enter sex candle). Revzy has found a new joy in her life, which involves humiliating her kids. Gem has reached the stage with Raffa where she can turn shame into a teaching moment and she's feeling the weight of the responsibility. Gem feels awful, Revz thinks it productive and then its Gem's turn to spiral. Then look, we get deep, very deep, about spirituality, self, responsibility and happiness and well, we just go with it. Thank you for coming to our TED talk, Besties, we're Gurus now.