Permission to Speak Freely (#3): Creating Space for Love to Grow (Nancy Wilson) :: January 20-21, 2007. Summary: We receive permission to speak freely in the secret chambers of prayer; there we learn to grant others the same permission; thus we are to become a community that together learns to "speak the truth in love" and brings that freedom into the world. "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work." (Eph. 4: 11-16)