Unfu*k Your Mindset

EP 38: The True Key To Freedom with William Bonnell

As Uncle Ben Parker from SpiderMan said, "With great power comes great responsibility." But the problem in most people is that they love the power, freedom, and all other perks but hate responsibility and accountability. And it's extremely unfortunate how some would be so willing to give up the power and control they have over their lives just to get rid of being accountable to something. The only time you will be truly free is when you take personal accountability of everything that you d...

EP 37: From Hood Hustler To Wholesaling Millionaire with Nasar Elarabi Interview

This week Brayand is joined by Nasar Elarabi to share his story which shows the power of a great mindset. Being from the hood and growing up in a tough community didn't stop him from having a life of no limitations and success. Now, he is a real estate investor, author, coach, and more and shares what mindsets allowed him to create this live of abundance.  Tune in to learn how successful people think, and how to get the right mindset for success.  Social Media - @realestatedoru Faceboo...

EP 37: Transformation From Hustler To Millionaire CEO with Nasar Elarabi Interview

This week Brayand is joined by Nasar Elarabi to share his story which shows the power of a great mindset. Being from the hood and growing up in a tough community didn't stop him from having a life of no limitations and success. Now, he is a real estate investor, author, coach, and more and shares what mindsets allowed him to create this live of abundance.  Tune in to learn how successful people think, and how to get the right mindset for success.  Social Media - @realestatedoru Faceboo...

EP 36: 40 Years Of Success... How To Stay On Top

What did he learn for 40 years of success in his real estate journey? Today we are joined by Russel to share his inspirational entrepreneurial journey. Being in real estate since 1978, he shares how he changed his mindset and became more successful as time goes by! One of his keys for success is that on any goal that you want to achieve, you have to look in the direction you want to go and not at why you can’t do it. The attitude you go into business with has a huge impact on the result, and...

EP 35: Mindset Of A Real Estate Disruptor

In this episode, Brayand is joined by Steve Trang to talk about his journey and how he got to where he is now. Steve is a real estate broker, and currently runs a podcast named Real Estate Disruptors which is one of the most popular real estate investing podcasts.He shares he most impactful tips for the industry.  One huge takeaway is that our mindset is the first thing we need in achieving success and as far as the mindset goes, you can’t care what your friends have to say and in a lot of...

EP 34: The Power of Manifestation

In this episode, Brayand is joined by Mark Warlick to talk about the power of manifestation and how it changed both of their lives. Mark is a real estate entrepreneur and long time friend of Brayand.  He shares a story of how manifesting allowed him to successfully increase his income by 50%, and how you can use start manifesting today! Throughout the episode you'll  get many tips on how to manifest your goals and dream life to reality. If you're looking to learn how to manifest, how to ra...

EP 33: Lessons From My Mentor

What are the most important life lessons? In this episode we're joined by Brayand's mentor of over 10 years, Jeff Fagin and he shares his most important life lessons with the listeners. Jeff is a powerful mentor who teaches people how to achieve their full potential!  Important lessons on financial freedom, commitment, and what true success it are all explained in this episode!Everybody needs a mentor, someone who can see ahead of you. However, it is also important to find the one that res...

EP 32: I Always Knew

In this episode, Brayand talks about how he always know that he would be successful, he always knew he would be a millionaire and love his life. You can do it too, if you truly believe you can, if you KNOW you can. This is the power of your mind!  He explains that the physical world is nothing more than a printout of your spiritual, mental, and your emotional states. Everything in life starts with your thoughts, so when you learn to unf*ck your mindset, you learn to unf*ck your whole life ...

Episode 32: I Always Knew

In this episode, Brayand talks about how he always know that he would be successful, he always knew he would be a millionaire and love his life. You can do it too, if you truly believe you can, if you KNOW you can. This is the power of your mind!  He explains that the physical world is nothing more than a printout of your spiritual, mental, and your emotional states. Everything in life starts with your thoughts, so when you learn to unf*ck your mindset, you learn to unf*ck your whole life ...

EP 31: How Disciplined Are You

How disciplined are you? How to build discipline? In this episode, Brayand talks about the power of building discipline. He shares his own struggle with discipline as well as overcoming it.  Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Especially in the beginning, you tend to lose more than you win. However, if you stay disciplined and if you stay the course, slowly but surely that scale is going to tilt.   If you’re looking to level up your life, change your mindset for the better, or get som...

EP 30: Mental Discipline

If you are wondering how to build mental discipline or why it’s important, this episode with our host, Brayand, shares the importance of building mental discipline. Through his experience of doing a 7-day fast, he learned so much and shares it all.   A lot of the stuff he does is based on instinct and energy, which is fine but if you are not disciplined you can only go so far. Your mind is powerful, it controls everything. If you can control your mind and build discipline, it will take you...

EP 29: Lessons in The Karate Kid

The Karate Kid movie portrays many great life lessons, Brayand is here in this episode to explain what life lessons he believes the movie portrays.  First, he gives a general breakdown of Karate Kid movie, then shares the lessons.  A few of the lessons are: It's not going to work out the way you want it to or the way you thought it will, a bad teacher creates bad students, doing what you are told not to do, the power of commitment, why meditation is important, and more!  If you are looki...

EP 28: How Teachable Are You?

"Usually the people who don't have shit think they know everything." - BP During this motivational Monday, Brayand explains how most won't admit that it's not the lack of information available but the fact that were not teachable. It is now time to admit it, uncomfortable or not, owning it so you can change it is a MUST. Our competition within should be being the most willing to learn. The goal is to become a learn It all and not a know it all. The willingness to own that we don't know w...

EP 27: Stop Giving a Fuck What People Think!

How to stop caring about what other people think! In this episode, BP talks about how we should not care about what other people think and continue to be ourselves. Be who you are because those that mind don't matter and those that matter, don't mind. This episode brings you great tips for developing a good mindset for life, success, entrepreneurship, and more! A strong mindset is very important and with knowledge from the host, Brayand, you can massively grow your mindset!

EP 26: I Create My Own Reality!

In this episode, BP talks about how we actually create our own reality. The situations and feelings that we have right now is all created by us. We have to un-learn the things that we were taught growing up. Stop playing the victim and trying to justify the bad things you are experiencing. Stop playing victim, stop settling for a job that you can't stand, stop creating a negative reality. Start working on a positive mental attitude, work on being financially free, and work hard for your ...

EP 25: Let That Shit Go

 In this episode, BP talks about how we must let things go in order to have a peaceful mind. Through his own experiences, he learned that anger and resentment doesn’t good us any good. We deserve a peace of mind,  so we should let go of things that hold us back from it. A lot of people are holding onto resentment. When you go for something because of resentment, even if you succeed, you will never be happy. You don’t understand the damage you do to yourself until it’s too late.  One huge t...

EP 24: Remaining Calm During the Storm

In This episode, BP talks about remaining calm during the storm. Growing up in the inner city of Los Angeles, one of the things that are shoved right in front of your face from a very young age is racism. He has experience racism many times in his life. He remembers thinking to himself as a kid that he wishes he was born white.  The main reason why people can’t have a civilized discussion about what’s going on is that nobody can remove their emotion from what is going on. If you don’t co...

EP 23: Be Selfish!

In this episode BP talks about being selfish. Think about yourself and absolutely nobody else. Put yourself first. You can only give from what you overflow. We’ve all heard from our parents, our teachers and the society that the most selfless people are the best people in society. If you’re a parent who are your kids going to depend on if you’re not well? How are you going to take care of your kids when you are struggling financially or mentally or emotionally yourself, when all you do is ...

EP 22: What You Focus on Expands

What do you focus on? In this episode BP talks about how the things we focus on expand.   Fear runs most people‘s lives. Nothing causes more fear than uncertainty. Uncertainty makes us focus on fear. What you focus on expands. Where focus goes energy flows and results shows. He encourages the listeners to think about what you focus on. What our mind goes to in any situation and how long you stay there.     Problems lead to opportunity, opportunity leads to wealth. Don't focus on the ...

EP 21: Know Thy Self

In this episode of Unf*ck your Mindset, BP talks about knowing yourself. Today’s topic is the 100% basis of Unf*ck Your Mindset. Your worst enemy is you. Your mind is not your friend. That chattering voice you hear over and over, constantly pointing out everything that is wrong, constantly helping you avoid situations and problems. He loves and finds inspiration from the book Art of War, the book’s author‘s philosophy is: “If you know thy self and if you know the enemy, you have nothing ...

EP 20: Intention vs Counter Intention

In this episode of Unf*ck Your Mindset, BP touches on last week’s topic about affirmation and declaration and that doing this is also doing what he calls intention and counter intention. The reason why affirmations don’t work on most people is because it allows doubt to creep in to your mind. Most people don’t have the mental capacity to actually believe the affirmation and if you don’t believe, not only are you not going to get it but you’re actually going to attract more doubt.  As you...

Episode 19 - Mutha Fuckan Affirmation

In this week's episode of UnF*ck Your Mindset, the host, BP, talks about affirmations. He shares that affirmations are making up things that haven’t happened and pretending that it happened already, and thinks it’s a waste of time and energy that creates doubt.  Affirmations and vision boards are not for everyone, they only work on certain people.  It sounds nice and makes you feel good at the moment but it doesn’t accomplish anything.  BP explains that there is a difference between an...

EP 19: Mutha Fuck An Affirmation

In this week's episode of UnF*ck Your Mindset, the host, BP, talks about affirmations. He shares that affirmations are making up things that haven’t happened and pretending that it happened already, and thinks it’s a waste of time and energy that creates doubt.  Affirmations and vision boards are not for everyone, they only work on certain people.  It sounds nice and makes you feel good at the moment but it doesn’t accomplish anything.  BP explains that there is a difference between an...

Episode 19 - Mutha Fuck An Affirmation

In this week's episode of UnF*ck Your Mindset, the host, BP, talks about affirmations. He shares that affirmations are making up things that haven’t happened and pretending that it happened already, and thinks it’s a waste of time and energy that creates doubt.  Affirmations and vision boards are not for everyone, they only work on certain people.  It sounds nice and makes you feel good at the moment but it doesn’t accomplish anything.  BP explains that there is a difference between an...

EP 18: Is your Mind Recession Proof?

Brayand talks about the fact that because most of us are creatures of habit, most of us are losing our minds having to be locked up in our house for a while. Anybody can be happy and positive when things are going great but your true character will show when things aren’t going good. Choosing not to participate in the recession, meaning not letting it dictate you mind, your decisions and scare you.  Change equals opportunity and opportunity equals wealth.  Every time something changes th...

EP 17: Never Stop Learning

"You cannot fix your problems with the same mind that created them." This week, Brayand talks to us about the importance of continued learning. He shares about working with his mentor’s and being in his classes for 10 years. They study the same book over and over again but he still shows up, listens, and pays attention. Never stop learning. Be a "learn-it-all" and not a "know-it-all." The three most dangerous words to human beings are “I know that”. The only way that you know that you kn...

EP 16: Am I Worthy?

"We all get what we believe deep down that we deserve." In this episode Brayand talks about an experience with one of his one on one coaching clients and how when most people mention "the problem" or what they are struggling with, its usually much deeper. Brayand challenges us to ask ourselves the right question as it's critical to focus on the root and not the symptom. If you don’t continue working on your mindset, whether things are good or bad, at some point your mindset is going to r...

EP #15: Birds of a Feather Flock Together

"You are the sum of the people you surround yourself with." Ever heard that? Some people believe they are exempt from the rule but Brayand breaks down clearly that that simply is not true. He explains that every single time if you show people who you hang around with than that shows who you really are. Brayand opens up about what many won't by saying, "I don't have regular friends, I don't hang out with people who are not business owners or entrepreneurs." Brayand explains this is not be...

EP 15: Birds of a Feather Flock Together

"You are the sum of the people you surround yourself with." Ever heard that? Some people believe they are exempt from the rule but Brayand breaks down clearly that that simply is not true. He explains that every single time if you show people who you hang around with than that shows who you really are. Brayand opens up about what many won't by saying, "I don't have regular friends, I don't hang out with people who are not business owners or entrepreneurs." Brayand explains this is not be...

EP 14 : The Only Thing To Fear is Fear Itself

Enough is enough, right? It feels like we are on day 571955 of this quarantine and the excessive fear only seems to be on the rise.  This episode is important because Brayand wants you to understand what you are experiencing and why it's important you control what's controllable. You are not alone, and the more fear you enroll in by choice, the more you anticipate pain. The only thing to fear, is fear itself and fear is anticipating tomorrow with no real evidence. F.E.A.R. = False Eviden...

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Ep 13: This Too Shall Pass

In todays episode, Brayand addresses everything we are currently dealing with around the coronavirus. Are you tired of hearing this yet and everything the media has told you about it? He explains how the medias job is to take away our focus and keep us coming back to read and check-in over and over and over. He uncovers what's real and what's not and how we as humans were created to handle situations like this.  Trauma, blanketed fear, and anything that is leading us straight to the unknow...

EP 12: Learning From Your Mistakes

"I am a smart man because I live from my own mistakes, but I am a FUCKING genius for learning from other peoples mistakes." While it makes since to fail and learn lessons on your own, in this episode Brayand reminds us that we DO NOT have enough time in this life time to learn every single one of them the hard way. It is imperative that we become open to learning rom the mistakes of others. If you think that "working on yourself is boring" then you must consider that in order to stay abo...

EP 11: Slow and Steady Wins The Race

While "sleep when your dead" seems to be a popular saying these days and something many entrepreneurs live by, Brayand breaks down exactly why it's not! As a child, the saying "be the first one in and last one out" was instilled in Brayand so much that he even got it tattooed on him. Only to realize later, it's complete bullshit! It's not the right or healthy way to run anything that you want to last. The age old story, "slow and steady wins the race" is something Brayand has found to be t...

Ep 10: Happiness is a State of Mind

There is no better question to ask yourself before listening to this episode than, "are you truly happy?" For many, this is where most people get stuck. The unfortunately reality of living in a capitalist country is how spoiled we've become and how we are never satisfied with what we have. We are all on a fleeting journey of acquiring everything we don't need to meet some unachievable level of success or status.  In this episode, Brayand talks about learning the hard way that happiness i...

EP 9: Pruning Your Tree Of Life

Most people will continue to struggle not because of laziness or lack of resources but because of their unwillingness to cut people off and "prune their tree" often. Even when you don't like the way it looks, the dead ends of our hair have to be cut off regularly in order for the hair to grow......and just like your hair, your success is the same. Your success is depending on it. Some people who are lucky enough to experience great levels of success early on, they even think will find them...

Ep 8: Create Your Own Reality

Just like brushing your teeth and taking a shower daily, these things are only useful when done daily. The same goes for unfucking your mindset.  Once you decide, the work has to be done daily as all of us are born and raised with a mindset that has to be unraveled and retrained. Some of you are fighting against 25, 35, and even 45+ years of gathered evidence that has led you to believe you know how things go. In this episode, Brayand helps us to understand you have the power to decide a...

EP 7: Your Roots Create Your Fruits

TFAR? Ever heard of it? Not the most common acronym but what this means is critical to understand when trying to understand how to truly manifest the life you desire. If you're focused on the actions that you are missing a key step. One must understand that..... Your thoughts lead to ----> Feelings.  Your feelings lead to ------> Actions. Your actions lead to ------> Results.  In this episode, Brayand breaks down an exercise to use how important it is before manifesting the life ...

EP 6: Why Do You Want What You Want

EP 5: Why Clarity Leads To Power

Brayand uncovers in this episode how he met his long time business mentor and how the first thing he told him was life changing! "Clarity leads to power." Brayand was doing a lot of things at the time but was not sure what he wanted to focus on. The truth is that most of you do not know what you want and this creates a lack of clarity which is always the reason you are not operating from your most powerful place.  Just like a relationship, one of the biggest mistakes people make is goi...

EP 4: How You Do Anything Is How You Do Everything!

EP 3: Kicking Fear In The Ass In 2020!

EP 2: Heres Where The BullSh*t Started - How You Developed A F*cked Up Mindset

The unfortunate reality of unf*cking your mindset is that it can not be done within a day or two of hard work. The reason why it can't be done so quickly is because each of us is facing years and years of things we've been told by our parents, society, and even our loved ones and friends.  Unfortunately, they don't know better either because they just repeat what they've learned. It's time for you to break the cycle and get committed to seeing, thinking, and acting differently. In this epi...

Heres Where The BullSh*t Started - How You Developed A F*cked Up Mindset

The unfortunate reality of unf*cking your mindset is that it can not be done within a day or two of hard work. The reason why it can't be done so quickly is because each of us is facing years and years of things we've been told by our parents, society, and even our loved ones and friends.  Unfortunately, they don't know better either because they just repeat what they've learned. It's time for you to break the cycle and get committed to seeing, thinking, and acting differently. In this epi...

Time To UnF*ck Your Mindset

Welcome to the UnFuck Your Mindset Podcast!  Before we jump in strategies, learned experience, and removing the beliefs that allow us to have a fucked up mindset, it's important that you meet your host, Brayand Ponciano. Real Estate Investor and serial entrepreneur, Brayand has learned one very important thing after years running successful businesses, you have nothing without your mindset.  In this episode, Brayand uncovers his childhood growing up in the streets of LA and why his pri...

EP 1: Time To UnF*ck Your Mindset

Welcome to the UnFuck Your Mindset Podcast!  Before we jump in strategies, learned experience, and removing the beliefs that allow us to have a fucked up mindset, it's important that you meet your host, Brayand Ponciano. Real Estate Investor and serial entrepreneur, Brayand has learned one very important thing after years running successful businesses, you have nothing without your mindset.  In this episode, Brayand uncovers his childhood growing up in the streets of LA and why his pri...

Kicking Fear In The Ass In 2020!