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Under Our Roof

181 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago - ★★★★★ - 332 ratings

Hosts Grace and Lizzie invite you into the conversations they're having at home, whether about becoming new parents, their favorite queer content lately, or what's for dinner this week. New episodes every Monday.

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#178: A Little Life Update (Clickbait but also we really do have an update)

April 22, 2024 07:00 - 10 minutes - 7.57 MB

Recorded after a long day of travel, Grace and Lizzie give a quick update of an exciting development in their lives! UOR will be back next week with a full episode. 

#177: A Loopy Book Report

April 08, 2024 07:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

In the midst of a sleep regression, Grace interviews Lizzie about her reading journey while nursing Frances so far.

#176: Yapping About Online Displays of Affection

April 01, 2024 07:00 - 39 minutes - 27.3 MB

In this first “real” episode back in a few weeks, Grace and Lizzie yap about their thoughts on public gushing on the internet—and maybe change their opinions partway through.

#175: Lizzie’s Declassified Guide

March 25, 2024 07:00 - 37 minutes - 25.7 MB

By listener request, this is a solo episode of Lizzie’s “declassified guide” to law school and beyond. 

#174: Will We Be Strict Parents?

March 04, 2024 08:00 - 47 minutes - 33 MB

Two months into parenthood, Grace and Lizzie are asking the question: will they be strict with Frances? Listen in for their thoughts on tattoos, the drinking age, curfews, and more. 

#173: What Do I Do All Day With A Baby?

February 26, 2024 08:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MB

In this solo audio message from Lizzie, she shares what it’s actually like hanging with a baby all day and what you *need* and don’t need in terms of baby products. 

#172: Who Is God's Best? (Hint: Not Us)

February 19, 2024 08:00 - 57 minutes - 39.2 MB

Inspired by a recent online debate, Grace and Lizzie give their (sometimes heated) take on "Side A" and "Side B" Christians. If you don't know what that means, listen in for an explanation and some updated thoughts from the hosts on queerness and religion. 

#171: Where Were You When...?

February 12, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 42.1 MB

Where were you when the world stopped turning? Grace and Lizzie share their memories of pivotal moments throughout their lives, on both a personal level and in global news. 

#170: A Postpartum Fireside Chat

February 05, 2024 08:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MB

In this solo episode, Lizzie shares more about her postpartum experience, healing, favorite products and foods, and some tips on supporting families in your life with new baby. 

#169: Maternity Leave Content for Your Consideration

January 29, 2024 08:00 - 21 minutes - 15 MB

This episode is all about what we’ve been watching, reading, and playing under our roof while on maternity leave. We’ll be back next week with a longer episode! 

#168 AMA: Will Our Child Know Veggie Tales?

January 22, 2024 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

Ask Us Anything! Grace and Lizzie answer listener questions, ranging from favorite meals lately to recent novels read to more thoughts on parenthood. Thanks to all who submitted questions! 

#167: Sleepy Thoughts on Parenthood So Far

January 15, 2024 08:00 - 45 minutes - 31.6 MB

In the last of this three-part series relating to Frances's birth, Grace and Lizzie share some sleepy ramblings on what parenthood and the newborn stage has been like for them so far.

#166: Franny Ganache Eats Jaundice for Lunch

January 08, 2024 08:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MB

This week, Grace and Lizzie are back with part two of the story of the first week of Frances's life. They share the saga of her NICU stay and some new nicknames they are calling her. 

#165: HAPPY BIRTHDAY FRANCES!

January 01, 2024 08:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MB

Under Our Roof's permanent houseguest is here! Grace and Lizzie share a big life update with the birth of their daughter, including the labor and delivery story.

#164: Grace Needs to Talk to You About Chyna

December 25, 2023 08:00 - 54 minutes - 37.3 MB

Welcome to the Under Our Roof hyperfixation episode! Grace and Lizzie chat about recent documentaries they've watched, their interests in remote islands, and most importantly, the Ninth Wonder of the World, Chyna. Enjoy (and Merry Christmas!)

#163: Is Reading Gay?

December 18, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutes - 20 MB

In this quick & cozy episode, the hosts talk about their experiences with queer spaces and read listeners’ submissions about their favorite queer community events and places (whether real or dreamed-of). Link to Lizzie’s Instagram Link to the Semler Discord

#162: Babyless Bucket List

December 11, 2023 08:00 - 40 minutes - 27.5 MB

We are officially on baby watch!! Grace and Lizzie talk about the things they're excited to do in the days they have left as a family of 4 (counting Bean and Bunny of course).

#161: An Unexpected 1-Week Break

December 04, 2023 08:00 - 1 minute - 725 KB

Hi houseguests! All is well. We have had an unexpected (non-baby-related) emergency come up and will be back next week. Be well!

#160: Why Did You Have a Crush on Me?

November 27, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 29.6 MB

The hosts are feeling nostalgic this week, only a few weeks (or less) away from welcoming Baby Baldridge. They talk about what initially drew them to the other, the early crush days, and some fun UOR lore. 

#159: Your Side of the Internet or Mine?

November 20, 2023 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

Grace and Lizzie are very different people and have different sides of the internet. In today's episode, they talk about what they see online and their varied internet "special interests." A few links to things discussed: Wishbone Kitchen Spiderman Turn Off the Dark Video Article About the Liver King

#158: There's No Crying At A Baby Shower

November 06, 2023 08:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

Grace and Lizzie are in full baby mode! On this week's episode, they talk about planning a baby shower and their best party tips in general. 

#157: What If Jesus Was Criss Angel?

October 30, 2023 07:00 - 33 minutes - 23 MB

Lizzie and Grace are only a few weeks out from parenthood! In this first episode back after Grace's tour, they talk about all the preparations they are doing, plus some more thoughts about raising kids with or without religion. 

#156: Lizzie’s Pregnancy Ramblings

October 23, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

In this solo episode, join Lizzie on a journey through her notes app list on random observations about pregnancy. Both physically and mentally, pregnancy has been a wild ride. 

#155: Fourth Annual Scare-A-Thon

October 16, 2023 07:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

What scared you as a kid? That's the question Grace and Lizzie asked listeners for this year's scare-a-thon. The hosts deliver one of their favorite episodes of the year with a bit of a twist.

#154 What's In A Name?

October 09, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

Lately the conversation under our roof has been a lot about NAMES! Grace and Lizzie are deciding on a baby name, and that has also invited a lot of discussions about the meaning and significance of names more broadly. Listeners wrote in to share whether they identify with the name their parents gave them, and made guesses about what the permanent houseguest will be called.

#153: Night Aches Listening Guide

October 02, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MB

This episode gives a deep dive on the making of Semler's latest musical project, NIGHT ACHES. Lizzie interviews Grace on the stories behind the songs, inspiration for the project, and insomnia. The hosts also talk about Grace's upcoming tour (tickets linked here!) and a new song releasing on October 11.

#152: The Fertility Episode

September 25, 2023 07:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MB

Come along as Lizzie takes you through her fertility journey and gives the ins and outs of the fertility process. She covers all the ABCs and basics, like IUI, IVF, using donor genetic material, and the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments. 

#151: A Preview of Coming Attractions

September 18, 2023 07:00 - 11 minutes - 8.01 MB

Grace and Lizzie say hi for a quick catch up and a preview of what houseguests can expect in the week to come. 

#150: The House Episode!

September 11, 2023 07:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MB

After several episodes talking about house hunting, and one or two referencing "switching roofs," Grace and Lizzie are finally sharing all the details of their house hunt and purchase this summer. Here's to an exciting new chapter of cozy queer chaos.

#149: Sarah Waterbottle: A Queer Conspiracy Theory

September 04, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MB

Hello from Mexico! Grace and Lizzie are recording live from their babymoon, and as a treat, they share a bit about a pattern they noticed that somewhat inspired the creation of the Under Our Roof. 

#148: Grace is Going Solo

August 28, 2023 07:00 - 22 minutes - 15.6 MB

This week it's Grace's turn on the mic! Lizzie is at a bachelorette party and Grace gives listeners a special treat of a surprise solo episode. Buy tickets to Grace's October shows here!

#147: We Changed Roofs

August 21, 2023 07:00 - 17 minutes - 11.9 MB

Guess what! Under Our Roof is now coming to you from under a brand new roof. Well, new to us. This is just a short catch up episode from Lizzie in the midst of the current chaos. More soon! Thanks for your patience!

#146: Tips from Your Travel Weary Hosts

August 07, 2023 07:00 - 21 minutes - 14.9 MB

Fresh off their two week vacation, Grace and Lizzie share their best tips for traveling smoothly and enjoying the ride.

#145 The Finland Episode

July 31, 2023 07:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MB

Greetings from beautiful Finland! Grace and Lizzie are here for the wedding of their friends Miki and Hope. They share a travel update and answer some more listener-submitted baby questions. 

#144: Tales from Grace's Tattoo Artist

July 24, 2023 07:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MB

Please welcome a guest to the podcast this week, Jersh Tattoos! Grace's tattoo artist Jersh (Josh) shares his wisdom on tattoo designs, placement, and decisions, and Grace and Josh talk about Grace's tattoo journey over the years. 

#143: Pregnancy and Fertility Solo Q&A

July 17, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MB

Thank you for all the kind words and support on our announcement last week! In this episode, Lizzie answers listener questions about pregnancy so far and the fertility journey. 

#142: We’re Getting A Permanent Houseguest

July 10, 2023 07:00 - 39 minutes - 27.3 MB

Surprise! Grace and Lizzie have been keeping a tiny secret for the last few months—they will be adding a new member to their family later this year! In this episode, the hosts share their thoughts on the parenthood journey so far and their trepidations about opening up their news to a wider audience. Thank you everyone for all the kind words and support so far!

#141 Our Deep Dive Into the Titanic Submersible Disaster

June 26, 2023 07:00 - 54 minutes - 37.1 MB

In all honesty, the biggest conversation happening Under Our Roof in the past week has been the missing (and then discovered) Titan submersible and Titanic tourism more broadly. In this episode, Grace interviews Lizzie about this special interest, and Lizzie shares her thoughts on why it's natural that humans want to see the Titanic. Here is a link to the James Cameron video we shared. Here is a link to the billionaire math breakdown. 

#140 Lizzie’s Gay Birthday

June 19, 2023 07:00 - 5 minutes - 3.79 MB

Hello Houseguests! No full episode this week, but we’ll be back next week. Happy Juneteenth. 

#139: Dissecting The Ultimatum - Queer Season

June 12, 2023 07:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MB

If you're like Grace and Lizzie and what feels like every queer person they know, you've recently watched the queer season of Netflix's Ultimatum. The hosts break down the season, their thoughts, and what they would change about the host and format of the show.

#138: A (Mini) State of the Pride Union

June 05, 2023 07:00 - 13 minutes - 9.61 MB

It’s Pride weekend in West Hollywood! Grace and Lizzie give a mini update on their Pride preparations and share some abridged thoughts on the queer season of Ultimatum (more to come soon). 

#137: Queer-Coded Childhood Faves

May 29, 2023 07:00 - 43 minutes - 29.6 MB

Take a trip down memory lane with UOR. In honor of the Little Mermaid remake coming out, Grace and Lizzie go through the Disney movies from their childhood and discuss how queer-coded (or not) they are.  Let us know your thoughts!

#136 House Hunters: REAL Edition

May 22, 2023 07:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

Under Our Roof has played imaginary house hunters, but come along with Grace and Lizzie as they embark on a real house hunting journey. The hosts share a bit about the experience so far and chat about what they're looking for in a dream house.

#135 The Best Summer Ever

May 15, 2023 07:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

Lizzie and (very briefly) Grace give a short catch-up and talk about Lizzie’s bucket list for the best spring and summer ever. 

#134 Making Work, Work

May 08, 2023 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

Unfortunately, we all (or at least most of us) have to have a job. Tune in for Grace and Lizzie's tips on how to successfully girlboss in the workforce and handle stressful email situations with ease. The hosts also give an update on their latest travels and house hunting.

#133 SOLO: The Best Decades of My Life

April 24, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 20.4 MB

In this solo episode with Lizzie, she talks about the differences between being in your 30s versus your 20s and the best things about both. Lizzie shares what wisdom shes gained about being in the same stages of life as friends, knowing your own body and mind, carefree travel, and more. 

#132 Is Taylor Swift Too Big to Play Coachella?

April 17, 2023 07:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MB

Spring has sprung! Grace and Lizzie talk about their spring plans and bucket list items and, in honor of Coachella weekend in California, build their own imaginary music festivals. Here's a link to the lemon rolls we want to make (but have not tried yet, full disclosure, so can't officially endorse the recipe).

#131 The Movies That Made Us

April 10, 2023 07:00 - 51 minutes - 35.1 MB

Take a walk down memory lane as Grace and Lizzie share the movies and TV from their childhoods that made them who they are today. The hosts also read listener comments about favorite nostalgic movies.

#130 Penny For Our Thoughts

April 03, 2023 07:00 - 38 minutes - 26.3 MB

This week Grace and Lizzie are feeling a little bit heavy about the state of current events and the news cycle. They share their thoughts on how to process the constant stream of news in the world and ways to stop a doom scroll. Here's a link to the water sommelier on TikTok. Here's a link to the Semler Discord.

#129 Dinner with Selena Gomez and Other Close Encounters

March 27, 2023 07:00 - 42 minutes - 28.9 MB

Welcome to Under Our Roof's Deux Moi era. On this episode, Grace and Lizzie share listener stories (and a few of their own) of celebrity sightings and encounters.

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