74 - William Costello - Compassion for Incels

References
William’s article, “Step Your Dick Up: Why Incels Deserve Better Advice”:
https://williamcostello.medium.com/step-your-dick-up-why-incels-deserve-better-advice-307879d7c97b

William’s other discussions of this topic can be found here:
Incel: 36: “Step Your Dick Up” w/ William Costello on Apple Podcasts -
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/36-step-your-dick-up-w-william-costello/id1469915971?i=1000489484162

ICMI20: William Costello - Step Your Dick Up: Incels and Men Generally Deserve Better Dating Advice - YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5daap8dr3R0

Evolutionary Psychology and Incels - interview with William Costello - YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlNsD5zymYg

Why Society Has an Incel Problem - YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_KUJ6x4L8g

Be Kinder to Incels with Dr Sarah Daly & William Costello - YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrfDnQOULcw

Diana Fleischman, “Uncanny Vulvas”: Uncanny Vulvas:
https://jacobitemag.com/2018/04/24/uncanny-vulvas/

James Bloodworth’s Letter exchange with Louise Perry:
https://letter.wiki/conversation/789

The Mating Mind podcast with Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max: ‎
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-mating-grounds-podcast/id894712811

More on Tucker Max’s books:
https://www.amazon.com/Tucker-Max/e/B001JSAOIA%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

The Joker film, 2019

Bradley Campbell and Jason Manning, The Rise of Victimhood Culture (2018)
Ralph Leonard, There's nothing wrong with Obama's pick-up artistry:
https://unherd.com/thepost/theres-nothing-wrong-with-obamas-pick-up-artistry/

For more on Aella Girl:
https://www.reddit.com/user/AellaGirl/posts
or see @AellaGirl on Twitter

Matthew Hussey - YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9HGzFGt7BLmWDqooUbWGBg

JOANNA R. PEPIN - About Joanna Pepin:
https://www.joannapepin.com/

Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max, Mate: Become the Man Women Want (2015)
Follow William on Twitter @costellowilliam

Timestamps
4:52 How incels are defined
06:40 The incel community
16:49 The empathy gap and the differences between attitudes towards women’s and men’s problems in love
27:38 Looks and the dating market
30:43 Online dating
39:54 Women’s mating choices
40:40 Male grooming
45:33 More on online dating
46:37 Pornography, sex robots, Only Fans and fake fitness
56:47 The incelosphere and the manosphere, pick up artists, dating coaches
1:05:36 Our cruelty towards the sexually rejected
1:16:52 Advice for incels