316: Stay Like Clay

There are so many reasons to harden ourselves to the world. But what we long for, in ourselves, from one another, is for our ‘clenched fists to unfurl, ready to hold whatever small things drop inside’.



It’s not the easiest thing to do when our worlds are filled with hurt and pain, or when we are feeling tender and fragile. So how might we begin? And help one another stay open?



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Stay Like Clay



How we want hard things to soften

and change right away, for frost

to lift off stiff blades of grass

before the summer green can fade,

and for a gentle rain to prevail over

sleet that coasts each leaf left

clinging to gleaming black branches.



For the furrowed brow of a loved one

to smooth back into a smile,

and for every clenched fist to unfurl

into a small bowl, ready to hold

whatever small thing falls inside.



Maybe the trick is never to harden

in the first place, to stay like clay

outside the kiln, willing to be

molded, reshaped by the rough

and tender hands of this world.



James Crews

www.jamescrews.net