No one else made the magic happen when in the midst of a night club, sitting on a barroom stool, Frank Sinatra began to croon “I did it my way!” He has done it all and he did it his way. But is this stress upon getting your way the essence of human existence? From the millions who applaud you would gather the case is closed. But there was another man who said that if you want to find your life, you are going to have to be willing to lose it; that if you live for yourself you will lose yourself, but if you lose yourself in caring for others, you will discover to your surprise that you have discovered it all.