Love Is?

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Love Is?
Love is, that's a great question. What exactly is love? Mankind has pondered that question since they became self-aware. Well, at least I assume so. As I wasn't around at the time.
Love is
you can't touch it. You can't feel it. You can't taste it. You can't smell it. You can't see it. It contains nothing tangible, which makes it a complete nonentity.
Yet it exists without question. Well, so some people believe love drives people to do so many things, some positive, some negative.
How many times have we heard I did it in the name of love. Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend. And that's a quote by Martin Luther King jr.
I've heard people say, I love you. I love you as a friend. I love you like a brother. I love you like a sister. We have the love of animate and inanimate objects.
It reminds me of Lord of the rings instead of one ring to rule them all. We have one word to rule them all.
When people are dating, they use the term constantly. I love you. I love you more. I love you more than life itself. Really. If you have no life, your dead, if your dead, how can you love?
yet as soon as the relationship ends, the same people. We'll say how much they hated the other person, or they behave in such a way that contradicts that so-called love they're professed to have had before.
This leads to the question, was it truly love or was it just words that people say to make themselves believe it was something special? That's the bit I can't get my head around. The people who can turn love on. And off like a switch
I can understand someone who was in an abusive relationship. They loved the person when they first met, then grew to hate them due to the abuse. That's a no brainer.
What I don't understand is the person who loves you passionately then switches on a dime to the most venomous Harper you could ever have met. Once the relationship has ended, their attitude changes.
My impression is they never truly loved the person or even understood the concept of love. They repeat the word. I have you in a parrot fashion. They don't really believe it. I think it's a hope that if they say enough, it will be true. In this day and age, there are words that we use over and over and actions which are not sincere.
I love you. Is one such statement, I'm sorry. It's another, I can only look at this from my point of view. I love and have loved, but I can also be cold, but it doesn't mean that the love has gone. What happens in my case is I've become more logical, which seems cold to someone watching from outside, but for me, it's more of a self defense mechanism.
If I see the relationship becoming toxic or the person behaving in a way that I find extreme that no matter how much I love them, I will step away. There are too many times in life where people do things in the name of love.
We as people need to stop portraying a fake exterior and think before we use words, gestures, or behaviors that we either don't understand, can't comprehend or don't mean I'm old school. The words I say, I say with sincerity.
I know I'm an old school optimist and I know there are people in this world that are users. If a relationship doesn't work out, I don't turn on the person wishing them ill. My love will always be there, but I'm good at burying feelings inside myself. honesty is the only thing we have as people. So I always project that as my exterior. Someone always knows where they stand with me, honesty and integrity together, and you can't go wrong
Above all else to own, own self, remain true.
How can you go wrong? It's the basic code of life, sincerity and honesty.
And on a final word, I just like to say love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify to heart. And that's a quote by Washington Irving. So there may be many people out there who have fallen in love, who think they're in love, and. It doesn't work out and then they think there is no hope.
There is no anything. There is always hope. There is always something round the next corner. Never think that it's over. That's it. It's done. There's nothing more for you because there always is going to be more. Love is like a, like a stream that just keeps flowing and you have to get back into the stream and just go with the flow anyway.
True. dat.