S1 EP2: Do We Find Purpose or Test it Out? With Katie Dalebout and Caroline Adams Miller
Tracking Wonder Podcast
English - April 21, 2018 08:00 - 1 hour - 66 MB - ★★★★★ - 30 ratingsSociety & Culture Health & Fitness Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
Jeffrey's premise:
"One factor that helps high-achieving creatives and fulfilled entrepreneurs face daily challenges is that they have some sense of purpose that helps remind them why they're doing what they're doing every day."You are what you pay attention to, and if your willpower, focus and time are spent trying to control your body image, for example, that quite simply distracts you from becoming who you want to be. Too many young women lose their voices—and ultimately their purpose and passion—in the pursuit of perfection. And if you are busy with the ‘part-time job’ of an eating disorder, it is impossible to achieve your potential or uncover your unique gift to the world.
Today on the Quest Series Roundtable, Jeffrey is joined by podcaster, blogger and author Katie Dalebout and executive coach, speaker and author Caroline Adams Miller to discuss some of the reasons why we tend to lose our purpose as young adults. Katie and Caroline both share their struggles with body image and eating disorders, explaining how they found their way back to health and discovered joy and meaning in giving back. They speak to the value of journaling when it comes to self-awareness, making meaning of our lives, and healing, and offer their best advice around taking care of yourself in the pursuit of a purposeful life.
Key Takeaways[3:05] Katie’s take on her young genius
Only child, raised on ‘adult farm’ Propensity for performing Knew wanted life to be big[8:24] Caroline’s childhood
Girl who wanted to be loved School as happy place (solace in thinking, reading and writing) Sorrow gave empathy, desire to give back[11:50] Why we lose our purpose as young adults
Girls lose their voices Must get angry enough to ‘throw off chains’ Lose purpose, passion[15:25] How Katie deals with the ‘mean girls’ in her mind
Use as tool for self-awareness[19:18] The common issues Katie sees among young women
Body image/diet culture Risk aversion (i.e.: entrepreneurship) Impact of social media (distraction, comparison)[31:02] Katie’s struggle with eating disorders
Anorexia at end of college Received treatment, developed orthorexia Obsessed with control, miss out on life[38:02] Caroline’s fight against bulimia
Thought next achievement would eliminate sadness Bulimia as ‘part-time job’ while studying at Harvard Started recovery in 1984 (just after marriage) Found joy in giving back, sharing hope[45:20] The value of journaling
Allows for honesty, self-awareness (first step to change) Opportunity to make meaning of lives Positive intervention, part of healing process Ask good questions to get good response Eventually have to ‘feel the feelings’[57:17] Caroline and Katie’s advice around self-care
Purposeful life isn’t always easy Seek out your unique gifts Surround yourself with supportive people Be gentle with yourself Do things that make you feel good Out your shame, fear Connect with Katie & Caroline ResourcesLet it Out: A Journey Through Journaling by Katie Dalebout
My Name is Caroline by Caroline Adams Miller
Caroline on The Good Life Project
Activate Leadership: Aspen Truths to Empower Millennial Leaders by Jon Mertz
Larissa Rainey Study: ‘The Search for Purpose in Life’
A special thanks to the early supporters of the Tracking Wonder Podcast. Your enthusiasm, feedback, and support helped make this possible. Thank you.A few very special early supporters:
Mel Harth, Lovenia Leapart, Brandy Donovan, Sally Fox, Mindy Ohringer, Katy Yang, Patricia B., John Carr, Millie Jackson, Susan Preston, Gregory Berg, Peg Syverson, Cindy Henson, Nikki Jackson, Lauren Ayer, Lisa Batson Goldberg
Jeffrey's premise:
"One factor that helps high-achieving creatives and fulfilled entrepreneurs face daily challenges is that they have some sense of purpose that helps remind them why they're doing what they're doing every day."You are what you pay attention to, and if your willpower, focus and time are spent trying to control your body image, for example, that quite simply distracts you from becoming who you want to be. Too many young women lose their voices—and ultimately their purpose and passion—in the pursuit of perfection. And if you are busy with the ‘part-time job’ of an eating disorder, it is impossible to achieve your potential or uncover your unique gift to the world.
Today on the Quest Series Roundtable, Jeffrey is joined by podcaster, blogger and author Katie Dalebout and executive coach, speaker and author Caroline Adams Miller to discuss some of the reasons why we tend to lose our purpose as young adults. Katie and Caroline both share their struggles with body image and eating disorders, explaining how they found their way back to health and discovered joy and meaning in giving back. They speak to the value of journaling when it comes to self-awareness, making meaning of our lives, and healing, and offer their best advice around taking care of yourself in the pursuit of a purposeful life.
Key Takeaways[3:05] Katie’s take on her young genius
Only child, raised on ‘adult farm’ Propensity for performing Knew wanted life to be big[8:24] Caroline’s childhood
Girl who wanted to be loved School as happy place (solace in thinking, reading and writing) Sorrow gave empathy, desire to give back[11:50] Why we lose our purpose as young adults
Girls lose their voices Must get angry enough to ‘throw off chains’ Lose purpose, passion[15:25] How Katie deals with the ‘mean girls’ in her mind
Use as tool for self-awareness[19:18] The common issues Katie sees among young women
Body image/diet culture Risk aversion (i.e.: entrepreneurship) Impact of social media (distraction, comparison)[31:02] Katie’s struggle with eating disorders
Anorexia at end of college Received treatment, developed orthorexia Obsessed with control, miss out on life[38:02] Caroline’s fight against bulimia
Thought next achievement would eliminate sadness Bulimia as ‘part-time job’ while studying at Harvard Started recovery in 1984 (just after marriage) Found joy in giving back, sharing hope[45:20] The value of journaling
Allows for honesty, self-awareness (first step to change) Opportunity to make meaning of lives Positive intervention, part of healing process Ask good questions to get good response Eventually have to ‘feel the feelings’[57:17] Caroline and Katie’s advice around self-care
Purposeful life isn’t always easy Seek out your unique gifts Surround yourself with supportive people Be gentle with yourself Do things that make you feel good Out your shame, fear Connect with Katie & Caroline ResourcesLet it Out: A Journey Through Journaling by Katie Dalebout
My Name is Caroline by Caroline Adams Miller
Caroline on The Good Life Project
Activate Leadership: Aspen Truths to Empower Millennial Leaders by Jon Mertz
A special thanks to the early supporters of the Tracking Wonder Podcast. Your enthusiasm, feedback, and support helped make this possible. Thank you. A few very special early supporters: Mel Harth, Lovenia Leapart, Brandy Donovan, Sally Fox, Mindy Ohringer, Katy Yang, Patricia B., John Carr, Millie Jackson, Susan Preston, Gregory Berg, Peg Syverson, Cindy Henson, Nikki Jackson, Lauren Ayer, Lisa Batson Goldberg