Bare Marriage
275 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago - ★★★★★ - 217 ratingsTired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with To Love, Honor and Vacuum--the blog!
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Episode 233: The Backlash from Those Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner
April 18, 2024 11:00 - 1 hour - 44.6 MBWith the release of so many books critiquing purity culture, what has the backlash been like? Well, let’s talk about it with Zachary Wagner, the author of Non-Toxic Masculinity as we celebrate the one-year anniversary of the launch of She Deserves Better. To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation And check out our Merch, or any of our courses! ...
Episode 232: When Submission "Cults" Groom for Abuse: One Woman's Story
April 11, 2024 11:00 - 1 hour - 43.8 MBWe've got such a compelling interview with Lauren Rose from Called to Peace Ministries. She's telling her story--and it's a mesmerizing one--of what happened as her family got more and more into the Bill Gothard movement (and she was eventually one of the ones he allegedly abused, and was part of the lawsuit). But when you grow up feeling like your main role is to submit, are you even able to recognize abuse? Lauren tells her story of being in an abusive marriage, and how she eventually re...
Episode 231: Are We Saying that Wives Don't Have to Have Sex?
April 04, 2024 11:00 - 51 minutes - 35.3 MBWhen we talk about how God made sex to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and how, if women don't want sex, the answer is to figure out why, we invariably get people saying, "so you think women don't have to have sex then?" Today on the podcast we look at the 90% problem vs. the 10% problem. In 90% of cases where women don't want sex, there's a reason. Let's focus mostly on the 90%! But guess what? We actually talk about the 10% too! Our Sponsor: The book Forgiveness After Tra...
Episode 230: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer
March 28, 2024 11:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MBRecently Texas SBC megachurch pastor Josh Howerton told brides that on the wedding night, they should "stand where he wants you to stand, wear what he wants you to wear, and do what he wants you to do." Sex was presented as something that HE has been waiting for his whole life, and that she has to provide. There was no emphasis on how she actually has greater need to be cared for sexually, if you're going to begin well, than he does. Jay Stringer joins us today to talk about how the convers...
Episode 229: A Victim-Centered Approach to Forgiveness After Trauma
March 21, 2024 11:00 - 56 minutes - 38.8 MBForgiveness is so often weaponized against victims in the church. But what does the Bible really say about forgiveness, especially when trauma is involved? How can we value our own mental health but also follow Jesus? This is a fascinating and healing conversation with Susannah Griffith, author of Forgiveness After Trauma. Our Sponsor: The Kingdom Girls NIV Bible. Meet the women in God's story! Designed for girls, but honestly--it's awesome for every woman! And it makes a great Easter gift...
Episode 228: How Our Stories Influence Our Marriage Choices feat. Natalie Hoffman
March 14, 2024 11:00 - 1 hour - 45.9 MBNatalie Hoffman joins us today to talk about her INCREDIBLE memoir All the Scary Little Gods. Natalie escaped an abusive marriage, and now coaches other women in similar situations. In her memoir, she invites us to listen to the story from the point of view of Little Natalie, and using IFS (Internal Family Systems) to see it from all of her parts. And as we understand our stories, we make it so that we won't recreate the problems. To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a mont...
Episode 227: Are We Creating a Strawman out of Complementarianism? We Respond to Critics
March 07, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 44.4 MBSo many people resist admitting that they are actually egalitarians, because they think they have to be complementarian--even if they don't act like it. Today Sheila and her husband Keith dissect the arguments that are often used to say "we're really complementarian"--even when they're objectively not. And we invite people instead to preach what they practice. To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support ...
Episode 226: What We've Learned 3 Years After Great Sex Rescue
February 29, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 48 MBThe Great Sex Rescue turns 3 this week! And it's been a super eventful three years. So much has changed. So let's talk about the feedback we've had, what we've done since, what people are saying--and where we're going from here. To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation And check out our Merch at our store, or any of our courses! Things...
Episode 225: Do You Even Want This Kind of Marriage?
February 22, 2024 12:00 - 56 minutes - 38.9 MBWould our reaction to Christian marriage advice change if we realize how many people who write that advice are actually in abusive or destructive marriages? What if people in those marriages are more drawn to write marriage advice to process how they're feeling? Today we look at two different women that Focus on the Family have held up to be emulated. One is a woman who has written prolifically for them, and when you look at her articles and what she reveals about her relationship, a TON of...
Episode 224: Lies Women Believe Part 2: Is God a Monster?
February 15, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 52.3 MBLies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth taught concerning things about shame, trauma, and even what God is like. On today's podcast, we're joined by Becky Castle Miller, a doctoral student looking at emotions in the Bible, and Helen Blake, a licensed counselor in Sydney, Australia, to discuss some of the damaging teachings--and point us to a Jesus who understands and sympathizes with our struggles. Things Mentioned in the Podcast: To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a...
Episode 223: The Problems with Lies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth
February 08, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 60.8 MBLies Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth is one of the most popular women’s bible study books used in churches across North America. But what does the book actually teach about marriage? About sex? About divorce and abuse? It’s scary, and today Gretchen Baskerville and Natalie Hoffman join host Sheila Wray Gregoire to analyze the harmful messages in Lies Women Believe. Things Mentioned in the Podcast: To Support Us: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work Or, ...
Episode 222: How Sex Is Like Chef Boyardee–and Other New Research Findings!
February 01, 2024 12:00 - 55 minutes - 38.2 MBLinks to things mentioned: First, support us! Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation Check out our Merch! Our Resources Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails The Orgasm Course (there’s also an add-on for husbands) She Deserves Better book The Studies We Looked At: Time Use and Feelings of Love “Women Get Worse Sex: A Confound in the Explanati...
Episode 221: Let Men Be Dads! Why Do So Many Evangelical Resources Portray Men as Pathetic Dads?
January 25, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 45.8 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/ Sign up for Rebecca’s Friday emails: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn The Great...
Episode 220: Why is Emerson Eggerichs Afraid of Women Talking? A Deep Dive into Love & Respect
January 18, 2024 12:00 - 53 minutes - 36.8 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work https://patreon.com/baremarriage Or, for tax deductible donations in the U.S., support our Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits Check out our Merch–including our Love & Respect His & Her mugs: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/his-hers-love-and-respect-ceramic-mugs/ Emerson Eggerichs’ reel where he talks about relationships https://www.i...
Episode 219: What is a 'Manly' Man?
January 11, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 42.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our Facbook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Thanks to everyone who helped us reach our fundraising goal! You can give to our work and get tax deductible donations (within the United States) by donating to the Good Fruit Faith initiative of the Bosko Foundation. Check out our Merch at our store, including our biblical womanhood and biblical manhood merch, our new Jezebel merch, and more! Join...
Episode 219: Let Men be Men - Because We Believe Men are Great!
January 11, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 42.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our Facbook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Thanks to everyone who helped us reach our fundraising goal! You can give to our work and get tax deductible donations (within the United States) by donating to the Good Fruit Faith initiative of the Bosko Foundation. Check out our Merch at our store, including our biblical womanhood and biblical manhood merch, our new Jezebel merch, and more! Join...
Episode 218: Let’s Pivot to Healthy Churches feat. Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer
December 14, 2023 12:00 - 59 minutes - 41 MBLinks to things mentioned: Partner with us at Good Fruit Faith, an initiative of the Bosko Foundation, as we help impact future church leaders with our data and our message (tax receiptable within the U.S.): https://secure.qgiv.com/for/goodfruits Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Find Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer’s book Pivot: https://amzn.to/3ToOKiV, along with their first book together A Church Calle...
Episode 217: When Religion Hurts You feat. Laura Anderson
December 07, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 42.3 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our marriage survey is still open! We’re looking for married couples to take it. https://baremarriage.com/grim Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our incredible Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Help us raise $52,000 by Christmas to expand our reach and make inroads into academic circles! BOSKO LINK HERE Laura Anderson’s book When Religion Hurts You https://amzn.to/3sB0Zhs Find Laura on...
Episode 216: Perceived Autonomy vs. Actual Autonomy: It’s Okay to Say No to Controlling Church Spaces
November 30, 2023 12:00 - 57 minutes - 39.8 MBThings mentioned in this podcast: Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential): https://baremarriage.com/grim Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Join our email list and get Rebecca’s awesome Friday emails as well as a roundup of our best posts and podcasts: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn Sarah’s Wilderness to Wild program: https://wilderness...
Episode 215: A Jesus-Centered Faith vs. Nationalism feat. Andrew Whitehead
November 22, 2023 12:00 - 56 minutes - 38.7 MBLinks to things mentioned: Take our marriage survey! We’re looking for couples to fill out our marriage survey: https://baremarriage.com/grim Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work, while getting access to our awesome Facebook community! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Our Merch makes great Christmas gifts! Order before December 11 to guarantee delivery by Christmas: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/merchandise/ Andrew Whitehead’s book American I...
Episode 214: What if Momma Ain’t Happy? Why It’s Okay to Sweat the Small Stuff
November 16, 2023 12:00 - 56 minutes - 38.7 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential): https://baremarriage.com/grim/ Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The article where you can find the Elisabeth Elliot quote on the essence of femininity: https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-essence-of-femininity/ Holly Furtick’s reel on being grumpy: https://w...
Episode 213: Stained Glass Ceilings: How the church does gender ft. Lisa Swartz
November 09, 2023 12:00 - 58 minutes - 37.6 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and help support our research and our work! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Lisa Weaver Swartz’ book Stained Glass Ceilings: https://amzn.to/3suzUfJ A write-up of the amicus brief submitted on behalf of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary to deny victims the right to sue the organizations that failed to report and failed to protect: https://www.courier-journal.com/story/news/2023/10/27/southern-baptists-respons...
Episode 212: Do Women Really Initiate 70% of Divorces for Frivolous Reasons?
November 02, 2023 11:00 - 58 minutes - 40.2 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month and support our work and research, while getting access to our Facebook group, unfiltered podcast, merch discounts, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Sign up for our email list to hear about when our next study is out! http://eepurl.com/z0VFn The study that people say claim 75% of women divorce for lack of commitment (it doesn't really say that): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/ The stud...
Episode 211: Bullied for Leaving an Abusive Husband ft. Naghmeh Panahi
October 26, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon and get access to the best place on the internet! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Check out our Domestic Violence Awareness Merch and our Breast Cancer Awareness Merch--20% of profits go to support charities involved in fighting DV and breast cancer: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/ See Naghmeh's book I Didn't Survive: https://amzn.to/3MgUpmP Listen to the audio of Franklin Graham confronting Naghmeh--and Naghme...
Episode 210: The Enneagram and Marriage ft. Christa Hardin
October 19, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MBJoin our Patreon for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our amazing Facebook group and unfiltered Sheila & Rebecca! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Christa Hardin's new book The Enneagram in Marriage: https://amzn.to/3SmZyxR Christa's podcast The Enneagram and Marriage: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/pod Christa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/ The study we analyzed: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jomf.12863 Our new Biblical ...
Episode 209: Why Don't Evangelical Sex Teachers Know What They Don't Know?
October 12, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 47.4 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon group for as little as $5 a month and be part of the most amazing place on the internet: https://patreon.com/baremarriage Join our email list so that you'll be notified when I'm in your area--and so you don't miss any of Rebecca's amazing round-ups: http://eepurl.com/z0VFn Kristin Kobes Du Mez' Twitter thread: https://twitter.com/kkdumez/status/1709746160120795295 Josh Howerton's sermon where the clip came from: https://subspla.sh/c7tmk53 (starting...
Episode 208: What Happens When a Pastor Sets Out to Prove Complementarianism? ft. Terran Williams
October 05, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 38.7 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon and support our work for as little as $5 a month! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Check out our new Biblical Manhood Merch! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/ Terran Williams’ Book How God Sees Women: https://amzn.to/3PJjwQ2 Terran’s book What’s So Amazing About Scripture: https://amzn.to/3ROMSiZ Terran’s series on Mike Winger’s videos on complementarianism/egalitarianism: https://terranwilliams.com/what-winger-...
Episode 207: The Ultimate Anti 'Obligation Sex' Episode
September 28, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 42.1 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, merch, and more! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Check out our Biblical Womanhood merch, and our new Biblical Manhood merch! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-womanhood-collection-merchandise/ https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/be-a-biblical-woman-collection/ https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/ Our ...
Episode 206: A Deep Dive into 'For Women Only' by Shaunti Feldhahn ft. Meghan Tschanz + Devi Abraham
September 21, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 60.5 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon and support our research, plus hear me working through future posts and wondering what I should do next! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Our summary of all the issues in this podcast, plus a downloadable one sheet! https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/review-of-the-problems-with-for-women-only-by-shaunti-feldhahn-with-download/ Our post that does a deep dive in the problematic survey questions that Shaunti Feldhahn asks: https://baremarriage.com/2...
Episode 205: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A response to Nancy Pearcey
September 14, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 56.2 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon and support our research for as little as $5 a month! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Our op ed with Baptist News that goes over the points in this podcast: https://baptistnews.com/article/do-complementarian-men-do-better-a-response-to-nancy-pearcey/ Our initial article responding to Josh Howerton's claim that conservative evangelicals have the best sex and marriages https://baptistnews.com/article/do-conservative-evangelicals-enjoy-better-sex...
Episode 204: Untangling Toxic Teachings on Suffering ft. Rebecca Davis
September 07, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 44.2 MBLinks to things mentioned: Get a FREE copy of Rebecca's new book, Untwisting the Scriptures #5 when it launches September 11! Just sign up for her FREE ebook now and you'll be notified on September 11! https://sendfox.com/heresthejoy Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month! Get exclusive access to our Facebook group, merch, and more perks! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Sign up for our FREE webinar with Wendy Snyder from Fresh Start Family! Disciplining with Compassion, Connection,...
Episode 203: Parenting without Yelling: Discipline & Kindness Can Go Together! ft. Wendy Snyder
August 31, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 44.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Sign up for our FREE webinar with Wendy from Fresh Start Family: September 14 at 1 pm EST (recording will be available): https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/baremarriage/ Check out last year's podcasts with Wendy: Part 1 and Part 2 https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-how-to-misuse-statistics-for-dummies/ https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-connection-not-punishment-a-better-way-to-parent-feat-wendy-snyder/ Find Wendy on Instagram! https://www.instagr...
Episode 202: The Barbie Movie, South Korean Women, and the Evangelical Church
August 24, 2023 11:00 - 55 minutes - 37.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Join for as little as $5 a month and support our research while getting access to our awesome Facebook group! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Our Limited Edition Merch--it's only available until the end of the month! Check out these great beach towels: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/ And don't forget our Biblical Womanhood merch that's available year-round: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/be-a-bib...
Episode 201: What Does a Biblical Marriage Look Like?
August 17, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 46.7 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our patreon! Join our exclusive, behind-the-scenes group and get extra access to Sheila, Rebecca, and Joanna for only $5 a month! Our amazing Insulated Travel Mugs, that keep water super cold, and keep things hot, too! We've got them in a variety of designs, including Prayer and Tent Pegs, our She Deserves Better slogans, and our Biblical Womanhood Merch N.T. Wright's book How God Became King, and Rachel Held Evans' book Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Wate...
Episode 200 Special! - Our "Brio Magazine Deep Dive" PJ Party!
July 13, 2023 11:00 - 58 minutes - 40.5 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon and join our LIVE Brio magazine pajama party! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Get our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit, to explain our findings to your friends: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product/great-sex-rescue-toolkit/ See our She Should Know merch, based on She Deserves Better: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/she-should-know-collection/ Check out our Limited Edition beach towels: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/l...
Episode 199: Jane Austen, Pride & Prejudice, and Marriage Advice!
July 06, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 48.5 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more. Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit–help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course to...
Episode 198: The 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Keith Takes on the Danvers Statement)
June 29, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 42.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more. Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit--help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church https://baremarriage.com/toolkit/ Keith's Danvers Statement posts--Start here. Emerson Eggerichs warns against wives following into sin (watch the first few video clips and see his emotional response) Our Power of a Praying Wife pod...
Episode 197: How The Power of a Praying Wife Can Go Horribly Wrong
June 22, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 55 MBLinks to things mentioned: Join our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get exclusive access to our Facebook group--and even free merch! A Synopsis of all the problems in Power of a Praying Wife--with an optional download Gretchen Baskerville at the Life-Saving Divorce, and her book The Life-Saving Divorce. Follow her on Facebook and YouTube. Gretchen's articles with info on the effect of divorce on kids; the ACE study; and more. Sarah McDugal from Wilderness to Wild. F...
Episode 196: New Research on the Effects of Obligation Sex! (It's Bad...)
June 15, 2023 11:00 - 57 minutes - 39.9 MBLinks to things mentioned: Sign up for our FREE webinar on June 21! https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_odcOvC0uTzugaA7JvnUe1w Our book The Great Sex Rescue! Join our Patreon and support our work for as little as $5 a month. Plus gain access to our exclusive Facebook group, exclusive merch, and more! Our research methods for The Great Sex Rescue, with FAQs, and a Twitter thread analying our methods by someone we don't even know! Article from The Journal for Sex Research on the m...
Episode 195: How To Support Your Wife in an Equal Relationship feat. Todd Korpi
June 08, 2023 11:00 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Get free merch, access to our Facebook group, discounts on courses, and more! Todd Korpi's book Your Daughters Shall Prophesy: Amplifying the Voice and Place of Christian Women (https://amzn.to/3MWkPtH) Follow Todd on Twitter and Instagram Our new "She Should Know" merch based on empowering sayings from our book, She Deserves Better Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good G...
Episode 194: Male-Centric Sex vs. the Female Sexual Response Cycle
June 01, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 46 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon community! It's super fun, and it helps fund our research! Join us for as little as $5 a month. Our book The Great Sex Rescue, plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from, plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower; the post where we went into this in det...
Episode 193: Tell Her Story: The Forgotten Women of the Bible with Nijay Gupta
May 25, 2023 11:00 - 59 minutes - 41 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Join us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to exclusive content while also supporting our research. Nijay's new book Tell Her Story Our podcast looking at how Emerson Eggerichs mishandles Scripture, featuring Nijay Gupta The audio version of She Deserves Better is now available! https://amzn.to/43tbmkp Our new She Deserves Better merch! Amazon Prime's new series Shiny Happy People (coming June 2) Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Chec...
Episode 192: How 'Every Young Man's Battle' Makes Everything Worse ft. Andrew Bauman & Zachary Wagner
May 18, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 54 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and join our exclusive Facebook group, plus help support our research! Our new book She Deserves Better--the audio has now launched! Our one-sheet download of the problems with Every Young Man's Battle Our podcast with Zachary Wagner, his new book Non-Toxic Masculinity, and his Twitter Andrew Bauman's book The Sexually Healthy Man and his Facebook Our Whole Story puberty course to tell your kids about sex & ...
Episode 191: Finding a Healthy Church with Beth Allison Barr
May 11, 2023 11:00 - 58 minutes - 40.4 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our unfiltered podcasts and more. Your donations help support our next big survey coming this summer! Our new book She Deserves Better Beth Allison Barr's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, plus follow Beth on Twitter Our books that are awesome for couples about to get married--The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Ch...
Episode 190: 'Pink' and 'Blue' Faith -- Plus we take a submission quiz! ft. Aimee Byrd
May 04, 2023 11:00 - 54 minutes - 37.7 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Our new book She Deserves Better! Aimee Byrd's book Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and her new book The Sexual Reformation Aimee Byrd's story of the bullying she went through in her denomination, and some more recent thoughts on the aftermath. Take the submission quiz yourself! It starts on p. 30 of this download,...
Episode 189: Non-Toxic Masculinity ft. Zachary Wagner
April 27, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 54.4 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more! Our new book She Deserves Better! Zachary Wagner's book Non-Toxic Masculinity, plus find Zachary on Twitter Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books you're concerned about The Instagram Reel from thatdarnchat Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good ...
Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road
April 20, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 38.6 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our new book She Deserves Better: https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/ Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon! https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Instagram Reel from 247 Marriage: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnetOgDhM1S/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link The podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much": https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-talk-more...
Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know
April 13, 2023 11:00 - 58 minutes - 40.5 MBTHINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST Our new book She Deserves Better Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon! Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlement Our episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on) Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better ...
Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes
April 06, 2023 11:00 - 54 minutes - 37.3 MBThings mentioned in our Podcast! Our Patreon! Thank you for supporting us and helping us fund our research. You can join us for as little as $5 a month! Jasmine Holmes’ new book Never Cast Out! Plus find her on Instagram. Jasmine on our podcast a few months ago talking about her book Carved in Ebony. Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it and get access to our bonuses. Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good...
Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain
March 30, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 46.5 MBLinks to things mentioned: Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month! Our new book She Deserves Better! Send in your pre-order receipts for lots of pre-order bonuses. Study on Himpathy on what makes people sympathize with perpetrators rather than victims Jenna Mountain's counseling center Aspen Haus Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com! Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great S...