The Terms & Opinions Podcast
68 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 months ago -Welcome to The Terms and Opinions Podcast, hosted by yours truly Sheila. A fun and exciting space to have open conversations about daily life struggles.
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My Dad cheated on my Mom and lied about it!
January 23, 2024 14:00 - 1 hour - 44.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Back with another episode with my girl Chloe to discuss cheating dads, behind the scenes of social media, anxiety, PMDD, our current reads, and the importance of having full-filling friendships. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: chlloe_ritchie -Brass and Bone: brassandboneau -For business inquires: [email protected]
Who is this BBL for girlie?
January 16, 2024 14:00 - 1 hour - 47.5 MBSend us a Text Message. Yes, we are back again with my girl Gladis to talk our sh*t and get things off our chest! In this episode we discuss BBLs, specifically to answer the question; why do women get BBLs? Who is this BBL for? Where is this insecurity coming from? and lastly, will my life be better after this surgery? Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: fekira.o on Insta. @FEKIRA! on TikTOK and Youtube. -For busine...
Things they don't tell you about being an International Student
January 09, 2024 14:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBSend us a Text Message. In this episode I am joined by the gorgeous Lilly as we dive into some of the things they don't tell you about being an International Student. Hopefully, you can pick up a gem or two! Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: keshi_lily -For business inquires: [email protected]
It was never really a relationship, IT WAS WORK EXPERIENCE!
December 22, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @_ron007_ @elia_simon3 and, @sb2official_ -For business inquires: [email protected]
What I get taxed is your yearly salary?
December 22, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 55.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Ladies, are you work 80K? And to the Gents, are you willing to drop a house deposit for your future wifey all in the name of dowery and bride price? Following a conversation with the mandem, it was only right to hear the gyaldems opinion on the same topic. Joined by the beautiful Gladis and Irine, we dive straight into it, full of bants, good laughs, and most importantly honest opinions of what marriage means/looks like for us, from a cultural and societal stand poi...
It's the "Kasurube on Afterpay" for me!
December 22, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 47.4 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @_ron007_ @elia_simon3 and, @sb2official_ -For business inquires: [email protected]
WE, are one & YOU, are many!
December 22, 2023 11:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Joined by the TikTok sensation that is Niiyell, in this episode we share our experiences with racism at school, the love-hate-low relationship with ethnic moms, and lastly, the harmful cultural practices of constantly having your emotions invalidated as a child. Definitely, a lot of takeways from this episode! Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @niiyellskits -For business inquires: term...
PATRIARCHY; the father of double standards.
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 54 minutes - 37.2 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @edema_silver, d4maro and, still1erize -For business inquires: [email protected]
"I'm not homophobic!" says the homophobe.
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 56 MBSend us a Text Message.
"If it wasn't for my knee injury, I could've gone pro!"
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 62.5 MBSend us a Text Message. Coming in with the good vibes, we've got the one and only CEO of Faithful to the Grind Live on deck! Tune in to hear us discuss the normalisation of non-traditional jobs and career pathways. As the conversation flows, we soon come to terms with the fact that; in this life if the check is coming in sweet, no one will say pim! Not to forget, for all the book the book worms out there, we see you too! Great book recommendations are also on the line up, just thank us lat...
Valentines ain't 'Valentining' for the city girls
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 60.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @xx_rudegal_xx and @ha_dia_00 -For business inquires: [email protected]
Fashion is black, argue with your fada!
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 49.4 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @groovy.naath -For business inquires: [email protected]
"Angry black woman" narrative is deader than a doornail!
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @thedisruptionent -For business inquires: [email protected]
You're stingy, your breath is HOT, and your top looks better on me anyway!
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 63.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @nmmwl -For business inquires: [email protected]
Shame the rape culture; call out your rapist homeboys & homegirls!
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 41.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Coming in hot with part 2 featuring Alimasi and Samuel! No cap, this one is a heavy topic and a must listen for sure. Throughout the entire conversation, it is evident that education and effective communication severely lacks within our society. However, thats no excuse! Call out your rapist homeboys & homegirls, as well as normalise having these kind of conversations with your elders. Take what you may from this conversation and remember; NO means NO, "365 days" was...
Pick your poison; A criminal son or a video vixen daughter
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 33 minutes - 23 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @edema_silver, @d4maro and, @still1erize -For business inquires: [email protected]
Will a Kmart ring cut it?
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 43.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @brassandboneau -For business inquires: [email protected]
Whose got it worse...THICKEMS or skinny legends?
December 22, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MBSend us a Text Message. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @harry_ette -For business inquires: [email protected]
Can a man cheat and still love his girl?
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 32 minutes - 22.5 MBSend us a Text Message. On this episode, Taban, Peter and I discuss yet another juicy relationship dilemma of whether a "man can cheat and still love his girl, like a person can sin and still love God." It goes without saying; be warned, there's levels to this cheating sh*t! In moments time, a swift transition into pressing current affairs, majorly including that of the Black Lives Matter Movement, has us vexed to the core,, whilst hitting a little close to home! Tune in for part 2 as we di...
He's still a B**ch, but a RICH B**TCH!
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Coming in with the good vibes, this episode we've got Alimasi a.k.a Alutondo the Badmon and Samuel a.k.a Silver on deck! Tune in on this one to hear what we've got to say when it comes to money dilemmas, polygamous relationships, prenups, marriage, proposals, love, loyalty, and even our weird guilty pleasures. Yes indeed, this is one of them icebreaker episodes to get y'all warmed up for the real tea spillage happening in part 2. As always, happy listening! Catch a...
"I'm from the trenches" said every rapper ever!
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 44.6 MBSend us a Text Message. In this episode, we discus all things contributing to youth violence; strongly emphasising the effect of rap culture on aspiring young artists. By scrutinising other factors such as upbringing, environment, stereotypes, morality, and self-awareness, we engage in a stimulating conversation that is jam-packed with banter, laughter, and most importantly, a dialogue addressing a key issue in our society. However, the question still remains; must each and every rapper cl...
Its not everyday "Black women be strong!"
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 54.4 MBSend us a Text Message. In today's episode, I am joined by the Lovely Nasteho. We get into discussing our current favourite tunes, world affairs, what has been pressing us lately, and a deep, meaningful conversation about what the "African woman" identity entails and what it ultimately means to us. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @mostlysane_nas -For business inquires: [email protected]
Setting boundaries within family dynamics
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MBSend us a Text Message. The notion that "boundaries aren't compatible within the family setting" is one that has been prevalent for decades. In this episode, we explore how and why boundaries can be healthy within family dynamics. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @ethni.aus -For business inquires: [email protected]
Societal standards and pressures faced within the black community
December 22, 2023 09:00 - 1 hour - 52.4 MBSend us a Text Message. As promised, coming in hot with part 2, joined by my lovely guests; Taban, Peter and Jovana. Join us, as we unpack various societal standards within the black community, from generational trauma, stereotypes, and mediocre support systems. Of course a teachable moment of taking accountability and knowing when/ how to claim back ownership comes as a free bonus. Also, did I mention the many personal experiences shared that season this already juicy episode from mild to ...
Are Instagram trends the new beauty standards?
December 22, 2023 08:00 - 58 minutes - 40.2 MBSend us a Text Message. In this episode, we discuss various topics such as blackfishing, 'clean girl aesthetic,' beauty standards, face filters & insecurities. All in all, the takeaway message is that; being true to yourself in this era of never-ending trends is teh best antidote to navigate through life. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @_prince.brown -For business inquires: [email protected]
The goal isn't to be "holier that thou!"
December 22, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 29.6 MBSend us a Text Message. In this episode, we discuss the challenges Christians face, as well as our opinions on a few controversial topics such as abortion and same-sex marriage, based on our religious beliefs. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @iam.nyalela -For business inquires: [email protected]
Uncomfortable truths about friendships!
December 22, 2023 08:00 - 1 hour - 50.1 MBSend us a Text Message. Just as the title suggests, in this episode, we discuss the importance of 'categorising' your friends, friendship boundaries, friendship Dos and Dont's, and red flags within friendships. It is definitely giving "the uncomfortable truths that you didn't know you needed to hear." Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @shotbymarchh -For business inquires: [email protected]
Things we have learnt/yet to learn in our 20s
November 10, 2022 09:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MBBack again with the one and only Melody. Tune in as we have a heartfelt conversation about some things we have learnt this far in our 20s and some things we are yet to learn. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: melodymecheo -Melody's Business page: kwa_mellow -For business inquiries: [email protected]
Things we have learnt/ are yet to learn in our 20s
November 10, 2022 09:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MBBack again with the one and only Melody. Tune in as we have a heartfelt conversation about some things we have learnt this far in our 20s and some things we are yet to learn. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: melodymecheo -Melody's Business page: kwa_mellow -For business inquiries: [email protected]
There's bigger fish to fry than 'black Ariel'
October 13, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 53.1 MBIn this episode, the homegirl Nyaluak makes a second appearance on the podcast. The tea is hot and the vibes are simply immaculate. Starting off strong, would you rather go through a break-up every year, OR, never fall in love? Listen in as we discuss lucid dreams, black Ariel, dress codes, and beauty pageants, whilst enjoying delicious starters from WAU kitchen. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: nmmwl -tickets t...
The goal isn't to be "holier than thou"
July 28, 2022 21:00 - 43 minutes - 29.6 MBIn this episode, we discuss the challenges Christians face, as well as our opinions on a few controversial topics such as abortion and same-sex marriages, based on our religious beliefs. Let's engage on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: @iam.nyalela -For business inquires: [email protected]
What I get taxed is your yearly salary!?
November 08, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 55.6 MBLadies, are you worth 80K? And to the Gents, are you willing to drop a house deposit for your future wifey all in the name of dowery and bride price? Following a conversation with the mandem about all things marriage, it was only right to hear the gyaldems opinion on the same conversation. Joined by the beautiful Gladis and Irine, we dive straight into it, full of bants, good laughs, and most importantly honest opinions of what marriage means/looks like for us, both culturally and from a so...
Its not everyday "Black women be strong"!
August 12, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 54.4 MBIn today's episode, I am joined by the lovely Nasteho. Without further ado, we get into discussing our current favourite tunes, world affairs, what has been pressing us lately, and a deep, meaningful conversation about what the "African woman" identity entails and what it ultimately means to us. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Guest: mostlysane_nas -For business inquires: [email protected]
Chit Chat with your host with the most
July 20, 2021 01:48 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MBAfter a very long while, it's only right to set the ball rolling with a solo episode with yours truly sheila, aka, your host with the most. A relaxed episode whereby I chat about whats been happening around the world lately, as well as the importance of taking a break for your mental sanity. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm...
whose got it worse...THICKEMS or skinny legends?
March 31, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MBThere's fat-shaming...and there's skinny-shaming? The predicament is, who has it worse? Join Hariette and Sheila as they unpack the pros and cons of each viewpoint. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Returning Guest: harry_ette -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
Basiaclly, you stingy, your breath is HOT, and your top looks better on me anway!
March 23, 2021 20:17 - 1 hour - 63.3 MBWe all have them! Them little things that people do that just take them from 100-0 real quick, no time to debate! We talking, ICKS yall! By the end of this episode, if you are not vexed, slightly offended, or relating hardcore...you bugging, cause ain't nobody a saint out in these streets! Join the convo and let us hear what are some of your top icks! Catch a vibe with us on insta @;-Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast-Your host Sheila: shiilah_2-Today's guest Nyaluak: nmmwl-Nyaluak's poetry...
Ep.30; Black Excellence = Defying norms & breaking stereotypes!
March 16, 2021 20:00 - 55 minutes - 38.5 MBIn this episode, I am joined by Duku as he gives a little bit of an insight to his journey as an international public speaker. A sweet conversation about a "poor kid with rich dreams," that also highlights the turmoils and tribulations that ultimately dictated his success story . Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 Guest; Duku: dukuinspires Duku's book: thepoorkidwithrichdreams -For business inquires: termsandopinions@gma...
valentines ain't "Valentine-ing" for city girls 2021!
February 16, 2021 14:40 - 1 hour - 60.9 MBA funny and open conversation with the gals that fully reeks of "all the single ladies, put your hands up" energy. Really and truly, giving you lot a front row seat to the quintessential gals night midnight convos. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 - -Dj Gale: xx_rudegal_xx -Hadia: surur_xox -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
Come, Mr Dj, song pon de replay!
February 09, 2021 19:39 - 53 minutes - 36.5 MBAn exhilarating conversation with one of our favourite local Dj, exploring; passion and competition. You've 'gotta be in it to win it' kinder vibe. Catch a vibe with us on insta @;-Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Today's guest: dj_quick7-For business inquires: [email protected] Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
The "angry black woman" narrative is deader than a doornail!
February 03, 2021 01:01 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MBJoined by the lovely crew from @the disruption podcast, we get into analysing the hideous stereotypes and narratives about black women, being pushed across by media and television. The question remains, "how long till we see better representation of women of colour?"...cause it's really upsetting me and my homegirls!Catch a vibe with us on insta @;-Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast-Your host Sheila: shiilah_2-The disruption podcast: -For business inquires: [email protected] Sen...
Business Entanglements
January 27, 2021 02:17 - 1 hour - 43.2 MBLike any other field, there’s always unsaid laws of being in the business/Intrapreneurial world. Better yet, how do you seperate business and pleasure/family & friends? Find out more on what me and Nicholas had to say.Catch a vibe with us on insta @;-Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast-Your host Sheila: shiilah_2-Nicholas: nicholasmainaz-Nicholas' business: _issamust-For business inquires: [email protected] Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
Business Entanglements
January 27, 2021 02:17 - 1 hour - 43.2 MBLike any other field, there’s always unsaid laws of being in the business/Intrapreneurial world. Better yet, how do you seperate business and pleasure/family & friends? Find out more on what me and Nicholas had to say.Catch a vibe with us on insta @;-Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast-Your host Sheila: shiilah_2-Nicholas: nicholasmainaz-Nicholas' business: _issamust-For business inquires: [email protected] Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
"His money is OUR money, & Her money is HER money!"
January 19, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 45 MBLadies, do you feel like you constantly have to stroke your mans ego? Gents, are you stuck paying hella bills day in day out? Tune in to hear our take on these questions and many more as we address Money and Marriage, joined by Peter and Sanyu. Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Peter: peter.sambia -Sanyu: colouredadventures, -Sanyu's business: lubajo.apparel -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Sen...
The art form of Self awareness
January 12, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 46.1 MBHey yall!! Welcome to season 2 of the terms and opinions podcast. To begin off the season, I invited my sis; Martha to join in on the conversation about self awareness. The only question left for you is; Do YOU, practice self awareness enough? and, Do you love you in your love language? Catch a vibe with us on insta @; -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -Martha: martha.gatwech -Martha's podcast: Broken Rhythm(on all podcast platforms) -For business inqu...
Ep.23: Just before we bin 2020...
December 22, 2020 21:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MB2020 has been one hell of a ride, and we are all ready to bin it. But holdup...just before we do so, my lovely guests and I have a few things to say! Hope you enjoy this episode as much as we all enjoyed making it for you. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR YALL!! Engage with us on insta @ -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sheila-mecheo/message
Let's Conversate!
November 22, 2020 21:00 - 1 hour - 62.3 MBIn this episode, we've got the lovely Elena on the mic. A catch up conversation on pretty much what's been going on around us. We then finish off the episode in an encouraging tone, as we speak about what individuality, confidence and empowerment mean to us. lets engage on Insta @ -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Your host Sheila: @shiilah_2 -Elena: @oluwaelena -Her busines: @sieko.tribe -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anch...
Did Somebody say misogyny O'Clock?
November 05, 2020 20:17 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MBLast but not least, we've got part 3 with the boys! just as many laughs to finish off your week. As always, happy listening. Engage with us on insta @ -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Samuel: @edema.silver -Jay: @jayerize -Kenneh: @swavydamaro -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -MyIntellect insta: @myintellectt -Myintellect youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGzbB0gOoizCJbyjsqzltKw -For business inquires: [email protected] --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor....
PATRIARCHY; the father of double standards!
November 03, 2020 20:26 - 54 minutes - 37.2 MBAs promised, we back with a juicy part 2! We dive in straight for the main topic, and best believe the commentary on this one is peak! From the car analogies, to how men function, it's without a doubt that you're in for a good time, not a long time! As always, happy listening. Engage with us on insta @ -Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast -Samuel: @edema.silver -Jay: @jayerize -Kenneh: @swavydamaro -Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 -MyIntellect insta: @myintellectt -Myintellect youtube:...
Pick your poison; A criminal son or a video vixen daughter!
October 27, 2020 12:45 - 33 minutes - 23 MBYeah yeah, we back again with yet another 'pick your poison' dilemma, only this time, Its between your future children! Suddenly the room smells like misogyny, gender double standards, and the big elephant in the room: PATRIARCHAL OPRESSION! Join Me and the MyIntellect Cast, as we give our plausible choices on the matter at hand. We also dive into current affairs as we discuss US elections, and inevitably diverge into other conversation-worthy talk. A bloody treat for sure! As always, happ...
Fashion is black, argue with your fada!
October 20, 2020 21:00 - 1 hour - 49.4 MBToday we have my guy GROOVY SUDO on the mic as we give our unprovoked opinions on consumerism within the fashion scene. Let us know, what YOU notice first in the opposite sex. It's the shoes, eyeshadow, and nails for us! As always, happy listening. lets connect on Insta @ Podcast: @terms_and_opinions_podcast Groovy Sudo: groovy_sudo Your host Sheila: shiilah_2 Groovy's youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoPMaEnrm6DsUBgTynavREw For business inquires: termsandopinions@gma...