That Couple Next Door
79 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 508 ratingsWe decided to enter the swinging lifestyle in the fall of 2015. Nearly simultaneously, we created a podcast to share our stories, discussing the great moments and those resulting in lessons learned. We never thought we'd make such great friends and have so many amazing adventures. Sit back, relax, and join us as we explore "The Lifestyle" together.
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Pressing Pause
July 17, 2022 22:25 - 16 minutes - 16.7 MBWe update our listeners on why we are overdue for publishing a podcast episode and what the future looks like for That Couple Next Door. In summary, we will be hosting our podcast through Patreon for the next two years, until I finish residency. At that time, we will see about resuming it, but for now, it is the safest way forward for us. Thank you so much for all of your messages and support through the years since we started this podcast. Without the regular positive listener feedba...
Episode 76 - Pressing Pause
July 17, 2022 22:25 - 16 minutes - 16.7 MBWe update our listeners on why we are overdue for publishing a podcast episode and what the future looks like for That Couple Next Door. In summary, we will be hosting our podcast through Patreon for the next two years, until I finish residency. At that time, we will see about resuming it, but for now, it is the safest way forward for us. Thank you so much for all of your messages and support through the years since we started this podcast. Without the regular positive listener feedba...
Violet and the Den of Darkness
April 29, 2022 20:06 - 52 minutes - 49.7 MBWe take the risk of sharing details of our personal life with a coworker and not only does she accept us, she joins us for a rave with LS friends and an orgy afterward. We're joined by Chris & Vanessa, Maverick & Vanessa and new friends and there's a fun story about almost getting caught on Chaturbate by Vanessa & Becky at the end.
SkyLab
March 15, 2022 01:22 - 1 hour - 62.8 MBWe spend a night in a very sexy AirBnB with new friends, Todd & Bailey! They are friends of friends and came with receipts so we knew we'd hit it off. We had a night (and morning) full of laughs, cookies, DP and impact play. We have a feeling that there's going to be a part II to this story.
Triple Pineapple Social Community
February 02, 2022 02:29 - 1 hour - 81.4 MBWe sit down with Cash & Noelle and discuss the community that they've started in the greater Seattle area to help "non-traditionalists" meet up and have fun. They host meet-and-greets, sporting events, roller skating, dancing and more. Their goal: to facilitate an environment of no-pressure gatherings for couples to find new friends and have fun with old pals. We finish the episode by recalling a fun night out to SuperNova and the after-orgy that followed.
Episode 72 - Boston
December 15, 2021 19:34 - 55 minutes - 43.8 MBWe went home to visit our families at the end of the summer and took time to head to Boston for a sexy weekend getaway with friends. The DC folks came up to hang out and we met new friends from Boston as well as finally closing the circle with a couple that we'd been wanting to meet for some time, Jared and Lexi, who join us on the podcast to recall the great memories from that trip. Another orgy (or two) in the memory bank and new friendships formed on several fronts.
International Scandal
October 24, 2021 17:36 - 56 minutes - 55.1 MBAfter more than a year of waiting for the Northern border to open up we finally meet Maverick and Vanessa who join us at Logan and Jade's home for a wild sixsome. The Canadians bring their toys and the hosts combine technology and hospitality to create a very sensual environment.
Roryland 2021
September 13, 2021 03:13 - 1 hour - 78.7 MBWe fly from Seattle back to DC to attend Rory's rave-themed birthday party hosted at Chris and Vanessa's home. What a night! There were approximately 20 couples and singles that turned out in beautiful outfits decked out in rainbow, neon, glow, fishnet, leather...you name it. The music indoors was pumping out incredible bass drops while people hula hooped and used light up whips or sat in the bass-vest chair. Walking outside, the vibe changes completely and you're bathed in warm summer ai...
Episode 69 - Mexico City with Paola & Friends
August 12, 2021 14:29 - 1 hour - 52.5 MBWe're joined by the beautiful and charming Paola who was our tour guide in Mexico City. She helps us recall our most recent trip, from adventurous eating (bugs!) to fine dining at a Michelin star restaurant and exploring the city with Nate, Liv, Chris and Vanessa. She also shares her fascinating sexual journey, from being a Catholic nun to an out lesbian. Finally, it wouldn't be a TCND podcast without a sexy story and she expertly helps us remember an unforgettable night in her sultry acce...
Desire 2021 Part Deux
July 16, 2021 06:23 - 52 minutes - 52.1 MBIt's the second half of our 2021 Desire Riviera Maya trip and we talk about Liv's birthday, a sun-drenched orgy and villa gangbang. New friends, glow night fun and much more.
Episode 67 - Desire 2021
June 17, 2021 03:02 - 59 minutes - 59.6 MBIt's our annual trip to Desire and this time we get to reunite with our DC squad after a year of being separated by COVID. We meet some new friends and get to party with some of our PNW friends as well. This episode has villa couch sex, double penetration, beach blowjobs and more!
Weekend with Rose - Sleepless in Seattle
April 19, 2021 02:54 - 2 hours - 124 MBIn this episode, Jay & Kay host Rose, a lovely temporary unicorn for a weekend getaway in Seattle. It's a novel experience for us and features surprises, sleepless nights, blunders and lots of sexy stories. We explore the city together and each other. We think you'll enjoy this episode as we dive headfirst into the retelling of a wild weekend.
Hothusbanding with Amy & Rory
March 15, 2021 17:53 - 1 hour - 60.4 MBIn this episode, we are joined by our friends Amy & Rory where we discuss hothusbanding and their approach to non-monogamy. We've been friends for years now and have traveled with them to Desire and Temptation and miss them a lot! We really enjoyed our time talking with them and had lots of laughs while listening to their very sexy stories. We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into the world of hothusbanding. Follow them on Twitter! DrandSexyThing If you nee...
Profiles and Apps with Livin The Suite Life
February 20, 2021 22:54 - 1 hour - 62.5 MBIn this episode, Jay & Kay are guests on Livin' The Suite Life podcast hosted by Tryst and Loq and we are joined by our friends Nate & Liv where we discuss the ins and outs of lifestyle dating sites, profiles and meet-up apps for singles and couples. We really enjoyed our time with them and had lots of laughs. We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into the world of lifestyle sites and talk about how to put your best foot forward. Check out Livin' The Suite Life podcast...
The 4OURPLAY Game
January 16, 2021 00:10 - 52 minutes - 51 MBIn this episode, Jay & Kay reconnect by asking each other questions from the 4OURPLAY conversation deck, one of several game packs created by Bella & Jase, hosts of the 4OURPLAY podcast. We really enjoyed it and ultimately, as advertised, the game worked as foreplay and we ended up in bed together. We hope you'll enjoy hanging out with us as we dive deep into each other's sexy thoughts. 4OURPLAY.com
That Vegas Birthday
December 14, 2020 01:18 - 1 hour - 108 MBIn this episode, we share the details of a private birthday party we had with four friends. Hear about our swinger pad, sex in a minivan, sexy nights, and fun days hiking in the surrounding mountains, and fancy evenings that turn into debauchery including a private party bus with a stripper pole. Shout out to Casual Toys for Kay's birthday gift recommendation! Use code "redlight" to save on a sexy Christmas stocking purchase.
The Stripper Pole Birthday
October 15, 2020 05:48 - 1 hour - 76 MBWe tell the story of a very sexy birthday girl who got a stripper pole as a gift, installed by her husband and friends while she was distracted. We recreate our Love is Art painting and announce our contest winners for the male masturbator giveaway.
Love is Art
September 14, 2020 02:01 - 1 hour - 65.2 MBIn this episode we mark five years of podcasting and talk about how we've been focusing on keeping things sexy between us during these COVID-19 times. We reflect on our podcasting and lifestyle journey and answer a related question in Kay's Corner. We share a sexy story gone awry when friends of ours sent a "Love is Art" painting kit for us to try out. Kay is on the search for men's muscle photos in exchange for a male sex toy and we end the show with bonus material from 2017 when we were...
Episode 59 - Friendships and College Hookups
August 16, 2020 02:03 - 59 minutes - 60.4 MBWe discuss hpw our views on friendship have changed since we first entered the lifestyle until now. There were times when we couldn't imagine being friends with swingers but now, we couldn't imagine it any other way. In true TCND style, we had to sprinkle in some sexy and decided to share a couple of hot stories from our college days.
Episode 58 - FreakNight
July 16, 2020 16:02 - 51 minutes - 50.9 MBRemember when we could be out in crowds of people and enjoy music together? It seems like a lifetime ago, but in this episode we recall attending the biggest EDM show we've seen. FreakNight in Seattle is the largest annual Halloween raver in the PNW and we tell you all about it, and of course, the details of the after party with Will & Michelle. Sexy rave women, collars and leashes, surprise hotel guests and more. Thanks for all of your support, we've sent out our camper mugs to those...
Episode 57 - What is this, a Key Party?
June 14, 2020 17:12 - 1 hour - 69.5 MB"What is this, a key party?" That phrase, uttered by a wine bar manager as he came back to our table and seemed confused by the musical chair style seating of our sexy group had us laughing all night long. We share the story of some new local friends that we met and how one night turned into a sexy bow tie and lingerie event. Men having Hitachi orgasms, back flips, wall sex, sex chains, Kay's corner and more.
Episode 56 - The Amazon and Full Swap Car Sex
May 15, 2020 02:00 - 1 hour - 81.4 MBWe hope that you are all continuing to stay safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Like you, we are still practicing social distancing and our lifestyle activities have remained at a halt. We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing. We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the end of last summer when we first moved out to Washington state. In this episode, we highlight two couples that we met. T...
Episode 55 - Desire Riviera Maya 2020
April 14, 2020 19:45 - 1 hour - 81.6 MBWe hope that you are all staying safe during this COVID-19 pandemic. Like you, we are practicing strict social distancing and any lifestyle activities have come to a sudden halt. We have been doing our best to keep our romance alive with sexy nights alone together and shared chats with friends using teleconferencing. It was exactly two months ago today when we boarded a plane for Cancun and now it seems like a lifetime ago already. We hope you'll enjoy some stories from the second hal...
Episode 54 - Temptation 2020
March 14, 2020 22:49 - 1 hour - 107 MBWe leave the PNW to head down to Mexico for 8 days of sunshine and fun while reuniting with our sexy friends from DC. We meet new friends including Scarlet, Lainey and some hotties from NC and FL and link up with some Canadian couples that we've had the pleasure of meeting before. You'll hear about a fabulous fivesome, Kay's dancing, Liv and Rich aroused from the wind and you'll get the inside track to discussions between Jay and Kay as they work their way through some lifestyle conflicts ...
Episode 53 - Hotwife III - Coffee and Cream
February 13, 2020 13:04 - 58 minutes - 20 MBKay dips her toes in the West Coast single male waters and has mixed experiences. First, the tedious task of wading through hundreds of online profiles from Tinder and Feeld in order to find the men that excite her. When she finally goes to meet one, she finds that he has misrepresented himself and worse, tries to lock himself in a public bathroom with her while at a restaurant in our home city. That ended quickly and she drove to my work where I was working overnight. We talked through the ...
Episode 52 - West Coast House Party
January 15, 2020 09:00 - 55 minutes - 59 MBWe attend our first West Coast house party and though we met so many great new people, emerging from that sea of sexiness was one very special couple, Cole and Marie. We talk about shedding nerves, lingerie, house party games, pee dances, white claw, hot tubs and hot sex (that lasted a few minutes.) Kay's Corner answers questions about hooking up with single men as a hotwife and like most of our episodes, there's an audio nugget tucked in to the end of the show where Rory waxes poetic a...
Episode 51 - Club Privata Birthday Bash
December 15, 2019 22:22 - 2 hours - 139 MBIT'S A DOUBLE EPISODE! Take your time with this one, it's our longest episode to date and there are built in breaks for this 2.5 hour birthday weekend celebration. We have guest audio galore to help us recall this seriously sexy getaway to Portland, Oregon with Adam & Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines. Kay and I celebrated our shared birthdays at Club Privata and over 90 people came out to party with us. It was such a sexy crowd and we met so many wonderful people with incredib...
Episode 50 - Hello Seattle
November 14, 2019 05:00 - 56 minutes - 61.5 MBIt's our 50th episode!! We spent the first 49 on the East Coast (mostly) but in this episode we leave the East Coast orgy scene behind and strike out for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest. We begin with the story of a failed blowjob challenge from Adam & Belle from the Swinging Outside the Lines podcast. We then tell you about some new couples who welcomed us to the West Coast when we came out to do some house-hunting. They say there's a thing called the "Seattle Freeze" but our ...
Bonus Episode - Niko and Stella Swing on the PlayGRND
October 27, 2019 16:57 - 48 minutes - 24.2 MBNot long ago, we received an email from a listener who was going to be traveling through the Washington DC area and wanted to meet our friends, the hosts of PlayGRND parties in the DC area. You've probably heard them on the show, Amy & Rory, Chris & Vanessa and Nate & Liv. We forwarded their contact information along and luckily they had the time to meet this couple on their travels. The result was a sexy evening between the eight of them with commentary on how this particular couple had ...
Episode 49 - The Graduation Orgy
October 15, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 64.9 MBJay and Kay have a celebration with a mix of family and LS/vanilla friends which ends in yet another sexy orgy. We explore and discuss the emotional impact of playing with a longtime vanilla friend and her fiance. All the sexy details follow and Kay's Corner answers questions about penis size and the female impact from erectile dysfunction during play. Mentioned in this podcast: Club Privata 16 NOV 2020 Temptation 14-17 FEB 2020 Desire 17-21 FEB 2020 Sophia and Dick Nate & Liv...
Episode 48 - Crimson Light Night - PlayGRND M&G
September 15, 2019 04:00 - 49 minutes - 51.3 MBJay and Kay attend a M&G at Crimson in DC, hosted by our friends at PlayGRND parties. This was going to be our last lifestyle event before we left Washington DC and we wanted to go big. Kay lets Jay pick out her stunning cocktail dress and we were immersed in a sea of diverse, sexy people all night long. But before heading downstairs to turn heads, we had a planned pre-party orgy with sexy robes, blindfolds, handcuffs and some especially adventurous oral play by Kay. We end the night wi...
Episode 47 - Every Gift Begins with Kay
August 15, 2019 04:00 - 50 minutes - 50.6 MBMeet Seth & Caroline, a fun, classy and very sexy couple whom we first met on Seth's birthday. We were the surprise and Caroline had worked behind the scenes for months to set up an after-dinner meeting with us in Washington DC. We hit it off so well that it wasn't long before we set up another date night and well, you'll have to listen in to see how that went. Kay answers questions about attraction on Kay's Corner. It turns out there's more than one way to win her over. Rory talks S...
Episode 46 - Birthday Orgy at the Cabin
July 15, 2019 04:00 - 55 minutes - 55.1 MBIn this episode, we gathered with our friends to celebrate Chris' birthday at the lake house. We spent the weekend recording a joint podcast together (Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy), went hiking, played sexy games and the ladies gave Chris a lingerie birthday surprise that he will likely never forget. We played sexy games, made new friends and struggled to shed a couple that just didn't fit our dynamic that weekend. Kay's corner answer questions about hotwifing and reconnection sex as wel...
Episode 45 - The Perfect Orgy
June 15, 2019 00:58 - 1 hour - 91.8 MBEpisode 45 - The Perfect Orgy In this episode, Jay & Kay are joined by their friends Nate, Liv, Amy & Rory with guest audio appearances by Donny and Marie as they try to describe the sexy details of a 10 person orgy, which, as you can imagine, can be very difficult to recall because there are so many individual sexy experiences occurring simultaneously. The night evolved from what was supposed to be a private dinner between Donny & Marie and Jay & Kay but grew to include Nate & Liv, Amy...
Episode 44 - The Artist's Encore Appearance
May 15, 2019 03:12 - 47 minutes - 33.2 MBKay's favorite single male, "The Artist" returns to DC for one more MFM before we move across the country. This time we have a pre-play discussion to include our mutual fantasies and decide that he and Kay will play alone initially before I come in to join them. We discuss the lead-up, the nerves involved and those sweet moments of torture Jay endured while waiting for over an hour to join in the fun. (He has a voyeur moment and could hear her moaning from outside the apartment!) The ...
Episode 43 - Dirty Talk in DC
April 16, 2019 23:17 - 54 minutes - 58.8 MBIn this episode, we reunite with our good friends Zack & Kelly that we spent a weekend in Nashville with (Ep. 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush). We were skeptical that we'd be able to achieve the same level of sexy fun but as it would turn out, there was nothing to worry about in that department! Kay and I started the evening on a sour note with an argument en-route to the date. We'll tell you how we pulled over and hashed it out just in time to salvage what would become a memorable ni...
Episode 42 - The Unicorn and Temptation Resort
March 23, 2019 15:26 - 1 hour - 99.4 MBWe warm up a cold winter by spending an evening with a sexy unicorn named Rebecca before heading down to the warm beaches of Cancun, Mexico for some wild days and nights at Temptation Resort accompanied by our DC crew, the hosts of PLAYGRND parties as well as our friends Rob & Lala. We partied all day, danced all night and shared amazing meals and 5 lbs of Swedish Fish together...and of course there is sex. Rob & Lala teach us about the ElectroErotic Neon Wand and rock our world several ...
Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and the Crush
February 14, 2019 06:05 - 1 hour - 87.5 MBOur artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our sexiest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak & Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more! Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing - Podcast Swinging Downunder - Podcast Steak & Tequila - Pocast Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podcast Lovens...
Episode 41 - The MFM Artist and The Crush
February 14, 2019 06:05 - 1 hour - 87.5 MBOur artist friend returns to DC for a second MFM and Kay considers trying her first DP. We meet up with very sexy new friends in Nashville and have an incredible weekend together, sharing one of our hottest stories to date. We tour the Jack Daniels distillery, plug Steak and Tequila’s snapchat, talk about the Lovense Lush 2, Kay’s corner and more! Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing - Podcast Swinging Downunder - Podcast Steak & Tequila - Pocast Normalizing Nonmonogamy - Podc...
Episode 40 - Traveling, Parenting and Flogging
January 18, 2019 19:57 - 52 minutes - 55.6 MBIn this episode we recap a vanilla-ish trip that we took to Peru with some of our closest lifestyle friends. We had an amazing trip filled with adventure, fine dining and even a night of rooftop blowjobs. We share the story of a sexy night with Rob & Lala, a hot couple who we had a fantastic night with who will also be joining us and the PlayGrnd crew at Temptation resorts Feb 15-18th. We cover our approach to parenting while participating in the lifestyle. We've received many emails ...
Episode 39 - Separate Country Play
December 21, 2018 19:13 - 55 minutes - 58.6 MBWe share the details of a recent trip to Europe for Jay where he met a couple for some hotwife and MFM fun in Austria. Meanwhile, Kay had a pair of successful single male dates and met one for hotwife play. We discuss our feelings surrounding separate play and start to explore how we arrived at this place in the lifestyle. Kay shares her feelings of envy after Jay purchases a lingerie gift for Anna. Mentioned: Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast Palmers Lingerie Krampus
Episode 38 - Sophia and Dick
December 01, 2018 00:32 - 56 minutes - 103 MBOur dear friend Sophia, the intro voice to our podcast, is back and her life has changed so much in the last two years. She has a new man, Dick and they have been exploring the boundaries of non-monogamy together. They've had threesomes with men and women and there's more to come. To fully appreciate the transformation, be sure to listen to Episode 10 - Meet Sophia, She Has Questions! Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing - Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries The Kinsey S...
Episode 37 - Podcast-a-Palooza
November 08, 2018 15:41 - 1 hour - 85.1 MBWe join our fellow podcasters Swinging Downunder with C&D, Spiritual Swingers with Adam & Even and lifestyle bloggers Kate & Mike from Monogamish Marriage for a fun-filled sexy weekend in NYC with our amazing listeners and readers who attended the event. What a weekend! We had our first FFM, gave a presentation, met the sexiest listeners, attended an after party and finally had a podcaster/blogger orgy at the after after party. So many sexy details in this episode that you won't want to...
Episode 36 - Swingchella and the Anal Queen
November 01, 2018 21:36 - 1 hour - 68.8 MBWe attend a PLAYGRND house party together for the first time and what a blast! The hosts outdid themselves with a sexy guest list, nuru massages, hot tub, hookah, fire pits, photo booths and play areas. Later we have a separate date with our friends Chris and Vanessa and she surprises everyone with her desire, and ability, to have DP. Kays corner, upcoming events and more! Mentioned in this episode: PLAYGRND parties Swinging Downunder Spiritual Swingers Monogamish Marriage ...
Episode 35 - The Surprise Hall Pass
September 29, 2018 19:46 - 1 hour - 84.4 MBKay surprises Jay with a surprise hall pass while she's away on vacation, allowing him to be an "extra dick" for a birthday girl whom she's never met and to participate in an MFM threesome with our friends Nate & Liv. We catch you up on our summer spent mostly apart and discuss boundary flexibility, counseling, future plans and more. Mentioned in this episode: Nate & Liv Average Swingers Spiritual Swingers Esther Perel TooTimid - Remote Petite Panty Teaser Monogamy Disrupted
Episode 34 - Single Male Fails & Soft Swap Success
August 10, 2018 02:46 - 1 hour - 63.2 MBAt first thought, finding a single male to play with seems like it would be easy to do yet we've encountered some challenges recently and Kay was stood up (twice!) while trying to dip her toes back into the hotwife waters. We get voicemails galore as Adam & Eve from Spiritual Swingers unwind post-Desire and C from Swinging Downunder reminisces about our first meeting at NiN two years ago. Speaking of NiN, Jay & Angie from Average Swingers and C from SDU play a little prank on us using ou...
Episode 32 - Culinary delight
June 30, 2018 05:05 - 49 minutes - 65.2 MBWe tell you about a cooking class date we had with a lovely couple that was complicated by illness yet still managed to be sexy. We caught up with Mr. & Mrs. Jones from @WeGottaThing and met Adam & Eve from @SpiritualSwing before Jay makes amends for interrupting Kay during a sexy description on the last episode. Finally we wind up with the tale of a sexy photo shoot before closing with Kay's corner. Mentioned: We Gotta Thing - Mr. & Mrs. Jones Spiritual Swingers - Adam & Eve Lin...
Episode 31 - The Action Packed Episode
June 02, 2018 18:25 - 1 hour - 76.8 MBJay & Kay catch you up on their busy spring and hang out with C from Swinging Downunder along with Nate & Liv. We attend a Gin Dig and meet some sexy listeners from California. We attend Liv's birthday in DC and end up at a hooka bar. Kay's Corner catches listeners up on their questions. We ran a half marathon with We Gotta Thing and discuss that as well as tackle criticism from the email inbox. Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Swinging Downunder Nate & Liv Casey Donat...
Episode 30 - First MFM and PLAYGRND house party
April 17, 2018 22:57 - 1 hour - 76.6 MBWe catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy. By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob. We discuss that, the aftermath and more. Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making m...
Episode 29 - Desire Riviera Maya
March 03, 2018 22:40 - 2 hours - 188 MBWe finally make it to Desire and it's the adventure that we hoped it would be. The weather was perfect and so were the friends that we made. We talk you through our days and nights from poolside to the disco and hot tub as well as a catamaran trip we took that ended in a day excursion to Desire Pearl. Of course there's sex! We fill you in our own connections and the difficulty we had staying connected during a play session. We end with our first parallel play session and discuss all t...