Tequila Talks with Toya

Burnt Bridges

November 13, 2020 01:00 - 1 hour - 55.7 MB

I've seen so many "fall-outs" this year!! Specifically Issa and Molly from HBO's "Insecure," which honestly hurt the most! (I'm too emotionally involved in scripted television, I know) So, what do you do when bridges have been burned with a LONG TIME friend?! After time, are you open to repairing? Or is it "F$@k you forever"?! What do you consider a "toxic friendship"? What does not being able to maintain any type of friendship with anyone say about a person? Yassssss, I know this topic got ...

Good Grief

November 06, 2020 01:00 - 1 hour - 55.2 MB

I'd hate to ruin the vibe, but grieving is such a huge part of life that always seems too uncomfortable or I guess rather sad to discuss, let's change that! If you know me, you know how often I like to talk about my Mom's life which inevitably leads into the conversation of her after life, it's a form of grieving for me. In what ways do you grieve the loss of a loved one? Do you avoid conversation around it? It's difficult to determine what could be deemed as, "healthy and unhealthy" forms of...

“That’s Gay”

October 09, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 54.8 MB

DOWN IN THE VALLEY WHERE THE GIRLS GET NA-KED!! P-Valley really did a number on the girls and more importantly it highlighted homosexuality in the urban community. Did it make you uncomfortable? How often do you subconsciously categorize "Gayness?" Like, have you ever said "he/she too fine to be gay!" How does it make you feel that the main character "Lil Murda" is actually happily married to a woman? I've previously done an episode titled "Undercover Brotha" but tonight's episode willl discu...

I don't want to get Married... Yes I do... No I don't... (maybe)

October 02, 2020 00:00 - 1 hour - 54.7 MB

As with EVERYTHING, my views on marriage vary by the season and who I'm talking to at the moment, LOL! What are your thoughts?! What are the benefits of marriage? Are they comparable to the benefits of having a life-long partner? How do you determine who to marry? What situations could compromise a marriage? WHEW, grab a drink and let's get into it!

Fade to Black

August 01, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 55.4 MB

*Sad Face* Episode SEVEN will conclude season 3 of Tequila Talks with Toya and I'm hoping to go out with a bang! I want to discuss all things BLACK! Well, all things black people related, lol! Specifically, black love, black finances, black families, black health. Yikes, keep in mind we only have an hour so let's make it count! I have yet to curate any questions for the show so feel free to drop some under this post, lol! Chat later!

Broken Pu$$y

July 25, 2019 00:00 - 54 minutes - 49.4 MB

Whether emotionally, physically, spiritually or mentally; I know all women and MEN can relate to a time of feeling broken! The title is catchy af (thanks Issa! I LOVE YOU) and I hate to get so serious but now more than ever, self care is vital in creating a space for peace/ stability in our lives. What self care regimens did you practice when you had to heal yourself from a situation that broke you? Did you seek outside help from others? Anything you’d do differently? I’m really praying this ...

#RelationshipGoals

July 18, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 55.1 MB

Thank you Beyonce and Jay Z for normalizing inconsistencies (infidelity) and rough patches in relationships! We still haven’t fully retired the fictitious expression “#relationshipgoals” but hopefully after this episode we do. Lol! What qualities concoct the “perfect” relationship to you? When do you decide to stay and work things out versus kick they ass to the curb? Is it possible to be in love with multiple people? Wow, I’m uncomfortable already. Chat soon

Revoke My Black Card and call me Kanye, I like the Kardashians!!

July 11, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 54.8 MB

Apparently, my respect for the Kardashian/ Jenner gang takes precedent over my support for black women. Is it impossible to be Black & Proud but still like them? Better yet, what’s your beef?? Of course we’ll have to address the fine line between culture appreciation and culture appropriation while we’re here and thats fine. Also, are we still mad at Daniel Ceaser? Being black is hardT.

Secret Tales Of The Ghost Follower

July 04, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 55.6 MB

You know the type! They've been following your for years and have never liked a post or commented! They're usually the first to watch your stories too! I personally feel that SOCIAL media isn't the best place to pick to be an introvert... But what are your thoughts? Do you show up to a party and not speak? Ha! And I'm not seeking any validation from my followers (OR AM I??) but it does seem creepy! Boohhooohooo! (Trying to keep this ghost idea in motion, work with me) Let's chat!

Are You A Good Friend? (Pon De Replay)

June 28, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 55.8 MB

Agghhh!! I didn't give this topic the justice it deserved soooo REWWINNNNDDD!!!! We pass judgement on others all the time! But how often do you self reflect in the capacity of being a "good friend?" What makes you a good friend? Think of a time when you were apart of a failed friendship, can you acknowlege any wrongdoings on your end? Spill it!! (AGAIN!!) Only with hopes of learning and growing of course! There's always room!

Trying To Get My Shit Together

June 22, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 55.2 MB

EEEEEKKK! Finally season 3 of Tequila Talks with Toya!! This come back episode is worthy of more than just one topic, I want to discuss everything! Specifically where we’re all at in life right now. Do you have your shit together? What does that even entail? Most of my friends are married, have beautiful children and working in careers they love! But ya girl??? Lmao!! WELCOME BACK!!!!

Side Chicks... The New Wives?

June 01, 2017 22:30 - 31 minutes - 28.2 MB

ITS OFFICIAL!!! Side Chicks are IN!!Yall know I was ready to catch this wave!!! In case you're living under a rock, SOME UNKNOWN (which is sketch!!) production team has just pitched a new reality show titled, "The Real Side Chicks of Charlotte" and I really just need a minute (or hour, TUNE IN!!!) and DRINK to marinate on this! First off... how did they KNOW Charlotte was home to the side chicks (COME ON SHADE!!!!!)??!! And why are they even getting this much recognition?! LETS TALK ABOUT I!!...

Baby Lemme Get Some Money

April 05, 2017 22:30 - 31 minutes - 27.6 MB

Why do we even have to ask?!... Or do you have to? (WATCH OUT! CHICKS BE STEALING!!!)But seriously, how do you ask your man for support without seeming like a gold digger? Even if you are Ms. Independent, how important are a mans finances to you? Or what about when your man asks for money. This should get interesting.. TUNE IN!!

When Keeping it Fake goes Right

March 12, 2017 19:30 - 30 minutes - 27.1 MB

Because we all know keeping it real can go completely WRONG! So when's a time you had to "fake it?" Sex, work life,friendships/relationships? Maybe you did it to advance in life? Or to keep from hurting someone? See! Its not always fake kto be fake. Lmao!!!

Wife with No Ring

February 26, 2017 20:30 - 31 minutes - 27.7 MB

Of course you want to take care of your man! But when are your "girlfriend duties" crossing the line to "wife duties"?! What are somethings you wish you would've waited to do until marriage?! And y'all know I love taking it there... what are things wife's can do that girlfriends can't?? Vice-versa?! ???????? CALL IN!

Maybe He's Just Not THAT Into You

February 12, 2017 21:30 - 31 minutes - 27.6 MB

Part 2, although Part 1 barely happened!

All Women Cheat!!?

December 01, 2016 03:00 - 1 hour - 54.8 MB

Men just do it more and aren't half as good! *eye roll* Anywho! The season Finale of HBO's new hit series "Insecure" left every guy on a high horse and Im ready to knock them back down! Have you ever forgiven a significant other for cheating? Why or why not? Does cheating always end a relationship? Do you give "passes"????? LMFAO! And wh is there a double standard when it comes to women cheating versus men?

Shallow Hannah

November 11, 2016 02:00 - 1 hour - 54.2 MB

One time for all my boogie bishes!! Shallow Hal, meet even Shallower, Hannah. We argue about men being bias when it comes to the women they choose to date but I know a few chicks who won't even look a guys way if shoes have scuff marks! Join me with a discussion on shallow standards and preferences! What's your perfect guy like? Do you have a type? What are some deal breakers?

Homewreckers

October 28, 2016 03:00 - 33 minutes - 29.8 MB

We've all been here before... Right? lmao

"She's Pretty for a Dark Skin Girl"

October 25, 2016 03:00 - 32 minutes - 28.8 MB

Racism is real, discrimination is real, self hate is real. This is for all the beautiful darker skinned women who don't get the credit they deserve.

Undercover Brotha

October 21, 2016 03:00 - 31 minutes - 28.1 MB

Frank Ocean is the new Black. Lol, I really hate writing descriptions. But yea, this is episode is about men and WOMEN who are lying or in denial about their sexuality :(

"That's Just My Babymama"= DRAMA

October 18, 2016 03:00 - 32 minutes - 28.4 MB

In today's world, if you're over 16 (hahahahahaha joking but not joking! you can push that to 18! ) and single w/o kids, the chances of finding a mate holding the same status are pretty slim! How do you maintain peace if your significant other has a child outside of your relationship? Is there ALWAYS drama?