In this podcast, Dr. Shaw continues on her new discussion path that was started on her last podcast.  On that podcast, Dr. Shaw outlined her concept for a new parenting book on how to get children to listen.  She outlined her "Ten Governing Principles" for communicating with children, after which she promised to go into detail about each of those ten principles on her next ten podcasts.  This is the first of those, and the guiding principle she discusses here is BEING HONEST when communicating with children.