In this brief but important episode, Dr. Shaw discusses the need to be true to ourselves in order to attract people into our lives who are like we are.  She believes that we attract what we need when we need it.  It is important for children to understand that friendships go through transitions, and that's ok.   Life can be filled with different kinds of relationships, and some may be more fulfilling than others.  Things evolve.  The keys to communicating all of this to our children are intention, attention and reflection.   Also, we must note and mark important moments... children need to be reminded of what they are learning.  Through authenticity we earn fulfillment.