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Tea Bags & JoystiXXX

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Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between. From why Darth Vader might be a leather daddy, to which video game is making us scream nothing is off limits. So why not pour yourself a cup of tea and come see what's on our JoystiXXX this time.

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Ep. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)

February 25, 2024 10:16 - 1 hour - 96 MB

This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel TV series on Disney Plus For Tea this week Si gets really frustrated with Tinder Chris talks about encountering theme tunes in the wild and both are excited for the new Wicked trailer. Meanwhile i...

Ep. 57: Media Round Up

January 30, 2024 12:00 - 1 hour - 68.9 MB

No kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around! For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern". And for joysticks, Chris is on his road to Baldur's Gate and Si plays Mario Kart: Double Dash on an old console. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

Ep. 56: The Animals of the Scene (Part 1)

December 23, 2023 01:07 - 58 minutes - 54.4 MB

This week Chris and Si take a look at the "Origin of Bears" (as claimed by The Advocate) and some of the other so-called "animals" found within the LGBT scene. Are they really a thing? How outdated are they? There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles were still struck works, we plan to have a catch up session at the start of the new year! For tea, Si is disappointed his holiday plans were thwarted by a volcano, while Chris had an unusual experie...

Ep. 55: Post-Locktober Run Down

November 08, 2023 14:39 - 1 hour - 59.6 MB

a.k.a. What About No Nut November? This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves. For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land Rover during the recent Rugby World Cup, while Si managed to have found another group of (mostly...

Ep. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)

October 06, 2023 11:00 - 46 minutes - 42.9 MB

This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key! *(random-ish) For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains when subs are told "Locktober is coming". In joysticks, Chris hasn't quite get round to exploring space in ...

Ep. 53: Kink Protocols

September 17, 2023 14:41 - 1 hour - 146 MB

This week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple. In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup whilst Chris discusses the Somerset Gimp. In Joysticks, Chris dives down the Giant Blue Hole as Dave the Diver, while Si messes about in the world of The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom. -- ...

Ep. 52: Watersports

July 28, 2023 21:00 - 1 hour - 59.9 MB

a.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and any prep work! And then we go to the story books and talk about our own embarrasing experiences. In tea, Chris celebrates Quinn on becoming the first transgender non-binary player to play in a foot...

Ep. 51: Pride Culture & Counter-cultures

July 07, 2023 14:00 - 57 minutes - 53.6 MB

a.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and patches; before finally discussing the history of the AIDS Quilt. For tea, Chris gets confounded by a stupid saying and Si gets angry over a protest hijack. And for joysticks, Chris attempts to s...

Ep 50. - Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive Kink

June 16, 2023 21:26 - 55 minutes - 51.2 MB

Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities. Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aimed at (hint: a particular group of kinksters) Then in Joysticks there is a more in depth look a...

Ep. 50: Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive Kink

June 16, 2023 21:26 - 55 minutes - 51.2 MB

Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities. Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aimed at (hint: a particular group of kinksters) Then in Joysticks there is a more in depth look a...

Ep. 49: Community Spotlight: Switched App

May 19, 2023 11:53 - 1 hour - 98.5 MB

This week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new "Switched" app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started, their first couple of weeks live, community questions around why certain choices got included when others didn't and an exclusive look at what's coming in the future versions of the app. Tea this we...

Ep. 48: Dating Apps (Feat. Louise)

May 05, 2023 23:18 - 1 hour - 83.6 MB

a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some golden rules for using them. In tea, Chris brings up some dubious reports on Coke and Pepsi's effect on testicles and Si takes issue with the UK's handling of inviting citizens pre-written pledge of ...

Ep. 47: Penis Size Fetish

March 24, 2023 23:56 - 1 hour - 61.5 MB

a.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of it. This week we have a look at what people get off on about dick sizes. For tea, Chris gets Si confused about religion, and Si is disappointed with Manchester Pride. And in joysticks, Chris hits ...

Ep. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjo

March 03, 2023 23:55 - 1 hour - 72.2 MB

a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie? Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online. Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was the Dungeons and Dragons OGL v2 debacle. Finally for Joysticks we get stuck in to Fleet Battle -...

Ep. 45: Checking on the Naughty List

December 24, 2022 18:30 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MB

This week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship of Human Rights and LGBT issues during the tournament known as well as the end of the Pokémon Franchise as we know it with the retirement of Ash Ketchum and Pikachu. Meanwhile for Joysticks Chris tak...

Ep 45. - Checking on the Naughty List

December 24, 2022 18:30 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MB

This week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship of Human Rights and LGBT issues during the tournament known as well as the end of the Pokémon Franchise as we know it with the retirement of Ash Ketchum and Pikachu. Meanwhile for Joysticks Chris tak...

Ep. 44.5: The Catch-Up Episode

November 25, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour - 71.8 MB

a.k.a. Tag, You're It Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week. Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google Stadia, Twitter, Doctor Who and a whole bunch of stuff about the MCU.  (This was recorded pre...

Ep. 44.5: The Catch-Up Show

November 25, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour - 71.8 MB

a.k.a. Tea Bags & Joystixxx: Rambles of Chaos Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week. Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google Stadia, Twitter, Doctor Who and a whole bunch of stuff about the MCU. ...

Ep. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)

November 05, 2022 11:06 - 1 hour - 70.3 MB

a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex  We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear.  Tea this week, we discuss how the Australian football team, the Socceroos, have addressed the Men's Football World Cup in Qatar ...

Ep. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk About

August 26, 2022 14:21 - 1 hour - 64.8 MB

a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm.  In tea this week Chris ...

Ep. 43 - The Sex We Don't Talk About

August 26, 2022 14:21 - 1 hour - 64.8 MB

A.K.A What Else We Do In The Shadows. It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to loosing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm. In tea this week Chris bri...

Ep. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth

August 12, 2022 01:44 - 1 hour - 66.7 MB

a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it's an established character or a character you made up yourself).  (Was going to type 'a made-up...

Ep. 41: The List Strikes Back

July 28, 2022 23:00 - 56 minutes - 52.7 MB

a.k.a. We Are Getting Our Star Wars References Back to Front (Since We Have Already Done Return of the List) This week Chris and Si are doing another game with the TB&J List. Take a random pop / geek culture character, add three kinky activities, and choose which one is the most fun (or just most "safe") to do. Would you get fisted by Wolverine? Get kidnapped by Bowser? Yes? No? Let us know what you think! For tea this week, we bring up the Marvel Studios presentation at San Diego Comic Co...

Ep. 40: Events, A Survival Guide

July 15, 2022 12:17 - 1 hour - 62 MB

a.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die  This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently.   This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly advice on how not to do the same as they did! Everything from booking, getting your gear ready, overexaustion, all the way to event drop, Si and Chris have learnt the hard way until they figured...

Ep. 39: Handler EU '22 Quincy

June 17, 2022 07:43 - 1 hour - 85.6 MB

a.k.a. The Bumper Show with Leads This week's show features Handler EU Quincy (they/them)! We talk about their journey through to being a title holder and their next steps, what it is about being a handler, various different forms of pet play, and every kinkster's favourite topic during pride month: kink at pride. Tea this week we talk about a mischievous mod for Microsoft Flight Simulator. And for Joysticks, we round up our thoughts on the non-E3 showcases for gaming in the last few days....

Ep. 38: Pride Washing

June 02, 2022 23:00 - 1 hour - 65 MB

a.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?)  It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying.  For Tea this week, we discuss the UK's only openly gay footballer Jake Daniels coming out and the sadness that is the impending closure of the leather bar Backstreet in London. Meanwhile in Joysticks, Si recounts hi...

Ep. 37: Militaria / Military Fetish

May 19, 2022 23:00 - 1 hour - 74.2 MB

a.k.a. Sir, Yes Sir This week we broadcast a long overdue conversation with Adam about the military fetish. We talk about the origins of such a fetish, the dos and don'ts when exploring, what to be aware of when acquiring more specialist militaria gear and the ethical considerations when playing with military gear. Tea this week we talk about a gay dog adopted by a gay couple, and the casting of the new Doctor in Doctor Who.  In Joysticks we pit Transport Fever 2 against Satisfactory. – ...

Ep. 36: Community Spotlight: South West Fetish Men

May 05, 2022 23:00 - 1 hour - 67.3 MB

a.k.a. Tangent Queen This episode we are joined by Jonathan from South West Fetish Men, where we had a hilarious conversation about the social side of kink and gear, organising events and the upcoming South West Fetish Weekend 2022 in Bristol, England. Contains lots of tangents. Tea this week includes Elon Musk's takeover of Twitter and user authentication for vulnerable groups, and how Jon made his mechanic scream.  Joysticks this week we revisit Dorfromantik, recall the Age of Empires s...

Ep 35. - Cuckolding

April 22, 2022 00:39 - 1 hour - 62.3 MB

A.K.A "A Cuck in his hand, two in the bed" Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wiish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark. This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case. For Tea this week we discuss the UK governments U-Turn on Conversion Therapy for Trans people whilst in...

Ep. 35: Cuckolding

April 22, 2022 00:39 - 1 hour - 62.3 MB

a.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark.  This week we talk about cuckolding, how we define it and how many people may find themselves into it without realising that might be the case.  For Tea this week we discuss the UK governments U-Turn on Conversion Therapy for Trans people whils...

Ep. 34 Pt. 2: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken

April 08, 2022 11:00 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MB

a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We continue our conversation with Pups Titan and Trakken about pups! We talk about how to not get yourself injured when pupping out, and some seriously bad faith arguments against pup play. We also talk about expectations about the Moon Knight series. Joysticks this week we have Kirby and the Forgotten Land, the Rim Effect mod for RimWorld and some chats about Dungeons & Dragons. -- Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. –  www.soundcloud.c...

Ep. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken

April 02, 2022 00:12 - 1 hour - 57.1 MB

a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our guests love it, what Pup Headspace is, and discussion on degredation Vs praise in the kink.  Tea this week comes in the form of the Hawkeye Soundtrack Song Titles, Batman & that Will Smith Academy Awa...

Ep. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expression

March 18, 2022 00:24 - 1 hour - 67 MB

a.k.a. Self-Express Yourself! This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life.  For tea this week we talk about Early Reveals of pride month covers from Marvel and DC comics and how narratives a...

Ep. 33 - Kinksters talk Self Expression

March 18, 2022 00:24 - 1 hour - 67 MB

(A.K.A: Self-Express Yourself!) This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the considerations that we take in account both in LGBTQ+ spaces and in day to day life. For tea this week we talk about Early Reveals of pride month covers from Marvel and DC comics and how narritives ar...

Ep 32. Lost in Translation

March 04, 2022 03:09 - 1 hour - 59.7 MB

Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised. -- (Alternate title: Google Translate Does Kink) - This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words, phrases and kink related topics he's run through Google translate. Tea this week incl...

Ep. 32: Lost in Translation

March 04, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour - 59.7 MB

a.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised.  This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and dive into some light-hearted Google translating as Chris challenges Si to figure out what words, phrases and kink related topics he's run through Google translate.  Tea this week includes the att...

Ep. 31: Kinky Bucket Lists

February 18, 2022 01:22 - 1 hour - 61.4 MB

a.k.a. Kinking the Bucket Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home.  This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions.  For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that Microsoft/Activision takeover. Meanwhile in joystick we discuss Diablo 3 and Gaurdians of the Galaxy.  ...

EP. 31 - Kinky Bucket Lists

February 18, 2022 01:22 - 1 hour - 61.4 MB

Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home. (Alternate title: Kinking the Bucket) - This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year resolutions. For Tea this week we discuss inclusion of pronouns and neo pronouns in The sims and that Microsoft/Activision takeover. Meanwhile in joystick we discuss Diablo 3 and Gaurdians of the...

Ep. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021

February 04, 2022 00:35 - 1 hour - 89.6 MB

TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.   (Note: This is a video game heavy episode that doesn't have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selves)  Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on ...

Episode 30 - Game of the Rear Awards 2021

February 04, 2022 00:35 - 1 hour - 89.6 MB

TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by MR Ian and Dio A.K as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us.  (note: This is a videogame heavy episode that doesnt have a kink topic. We will return next week to our usual kinky selves) Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @T...

More-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way Home

December 31, 2021 00:00 - 9 minutes - 22.1 MB

Because we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

Ep. 29: Full of Christmas Queer

December 24, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour - 61.2 MB

Ho ho ho! It's Christmas and Si and Chris engage in a silly game involving the infamous "TB&J List", where we try to argue why a randomly selected kink with a randomly selected character should be considered Christmassy. None of this makes any sense, and that's the fun! Tea this week we congratulate France on banning LGBTQ+ "conversion therapy" and Keanu Reeves's take on NFTs. And for Joysticks, we talk about the indie title Unpacking and the AAA blockbuster Halo Infinite.  PSA: We will be...

Ep 28. Leather is Forever (Gear 102: Leather & Bootblacking/Leather Care)

December 10, 2021 00:15 - 1 hour - 56.1 MB

This week we're joined by Criag from Kinkyboys Podcast as we delve into the wonderfull world of leather. We talk about why we like it, the customisation available in leather, how to care for your leather and more.  Tea this week includes Inclusivity on the set of Hawkeye and how Crusing is causing problems for wildlife in Gran Canaria whilst on our Joysticks this week we talk about Forza Horizon 5 and Islanders. Edited by TBnJ Si, Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soundcloud.co...

Ep.27: Earning A Collar

November 26, 2021 00:01 - 1 hour - 79 MB

Weather it's for a session or more permenant feature collars are a staple of the kink scene is the collar and this week we discuss our relationship with collars in our relationship and more broadly. What does it mean for a sub to earn their collar? What are the different types of collars? Why might a sub have more than one? What might cause a sub to loose their collar? We get into all this and more. In Tea this week we talk about Lewis Hamilton's LGBT+ representation in Qatar and how Gear ≠ C...

Ep. 26: The Legend of Quora

November 12, 2021 00:09 - 1 hour - 81.8 MB

*TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains the sound of fireworks throughout due to UK Bonfire Night Celebrations we apologise in advance for any distress this may cause* This episode marks the 1 year anniversary of TBnJ and so we thought we would have a bit of fun by diving into the internets treasure trove of questions otherwise known as quora for this bumper episode. We talk about everything from why the Triskellion is on the Kink pride flag to T-Posing for dominance in KFC. For Tea this wee...

Ep. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the Wardrobe

October 28, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 67.5 MB

This show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is playing with a switch that different to someone that only goes one way?  In Tea we talked about Marvel's Eternals and Ready Player Two. And for Joysticks, we revisit Robin Morningwood Adventure and expl...

Ep. 24: Feeling the Heat in Saunas (Bathhouses)

October 14, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 55.9 MB

Si and Chris engage in a HEATed debate (not really) about bathhouses, or saunas as we call them in Blighty. We talk about what attract Si to saunas, what the basic etiquettes are and what sort of kinky fun you can get involved with.  Tea this week is the UK Conservative Party conference and Chris taking the mickey of Si’s locktober task. For Joysticks we have Hades (yet again) and Halo: Master Chief Collection Crossplay. Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – https://soun...

Ep. 23: Locktober? I hard-ley know 'er!

September 30, 2021 23:00 - 1 hour - 70.7 MB

This week Si and Chris discuss the growing annual festival that is Locktober. We talk about how we got into it, and what it entails for kinksters with different levels of experience in chastity play.    Tea this week is about Si's cameo over at Kinkyboys Podcast and about over-doing yourself at the gym. In joystixxx, we have Forza Horizon 4, Microsoft Flight Simulator and the Halo Infinite tech preview. Edited by TBnJ Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. - https://soundcloud.com/matt-d...

Ep. 22: Return of the List

September 18, 2021 22:49 - 56 minutes - 52 MB

This week sees the first return of the TBnJ List as we generate a few rounds of a kink mix and match as your favourite pop culture characters and kinks come together to find which we think would be involved with each.  Tea this week involves being Gay on Time and that unusual ways podcasting crosses into real life whilst our joysticks this week consists of Hades, Lumines and Metal Gear Acid as well as the experamentalist period of videogames. Edited by TBnJ Si  Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio...

Ep. 21: Best Lain Only Fans

September 02, 2021 23:28 - 1 hour - 74.9 MB

This week were all about the TEA as we're joined by Only Fans content creator W.A.S.P Hunter to talk about the Only Fans Porn Ban 180, what affect it had on content creators and how content creators feel about the platform going forward. We also Spill Tea on an Si's recent health scare and Chris brings us an unfortuante article for discussion. Meanwhile the 5 Minute Marvel Returns and on Joysticks this week we talk Gamecube Nostalgia with Hunter, Boyfriend Dungeon with Si and more. Edited b...

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